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Keep us up to date, alright? There may not be a lot we can do on the other side of a computer screen but we're all pulling for you. We all want you to know that you matter.
If you can, try to find one thing each day that you can do that will feel like an accomplishment. It can be a tiny thing like reading a page from a book or dusting off a shelf. Setting a goal and realizing it can give you just enough of a dopamine boost to let you limp along a little longer. That can make all the difference when you need time to heal.
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I wish I could give relationship advice but I've never wanted to be anything but single or casual. People are unpredictable and their actions are largely outside of your control. It's generally not a reflection of you. This is definitely something you want to talk to a therapist about. On the one hand, you're a victim of bad luck and it's not you. Bad luck always changes. If it is you, a therapist can help you figure out what it is and you can fix it. Either way, things can't help but get better.
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