Man in an abusive relationship seeking help. Let's give him some support.

Pwag · 2012-05-18T09:11:08+00:00

How far are you willing to take this? You can get rid of this woman. It'd be easy. Too easy.

Accept that she isn't a mother and she is a bad person. Even on the inside. Deep down. She's a fat drug using land cow and she needs to not be your problem any more. Accept that.

Next time she's getting high. Take the kids out to the park and call the cops. Tell them she's threatened to release sex videos of you and she's abusing narcotics and she's been abusing her pain killers.

Make sure your stupid ass is clean. If you hit the hemp, stop it until you know you'll pass a follicle test.

When the cops show up, she is going to explode,hopefully she'll resist arrest. She'll be cuffed and taken in. Get a domestic violence restraining order on her and see if you can get a judge to keep her from the property.

After she's banned from the house, arrange to have all her shit put into storeage somewhere. Don't try to cheat her, if it's hers get rid of it. You do not want her at the house without a cop present.

File for divorce. State domestic violence issues, drug abuse issues. Tell them she's cheating the system by faking her illnesses so she doesn't have to work. Make sure you have documented proof that she brought nothing to the relationship, did the minimus to raise the kids and be a house wife. Let them know she's violent, and uncontrolled.

You can do this. You and your kids deserve it.

My advice, he won't take any of the advice given. Like any victim of domestic violence and in an abusive relationship the whole "I love them and deep down they're a good person" shit will keep them from behaving rationally :(

I hope this turns out okay for him.

edit

I didn't think of this until I talked to my wife. He needs to do this before SHE DOES. Because who's going to believe him if she points the finger first?

Meatballs_007 · 2012-05-18T11:15:34+00:00

Gareth, Thank you for putting this here as well!

Title	Man in an abusive relationship seeking help. Let's give him some support.
Author	Gareth321
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	May 17, 2012 9:27 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ts9ra/man_in_an_abusive_relationship_seeking_help_lets/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/man-in-an-abusive-relationship-seeking-help-lets.1021603 https://theredarchive.com/post/1021603

Comments