I had a Failed Circumcision.

93re2 · 2017-07-12T07:23:32+00:00

That's sad, man. I'm sorry to hear it.

hdfb · 2017-07-12T05:48:54+00:00

That's really sad and it should be seen as mutilation and abuse.

X-Trem0 · 2017-07-12T11:24:25+00:00

If you were a girl you could be furious but you aren't so... shut up and don't be a baby... right?

I hate that this society that so strongly condemns it on females don't give a flying shit when it's about men.

PowerToAnnihilate · 2017-07-12T17:02:58+00:00

When I was a young boy, my foreskin would not naturally separate from the head of my penis, and caused immense pain when I tried to speed it up. Because of this, doctors told my parents that circumcision was the best option. I remember my parents sitting me down in the bathroom, I was about ten, explaining to me that they might have to cut off my foreskin. I remember being hysterical and in tears, wanting more than anything to not have my genitals mutilated. I remember being in the public school washroom, trying as hard as I could to separate to prevent this happening to me. Eventually I succeeded, but the area that was exposed was excruciating painful for days.

I was a lucky one, and did not get circumcised. I thank my lucky stars every day I didn't have to go through that. But it makes me furious to think other boys weren't so lucky. Because even now at 18, I can remember the terror I felt at the idea of being circumcised against my will. My foreskin is very important to me sexually and I can't imagine being the same having it cut off. You have no idea how much I empathize with you. I'm still resentful and angry at my parents for considering my circumcision, especially since my mom still thinks male genital mutilation isn't as serious as FGM. I can't imagine how you feel.

Circumcision of any kind is unnecessary genital mutilation. Full stop. It's all equally bad. Circumcision should only be permitted if the patient is over 18 and is making the choice for himself.

kekspectrumdisorder · 2017-07-12T15:31:55+00:00

I had a botched circumsision as well. I now have very little feeling in the head which makes it very difficult to achieve an orgasm and in many cases to even keep myself erect.

Here's the best part. I have faked orgasm because the reality is many women get angry and hurt if i don't have an orgasm. Yelling and screaming mad. It must be them, I must find them disgusting.

Gamogi · 2017-07-12T16:50:48+00:00

I too had a botched circumcision. Today it looks fully circumcised but I almost died.

Parents still said if they were to have another son, although they are too old, they would still circumcise.

contractor808 · 2017-07-12T05:32:51+00:00

I don't mean to discourage you, but you may have trouble getting responses on a post like this. It's a very uncomfortable topic, and many other people are not as open to discuss issues they have had with their circumcision. That being said, it would be more helpful for everyone if that were not the case.

I would try also posting in /r/Intactivists/, /r/Foregen/, and/or /r/foreskin_restoration/ if you still haven't gotten any responses and you are looking for support or more information. There may be people in those specific communities more open to discussing these types of topics or be able to direct you to useful discussions.

goodfoobar · 2017-07-12T12:28:03+00:00

There is a large variation in outcomes due to circumcision. Your description tells me that you might be lucky it didn't all go to plan because if it did you would not have that marble part where you can get off in 30 seconds. If the marble part feels a tickle similar to brushing the palm of your hand then that is foreskin tissue.

Your actually in an interesting position where you can describe the difference between being cut and intact.

kekspectrumdisorder · 2017-07-12T16:55:33+00:00

Thanks, you too. The urologist said they clipped a nerve cluster so there's nothing I can do.

2017-09-27T06:37:03+00:00

I also have a botched circumcision. I'm a 28 year old virgin because of it.

xNOM · 2017-07-12T18:42:09+00:00

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Title	I had a Failed Circumcision.
Author	throwaway204811
Upvotes	67
Comments	27
Date	July 12, 2017 3:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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