Is man a man’s enemy

ExportsExpert · 2026-02-05T07:54:04+00:00

When a woman cheats, society attacks the woman.

Not true.

This used to be the case but nowadays the feminists have absolutely no shame any longer.

The same applies to prostitution btw. The fact alone that whore is a taboo word nowadays says more than enough.

SINWillett · 2026-02-05T03:10:28+00:00

A similar phenomena is commonly discussed by feminists, it's often women who police other women's behaviour and reinforce misogyny more than men. And visa versa for men and in a lot of ways this shows how gender division works at systemic level.

Some men benefit from misandry and some women benefit from misogyny the system elevates the voices of those who reinforce the gender divide and that gives those people a certain protection from the discrimination they are reinforcing.

This really highlights that this shouldn't be a men vs women culture war but a "those who reinforce discrimination" vs "everyone else" culture war.

peter_venture · 2026-02-05T18:30:47+00:00

You must live in wildly different circles and circumstances than I do. I have encountered very few men who behave this way. It's mainly women back stabbing and tearing men down. Bros before hoes and all that. I feel bad for you if this is your lived experience.

WeStandWithMen · 2026-02-05T06:51:47+00:00

This is an uncomfortable truth many people avoid discussing. As someone who works closely with men facing legal, social, and emotional crises, I have repeatedly seen that men are often conditioned to measure each other through competition rather than solidarity. Social expectations push men into rigid roles of provider, protector, and emotional suppression, and unfortunately, these pressures are frequently reinforced by other men who have themselves internalised the same standards. When men ridicule vulnerability or stay silent when another man is unfairly targeted, they unknowingly strengthen systems that later harm them too. The larger issue is not simply gender conflict but the absence of collective awareness among men about emotional well-being, fair treatment, and mutual support. Until men start recognising that empathy and accountability are strengths rather than weaknesses, they will continue fighting battles not just against external biases but also within their own fraternity.

sofiarm · 2026-02-05T15:39:48+00:00

It's sadly what feminism push and too many got intoxicated by that
"It's the fault of patriarchy". As they generalise everything, they think we all hate ourselves, it's just a projection
It's just the 1% with the power that push the gender war so we don't bother them, a diversion

mrmensplights · 2026-02-06T00:05:51+00:00

You are making a lot of claims here but I'm skeptical of many of them. Some are downright bizarre. Do you have any evidence for them?

Male managers promote women they are attracted to.

I've never seen anything like this nor any studies to this effect. Being attractive in general maybe?

Weak. Soft. Man up.

Women do this. Men might not be open but they will say "That sucks dude". Men don't go to other men and tell them to be a man unless they want to start a fight.

Men enforce toxic masculinity on men.

Toxic masculinity isn't real.

Earn more. Provide. Don’t cry. Don’t fail. These rules are not imposed by women alone.

Almost completely enforced by women.

In dating, men tear down other men. Height jokes. Salary jokes. Background jokes.

Again, almost completely done by women. A focus on height or salary is even a strictly female dating perspective. Did you even try?

This reads like feminist narrative and menslib propaganda. You've taken everything negative women do to men and you've rewritten it as men doing it to themselves and you've used an a couple token inserts of how women have a bias in favor of themselves as cover. Some men have internalized the misandry of a gynocentric society and act out on that but often not even in the ways you've listed here.

Rennmausliebhaber · 2026-02-06T03:21:49+00:00

Already wrong in the first sentence.

enemy_of_misandry · 2026-02-14T02:30:45+00:00

This subreddit is feminist controlled opposition

SaaSWriters · 2026-02-05T12:56:59+00:00

The reality is most males and females in today's society are childish.

They have immature expectations from society.

As it stands, the female immaturity seems to have an advantage.

Title	Is man a man’s enemy
Author	Lower_Lab_3774
Upvotes	24
Comments	29
Date	February 5, 2026 2:51 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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