My son's mother (who lives in Indiana) is moving to Illinois next week, (I live in Virginia). According to the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines she must give me 90 days notice by certified mail.. How do I stop the move, or should I just wait and when she does move and violates our custody agreement and state law, get full custody of my son? I don't know who to contact about this situation.. I've copied and pasted the information below from Indiana's website regarding parenting time and custody. I guess it should be said that I was recently laid off from my job, so I don't believe I'll be able to afford a lawyer at the current time.

http://www.in.gov/judiciary/rules/parenting/

  1. Indiana Law. Indiana law (Ind. Code § 31-17-2.2) requires all individuals who have (or who are seeking) child custody or parenting time, and who intend to relocate their residence to provide Notice to an individual who has (or is seeking) child custody, parenting time or grandparent visitation. The Notice must be made by registered or certified mail not later than 90 days before the individual intends to move. The relocating party's Notice must provide certain specified and detailed information about the move. This information includes: the new address; new phone numbers; the date of the proposed move; a stated reason for the move; a proposed new parenting time schedule; and must include certain statements regarding the rights of the non- relocating party. The Notice must also be filed with the Court. The notice is required for all proposed moves by custodial and non custodial parents in all cases when the proposed move involves a change of the primary residence for a period of at least sixty (60) days. This is true even when a person plans to move across the street or across town, and when a party plans on moving across the state or the country, or to another country .

Edit - Added part about lawyer.