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| 88 | Feminist writes book to help men - fails miserably, books is full of feminist lies and stats manipulation, false claims and so on. Feminism is an ideology/cult - no wonder non feminist gender movements are forming."My prejudice was that the ideal man is a woman in a man's body. And I learned, no, that's really not. There are a lot of women out there who really want a manly man, and they want his stoicism," she said. "Men are suffering. They have different problems than women have, but they don't have it better," she said. "They need our sympathy. They need our love, and maybe they need each other more than anything else. They need to be together." Ironically, Vincent said, it took experiencing life as a m… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 7 | Women get destroyed trying to push the gender gap myth to a senatorsince we are speaking about people earning less/more for the SAME job. No they're not. You can see their rationale here. The gender pay gap is influenced by a number of factors, including... women and men working in different industries and different jobs, with female-dominated industries and jobs attracting lower wages Well the employer should fire the one that doesn't do the work then, it doesn't apply. They do something even better: they pay the people less who produce less. Crazy concept in … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/12/20 08:08 AM |
| 111 | Women get destroyed trying to push the gender gap myth to a senatorIt's actually way more complicated that that. There would still be a gap, and that's because men work harder, more dangerous, more risky jobs. Men also tend to stay longer in the workforce and so have more experience. Also, men tend to negotiate more effectively - they take bigger risks in negotiation. Men are also more likely to move for a job, and switch jobs when one with higher pay but worse working conditions are presented. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/12/20 07:48 AM |
| 6 | This guy had enoughI think he’s alluding to the fact that today, looking at someone the wrong way will see one labelled racist. In such an environment it merits little cause to care any longer. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 15 | Hope this counts. I'm so SO sick of women thinking they have the right to do this crap. I'm tired of being treated like a dumb pig. Maybe I'm an asshole, but I'm not wrong.Play with fire, get burnt. Don’t whore yourself on Tinder if you don’t want comments about your appearance. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Child supportYes. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Child supportMen who are raped, coerced, and tricked into fatherhood are still liable for child support. Can we at least agree that there should be some extenuating circumstances? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 11:41 AM |
| 7 | Child support"Just don't have sex or get a lasting surgical procedure to make you sterile." If we applied this logic to women people like you would be up in arms. Applied to a man it's "just biology." We are supposed to be overcoming biological inequalities, not perpetuating them. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Child supportYa but there is still a child in your second scenario. That child is only there because of the woman's choice. If she chooses to have a child she should be choosing to support it. Karen DeCrow, former President of the National Organization for women, framed this well: "Autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expect men to finance their choice.” | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 11:37 AM |
| 9 | Pussy pass deniedThat's exactly why he added "libtard". Karen is usually conservative. What we see here is a more rare version of the libtard Karen. Equally retarded, but fatter and more racist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Something a bit more light-heartedOn the off chance this isn’t sarcasm both iOS and Android let you do this. It just requires a terminal which can accept tapping credit cards. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/09/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Mother, 49, who left her newborn child in a garbage bag to die in woods in 1993 is charged with his murder after being tracked down using familial DNA - as she confesses to disposing of ANOTHER baby two years beforeI can’t tell if this is like double sarcasm or if you just don’t understand the difference between adoption and foster care. There are 443,000 kids in the system in the US. Most of them have a pretty shitty life, even once they leave. It’s much harder to line up a baby. Everyone wants those. Well, in reality, there’s a pecking order. The black kids with crack addicted mothers and birth defects are right at the bottom. The white kids are virtually impossible to adopt as babies because near everyo… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/06/19 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Academics expose corruption in Grievance StudiesJordan Peterson interview with these guys. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 01:13 PM |
| 22 | Thousands of dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar. Up to 30,000 tests are being performed every year, says Alphabiolabs. In the UK about 750,000 babies are born every year. Feminists want the test to be illegal without the written consent of the mother.One is a permanent surgical cosmetic alteration. The other is a swab of saliva. These are not the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 06:02 PM |
| 31 | Toxic MasculinityHowever the term is currently utilised, it is a gendered and offensive term created in feminist theory to reinforce the notion that all males contribute towards a patriarchal system through negative behaviour. To illustrate the issue, I ask where feminism defines, "toxic femininity". Presumably femininity imbues its own negative behaviours, and yet you won't find the term anywhere. To even suggest such a term will invite criticisms of sexism. We should never paint men with broad brushstrokes, ju… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/18 10:43 AM |
| 11 | Blind recruitment trial to boost gender equality making things worse, study revealsIn other words, sexism does exist in the workplace. It's just that men are at a disadvantage. When an applicant's sex is removed from the equation, men do better. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/17 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Not to judge or anythingPreach it. I dated a much taller Dutch girl who was gorgeous. Couldn't care less about the height! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/04/17 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Another Perspective on the Wage GapYou don't think people should be paid more for riskier and harder work? What the fuck kind of argument is that? The market - reality - has already proven you wrong. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/04/17 05:20 AM |
| 6 | When she doesn't ask you questions back on a date...I would love to find a hot shy girl for a relationship :P | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Breakup and One-itis - AdviceThanks mate, appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 05:19 AM |
| 1 | I've arrived home at 5AM three nights this week. Thanks Seddit!That's pretty rapid weight loss man. I mean, I can't talk since I'm on track to do the same but it's not recommended. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 06:15 AM |
| 14 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.Never post a shirtless gym pic. OKCupid actually found you should be doing this - if you have the body to show off | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:59 AM |
| 132 | Ever run into "nice girls"?Exactly. Nice guys and girls are the way we should be. It might not be the most effective dating strategy, but if you found one, lock it down. They will take care of you. They're loyal and selfless. They're good people. Don't change that. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Tinder game: how to get the number quickly and escalate from there..This is exactly how I do it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 09:30 AM |
| 0 | Conan on sexismIt's a thing... for people who come home from the war. But you don't see those guys asking the entire world to strike words like "gun" from their vocabulary. Trigger warnings are an absurd concept. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/15 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Conan on sexismAs long as there are real people actually using "triggered" out in the real world, this joke will continue to be hilarious to me. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/15 08:44 AM |
| 0 | How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman?You and I, we can handle eating different things from out partner. But a lot of people out there have these romantic ideals that they have to agree with every single thing their partner likes. No compromises. I think it's something most people grow out of. In this case, however, it sounds like she's vegan. Those people are religious about food. Don't even try and look at a piece of steak while in their presence. That level of preachy would get old really fast. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys.I honestly think you're over-analysing. You went from several girls on the go to none. There will be times when you have 10 on the go, and times when you have none. You need to relax. This is normal. Yes, work on those aspects of yourself you don't like. If you wouldn't want to date you then do shit that would make you want to date you. You say being boring is by design. That's cool. There are plenty of things which won't make your life out of control but will still add spice. Learn an instrumen… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 04:47 AM |
| 3 | About to Lose my Best ManSo he dislikes you being social? Something doesn't add up. You need to sit down with him for an honest chat - which should be easy, you guys have a solid relationship - and ask him exactly what about your re-imagining he doesn't like. If he genuinely doesn't want you to be a better person then I think the solution here is obvious: ditch him. However I'm not sold that's what happening here. You need to be open and receptive to what he says. Chances are you've become a wee bit arrogant or maybe ev… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?Muffin top/beachball figure. Girls should not have a gut. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Feminists Silent as Female Teacher tortures young boy and a Female Rapist Rapes two childrenAs I understand it, the agenda right now is awareness. We aren't given hundreds of millions of dollars and support at all levels of government. So we need to explain why we should be given material and political support. Examples like this shine a bright light on some of the inequalities in society which boys and men face. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/14 02:53 AM |
| 74 | I live with my 2 girlfriends. Tomorrow I'm going to make a video where I discuss how I set it up, manage it, and answer any questions you may have. Please feel free to write some below and I'll pick the best for the video.I'm so irrationally angry right now! | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 07:47 PM |
| 1 | 36% of the world believe that boys and girls should compete together in the same sport. What are your thoughts on gender based competition?I support this. I think sports should be separated into class ability; not sex, age, race etc. I'm sure men would dominate the higher classes. But it would give outstanding women the chance to compete at the highest level if they're good enough. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/14 11:50 PM |
| 12 | Was opened at the mall by a cute 40ish lady, had no idea she was trying to pick me up until after I waved her off/brofist | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 02:12 AM |
| 5 | I have bad oneitis. I know the cure for this one, but I haven't administered the injection yet...It's happened or will happen to every man. Probably multiple times. Only time makes it better, but there are some rules you should stick to. Remove all doubt. Ask her over for dinner/movies. If she says no, she's not interested in you. That's your cue to move on. Delete her from facebook, and delete her from everything else, including her number. NEVER MESSAGE HER. Even if she messages you there is still almost no chance in hell it's going to happen precisely because you're hung up on her. I say… | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 01:11 PM |
| 13 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Rave girls are just awesome. I'm not sure what the scene is like where you're from, but ravers just seem to give so many less fucks about stupid social conventions. It's all about the music, the drugs, and having fun. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Physical Fitness Standards Lowered for Female Marines as not Enough Met ThemI agree, but even at 3.8% of the population, that's still 86,000 active and reserve personnel in the US. More than enough to poke holes in the notion that people who could be attracted to each other should be segregated. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Physical Fitness Standards Lowered for Female Marines as not Enough Met ThemThanks! That's a good meta analysis. A lot less than 10% but still significant enough. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/13 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Physical Fitness Standards Lowered for Female Marines as not Enough Met ThemThey're 10% of the population. A minority, but more than enough to invalidate your argument that people who could be attracted to each other should not serve together. I actually disagree with the premise as well. I think people who serve together - romantic or not - form strong emotional bonds, which serve to protect them in combat. Rape shouldn't be happening, period. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/13 11:30 PM |
| 30 | Physical Fitness Standards Lowered for Female Marines as not Enough Met ThemIt's like you didn't consider that gay people exist. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/13 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Tips for a babyfaceI have this. I'm almost 30 and look like I'm 22. 24 is when I really started to have fun, so now is your time to shine. Tan Grow stubble Conduct yourself with confidence, sophistication, and poise Get an adult wardrobe Sleep with women far too young for you. It's awesome, and it only gets awesomer as we get older :D | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone from Auckland NZ?Sup. I'm down but am extremely fucking busy lately. Will be like a once a month thing. Best to see if we can find a group. I've got a buddy who will be keen too. | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 01:17 PM |
| 7 | [FR] I thought sex was being thrown at me, my friends perspective was slightly different. F-CloseDo you have any idea how many girls have said "this isn't serious" only to fall head over heels later? All of them. If you like her, add her. Ask her over for a movie. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How to give a compliment for greatest impact"That dress looks nice on you, I love how you've contrasted it with your shoes, and how bright they are, it brings attention to your legs, a good way to show off your assets. I also love to see someone who is not just colour coordinated, but knows how to properly accessories, by matching their earrings with their bag." I don't think there's a more effective way to be put into a gay box than this. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Down Under Domestic Violence ReportWow. That's a real nice way of saying "while our methodologies are not representative, we're totally gonna pretend they are". | /r/MensRights | 16/09/13 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Down Under Domestic Violence ReportAs with most countries, our social and political narrative must frame women as universal victims. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/13 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Do mods of /r/mensrights delete posts from this sub at /r/feminism mods' demand?Yeah, the drama is 10x worse than it was, and it's only getting worse :-/ | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Do mods of /r/mensrights delete posts from this sub at /r/feminism mods' demand?Haha I missed you. Why don't you become more active again? | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Do mods of /r/mensrights delete posts from this sub at /r/feminism mods' demand?Meh. You know I've got respect for you but your way would be to throw gasoline on this fire. The situation is a lot more delicate than it was five years ago. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Do mods of /r/mensrights delete posts from this sub at /r/feminism mods' demand?No, I'M Gareth! Wait, shit, wrong account. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Doesn't feel like techniques are working; What am I doing wrong?Ended up walking one of them back to my place only to have her sit by herself with me and my friends She wanted the D. You didn't give it to her. It's really that simple. You need to learn how to escalate better. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 01:41 PM |
| 29 | Moby: "I think the world would be a better place if men were barred from politics"A video I stumbled on in which Moby talks about how sexist Robin Thicke's new video Blurred Lines [NSFW] is, while talking about how women are superior and men should be barred from politics. I found the way he positions his feelings as some kind of superior argument - all while repeatedly stating how he was raised by academics - very interesting. It seems it's perfectly acceptable for Moby, one of the best selling electronic music artists in the world, to treat men like second-class citizens - … | /r/MensRights | 20/08/13 12:58 AM |
| 2 | 8 Warning Signs That He is a Womanizer ...Whoops, sorry. I need to wear my glasses more. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 07:35 AM |
| 1 | 8 Warning Signs That He is a Womanizer ...How does one "trick" another person into thinking they're interesting? If they're interesting they're interesting. This subreddit teaches people how to be more interesting. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 04:04 AM |
| 9 | How many of you got into the MRM through discussions on Reddit?I always had a vague sense of what was right and wrong. I believed in equality, but I believed feminism had gender equality all sewn up. Then I found Reddit. While I acknowledge that online feminism is often regarded as somehow separate to "offline" feminism, I was shocked. These feminists were angry, bitter. They hated men. They didn't care how illogical and emotional their pleas were. As far as they were concerned, men were evil incarnate. It took me all of a month to unsubscribe from the femi… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/13 07:14 AM |
| 4 | Politifact on the gender wage gap: "Mostly False"The article linked called that statement and others like it "mostly false". I don't think you understand how Politifact works. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/13 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Politifact on the gender wage gap: "Mostly False"So it still exists. And men are taller. Should we enact a plan to cut off the feet of men to make them the same height? Maybe some disparities don't need to change if they're not the result of discrimination? I agree that gender roles are harmful. That is the condition. It presents in various ways, but going after the symptoms is ridiculous, and as another user has pointed out, can only be used to imply that discrimination is occurring. Which, according to that CONSAD report, is likely not. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/13 06:40 AM |
| 2 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.You didn't, and my apologies :) | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 02:19 AM |
| -1 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.If the moniker fits... In all seriousness, your list is dauntingly specific, but that is perhaps my hangup. As I said - and I'm being genuine now - if it works for you and you're happy, who am I to call you a poopyhead? It seems I was being too frank. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 10:44 PM |
| 1 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.Dios mio! I would normally agree but this is too much. As I said to her, everyone's tastes are different and apparently her authoritative attitude works for her. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 09:32 PM |
| -1 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.Judging by the fact that you're calling everyone who criticizes you immature, I'm going to go ahead and stand by my original statement. You seem incredibly self-righteous. But hey, if it works for you, great. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 07:41 PM |
| 3 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.You sound like a lot of work. I'm not sure why a younger person would invest that much work into you considering you're old and you appear to bring almost nothing to the table. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 08:54 AM |
| 0 | The greatest trick I know for beating Approach AnxietySmall talk. Yeah I fucking hate it too. I guess what drives me is when she's cute and I'm interested in her. It gets me talking more. But maybe it's just practice? I didn't used to be good at it. I actually went overboard and I'm trying to slow down a bit. Just pretend to like it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 12:39 AM |
| 4 | The greatest trick I know for beating Approach AnxietyOkay, I used to be in the same boat. Unfortunately the solution isn't easy. You want to become interesting. So interesting that you always have something interesting to talk about. This gives you confidence to approach and open, and to cover the quiet moments or just keep things moving along if she's boring. When you've mastered that - and it'll take a lot of practise - you can learn to steer the conversation more towards her. Ask open questions; follow them up; tease her and joke; use an anecdo… | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 06:04 AM |
| 8 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.Huh. Okay so I guess it could mean a lot of things. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 09:09 AM |
| 63 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.I literally just had this response from a girl. The translation is more like an enthusiastic yes. It's a cheeky way of saying yes but not seeming too eager. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 08:02 AM |
| 3 | 9 Reasons Why I Can’t Stand Modern-Day FeministsCountless studies control for human capital and still find a very large pay gap (on the order described by the OP) against women. Well, let's see them. I'm a fan of this report, as it accounts for more "human capital" and mitigating circumstances than any other I've read. I'm interested to see yours. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Facts about gender discrimination - infographic with sourcesUnderstood. We each have our own means to an end. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Facts about gender discrimination - infographic with sourcesWhile, in a vacuum, you're correct: the proportion of male to female soldiers should be considered. The reality is that feminists don't consider these extraneous circumstances when discussing "female issues". Take rape, for example. Outside of prison, women are far more likely to be raped. But if we only consider situations where men and women are of equal risk of being raped, all of a sudden rape is a men's issue. As long as feminism only considers absolute numbers when discussing gender issues… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/13 03:07 AM |
| 0 | User in /r/pics reminding everyone that /r/MensRights is "identified by the SPLC as a center of misogynistic activity"Apparently there's no bad time to attack men's rights - particularly in a discussion about trying to free innocent men from prison. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/13 04:13 AM |
| 0 | A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game.I agree, with this caveat. If I were the friend, I would scare the pants off the wife. That was possibly a poor choice of words. Anyway, I would make it very clear that I would tell him about her indiscretions if she dares cheat on him again. Good people can make mistakes, but bad people keep making them. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Video clip on mobile phone clears two men found guilty of raping two women in Sweden.I originally thought they had a bunch of oil but on closer inspection it looks like they actually import a lot. Primary export is machinery and various other production based commodities. Decent quality. It's somewhere people can go for a higher quality product than China - but it's obviously more expensive. There's definitely a future market there, particular as we see manufacturing beginning to pull out of China on quality concerns. IMHO they're well positioned on a world scale. Much better sh… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/13 12:18 PM |
| 1 | "Victim blaming in cases of domestic violence/sexual assault hurts men. We all must end the us vs them mentality when discussing gender issues. We're all in this together."He spent the introduction firmly placing his head up the collective ass of women and feminists everywhere. Sadly it didn't improve from there. At five minutes he starts writing shit on his large paper board and I actually feel dumber after listening to him tell us "our whole cognitive structure" is set up to oppress women, without offering any kind of explanation. Save yourselves 19 minutes of your life and skip this. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/13 04:40 AM |
| 2 | "I swear they was 18!" actually works, if you're a womanInteresting. Thanks for the clarification. I've honestly never been a fan of strict liability laws. I think there should be at least some measure of intent. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:26 AM |
| 1 | "I swear they was 18!" actually works, if you're a womanThis is now precedent. In future, this ruling is going to be applied all over New South Wales. I'm not sure how I feel about that, but it looks like at least one state in Australia no longer finds sex with minors strict liability. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 12:32 AM |
| 10 | 3 boys killed in S.A. paramilitary "man up" camp. Starved, burned, strangled, dehydrated, dead. An MR issue if I ever heard one.I'm not a violent person but I would at least contact the police. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/13 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Stop Child AbuseThis is a good argument, but so is this: perhaps rape isn't inherent to one sex, but because men tend to be stronger, the few men with such inclinations find it easier to take advantage of women. The take away from these feminist campaigns is that they aren't interested in proportions or reasons. They simply see the absolute figure and attack it. Which is why the poster does a good job of replying in kind. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?I'm with you, but a lot of women don't like honesty. They don't like men telling them "you're beautiful, come back to mine". Instead, they prefer the long-winded came of courtship. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Found this in a high school classroom. I politely asked the teacher to take it down. She laughed and told me to lighten up.As an adult, I would definitely post demiurgency's picture next to her's. As a teenager, I don't think I would have been able to stand my ground and argue on her level. So don't feel obligated to fight this battle if you don't feel prepared. The fact that you're aware of the sexism is enough. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Richard Dawkins on Feminism (xpost videos)"Privileges the speed of light". No words. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 08:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Boy meets girl, 30 minutes later boy and girl leave the club for his apartmentMy friend tried something similar years ago and was brutally shot down. This is combination of luck, the right girl, confidence, and execution. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 08:44 AM |
| 8 | The poster I made for the recently linked "My Bad Sex Wasn't Rape" article.This is hands down the best discussion about kerning this subreddit has ever had. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Shaming tactics 101! Men who stare!!I'm not sure where you live but many public places are filled with people. This leaves few options. Gaze around at people, or at the ground. But you're right, there is no law in place. This is because such a law would be impossible to enforce, and impossible to define. What is rude for you is not rude for another. This is why we generally don'e create laws based on rudeness. It's extremely subjective. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Shaming tactics 101! Men who stare!!Merely gazing at a person in public doesn't strike me as invasive. Over a considerable duration I can imagine it could become disconcerting, but that is the price one pays for living in a society. Forcing people to stare at the ground rather than at others seems like something out of a Sharia law country. For me, boundaries are physical and verbal in certain circumstances. To me, policing where a person may look is completely unacceptable. I would not presume to tell a woman where she may and ma… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Shaming tactics 101! Men who stare!!One is certainly a more invasive form of shaming, but they are both shaming. They're also both rude. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Shaming tactics 101! Men who stare!!Like when I call a woman a slut. I mean, that's pretty rude, but it's not "shaming", right? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/13 11:00 PM |
| 18 | Stop checking your phoneYou smooth motherfucker. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 09:13 AM |
| 0 | Democratic strategists's shocking claim: Women don't need guns for self-defense, just tell men 'Not to rape women'Well I was going to commend you two on a nice debate between MR and SRS, but now... :| | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.That's awesome. I had no idea. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 11:19 PM |
| 3 | The difficulties of raising a son within the Princess CultureMy mom bought us kids little bottles and would fill them with grape gummi berry juice whenever we asked her. We'd proceed to bounce the fuck around everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/13 08:15 AM |
| 2 | The only line I use, and it's magic.Saw the pic. You are not a 3 (unless you took a ridiculously flattering pic - which I doubt). You're a solid 6. Working out definitely helped a lot. Follow up with style and confidence and most women will see an 8. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:24 PM |
| 14 | The Friend Zone Myth.Honestly, I lose interest in a woman once she's with a guy. I know I'm not the only one. This is completely reversed with how the women in my life view men in relationships. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 09:39 PM |
| 6 | "Fox News Says Feminists Want to Have Sex with Underage Men". Feminists laughing it up ... but get nasty when MRA posts CDC data showing the number of female perpetrators equalled the number of male pCome on now, don't insult our intelligence. Most of us have watched Fox enough to know they have a clear and open bias. That isn't to say other US networks don't. But as Fox is really the only right-wing news channel (and the largest news network in the US), they tend to go overboard trying to cater to that entire political spectrum. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Be Sober!Thanks, that could well be it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Be Sober!It works as a stimulant for me. I get chatty and energetic. I work out a lot, so maybe it has something to do with metabolising the alcohol? | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Be Sober!I just buy tonic or ginger ale when I'm finished with alcohol. Get it in a short if you want it to look like you're still drinking. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 10:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gym approach, #-close to bedroomI'm right there with you. I see other guys who make all these friends and they spend half their workout talking. I've got an hour and I want to make the most of it. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 09:40 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I recently acquired 1500, but my paltry 200 movie collection worked just the same. Ask her to come watch a DVD - works every time. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:26 AM |
| 0 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.;) | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are we labelled as a hate group?I think it's a common scenario, and I've seen it happen to MRAs too. It's all too easy to start thinking of a group as "the enemy" after a traumatic incident. Sometimes that anger is the only thing that enables someone to cope. Inasmuch, I often pity these feminists, rather than detest them. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/13 02:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date."I like guys with money." I turn the car around and drop her home. "Get out". | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Erika Menendez, who murdered a man by pushing him on subway tracks earlier last week, has been arrested nine times in the past. Her own mother called police on her five times in the past seven years due to her violent behavior. How far does a woman need to go before she loses her pussy pass?You just confused feminists with women, and you think I have the problem? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Erika Menendez, who murdered a man by pushing him on subway tracks earlier last week, has been arrested nine times in the past. Her own mother called police on her five times in the past seven years due to her violent behavior. How far does a woman need to go before she loses her pussy pass?This is a good practical example with which to illustrate my point. You are a fucking idiot. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Erika Menendez, who murdered a man by pushing him on subway tracks earlier last week, has been arrested nine times in the past. Her own mother called police on her five times in the past seven years due to her violent behavior. How far does a woman need to go before she loses her pussy pass?Not sure why the feminists spouting off hate means it's okay for us to. The issue I have with "mangina" is that it's gendered shaming language. I attack the feminists for stereotyping all men as rapists, yet here we have an MRA emasculating men who we don't agree with. The purpose of this movement is equality. We want men to be able to be effeminate if they want to. How about we just call them white knights or fucking idiots? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 10:06 AM |
| 6 | At a party and its doing my head inIt's the elusive nerb, or voun. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Woman stabs university student in the back during consensual sexual encounter, but he's arrested after she falsely accuses him of rapeIt happens, but we won't ban you. That's the key. We actually encourage dissent. I think it keeps everyone on their toes. It's why we generally have the intellectual high ground, while feminists are awash is stupid sound-bites. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/12 03:07 AM |
| 5 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"This hit close to home. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 10:32 AM |
| 21 | A motion to make gay issues a bigger part of the mens' rights movementWe actually have a lot of gay members precisely because feminists don't give a shit about men. Gay men sign up, having heard all the feminist ruckus about supporting the LGBT community, only to discover their support ends where our penises begin. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Start taking cold showers, especially if you have AAI do this at the end of my normal shower. The problem is the water here in NZ is usually only a few degrees. One can only stand under ice water for a minute or two before their body temp lowers too much and shivering kicks in. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Men's Rights are important, but please don't let it take over your life.I actually began as a feminist. They made it impossible to ignore the sexism within feminism, and I had no choice but to open my eyes. I think that the further feminism goes, the more men are forced to accept that there are serious inequalities facing them. It will become something we simply cannot let lie any longer. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/12 06:51 AM |
| 0 | This happens all the time to so many men.Sounds like someone needs to talk about his feelings. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/12 10:59 AM |
| 2 | This happens all the time to so many men.Exercise helped me with my depression, and I know it has helped countless other people with anger and depression. It's the single most effective method, in fact, depending on the study. Many men aren't as comfortable talking about their emotions with people, or they don't get as much out of it as they do by simply exercising. After years of experimenting, I know hitting a punching bag is 10x more effective for me than talking to someone. I'm pretty tired of the feminization of the psychotherapy … | /r/MensRights | 20/11/12 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Looks Don't MatterGood for you! I was saying to another user that exercise also helped me with the adrenaline thing. It's like I get it all out on the punching bags/weights/cardio machines. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Looks Don't MatterSame here brother. Sometimes it's so bad I'll feel dizzy afterwards. My two secret weapons are practise and exercise. A hard workout (including 20-30 mins cardio) is like a temporary cure. Works for up to a whole day after the workout. Not 100% sure how it works, but it's brilliant. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Looks Don't MatterNo no no! Never apologize for being good looking. Never try to downplay it, or make yourself goofy to seem more approachable. Learn how to tell when she's interested, even when she's acting aloof. Girls get nervous around me all the time, and it's fucking adorable. It just means you need more practise at breaking the ice. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 04:04 AM |
| 22 | Looks Don't MatterThink of being attractive as the best ice breaker. It gets you in the door, which is invaluable. You still need to work on the sale, which is most of the work. I was in the same boat as you, but I found my zone/rhythm, and now I'm rocking it. There's no better teacher than practice. Honestly, the best thing I got out of this subreddit was the notion that I need to get out there and just do it. My greatest obstacle was my nervousness. I think I have some kind of adrenaline problem, and when I get… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 04:29 AM |
| 1 | School bans Movember because girls can't grow facial hairTo the rest ofthe world and at least 51% of the US, they are racist crackpots. They lost all credibility when they allowed the religious extremists to coopt the direction. Additionally, its entire premise was founded on some rich backers, meaning the whole purpose of its existence was to protest taxes for a few wealthy individuals. It wasn't grass roots in any sense of the word. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/12 08:27 PM |
| 1 | And this is why a lot of people hate "feminists"... They reposted it, following many many statements of disapproval.Bingo. Digg tried something similar. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/12 10:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Well, I scored a date with a prostitute.This is the most ridiculous, pseudo-philosophical conversation I've seen all week. popcorn.gif | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 12:37 AM |
| 20 | ITT: Men taking dating advice from women - why it's not a good thingA year ago, I would have been furiously taking notes. I mean, women appear to be telling us all of their secret desires! Nuggets like "Backhanded sexist "compliments" such as "For a girl, you're really smart!" or "I don't generally find girls funny, but you crack me up!" Ugh. Just no." and "I hate someone who is cocky. There is a distinct difference between being confident and cocky. Even if you're Ryan Gosling good looking, I will immediately write you off if you're a cocky fuck." However, when… | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Excellent NY Times op-ed pointing out creepy paternalism of modern Democrat Party and their promises to take care of woman's every needAmericans live in a republic not a democracy. Know the difference. You do realise a republic is a form of democracy, right? You regurgitated that on reflex and it's sad that you don't seem to know that. I don't really understand your argument against proportional voting. It's simply a more accurate representation of the general population. Are you saying you believe some people shouldn't be allowed to vote because you disagree with them? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/12 12:45 AM |
| 2 | r/Communism will openly ban MRAs, saying that MRAs are "anti-feminists" and "organized misogynists"Check out the comments. It's just anothe SRS subreddit. Best to avoid it and write it off as I assume most communists do. The same thing happened to r/anarchism. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/12 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Excellent NY Times op-ed pointing out creepy paternalism of modern Democrat Party and their promises to take care of woman's every needFrom an outsider, it looks like your parties try to create these partisan social issues in order to differentiate themselves and galvanize their support bases, all while continuing to pander to whoever "lobbies" them the most. In other words, these are manufactured issues created to distract from the larger problems in America. You folks need to change to a proportional representative system ASAP; and some kind of cap on campaign spending and lobbying would be a big step forward for democracy. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/12 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to try and break every limiting belief about your looks there is. Let's do this.The single best thing I did for my game was working out. I'm not disputing that personality goes a long way, but looks are definitely important to women. You did the right thing. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:44 PM |
| 1 | So, I just went to the gym and approached for the first time!I find it really hard to approach at the gym, despite the fact that I'm generally okay elsewhere. It's a shame, because there are some beautiful women at my gym. Any tips much appreciated! | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 01:26 AM |
| 1 | KyriarchyI'm actually in favour of kyriarchy. It largely removes the male boogeyman in patriarchy and replaces it with much more palatable theories of social inequality (which I believe exist to varying degrees). It still isn't exactly science, but if the choice is between patriarchy and kyriarchy, the latter is by far preferable. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/12 04:05 AM |
| 2 | I, myself, am guilty of not realizing this double standard until someone brought it up. Shows how strong the influence of societal norms is.Bonus points: everyone admits they are subject to a double standard and seem okay with it. Where is r/ShitRedditSays now? Oh, that's right, when it's a 16 year old girl it's definitely rape. When it's a boy, it's just sex. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/12 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Says the fat, retarded neckbeard. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:53 AM |
| 2 | The minute a girl shows interest in me I start acting Beta...help!Don't listen to these guys. One day I just picked up my work colleague, lay her on her desk, and fucked her. It was magical. We were good friends so it all worked out fine. But I guess if she wants more and you two get your feelings hurt things could get awkward. Still, fucky fucky. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Somebody is creating fake accounts that mimic former MR mods and posting supposed personal information of SRSersMy only guess is attempting to misrepresent r/MR by pretending we're engaging in doxxing. A rather transparently false attempt if so. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/12 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Somebody is creating fake accounts that mimic former MR mods and posting supposed personal information of SRSersI got it too. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/12 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Somebody is creating fake accounts that mimic former MR mods and posting supposed personal information of SRSersTheir feminist ideology allows them to ignore and marginalize acts of sexism towards men under the guise that we have advantages in other areas, so it all balances out. It's horribly sexist, yet they genuinely believe it. It also doesn't stand up to scrutiny, but who needs facts in a good old fashioned circle-jerk? | /r/MensRights | 20/10/12 02:13 AM |
| 3 | OneY - Men's issuesIt's not as hard-hitting as r/MensRights, but it does deal with issues men face in society. A big problem is that perhaps half the users are feminists, who delight in explaining why us men are terrible, and what we can do to correct the terrible miscarriage of nature. I think it needs more men and MRAs to balance out the bullshit, so I encourage our users to subscribe. I'd like to see it move towards a more general discussion point a la TwoXChromosomes. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/12 11:25 AM |
| 6 | The elusive and rarely seen genus: Male Privilege, a specimen sighted in the wildWell that's very reassuring. Thanks for the input. I hope you're right. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/12 07:03 AM |
| 17 | The elusive and rarely seen genus: Male Privilege, a specimen sighted in the wildCould use a better title. Something like "Reddit CEO, Yishan, discusses his belief in the concept of male privilege". In other words, Reddit's CEO is a feminist. This is worrying, to say the least. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Some of the shit he says feels incredibly contrived; as though he's trying far too hard. But then, based on the context, maybe that's required. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 09:27 AM |
| 10 | Learn from Drunk You to improve Sober You (crosspost)I feel like we could end war if we sat the world leaders in a room and made them take MDMA. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:34 AM |
| 10 | "When possible, the prosecution should proceed under a theory of rape by force as this is more consistent with the stereotype of rape believed by the public, and thus, by potential jurors."I was discussing intoxicated consent with another user and stumbled across this interesting publication from the American Prosecutors Research Institute. It's a little dry, but it does provide an interesting insight into the mind of a US prosecutor. Of note was the quote in the title. Apparently prosecutors are encouraged to proceed under the notion of forcible rape when possible, as that's what juries expect, and what is easier to convict with. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Women are not as violent as men? "Two female room-mates 'tied up teenager and cut him 300 times during two-day satanic sex torture marathon'"Clearly this boy was oppressing these women somehow, and their only recourse was a satanic sex torture marathon. Thank goodness we have the concept of patriarchy, otherwise these women would sure look evil! | /r/MensRights | 17/10/12 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"Yeah, that was pretty sweet. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:16 AM |
| 4 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!""So your friend tells me you're a bitch..." Dick move. You didn't need to throw her friends under the bus. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 01:31 AM |
| -1 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.Censorship is preventing information from being disseminated. We are not advocating that. Post as many screenshots as you like. Talk about the material as much as you like. We are suggesting labelling their websites as spam, so as to drive down ad revenue. You can restate it as many times as you like, but as long as we allow the information to be posted here, it's not censorship. We are simply discouraging one format. We're not stopping anyone from doing anything. If the few mods out there who w… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/12 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Update on ViolentAcrez/Gawker/Adrian Chen/CreepShotsBig ups to her. A very principled stance. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.Boycott is not censorship. The information can still be screen capped. If I employed someone who went around blackmailing people I would have to accept that people would be angry and stop publishing my material. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 08:21 PM |
| 9 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.It'll just get stuck in the mod queue. Mods can still approve it. It'll be a tiny fraction of an inconvenience for the handful of mods who still want to approve their content. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 10:45 AM |
| 9 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.I would be less concerned with morality. You see, morality is relative. Some people find it highly immoral for women to wear skirts. Do you think they should be allowed to dox women who wear skirts? I hope not. So what you need to do is re-calibrate your offense-o-meter to beep only when you see illegal things. Laws are codified morals which society has agreed upon as a whole. They avoid the messy "my morals are righter than your morals* problem. So if you see illegal activity, get up in arms. R… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 09:09 AM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Not, not this one. I think we're clear there. Hold on, let me check. Nope. This one definitely worked. Hang on, I gotta be sure. I'll re-read it one more time. Yup, same thing. It definitely worked this time. Good police work, Lou. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 09:04 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...I thought I did a really good job of not generalizing. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 09:02 AM |
| 28 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.This isn't just us. We've been on the line with the mods from all over Reddit today. It's Reddit-wide. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 09:02 AM |
| 46 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.Have a little read of the links being circulated. The issue isn't that we necessarily support these subreddits. It's that we don't support blackmail and doxxing. I hope it's a misunderstanding and you aren't proposing publicly shaming people who you don't agree with. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 05:10 AM |
| 1 | testIt was auto spammed. I was going through the mod queue. Bear in mind this isn't a Reddit initiative. The mods have implemented this ourselves, so these domains won't always automatically spam out. We will always label them as spam, however, so they will often be caught, and they will be removed by us when seen. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 04:41 AM |
| 1 | testWhat were you testing, exactly? | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 04:03 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Yes, good point. I'm stubborn like that and if someone called me a sure thing I would make her work much harder. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:18 AM |
| 1 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Free from social conditioning, it could work. But it's kind of a dog whistle now. Some women hear "sure thing" and just turn off. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:14 AM |
| 84 | The follow domains will no longer be allowed to post in /r/MensRights.Great idea. Will do. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/12 01:37 AM |
| 9 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...Ya, the "sure thing" is a trigger which is sure to piss off a good chunk of women. I guess it depends, and if she was already begging for it, then fine. Other women would have been turned off. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 10:42 PM |
| 0 | In a tantrum heard around the world, Australian PM Julia Gillard throws a hissy fit over what she calls "misogyny."This was posted and made it to the front page. This was my comment. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/12 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Cudos to Google for a great ad featuring a great dad.Come the fuck on. Every time I give an inch. You are truly the weakest link. Goodbye. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Mods deleting relevant material, just an FYIInteresting. That's almost word for word what a previous troll we just banned said. I'll be watching this account very closely from now on. We give new accounts zero leeway. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Mods deleting relevant material, just an FYIPlease post to r/MensRightsMeta. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 10:27 PM |
| 9 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.The spirit is willing, but the fingers are spongy and bruised. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.Yes, thank you, I read the study and I assume everyone else here did as well. I was specifically talking about non-reciprocal violence, as that is clearly the point of contention being discussed. Sorry if I didn't make that clear. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:44 AM |
| 6 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.I do care about your feelings, anonymous loser :( | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:38 AM |
| 14 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.Did you read the study? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:11 AM |
| 8 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.We rented out an entire Fijian island, hired a bunch of amazing DJs, and had the best three day party of our lives. tl;dr I've been in Fiji so I didn't answer my PMs. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What's that game to play with women where you guess 3 things, including where she likes to go shopping?Thanks, will do. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 12:28 AM |
| 36 | Women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of domestic violence cases.How is this not fucking painted on giant billboards everywhere? I've been told my whole life that men are the overwhelming abusers. That my sex means I'm an angry wife-beater. Yet here we see that it's actually women who are doing the abuse. How is feminism getting away with one of the biggest lies about modern society? | /r/MensRights | 08/10/12 10:37 PM |
| 2 | women think i'm gay. please help!I used to come off this way, and several things worked for me. First, you need to give off masculine energy. For me, this meant, at first, imitating masculine men I saw. I internalized it and made the mannerisms my own. The gym helped me a lot with this. More muscle boosted my confidence a lot. Also it helps with testosterone, which naturally makes you more male in just about every way possible. Second, you need to escalate and be clear about your intentions. An hour and she still doesn't know y… | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 10:26 PM |
| 1 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?definitely feel out the situation Hehe | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Girls I approach keep asking me this..."Only the pretty ones" has been my default response now and it works very well. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 06:36 AM |
| 1 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"Gotcha. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 09:27 AM |
| -1 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"Never hide your interest but don't make it obvious?? I'm down with the former but part of that is being obvious about my intentions. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Don’t Split The Housework If You Want The Love To Last (and don't want to be the victim of divorce)I don't. But we don't know that the proposal in the submission is true either. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How sure should the woman be before trying to report her rape? Serious question. Not being a troll.Please message me from your main account if you'd like this to proceed. I'm dubious about the appropriateness of this submission here. I think there are better places to discuss this. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Banned from TwoXAerik. I'm still convinced it's a woman. Or someone who hates their penis. No one could hate men that much otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why is there so much "alpha" bashing in this sub?What would be easier is to just run every man by you first, that way we can clear up the confusion about who's real and who's not. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is there so much "alpha" bashing in this sub?Yes, a "real" man. Would you please give us the definition? We are all hanging on your definition of "real" man. I'd hate to be not real because I liked watching The Notebook. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Don’t Split The Housework If You Want The Love To Last (and don't want to be the victim of divorce)Seems this is correlation. Women who are more likely to be submissive and enjoy gender roles are less likely to initiate divorce. Women who are more assertive and dislike gender roles are more likely to initiate. This would made the findings more useful at the courting stage of a relationship, where the man can find out her preferences right off the bat. I don't think it matter how much housework he does down the road; just what kind of person she is. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.Would you point out where you made an argument? "Waaaahh waaaaaaaahhh, I hate you" isn't an argument. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.Yes, we know, you have lots of crazy ideas. That's kind of why no one takes you seriously anymore. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Goodbye Men. It has been a pleasure serving with you. This subreddit has the cancer so I must leave. Be strong and be whatever kind of man you want to be. You are the future.Hi Flytape Members rarely announce their leaving, but if you feel the need to, please do so in /r/MensRightsMeta. However, it seems you won't actually be leaving, but simply continuing to post here under a different username. I find the notion that you choose to post "provocative" submissions interesting. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.I linked to the articles. People are free to make up their own minds. Do you have a problem with what truthman said too? | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 10:20 PM |
| -2 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.Reality has no bias. Bias is created when people with ideologies try to mold reality to their beliefs. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 10:01 AM |
| -1 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.It's not a factual statement, so I don't believe or disbelieve it. If I recall, it was meant to parody Republicans who felt factual reporting meant biassed reporting. It's fitting here because gege accused ignatius of bias, yet ignatius was simply stating the position of some members. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 09:37 AM |
| 3 | I am a feMRA who was date raped. How should I go about getting justice?This submission has been auto-spammed. I'm leaving it there until you message me from your main account. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 07:04 AM |
| 0 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit."FREEEEEEE SPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEECH". | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 06:57 AM |
| 0 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.The venerable Stephen Colbert. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 05:29 AM |
| -4 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.Reality has a well-known liberal bias. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 04:53 AM |
| 4 | I would like to introduce Women's Rights, a struggling and slowly growing subreddit.Any rational person would think you were joking. Nope. Truthman literally compared women to monkeys. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Reminder about the rules. There seems to be a lot of confusion.As you obviously aren't up to date with the truthman drama, I'll fill you in. Truthman routinely attacks, well, everyone here. Gay people; women; small men; people who don't agree with him; liberals; conservatives. He basically just attacks everyone, constantly. My guess is the comment by southernasshole is due to truthman's incessant attacks on the community in general. The upvotes indicate the exasperation of other users. Telling people to hang themselves is not an attitude I'd like to foster,… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 06:28 AM |
| 8 | Reminder about the rules. There seems to be a lot of confusion.Unbelievable. This is not okay. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What's Your Occupation? Oh, it's just collecting child support and alimony.You've been shadow banned from Reddit. Please contact the admins. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/12 10:04 AM |
| 2 | MRM blueprint for bridge buildingBefore you waste any more time with this guy, we're having a lively discussion about the merits if banning him. Have a read. He basically just hates everyone. It's only a matter of time before he accuses you of being a feminist leftist liberal socialist Nazi troll. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/12 09:57 AM |
| 2 | [META] r/SRS linking to r/MensRightsI believe she's being facetious. I think. Surely. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/12 09:33 PM |
| 20 | Banned from /r/Anarchism for being a member of /r/MensRightsThere's a lot of crossover between r/Anarchism and r/ShitRedditSays. They're, ironically, one of the most oppressive subreddits on Reddit. There have been numerous altercations over the years, including using feminist flags and branding people they disagree with. Note my honourable mention under "Wankers", when I tried to question the wanton use of "rape apologist" to silence dissent and argue against dismissing violence against men. They had discussions about me here, here, and here. These disc… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | "I then asked, 'How many of you women have hit or otherwise abused men?' Every hand went up."Hi Firehead727. As I have already asked you to contact the admins to have your shadow ban removed, and you have not, I have temporarily banned you from r/MensRights until such time as you do. For the record, all of your comments are automatically hidden in all subreddits across Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/12 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Canadian PSA about rape, feminazi propaganda and fabricated statistics (VID)Your account has been shadow banned. Contact the admins. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Insightful words from Jack DonovanWarning. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 01:08 PM |
| 1 | This kid wants to go get circumcised because a girl said his foreskin was ugly.Warning. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 01:04 PM |
| 1 | There seems to be a lot of opposition to the idea of women proposing to men.Your account has been shadow banned. Contact the admins. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 01:01 PM |
| 1 | SRS downvote brigade attackedI'm on your side. I really am. I used to remove what I consider to be troll posts very quickly. Truthman and a few other self-proclaimed "conservatives" told me I was being too heavy handed. They were really rather belligerent about it. So I stopped. Now I'm getting attacked by others for not being heavy handed enough. There's no winning. The problem isn't too few mods (check out the mod ratios in other subreddits - SRS is an exception). The problem is that we're trying to balance the wishes of … | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Third r/mensrights ad campaign on reddit goes liveThis is amazing! Thanks for bringing attention to the cause. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 06:31 AM |
| 2 | SRS downvote brigade attackedWe have a lot of people who we consider to be trolls, on both sides, and from many different ideologies. Last time I cracked down a lot of conservative users claimed I was "censoring". I'd like nothing more than to dust off the ban hammer, but I'd need community support. I might make a meta submission if more users feel heavier moderation is in order. As for being SRS sympathizers, seriously? I mean, seriously?? Have you ever talked to us? Do you know our stories, and why we became MRAs? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 12:59 AM |
| 5 | SRS downvote brigade attackedWe tried removing trolls. Users like truthman and demonspawn shouted "censorship" from the rooftops. And to their credit, trolling isn't black and white. Some people genuinely believe things we consider to be outrageous. We've always tried not to remove dissenting opinions. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/12 12:55 AM |
| 2 | r/brosrights banned for behaving exactly the same as SRSWe have gained untold members because of SRS. They do incredible damage to feminism. More than I've seen any MRA dish out. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/12 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Equality's a bitch, ain't it girls?women's nature embraces the female entitlement complex Broad generalizations about women? Must be our resident bigot, truthman2000. Do you like it when feminists call rape "just in men's nature"? No? Then don't do it about women. Some people are entitled. Women have the luxury of having their entitlement backed up by the law. This leads some women to be more brazen about how they act. That doesn't mean all women are entitled. Or that you're a rapist just for being a man. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/12 12:47 AM |
| 10 | Equality's a bitch, ain't it girls?Bingo. This girl has been taught her whole life that men want nothing more than sex. When she offers it, but is turned down, she thinks it's a wholesale rejection of her. She's probably very rarely turned down. Hence the confidence, and probably waiting until 2AM to form a solid rapport with nathandrakesdick. Unfortunately this social dynamic is unlikely to change unless men start acting more like nathan. This just isn't going to happen any time soon. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/12 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Woman who falsely claimed she was raped by three men because she regretted having sex with them jailed for two yearsAlso known as catching her in a lie. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/12 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Woman who falsely claimed she was raped by three men because she regretted having sex with them jailed for two yearsHow else are we to effectively deter people committing such a serious offense? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/12 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Woman who falsely claimed she was raped by three men because she regretted having sex with them jailed for two yearsDo you have any idea how damaging to the life of a man a false rape accusation is? Many men lose their jobs, their families, their houses, their friends, and their reputations. It's often a life sentence. We "got it out" for false rape accusers because of the seriousness of the crime. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/12 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Is this sexist against men?tits or gtfo I have no patience for shit like this. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleTrue. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 09:01 AM |
| 1 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleYes, that usually manifests in spectrums of autism. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleI'm not sure it works that way. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 04:12 AM |
| 1 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleCould be dyslexia or some other learning disability. See if you are able to be tested. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleGood man. Probably one of the best ways is to just pick up some novels and read. Avoid the use of ellipses so much, and capitalize the first letter of sentences. If a word doesn't look right, spell check it (Google the word). | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 03:12 AM |
| 2 | I Was Sexually Assaulted by a FemaleYou really need to examine your sentence structure. All your posts come off as abstract musings with little coherence. English may not be your first language, but I'm not aware of any languages which employ such a staccato structure, in either written or oral form. I say this not to be a grammar Nazi, but because no one will pay any attention to you otherwise. Phrasing your ideas logically and paying a little attention to your spelling will go a long way. Currently, it seems you don't respect th… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 12:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?Haha, good for you :) | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 09:49 PM |
| 3 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?Never take dating advice from girls ever. Take clothing advice from them. They know what they think is attractive. They might might not know why, but they know. Their opinion of clothes isn't buried under a mountain of false social constructs, so they're free to be honest about how they feel. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 09:46 PM |
| 11 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?Being attractive definitely helps. Some tips. Dress well. This makes a huge difference. Make sure your hair style is fashionable and suits your face and features. TAN. Exercise A LOT. You want to drop your body fat to 10-15%. This makes a huge difference to the features of one's face. Women can tell instantly. It's much more masculine. Moisturize. Pluck the monobrow and make sure you either shave regularly, or trim and maintain a little stubble, depending on what looks better on you. If you wear… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | When is it OK to Punch Your Wife? | A Voice for MenYour account has been shadow banned. Contact the admins to enquire. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | This the most pathetic community I have ever seen. None of you are men.QQ | /r/MensRights | 16/09/12 04:34 AM |
| 14 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...This was important to see. Your post came off pretty awesome, and it's important for others here to know that it's not all candy and rainbows. There is rejection, but you need to be able to shrug it off. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Child Support and Owning your Own BusinessYour account has been shadow banned by the admins. Please contact them to inquire. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/12 05:47 AM |
| 2 | It's cool to discriminate men.But what is her business? Selling junk clothes to junk people (women). And make no mistake - women are junk. They produce nothing. All the machinery her business uses will have been designed by men. And there's the rub - men invent and produce things so worthless people can sit in air-conditioned offices and say men are useless, whilst their only contribution to society is designing crap clothes for women. Warning. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/12 05:44 AM |
| 4 | How to prevent imminent false rape accusations?What makes you believe she's about to (falsely) accuse you of rape? | /r/MensRights | 14/09/12 01:05 AM |
| 4 | i'm officially creeped out by the extent some people will go to categlouge us, this sub, and the MRM. there's a decent chance your name is on this list.I'm a little disappointed I'm not mentioned at all :( | /r/MensRights | 13/09/12 10:34 AM |
| 1 | /r/SRS drives a man to suicidal thoughts, proceeds to not care.Shitty troll is shitty. Come on, man. The least you could do is make another account to troll SRS with. I mean, you're like the worst troll I've ever seen. I can troll better after having cataract surgery, with nine broken fingers, and alcohol poisoning. You'll never be a success if you do everything half-assed. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/12 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Dads Jailed for Protesting against Family CourtsWarning. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/12 02:04 AM |
| 1 | In defense of traditional roles: Women had it better when they had a sacred role. Now, they’re pieces of meat.My views on this are known. I don't favour gender roles. That's for each person to decide. If a man wants to be a caregiver, who the fuck is anyone to tell him he can't do that? If a woman wants to work in a mine, what business is that of mine? In a marriage, two people get to divvy up the responsibilities they see fit. I say keep government and prying eyes out of people's personal lives. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/12 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Violence against men = funny? "Kicked In The Nuts - Real Or Fake? (Russian Girl Strikes Back At Teacher) "- YouTubePlease repost from your normal account. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/12 09:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.I've heard the argument that we should simply allow the propagation of the idea that holistic healing works because the placebo affect may help some people. The problem with placebo healing is that it's very inconsistent. Only some people are sometimes susceptible to the placebo affect. This means if we start prescribing, for example, astrology as a viable alternative to anxiety therapy, a good portion of those who were prescribed the placebo won't be improved in any way. This is unethical when … | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:24 AM |
| 8 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.There are literally tens of thousands of people who would swear on a Bible that they've had some kind of encounter with aliens. 31% of Americans believe in astrology. Placebo is a powerful thing. That's why evidence is so important. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 04:17 AM |
| 11 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.Let's all hand it to "yourbrainonporn.com" for its unbiased and objective portrayal of pornography. Clearly they have no axe to grind and are simply doing the public a service by spreading this information. I just had a read through the impressive list of unrelated and flawed studies they cite to purportedly prove pornography is bad for your brain. Pick a study, any study, and I'll show you why it's flawed or doesn't relate in a meaningful way. I'll say this as clearly as I can, just in case any… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:11 AM |
| 1 | It isn't exactly a secret that this subreddit and it's users are seen as a joke by users in more popular subs, why is that?You're onto your ELEVENTH account? Look, I'm not gonna ban you this time. Because you haven't said anything dickish on it yet, and you made me laugh in mod mail. BUT I'M WATCHING YOU. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/12 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Adios, c-ya, good-bye man-o-sphere.Demonspawn wrote a nice definition of what constitutes leftism. It looks like you're actually a leftist. Sorry bro :-/ | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How can people think like this?Hi Magnified Where did you find this particular blog? I ask because it's been set up to troll men's rights groups. So I'd like to know who informed you about it, as their intentions are not so pure. I've removed it. Please do not link to this blog again. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 10:15 PM |
| 2 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.The editor, Mark Potok, is on the record as saying: It's false. We wrote about the subreddit Mens Rights, but we did not list it as a hate group | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Are we really advocating violence now? I've seen comments like this before, but never being so highly upvoted.He is. He just went and reported all of your comments. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 06:57 AM |
| -7 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.Fuck da police! | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 04:53 AM |
| 1 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.That's a false dichotomy. I'm not saying be submissive. I'm saying talking about murdering people is not the way. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 04:52 AM |
| 1 | This applies very well to feminism: "Because it styles itself as altruistic and egalitarian, it cannot be opposed, since to do so is to oppose all things that are sociable and lead to including everyone, playing well with others, us all getting along, peace and love, etc."tl;dr libruls are bad. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 02:33 AM |
| 7 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.Advocating for violence is unacceptable. It's both a Reddit rule, and a r/MensRights rule. This woman is clearly evil, and I sincerely hope karma exists. The solution is to reform the law and challenge feminism wherever it rears its ugly head. What she's done should be illegal. I think some of it is. She should be in prison for a very long time. Let's work towards a society where she faces justice. Until then, please watch what you write here. It's frustrating but I truly don't believe violence … | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 01:10 AM |
| 40 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.Reminder to everyone: Reddit is strict with their rules about advocating violence. Please be careful about what you're writing. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Are we really advocating violence now? I've seen comments like this before, but never being so highly upvoted.Warning. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 11:28 PM |
| -1 | Redditor shares his story on how he was blackmailed and raped by a female during his time in the military.As our discussions often boil down to, it's subjective. I see Truthman contributing very little to the sub, other than attacking members over their political affiliation. Snowflake tends to attack members over a much wider variety of issues. If we take the two, both are extremely belligerent, but Snowflake tends to argue for a wider range of issue, and therefore "contributes" more. Personally, I'd rather have neither of their contributions. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Redditor shares his story on how he was blackmailed and raped by a female during his time in the military.Still waiting for you to ban the obvious feminist trolls, and stop looking for excuses to ban MRAs. You're a feminist troll. Still want me to ban feminist trolls? | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 12:12 PM |
| 2 | User states feminism often ends up being anti-male. SRS shows up to educate everyone. "Reducing male privilege =/= anti-male"Ah yes, I must be thinking of SarahC. I agree. It was odd to suddenly enforce the rule after a mod from LGBT of all places send the PM. Well, syncretic has been removed now. That must be the most decisive action against a mod I've seen in a long time, so kudos to BEP for that. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 11:54 AM |
| 3 | User states feminism often ends up being anti-male. SRS shows up to educate everyone. "Reducing male privilege =/= anti-male"By the way, are you still banned from SubredditDrama? I saw your name pop up in that list of people who syncretic banned. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why other gender equality groups should be feminismBut... you just linked to an SRS sub. You know your mods have called men "fucking" disgusting" in the past, right? Another one posted part of the SCUM manifesto. Your members routinely deny men have any problems within society. How can you honestly claim that feminism is about equality? | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Misandry: case in pointErasmus is right. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 07:25 AM |
| 0 | Redditor shares his story on how he was blackmailed and raped by a female during his time in the military.Honestly, I agree. I would have banned Snowflake by now if it wasn't for Truthman et al.'s campaign for "free speech". They've been hammering us about not banning them, despite none of them being permanently banned, and a number of disturbing submissions and comments. We're not going to be applying the rules selectively. If Hamdizzle is allowed to say things like "you could always try to intentionally impregnate as many girls as possible... Ghetto men do it all the time" [discussion here], then … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 06:31 AM |
| -1 | Redditor shares his story on how he was blackmailed and raped by a female during his time in the military.From my perspective, you're a troll. In fact, I've had many PMs from regulars who feel the same. This means I've had far more complaints about your conduct than Snowflake. If you want me to ban people whenever someone complains, you'll be the first to go. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Ancient people did not engage in Bonobo-like sex after all, says scientific review of "Sex at Dawn"This is a hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Redditor shares his story on how he was blackmailed and raped by a female during his time in the military.Don't you remember? We had this big argument about FREEEEEE SPEEEEEEECH. Apparently it's cool when you want to be a bigot, but when you disagree with others, suddenly you want them banned. Truthman2000: a bastion of logical consistency. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 12:59 AM |
| 8 | I see a new low of sexism and objectifying women and humorless crap on /r/funny : circlebrokeI recently discovered r/circlebroke is just SRSlite. Check the users. They're basically all the same, complaining about the same things. I don't even know why they bother making new subreddits. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/12 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Crazy Landlord Assaults Man, Realizes It Was On Camera Then Acts Like He Raped HerPlease don't post personal information like this. It's against the Reddit rules. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/12 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Crazy Landlord Assaults Man, Realizes It Was On Camera Then Acts Like He Raped HerAs much as this woman deserves to be publicly shamed, Reddit is clear on the rules: no posting of personal information like this. Please stop. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/12 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Couples who delay sex longest are happiestYou and Celda are going to have to play the "haaaaaave you met Ignatius?" game. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/12 06:06 AM |
| -3 | Dependent feminism is bankrupting our countryIgnatiusloyola: feminist defender. Ignatius: Feminism is bad It's like you don't even read the comments before you reply. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/12 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Do muscles matter?That guy is in amazing shape. To hear him go on about how he doesn't really have big muscles is crazy. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 12:41 AM |
| -1 | A great quote to remember [x-post r/libertarian]I think we're just squabbling over definitions. My point was that I believe the extent to which we rely on others within our society is far greater than we may believe. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 05:13 AM |
| 1 | A great quote to remember [x-post r/libertarian]I think we're just squabbling over definitions. My point was merely that I believe we are far more dependent on others than we may realise. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Remember guys you're expected to read the minds of women, and if you can't, you're a creep.I always apply the reverse-sex test in these situations. SRS would have a collecting hernia over a woman thanking a strange man for hitting her. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 04:19 AM |
| 0 | A great quote to remember [x-post r/libertarian]Interaction means involving yourself in the society which enables you to do virtually everything you do. Almost nothing you do is possible without the cooperation of others. This literally means your ability to be an individual is dependent on the actions of others. Without them, you'd probably be dead. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 03:48 AM |
| -2 | A great quote to remember [x-post r/libertarian]Not really. Everything you do depends on the cooperation of others. Your ability to pretend to yourself you're an individual rests upon the actions of millions of others in your society. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Remember guys you're expected to read the minds of women, and if you can't, you're a creep.I particularly like the top comment in the bestof submission by whose_butt_hurts. Thanks for physically assaulting me! | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Alright, gentlemen, I'll admit I'm very hesitant to do this...You were caught in the spam filter so I approved this submission. As for everyone else, bear in mind this user's account has only been active for 11 days, and usually only posts in r/AskWomen and r/TwoXChromosomes. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Root gaming fires Destiny. This whole situation is wacky, feminist get up in arms and email bomb his sponsors claiming Destiny published pictures of a 15 year old girl. Turns out that never happened. (MIC)Committed by leftist regimes in pursuit of leftist goals. And "rightist" regimes in pursuit of "rightist" goals. Not at all. The French Revolution was an important step in modern feminism: While De Gouges and Roland believed women were owed rights, such opinions were not limited to this period and location in history. Such writers have been prevalent throughout history. It was only at turn of the 20th century and beyond, when processed food and other household conveniences became more common, th… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/12 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Root gaming fires Destiny. This whole situation is wacky, feminist get up in arms and email bomb his sponsors claiming Destiny published pictures of a 15 year old girl. Turns out that never happened. (MIC)Thanks mate. The Reign of Terror (and French Revolution) and the Ukrainian famine are both considered examples of poor economic policy, among many, many more factors. We could both make solid arguments for pretty much any political ideology in those periods, given the chaotic nature of their societies and the competing factions within. That said, since we're discussing a feminist slandering a man's name, bringing up the French Revolution is another example of what I consider way off topic. I und… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/12 03:30 AM |
| 2 | I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future.All women are lying, cheating whores. Warning. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/12 12:10 AM |
| 2 | "Fewer women than men are asked to write in the leading scientific journals." This must be bias, say feminist researchers.Ah, Sweden. Where their feminists want males to pee sitting down. They analysed data from a single journal, and somehow extrapolated that to represent all journals everywhere. This is the sort of top-down nonsense which invites ridicule. Invitations are sent out to prominent researches in their respective fields. Clearly more males dominate in the fields they're interested in. This isn't the journal's fault. It's not even necessarily a bad thing. Women tend to choose different career paths. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/12 06:37 AM |
| -4 | Root gaming fires Destiny. This whole situation is wacky, feminist get up in arms and email bomb his sponsors claiming Destiny published pictures of a 15 year old girl. Turns out that never happened. (MIC)Oh goody, it's Truthman randomly attacking people for no good reason again. Hey everyone, let's gather round while Truthman enlightens us on the pitfalls of them dumb libruls. He's so smart. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/12 01:26 AM |
| 1 | The most common sexual assault is inflicted on men, and hilarious! Put that bitch on a list.every time I suggest to people that using terms like that will not help our cause, I get a flood of downvotes and a huge slate of people saying "I will not play nice for the feminazis" and "You're just a feminist troll". That's the small community of "traditionalists" we have. They're only a handful, but they're extremely vocal. Ignore them. They're mostly bigoted. They generally want to maintain gender roles. If you disagree you're a "mangina/librul/lefty". | /r/MensRights | 30/08/12 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Feminist on pornogrpahyI already warned you about using this blog. It was clearly only set up for trolling purposes. Do not link to it again. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/12 11:05 PM |
| 1 | New Zealander complains to the Human Rights Commission over an art exhibition that bans men from seeing itMore discussion in the NZ subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/12 05:39 AM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] It appears GOOGLE fixed their "Rape" definition.The definition used to be "the crime, committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with him..." Google has now removed the definition altogether. Possibly permanently; possibly while they review it. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 05:36 AM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] It appears GOOGLE fixed their "Rape" definition.Yeah, I did. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | The word "objectify" is really just ridiculous.I see most of the use of the concept of "objectification" to be a demonization of male sexual desire. I agree. Much of feminism nowadays is simply demonization of masculinity, in all forms. Part of that is male sexuality. That's why feminists will go so far as to shame prostitutes, despite the fact that selling sex is pretty much the embodiment of sexual power and control. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Men, Who Needs Them? - NYTimes.comSince I would call a person who said "I thoroughly, utterly, completely loathe, loathe, loathe men" a misandrist, I'm gonna go ahead and call you a misogynist. No good can come from hating an entire sex. Men are not all alike, and neither are women. This piece is written by a sad, lonely asshole, and his views are not representative of all men or all women. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 05:23 AM |
| 1 | The "pull-out" birth control method can be as effective as the pill if executed properly. Perhaps it has been demeaned in popular culture because it grants the MAN reproductive control, unlike the female pill, while still allowing him full physical sensation, unlike a condom.Bearing in mind apparently I'm a Godless "Lefty", but this seems like really poor advice. Compared with condom use, it's twice as likely to fail with perfect use. With normal use, it has a 15-28% failure rate, vs just 10-18% for condoms. Advocating for men to become unintended fathers, and be forced to pay child support for 18 years? Yeah, that sounds like Truthman2000. Keep up the good work buddy. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 12:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"I remember this from another r/seduction post. Best response for a lot of these questions. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Australia doing it right: the Australian Men's Shed Association. Never even heard of it until now, but I think it's a pretty awesome idea to help older guys.Well, you're getting more creative. I have to give you that. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/12 05:07 AM |
| 1 | You shouldIs this any way for a lady to behave? | /r/MensRights | 24/08/12 09:58 PM |
| 0 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I think I was clear with the rationale for removing it: I think the article has some tangential merit, but the focus is clearly on "Negro" families and economic and political power. It doesn't even mention the words "man", "men", "male", or "father. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/12 10:24 AM |
| 0 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I think I was clear with the rationale for removing it: I think the article has some tangential merit, but the focus is clearly on "Negro" families and economic and political power. It doesn't even mention the words "man", "men", "male", or "father. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/12 06:30 AM |
| 0 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...You just circled back round to this post. We can do it again if you like. I'll start: Hi Totenglocke. I think you misread my comment. I didn't claim the article was racist. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/12 06:12 AM |
| 1 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...Yes, it was. I'm not sure what your point is. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/12 12:58 AM |
| 4 | moderate feminist anti-rape group speaks out for due process in Assange caseHonestly, if feminism did what it claimed to do, there wouldn't be a reason for the MRM. But it won't. The loud, supremacist arms will continue to dominate equality discussions on their behalf. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Just found this subreddit, and have some questions. First, do you feel that feminism in all forms is evil, and second, do you think that all feminists are bigots?Just like with feminism, you'll get conflicting opinions. Most of us are pretty reasonable. We want equality, and can recognize that some feminists want the same. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 10:43 AM |
| -3 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...To provide context for the current situation. I even said just that: for context | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 09:11 AM |
| 2 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I must have missed it. Would you mind sending another request through to the mods via mod mail? We'll look it over and discuss with you. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 09:09 AM |
| 0 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I think I was clear with the rationale for removing it: I think the article has some tangential merit, but the focus is clearly on "Negro" families and economic and political power. It doesn't even mention the words "man", "men", "male", or "father. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 07:54 AM |
| -1 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post..."The subscribers"? You mean you and your three racist friends? Sorry, cupcake, you don't get to tell the whole community what belongs and what doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 07:26 AM |
| -3 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I re-read my comment to be sure. I'm 100% sure you misread me. Would you quote just the part where I claim the article in question was racist? I should also clarify. I was aware of the author, and that didn't affect my decision at all. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 07:19 AM |
| -1 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...Thanks, that's very well put. I still feel he makes that correlative argument in order to support a very different premise. The mods are actually discussing what should constitute "off topic" right now. One of the questions is what portion of (how much of) an article should be related to men's rights in order for the entire article to be considered related. At the very least, I'm going to be moderating such articles with a lighter hand in future, and for the immediate future, I'll be leaving off… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 07:16 AM |
| 0 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...Hi Totenglocke. I think you misread my comment. I didn't claim the article was racist. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 07:04 AM |
| 1 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...We've discussed this ad nauseum. I'm not going to rehash it with you again. Besides, as you already said, I'm part of the "Leftist" conspiracy, so you wouldn't trust anything I say anyway. You shouldn't. We "Leftists" are sneaky. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 05:03 AM |
| -1 | 'De-Blackifying' a controversial post...I removed the submission. This was the article. As you know by now, I've always been a strong advocate for allowing the community to police itself when possible. However, for context, there's been a strong push from from Stormfront/r/whiterights users recently. We've had to remove a few submissions which I feel are not only unrelated to r/MensRights, but promote white nationalist ideas. I think the article has some tangential merit, but the focus is clearly on "Negro" families and economic and p… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to deal with MRA's who are using their activism to bash women?It is a bad thing, if you are an MRA. Of course, liberals like you don't consider primarily male paid taxes going to programs that mostly support women... but you're a liberal and not an MRA. This is what I'm talking about when I accuse you of injecting your ridiculous political constructs into every. fucking. discussion. You can never stick to the topic. It's always libruls this, and libruls that. Whenever someone disagrees with you they're a dirty liberal. At this point I'm seriously consideri… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/12 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to deal with MRA's who are using their activism to bash women?We regard Jeremiah as a troll through-and-through. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/12 11:39 AM |
| 2 | PostSecret.org: Secret "I'm tempted to tell my ex ..."Your account has been banned from Reddit proper. I suggest contacting the admins to discuss. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/12 11:26 AM |
| 1 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsYes - to all the posts. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 01:00 PM |
| -3 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?Hi duglock, please continue the discussion in the meta thread. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:50 PM |
| -1 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| -2 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| -2 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| 0 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| 0 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| 0 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:43 PM |
| -2 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsDiscussion continues in the meta submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:42 PM |
| -4 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?Continue this over in the meta thread. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesIt was just for us for a laugh :) | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 12:16 PM |
| -1 | Moderators violating mod rulesWait, are you saying we should remove the meta post?? Brilliant idea! | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Moderators violating mod rulesYour bias is showing. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Moderators violating mod rulesYou're right, it's great. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 09:25 AM |
| 9 | When crutches attack. Jerk who threatened MRA on poster run with crutches photograpedDissenting opinions are accepted and welcome here. Sarcasm and general trolling are not. This is a final warning to either contribute in some form, or not contribute at all. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:38 AM |
| 2 | When crutches attack. Jerk who threatened MRA on poster run with crutches photograpedI agree. I'm issuing them a final warning. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesThen by all means, add it to the existing submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesThe submission is still there, just as you left it. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesFeel free to continue this "I hate white people" dialog over in the meta discussion. Tell me more about my internalized racism. It's fascinating. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:26 AM |
| -3 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?Ah yes, when proven you're wrong, you fall back on insults. You can never be wrong in your imagined reality, can you? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:24 AM |
| -1 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsI think I'm getting an insight into how you think. You don't see the world as it is. You see it as you want to see it. It's an imagined reality, and you live in it. Instead of changing to fit your reality, you fight tooth and nail to change reality to fit your world. This makes this discussion moot. It doesn't matter how many studies I present, or how many reasoned replies I make, you won't ever, ever consider that you were wrong. If you'd like to continue this discussion, do so in meta. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:21 AM |
| -2 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?Yes, it was the correct meta/crosspost format. Yes, your format is correct, with one itty bitty ommission: no moderator approval. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:18 AM |
| -2 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?Ig is a mod. Ig gave that submission permission to be cross-posted. Are you medically retarded? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Moderators violating mod rulesOh, now you want to go back on topic? I can't keep up. First we're calling each other hurtful names, now you want to discuss something seriously. Whew, my tiny librul brain just can't keep up! | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:13 AM |
| -4 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsMen not being treated equally isn't a men's rights issue? My man, I have some bad news for you: you have no idea what the MRM is. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:11 AM |
| -5 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter Williamsawww.. Gareth is upset. Gareth don't know what to say. Gareth angry. This is the best rebuttal in the history of rebuttals. You're not doing your stereotype any favours. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:09 AM |
| -2 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsSilly me, gay people are "libruls", and the enemy, right? Boy gee golly whiz, you're so smart like, demonspawn. Seriously though, this borders on homophobia, and I don't need to remind you, that's not tolerated here. I'm sure there are other places where you can discuss your mutual hatred of scary cultural practices. This is not one of those places. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Moderators violating mod rulesIf you can't understand why we want to be treated equally, with respect in modern society, then that proves you aren't fit to be called an MRA. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:04 AM |
| -4 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?This is a proper meta cross post. I made a meta post, and I am allowed to cross post it to MR proper. This isn't how it works at all. The rules are clear in this regard: You must have moderator approval prior to cross-posting a meta post You didn't have prior mod approval. I'm going to say this one last time. Read the mod guide before telling me what it says. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Moderators violating mod rulesIt's near the top: Off-Topic: Off-topic submissions are those that have nothing to do with Men's Rights. Generally the poster will be notified and the post removed. Off-topic posts that hit the spam-filter may be left there without notice. Note that in general posts about SRS and related subreddits are off-topic. Have you read them? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:57 AM |
| -6 | [Meta] Why are moderators violating mod rules, and removing posts notifying MR proper that it is being done?One and only warning. If it happens again, it's a ban. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:56 AM |
| -8 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsAll that shows is that US "liberals" have a harder time understanding the motives of US "conservatives" than vice versa. Considering your confused diatribes, that's not surprising in the least. So, no, it appears that you not only don't understand how to cite things to support your point, you also can't read. It must be difficult, though that explains a lot. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Moderators violating mod rulesTake it to r/MensRightsMeta. You know the rules. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:48 AM |
| -2 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsNot banning, as I haven't seen any form of collaboration. However if the submission's focus isn't about sexual equality then I'll likely remove it. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:38 AM |
| -6 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsYes, who wants equality? CERTAINLY NOT EVERYONE HERE. Enjoy your ignorance. You wear it well. To reply in kind, I think this is where I call you a dumb, racist conservative. It's fun injecting mindless political demagoguery :) Do me again. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:33 AM |
| -4 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsTake your racist ranting and leave. No one wants you here. You're like an angry old man who hasn't been taught he isn't living in the 1930s anymore. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:10 AM |
| -4 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsAnd if the article had not separated "Negro" families from white families in its analysis, I may have allowed the submission to stand. It didn't, because that's not the focus of the article. Its focus is on comparisons between white and black cultures insofar as welfare is concerned. I'd also like to add a warning, and this isn't up for discussion. I've had to remove several race-based submissions in the last few days. This marks a spike for us. Additionally, despite the submissions being remove… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 05:07 AM |
| -7 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsIf you're done, leave. Get out. I'm tired of the posturing. Oh, you don't like me calling you names and making unfounded accusations? If you stop, so will I. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 04:54 AM |
| -5 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsYou must be new to Reddit. When a person clicks the "reply" button to a comment, they're replying to the user, not the person who submitted the content. The more you know :) | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 04:51 AM |
| -6 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsOr why racists shouldn't be allowed to co-opt the men's rights movement. They make us all look like bigots. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 03:13 AM |
| -6 | "In 1940, 86 percent of black children were born inside marriage... Today, only 35 percent of black children are born inside marriage. It began in the 1960s with the War on Poverty and the harebrained ideas of the welfare state." -Black economist Walter WilliamsThat's not the content of submission. In fact, it doesn't even mention the word "father", which means, while your impassioned plea for fathers is touching, it doesn't reflect what you submitted at all. I do define what belongs here, and race equality is not an issue which we deal with. Please take it to r/whiterights, or any other subreddit which focuses on racial equality and racial issues. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Well I did not know that thinking men have rights meant this...This is a troll blog, set up by one of SuicideBanana's friends over the last couple of days. Please do not link to it. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Any Quebec'er/ French Canadian around here ? Thought you might enjoy the content of this site (in canadian french)Better suited to somewhere like r/seduction then. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Victim Kabuki DanceYeah, someone playing a victim. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Why paternity testing is misogyny; a woman's right to choose.Interesting. As it was posted very recently - and this is the only post by this tumblr - you must have some dedicated friends. I suggest not posting links from them in future, as they're clearly trolling you. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Victim Kabuki DanceI expect you to hold to that next time AVfM is brought up in other submissions. I'd hate to see you being inconsistent. I don't see the connection here with men's rights at all. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:52 AM |
| 12 | MRA challenge to fraudulent feminist "hero": show me the proof, and be rid of me forever!If you're not going to add anything constructive to the discussion, don't add anything at all. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:49 AM |
| 0 | Applications from white men no longer accepted at SA AirwaysI've removed this submission. Please resubmit from your main account. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Any Quebec'er/ French Canadian around here ? Thought you might enjoy the content of this site (in canadian french)It has been spam filtered, but I note phrases like "psycho chienne nord américaine". This doesn't seem conducive to men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Victim Kabuki DanceFor someone with an outspoken hatred for AVfM, why are you posting their content? | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Why paternity testing is misogyny; a woman's right to choose.How did you come across this blog, exactly? | /r/MensRights | 19/08/12 12:39 AM |
| 2 | The Gender Pay Gap is a Complete Myth - CBS NewsKeep it civil. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/12 12:24 AM |
| 10 | TwoX on r/mensrights: "I haven't actually seen a large group of reasonable MRAs, especially not here on Reddit."I'm flattered, and I stand by that comment. People who come here calling us rapists and pedophiles do not deserve a voice. I'm unaware of any political ideologies which require the adherents to believe all MRAs are rapists and pedophiles. Edit: Oh look, you're from shitredditsays. Well colour me crazy and slap me silly, who would have thought? | /r/MensRights | 16/08/12 02:38 AM |
| 12 | "Reddit is full of MRAs and Rape apologist" -Katie J.M. BakerThey say hateful things about us, so people, naturally being curious, check us out. Instead of the women-haters club, they find some reasonable discussion about things which need to change in society. They subscribe. Repeat. All this bad press these feminists are giving us is really good press. Our comments and submissions are all the rebuttal we need. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/12 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Nurse 'Humiliated' By Qantas PolicyThanks, I'll take a look. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/12 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Nurse 'Humiliated' By Qantas PolicyThis is because whilst some behaviour is explicitly gendered, very little, if any, behaviour can be proven to be directly caused because of race. If you wouldn't mind providing some proof for these two assertions. It seems we're talking about a continuum in both cases. Society encourages certain behaviour based on gender and race. I would argue that cultural heritage and behavioural patterns are just as powerful as gendered behaviour, if not more so. In fact, cultural behaviour dictates how gend… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Nurse 'Humiliated' By Qantas PolicyIf I understand you correctly, this justifies almost any form of discrimination, so long as statistical evidence can be shown? This justifies denying entry to black people everywhere from restaurants to buses based on the increased statistical likelihood they will commit assault. Am I understanding your argument correctly? | /r/MensRights | 14/08/12 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Today I got confronted for being in public with my kids without a woman with me.Aaaaaand banned. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/12 07:20 AM |
| 3 | TheCynicalCynicism on YouTube - Political MisandrySome pretty reasonable critiques. In the interest of fairness, part 2, where he critiques the left wing of the US political spectrum. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/12 10:24 PM |
| 16 | My mom said I was going to be circumcised, “While they were down there.” I begged her not toGuys, we did we have to turn this into a competition? Both are bad. Thread over. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | A man posts studies about most rapists having being sexually molested by women. Gets called a rapist.Linking to SRS is not allowed. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/12 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Janet Napolitano-run Homeland Security treated male staffers like lapdogs, federal discrimination lawsuit charges.Hi OuiCrudites You're new, so you may not know the problems we've been having. A small group of very vocal traditionalists have been attacking members using some ludicrous US political scale. Their mantra goes something like "those damn Leftists". The MRM is diverse, and comprises members from all over the world, from many different political backgrounds. We don't tolerate attacking members over their political beliefs, particularly not a seemingly contrived spectrum based in the US. I ask you t… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 09:22 PM |
| 3 | I just learned that every girl I work with thinks I'm a total creep. FML.Here's my experience with women in a given social environment; work, for example. They pay a lot of attention to perceived social hierarchies. Part of that attention is actively and passively enforcing that hierarchy. In order for someone to be at the top, there must be someone at the bottom. Unfortunately you are that man, for now. Labels like "creep" are mostly irrelevant in your situation. They're simply comparing you to other male colleagues and giving you a role. If it wasn't you, it would … | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Things you like to do, as a manFuck off and die, faggot While you make a compelling case, the ban stands. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Things you like to do, as a manOnce again, if you'd like to submit content like this, you'll do it under your main account. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 01:53 AM |
| 3 | [Crosspost from TIL] Women were nearly twice as likely as men to perpetrate domestic violenceBatten down the hatches. This is gonna be a level five shitstorm. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Just been wondering this for a while, but isn't r/Mensrights somewhat becoming like r/feminism?Is there such a thing? A completely separate movement for solely women's rights, and that's how they advocate themselves? Apart from the last part, this sounds like feminism. It would be great if they didn't pretend to advocate for men, but they like to monopolize equality discussions. For all intents and purposes, feminism is a women's rights movement. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Manly things to do?Please don't post these types of submissions from throw away accounts. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 08:49 AM |
| 7 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!You jump to a less likely conclusion. Gender is a powerful identity construct. Emasculating a man attempts to strip him of his identity; what he sees as positive traits. This is exactly the same for women. Women being ascribed masculine traits is also considered insulting for the same reason. It doesn't mean each gender hates the other, just that they value their personal identity. It's a healthy, natural response. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 07:33 AM |
| 8 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!You haven't given me any evidence for why the abundance of the terms "grow a pair" and "cojones" indicates your assertion. You've given me your belief. Perhaps "grow a pair" is so ubiquitous because it's used so often to emasculate men in a society which generally feels men are inferior? I can go toe to toe with social "analysis" like this, which is why I asked for facts. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 06:30 AM |
| 4 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!I don't have enough data to agree or disagree. Yes, I've seen some men presumed to have courage, and some women presumed to be cowards, but I've also seen the reverse. I don't see how you can say that's a constant without any evidence. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 05:52 AM |
| 5 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!Let's stick to facts. Give citations. I'll start. Men comprise the majority of homeless people. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 05:35 AM |
| 6 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!grow a pair I'm not a big fan of this gender shaming bullshit. If you're trying to shame us into agreeing with you by playing on tired gender stereotypes, you've come to the wrong place. We're all pretty comfortable with our sexuality, and understand our consigned roles within society. Let's play a game. You give me an example of a social disadvantage women experience in America (statistically speaking), and I'll give you an example of a social disadvantage men face. Facts only. We play until on… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 05:22 AM |
| 18 | Just been wondering this for a while, but isn't r/Mensrights somewhat becoming like r/feminism?I understand the confusion. The distinction is this: men's rights doesn't purport to advocate for both men and women (as feminism claims to). Rather, as the name clearly states, we're solely interest in men's rights. That doesn't preclude the fact that most MRAs are egalitarians. On the contrary. The reason we don't focus on women's issues is because we feel feminism already does that very, very well. We feel that men's issues have been completely ignored, hence the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 04:19 AM |
| 9 | /r/MR POLL RESULTS!!!Haha. I've been hearing from a lot of gay/bisexual men that they feel disenfranchised with feminism. It claims to represent the gay community, while simultaneously alienating and attacking men. In men's rights they actually find true egalitarianism. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Dear MR, I was sent this chat log by a member of SRD. Please read it and reconsider publicizing our personal information. I am appealing to you on a human level, regardless of our stances on gender issues.Hi Meg We don't condone the publishing of personal information. We usually remove such information on sight. As mods, we are unable to control the behaviour of every single member - if indeed these are the actions of a member. I have removed this submission, as per our rules. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/12 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Woman here. I purposely didn't sit next to a man on the train today. And I'm not sexist.Post removed. If you want to post inflammatory content with no substance then you will have the fortitude to do it with your main account. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/12 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Interesting comments from Hestia, a female MRAThat's Jeremiah too? That makes a hell of a lot of sense. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/12 05:45 AM |
| 5 | /r/MensRights Demographics Poll!! [http://is.gd/MRMpoll]Yes please. Use mod mail ("message the moderators" on the right side panel). | /r/MensRights | 06/08/12 03:05 AM |
| 19 | /r/MensRights Demographics Poll!! [http://is.gd/MRMpoll]You can't, which is why I have been hesitant to allow this to proceed. Ultimately, I want the community to decide, but I would appreciate it if you could please give a copy of the results to the mods to review before you publish them. You have no idea how many trolls are itching for the opportunity to mess with this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/12 02:33 AM |
| 11 | "The male socio-sexual psyche is in need of a dramatic...overhaul to clean itself of...violent privilege."It means the person who wrote it is a supremacist. They genuinely believe women are better than men, and seek to harm men. These people are lunatics, and anyone giving them a forum or serious consideration implies acceptance in these insane rantings. I would say the same thing if this comment was from one of our members on "the female socio-sexual psyche". | /r/MensRights | 06/08/12 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How To Attract Girl Using Role PlaysI have no idea what these three comments mean but I laughed anyway. What is going on? | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else here who's bisexual just prefer to date guys?Alright, so this crosses that line. This is a warning, and I'm going to be watching you very closely. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/12 02:32 AM |
| 2 | We Have Just Broke 42 000 Readers.At this rate we'll easily pass 50,000 before the end of the year. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/12 04:19 AM |
| 2 | We Have Just Broke 42 000 Readers.I joined when there were a few thousand. Not sure how many. I think that makes you my boss? | /r/MensRights | 04/08/12 04:18 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend seems like she's bipolar.Just a notice. We should always be suspicious about throw-aways. Turns out this one was brought up by none other than JeremiahGuy just a few hours after this submission was posted. Take that how you will. At this point, JeremiahGuy is considered a full-blown troll. He has no interest in men's rights whatsoever, and seems dedicated to undermining the cause entirely. If you see any posts which you suspect are his sock puppets - these include posts making allusions to "those damn Leftists" - please… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/12 10:21 PM |
| 1 | An Exercise in Inherent Female Greed via Briffault's law and FeminismThis is a terrible title. There is no "inherent female greed". | /r/MensRights | 03/08/12 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Ask men gold: a poster explains in good detail why so many people don't like feminism.There has been a considerable amount of anti-semitism on mensrights over the circumcision issue I'm going to ask you to substantiate that. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/12 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.With anxiety problems you should not have been prescribed a noradrenal agonist. This is what I was talking about when I said doctors don't understand what they're prescribing. They get fat commission cheques and they think all anti-depressants are the same. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 06:19 AM |
| 0 | Mothers get 3 chances to opt out. Abortion, abandonment, and adoption. All legal options that completely remove parental responsibility. Men get 0. Since it's a mother's choice, shouldn't she be the one who pays for it?There is no reason to generalize all women this way. Feminism promotes this idea that all work is equally valuable. Most women I know are pretty damn rational about the situation. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/12 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.I can't tell you to go against the recommendations of your doctor, but if you do experience the (really pretty serious) withdrawal symptoms, please go back and see her and suggest a slower withdrawal. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.Very common. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 09:56 PM |
| 14 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.Effexor is not a mild one. Venlafaxine is a serotonin and adrenal reuptake inhibitor. While a deficit of serotonin, while tapering off, is manageable, a deficit of adrenaline is much harder to compensate for. We're talking everything from dizziness and disorientation to memory problems and blackouts. You must taper off much more slowly when using a SNRI, despite whatever your doctor has said. Effexor has a huge lobby in the US, and doctors are regularly enticed to prescribe the stuff, despite no… | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Why we need the MRM. My friend's ex wife has kidnapped his kid, and fled to Ireland in violation of a court agreement.Warning. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/12 08:06 AM |
| -1 | 15-year old girl who took offense at the suggestion her ailing/aging dog should be euthanized ruins a man's life a la Sex Offender Registry RouletteWarning. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/12 08:00 AM |
| -9 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?That's fair. If you're unhappy in the current relationship, and the new person seems like a much better fit, then I guess it makes sense. It's a matter of degree. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 03:25 AM |
| -21 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.Jinkies, we've been had! And again. So this is a submission about a submission about a submission about a comment. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 03:20 AM |
| 10 | The dark side?Join the dark side. We have cookies and equal rights! | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 03:10 AM |
| -7 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.Bingo. Play to the audience, not the troll. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 02:40 AM |
| -9 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.Haha, yes, absolutely. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 01:36 AM |
| -6 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.It is now, but this is really a recent development. I guess I'd like to shift everything back to the middle. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 01:36 AM |
| -13 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.It kinda happened overnight. Everything was pretty neutral and then a month or two ago, BAM. I'd like the old SRD back. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 01:34 AM |
| -13 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.And fair enough. Not everyone likes the drama. For me, I like to get into discussions with people, all over Reddit. I feel strongly about men's rights, and I like to make sure people understand the cause. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 01:16 AM |
| -15 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.Because of their impact on discussions. Follow the featured link. EvilPundit's karma is so low now that the comment is hidden. The comment tree is a mess. These submissions happen all over Reddit, and they frequently involve gender disparities. If this community is driven by feminists, they simply become another SRS - except they'll also attract a much wider audience of moderates. I suggest we act as a counter-weight. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 12:52 AM |
| -26 | r/SubredditDrama. Subscribe.We're being featured more frequently now. I'm not saying SRS and other feminist users have all subscribed to r/SubredditDrama, but submissions like this give me a strong suspicion. Well, if they're going to have their say, we may as well too. Subscribe. I've been subscribed for a while now and it's actually pretty useful to keep up with Reddit politics and conflicts. With the number of SRS/feminisms/MR features popping up, there will be no shortage of various lies and misconceptions to correct. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?Relationships are what you make of them. The fundamental connection involves trust and commitment. The truth is that with 3.5 billion people of the opposite sex out there, there is always someone better, if you look. This means that if you're the type of person to leave your partner whenever a better option becomes available, you will always find another Mr. Right. You will never be happy. Cajamian is right. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Fellow MRA's I am at the end of my rope. I'm done. Fucking DONE.Banned. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/12 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Banned for arguing for equality. Thanks.Hi Please message the mods if you have any questions or disputes about bans. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 29/07/12 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Never Forget: Twenty Years In Prison For Having Sex With His WifeYou've been a busy little troll. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/12 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Fellow MRA's I am at the end of my rope. I'm done. Fucking DONE.Warning. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/12 12:19 AM |
| 2 | More feminist BS on Google: Celebrating female archers while ignoring male everythingFail troll | /r/MensRights | 28/07/12 10:27 AM |
| 1 | My blog. Let me know if you'd like to contributeHi James I've removed this submission. This subreddit is for discussing men's rights, and we will not open up the floor for race based discussions and content. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 28/07/12 05:54 AM |
| 7 | "but if you had even a shred of decency, you'd realise that it's infinitely better that you've been put through this [false rape accusation] (and came out scot-free, I might remind you) than for an actual rape to go unpunished"The thread wasn't really about false rape accusations or sexual assault victims. It was about the people doing the sexual assault. Inasmuch, there was a lot of off-topic conversation from both sides. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/12 12:52 AM |
| 5 | "but if you had even a shred of decency, you'd realise that it's infinitely better that you've been put through this [false rape accusation] (and came out scot-free, I might remind you) than for an actual rape to go unpunished"It's not really random when it's highly upvoted in a major sub in a submission on the front page. A hell of a lot of ignorant users were required to do that. Arguing against that mentality seems sensible to me. I do respect your position, however. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 10:04 PM |
| 12 | "but if you had even a shred of decency, you'd realise that it's infinitely better that you've been put through this [false rape accusation] (and came out scot-free, I might remind you) than for an actual rape to go unpunished"My major concern with linking is when we generally overpower discussion in smaller subs. Then it can be a problem. This sub has millions of users. It will be seen by users across every spectrum on Reddit. Viewing and commenting by our users is therefore normal and expected. Sometimes users say ignorant and sexist things. Correcting them isn't necessarily bad. The problem occurs when that becomes our focus, or when our perception of ignorant and sexist becomes warped. We hope to avoid that by all… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't Grapeban... banned? Every other post is attack an MRA, attacking men's rights, or spewing feminist filth. That's trolling.Crossing the line: misrepresenting this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 09:36 PM |
| 44 | "but if you had even a shred of decency, you'd realise that it's infinitely better that you've been put through this [false rape accusation] (and came out scot-free, I might remind you) than for an actual rape to go unpunished"I lost it when I read that. I haven't been this angry in a while. How fucking dare she say something like that. He didn't go to jail so I guess there were absolutely no consequences! The whole thread is worth reading and commenting on. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Partial evidence that every moderator of r/LadyMRAs may not be for the Men's Rights MovementBoth 1 and 2 are good points. I think that the original premise was less feminist and more men's rights. But vegibowl wasn't shy about her penchant for egalitarianism; and she was clear she didn't have the same aversion to feminism. Nothing wrong with being cautious. We've had plenty of feminist organisations and groups try to "educate" us unwashed masses. The Good Men Project comes to mind. That said, it's pretty clear from the submissions and discussions that they have a genuine interest in me… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 11:14 AM |
| 1 | r/MensRights moderators are on a campaign to silently ban new users who disagree with their political views while hiding away the discussion about it in the meta sub-reddit that only a small percentage reads.We're definitely on the same page. It's difficult to walk the line between open discourse and the crap Hamdizzle was "joking" about. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 08:37 AM |
| 2 | r/MensRights moderators are on a campaign to silently ban new users who disagree with their political views while hiding away the discussion about it in the meta sub-reddit that only a small percentage reads.I even agreed to undo the ban when he explained it was just a "joke". I'm beginning to think this user is really just a troll looking to stir up drama. That was my gut reaction, and these sorts of posts just confirm it. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 07:59 AM |
| 1 | r/MensRights moderators are on a campaign to silently ban new users who disagree with their political views while hiding away the discussion about it in the meta sub-reddit that only a small percentage reads.Removed. Take your drama to r/MensRightsMeta. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 07:55 AM |
| 19 | Partial evidence that every moderator of r/LadyMRAs may not be for the Men's Rights MovementHonestly, I've spoken with vegibowl on many occasions, and feel she's got her head screwed on tight, and has her heart in the right place. I've got a lot of confidence in her abilities. Remember: this is their forum, and they're advocating for male issues. Maybe they don't do it the way you want it to be done, but they're still a group of women advocating for issues which affect men, and that's much more than you see any other gender group doing. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't Grapeban... banned? Every other post is attack an MRA, attacking men's rights, or spewing feminist filth. That's trolling.I edited it for clarity. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Why isn't Grapeban... banned? Every other post is attack an MRA, attacking men's rights, or spewing feminist filth. That's trolling.We're watching. But she hasn't crossed that line yet. She appears to be arguing in earnest, even if usually against the flow. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 09:12 PM |
| 7 | This girl has been trying to tell my friends that male opinions are universally invalid. I don't know how to compose a response. Can someone help?This is a great argument because it also exposes her argument for what feminists seem to hate: evolutionary psychology. Most feminists subscribe to the idea of tubula rasa: the idea that all humans are born free from innate behavior. She's basically reinforcing the notion that tabula rasa is baloney. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Well, shit. Please ReadHi Please message me from your main account before I approve this submission. Thanks Gareth | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 05:16 AM |
| 3 | This is how /r/feminism responds to people who may disagree with them. This was the top comment. Wow.Warning. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 12:57 AM |
| 8 | A great comment by griffer00 on male emotional communication.Wow. That analysis is incredible. It really hit a nerve for me. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend stole my sperm and now I have to support the child, any advice?Hi Mario I'll need you to message me from your main account before I approve this submission again. Thanks Gareth | /r/MensRights | 23/07/12 06:57 AM |
| -1 | The Aurora Shooter: Who needs Feminists to stigmatize men when we have vagina-pedestaling MRAs and PUAs doing it for them?One and only warning. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/12 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Two teen girls abduct, torture, and sexually assault autistic boy. Hardly any mention in the media. Imagine if the genders were reversed.One and only warning. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/12 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Even among my friends.... (I unfriended her) ((I'm the one not painted over)) [facebook screen]Why is that the ideal? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/12 11:08 PM |
| 7 | The radfem conquest of SwedenI get sexual pleasure from pleasuring my partner. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/12 03:41 AM |
| 6 | The radfem conquest of SwedenSee, while I can appreciate your strict adherence to your beliefs, this is something I could never agree with you on. I see a massive difference between violent sexual assault, and waking your partner up to a sexual act which you believe they'll enjoy. Perhaps there's a misunderstanding, and they don't, but such an incident should be akin to a slap on the wrist. It should never be charged in the same category as violent assault. Not enough distinctions are drawn between the various kinds of sexu… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/12 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Aussie PM in denial as her support amongst Males drops to all time lowHe was definitely offered legal aid. I met his lawyer. I just can't be sure of the name of the organization. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/12 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Another annoying trend I've noticedI warned you. You're outta here. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/12 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Aussie PM in denial as her support amongst Males drops to all time lowI strongly agree, but I'm not sure what the answer is. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/12 12:25 AM |
| 1 | "To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize." ~VoltaireWe don't believe all males are dominant to all females. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Aussie PM in denial as her support amongst Males drops to all time lowOff the top of my head, my mother's cousin was given a lot of aid (including legal) by (I think) the Men's Rights Agency. My sister's group of churches all gave a sermon on the nuclear family when the discussion about the law was going on. She gave me the impression a lot of Christians were unhappy, when they actually heard about the law change. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 12:39 PM |
| 0 | I had this impression that Men's Rights and Feminism are working towards the same ideal- am I missing something?Just like with feminism, there is no central authority on who may label themselves an MRA. There are idiots on both sides, unfortunately. But right now, the idiots within feminism have a hell of a lot more power than the idiots within men's rights. I mean, they're writing laws. So for now, I think it makes sense to focus on the idiots within feminism. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 10:18 AM |
| 1 | [POLL] How many conservatives vs liberals on this subreddit?Ditto. It seems crazy to me that people buy into an ideology and blindly follow it. Some things about liberalism appeal to me; some things about conservatism appeal to me. Hell, some things about Buddhism appeal to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 10:12 AM |
| 6 | I was recently banned from r/SRSWomen for defending another manAnything which ends in "make me a sandwich" kinda loses you the high ground, don't you think? Also using "bitch", and implying women can't do things like fix stuff around the house makes you come off like an ass. That's really not a good way to get your point across. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 10:09 AM |
| 4 | Aussie PM in denial as her support amongst Males drops to all time lowI have family in Australia and this went largely unnoticed by the public. Unfortunately it was a huge blow to men's rights. Thankfully there are a lot of religious and conservative movements in Australia with a lot of clout that really lambasted the PM over this move. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I really can't go anywhere online without seeing some passive-aggressive attack on male spaces hinting that women are better than men.They be trollin. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 03:04 AM |
| 2 | This feminist article calls A Voice for Men - "a US hate site"Yes, as that's the only image he believed he was challenged on. As he explained, he didn't properly review the image to begin with. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:51 AM |
| 5 | This feminist article calls A Voice for Men - "a US hate site"Apparently it's not free speech when you're using someone else's property. Also, turns out it wasn't a violation of the TOS. Hueypriest reversed his decision. You were wrong. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:45 AM |
| 4 | This feminist article calls A Voice for Men - "a US hate site"I actually only found out about that drama a few minutes ago (after the warning). If I had seen it before giving you that warning, I would have banned you. For the record, "MRAs. JUST. LIKE. GHANDI." is considered trolling, and any similar comments, or variations thereof, will earn you a ban. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Apparently the Reddit admins believe that Twitter is to be treated the same as Facebook - names must be blanked out, no direct links.Thanks for re-approving it. I can imagine you have to deal with a hell of a lot of requests like that, and it's understandable that you can't spend a lot of time on each one. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:28 AM |
| 3 | This feminist article calls A Voice for Men - "a US hate site"Warning. If you're trolling, you're not welcome. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:15 AM |
| 4 | the non-profit Feminist Majority Foundation's website, feminism.org, has gotten hacked and absolutely destroyed by 4chan.As fun as having you around is, you're kind of a dick. Be less of a dick please. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Don't let prudes ruin sexual banter: why unwanted sexual attention isn't the same as sexual harrassmentYou got caught in the spam filter for some reason. I pulled it out. You play nice now, faux. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/12 04:18 AM |
| 1 | So you think you're superior?No problem. Sorry if I came off a little harsh. I've been dealing with trolls all day. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/12 02:01 AM |
| 2 | So you think you're superior?Any content which involves "Now go make me a sandwich" will not only be removed, but will earn you a ban. Feel free to critique feminism all you like, but don't you dare attack the amazing women who post here. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/12 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Fairfax pays teacher Lanigan, falsely accused of abuse, $72,838 in legal fees. Witnesses told Lanigan had reprimanded the 12 yo girl and she told them: “Mr. Lanigan’s a jerk. I’m going to make him pay.”. Jury took 47 minutes to acquit Lanigan of both charges.I would find the address of those police and create fliers and newspaper ads the same same effect. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/12 10:34 AM |
| 1 | The Power of Jewish lobby: Money came from Europe, U.S. and Israel to finance the necessary lobbyists and lawyers to tackle German circumcision decision. One multimillionaire alone paid €10 million.Your anecdote doesn't really follow. Why do you hate all Jews? Surely you mean only the hyper-orthodox Hasidics who promoted that silly exercise. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/12 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Traditionalism and chivalry = the other feminismNot a great title, but it's a pretty interesting discussion of contemporary masculinity. Edit: The commentary by barbarosa after the interview is very interesting. I don't agree with everything he says, but he's extremely well spoken and raises a lot of great ideas. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/12 02:23 AM |
| 0 | X-Post from r/AtheismThe submission. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 11:11 PM |
| 3 | True Egalitarianism from r/feminismThat is troubling. Thanks for the info. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Why are women allowed to vote?Haha, banned. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 09:22 AM |
| 4 | True Egalitarianism from r/feminismThe mods in r/feminism are nothing if not fair. I've been banned in r/feminisms but not r/feminism. That says a lot. This should go without saying, but please be respectful in a feminist community where we aren't automatically banned. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 07:43 AM |
| 2 | "Court decision outlawing religious circumcision is worst attack on Jewish life since the Holocaust" (European conference of rabbis & its president Pinchas Goldschmidt). It is a sign that Jews have to leave Germany. German court had valued child's right to self determination above religious freedomI may be wrong, but there are many different types of libertarians. A lot of them believe in some form of protection of assets and bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Most feminists are not bigots. Most feminists are bigot-enablers.It is to anyone who asks. Otherwise what do you propose? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Most feminists are not bigots. Most feminists are bigot-enablers.There is no central authority on who may call themselves an MRA. Just like there is no official authority on who may call themselves a feminist. This leads to all sorts of vilification of both movements. It is unavoidable. The most we can do is tell people we do no associate with the likes of Manhood Academy when they ask. We will not start prefacing all our comments with "BEFORE YOU THINK WE'RE MISOGYNISTS, PLEASE NOTE WE DO NOT ASSOCIATE WITH THE MANHOOD ACADEMY ET AL." | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:08 AM |
| 3 | "Court decision outlawing religious circumcision is worst attack on Jewish life since the Holocaust" (European conference of rabbis & its president Pinchas Goldschmidt). It is a sign that Jews have to leave Germany. German court had valued child's right to self determination above religious freedomStrange comparison. See, in SRS, you would have been banned, ohhhh, three hours ago. Here, the most you'll receive are some downvotes. You can speak your mind here; you can't do that in SRS subs. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:05 AM |
| 2 | "Court decision outlawing religious circumcision is worst attack on Jewish life since the Holocaust" (European conference of rabbis & its president Pinchas Goldschmidt). It is a sign that Jews have to leave Germany. German court had valued child's right to self determination above religious freedomI think he said the exact opposite. The problem you seem to have is that you believe the baby doesn't count as a person. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Congrats on 40,000 subs everyone!I just had a look at the parent comment. Your Reddit-fu is impressive. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/12 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Congrats on 40,000 subs everyone!It's better, but it's still no Google. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Congrats on 40,000 subs everyone!Lol, good luck with that! | /r/MensRights | 14/07/12 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Congrats on 40,000 subs everyone!This is as far back as we can go. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/12 10:33 AM |
| 9 | Congrats on 40,000 subs everyone!I'd just like to take this opportunity to say you guys and gals are awesome :D | /r/MensRights | 14/07/12 10:19 AM |
| 1 | What It Takes to Be an Attractive ManI think I did interpret your comment strangely, but perhaps you did the same for my original comment. I didn't mean to imply I could build muscle on a calorie deficit. But, yes, some people do absorb more nutrients (and total calories), and process them at different rates, than others. For example this study shows a link between total caloric absorption and composition of intestinal microbes. Just imagine the impact the physical composition of the intestinal tract has on absorption. | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 04:53 AM |
| -2 | What It Takes to Be an Attractive ManI don't know anyone who takes nutrition and exercise seriously who places any weight into the three categories of body type you listed. They're far too broad, and aren't really based on any kind of science. As for homeostatic metabolism, surely you're aware that there are hundreds of individual factors which combine to form one's BMR? Exercise and diet are two, but everything from the proportion of slow-twitch and fast-twitch muscles, to relative size, to how efficient each mitochondrion is on t… | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 04:22 AM |
| -2 | What It Takes to Be an Attractive ManLet's say it's equally important, depending on body type. I tend to absorb a lot more nutrients than you skinny types, so I don't have to consume as many calories (or as many grams of protein) per day. | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Finally over my oneitis!I feel you man. I'm kinda there right now. The truth is there are a hundred million girls hotter than she is. If you look at her objectively, you'll see she's not perfect. Write down all her faults and look at it every time you feel down. Next time aim for someone without those faults. But in the mean time work on yourself. Since you sound like you're hurting in much the same way I am, this goal helped: you want to be desirable. You want to feel like it doesn't matter she left you. Trust me: you… | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 01:03 PM |
| 1 | For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)?I switch it up depending on how I'm feeling and which exercise I'm doing. Typically between 1 minute and 1.30 off, 30 seconds on. If I've had a late night I sometimes stretch it out to 2 mins off. I do 20-25 mins. When I'm going for longer I don't bother with HIIT. | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Straight guy has strangers force themselves upon him in a gay bar, commenters play down the incident because "this happens to women all the time". Typical anti-male attitude.Ah, thank you, now I understand why he was so prickly: his comment was downvoted. It appears he mischaracterized OP's position. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 12:11 PM |
| 1 | For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)?The hard part for me is getting into a routine. Once I'm there it's great, but I can't let it slip. It's that first week or so getting back into a routine which sucks, but it's worth it. Also do some reading and talk to the instructors when you first start out. This might save you some time: 1 hour x 4-5 days a week is perfect. Don't just focus on losing fat. You also want to gain muscle, as this makes you look better, feel better (boosts testosterone), and burns for calories. Dont just focus on… | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Man loses all rights to see his children, sentenced to five years imprisonment after calling judge out on wrongful procedures.Haha, quite. I should probably have worded that better. I think the laws should be able to be interpreted by anyone who posesses basic reading comprehension. For those who don't, they could be appointed someone. But these appointees wouldn't need to be anything more than average citizens. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Man loses all rights to see his children, sentenced to five years imprisonment after calling judge out on wrongful procedures.The goal is to eliminate the requirement for lawyers. I don't see why they would be required given the above, unless the person is below average intelligence. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Man loses all rights to see his children, sentenced to five years imprisonment after calling judge out on wrongful procedures.There are many solutions, and such a plan would likely require many of them. One is the adoption of a central governing body over the use of words. With such control, words can be extremely accurately described, and they can resist semantic drift. Much of law already relies on common meaning. Another solution is the conscious simplification in the creation of laws. For example, in one of our relatively simple acts, the Crimes Act (New Zealand), many sections and subsection rely on exclusions, in… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 04:07 AM |
| 2 | I don't want to have sex, it's your fault! You don't want to have sex? It's your fault!Yeah, even if she won't listen it's probably worth suggesting it. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 03:52 AM |
| 2 | I don't want to have sex, it's your fault! You don't want to have sex? It's your fault!I agree, but thanks to society's perception of open relationships, this is unlikely to happen any time soon. Further, people like her either internalize the issue, avoiding proactive solutions; or externalize them by blaming her boyfriend, pretending she need not find a solution. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 03:27 AM |
| 1 | George Takei just started a circumcision shitstorm on facebook. Most of the comments are pretty good, but there are quite a few nutcases on it.4,500 comments and no way to sort or order them. Facebook is just terrible for that sort of thing. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Man loses all rights to see his children, sentenced to five years imprisonment after calling judge out on wrongful procedures.I have often felt that ordinary citizens cannot be expected to follow the law if they are not expected to be able to understand it. We need multiple year qualifications to be considered fit to interpret and apply the law - so what right do we have to expect citizens to do so? Instead, I firmly believe we need a radical overhaul of the common law system. Laws must be written in plain language, simple enough for the average citizen to understand. As precedent is set, those laws must be re-written … | /r/MensRights | 13/07/12 01:50 AM |
| -2 | Straight guy has strangers force themselves upon him in a gay bar, commenters play down the incident because "this happens to women all the time". Typical anti-male attitude.Hi Olpainless Would you point out which comments you're referring to please? As far as I can tell, only bigoted comments are downvoted. I hope you aren't suggesting users shouldn't downvote bigotry. I await your response. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 11:24 PM |
| 1 | When you say, 'anti feminist' they hear 'anti woman'I know, I agree. Generally speaking, the community agrees, if that makes you feel better. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 12:46 PM |
| 1 | When you say, 'anti feminist' they hear 'anti woman'Once upon a time a great war began, between the Fempire of ShitRedditSays and the Manpire of r/MensRights. We fought long and hard, but there were heavy losses on both sides. While no formal parlay occurred, both sides of the bloody battle decided to form an easy, unspoken truce. The thought of breaking that truce is too terrible to consider. Truthfully, pretty much everything on r/SRS would make cannon fodder for this sub. We want to make sure quality content gets through. Just subscribe if tha… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 11:51 AM |
| 1 | When you say, 'anti feminist' they hear 'anti woman'Sorry, Patrick, we don't allow linking to SRS subreddits. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Woman's blog demands an end to all men in the most vile way possible.Let's not give this psychopath exposure. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 06:14 AM |
| 46 | Straight guy has strangers force themselves upon him in a gay bar, commenters play down the incident because "this happens to women all the time". Typical anti-male attitude.Please be respectful in their community. r/ainbow has been very accommodating of all sorts of views, including men's rights, and I would hate for them to start thinking of us as a downvote brigade. As of writing this, there are a lot of supportive comments of OP, and from what I can tell, most of them are not from our members. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 03:48 AM |
| 4 | "Having more women than men graduate from college is what Title IX is all about, [Obama] writes."It's all about context. The submission takes a decidedly anti-liberal stance. It's fair play to discuss the submission content. In fact, that's how it's supposed to work. I would have a problem if this conversation occurred in another, unrelated submission. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/12 02:53 AM |
| 1 | "Having more women than men graduate from college is what Title IX is all about, [Obama] writes."That was a very interesting perspective. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/12 11:26 PM |
| 1 | "So long, cupcake" - The AVFM Incident, or why Paul Elam is actively hurting your causeAh, I see. No harm no foul :) | /r/MensRights | 11/07/12 02:17 PM |
| 2 | "So long, cupcake" - The AVFM Incident, or why Paul Elam is actively hurting your causegqbrielle This is not an appropriate place to bring this. At best, this will create some kind of inter-website argument. What were you hoping to accomplish here? I have been quite clear: please do not cause needless drama. Is this not a fair request? Gareth EDIT: Following the links you provide in your blog, you stated: "MRAs themselves discredit the movement enough as it is." I'm trying to remain impartial, but this really makes it difficult. I am an MRA. Do you think I discredit the movement t… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/12 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Town in Germany Designates Harder-to-Get-Into Parking Spaces for MenOn average. It becomes sexism when you apply the average to the individual. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/12 01:27 AM |
| 1 | New York Magazine on Reddit - we get an honorable mentionAs usual, much more eloquently phrased. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/12 02:44 AM |
| 3 | My recent weight loss and thoughts on "body image"Aw man, I was taking you seriously too :-/ | /r/MensRights | 10/07/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | My recent weight loss and thoughts on "body image"Hmm, I can do 10k in 50 mins but haven't tries to do a 5k sprint. What's considered a reasonable time? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/12 01:33 AM |
| 4 | New York Magazine on Reddit - we get an honorable mentionAs long as feminism seeks to harm men I think it's appropriate to oppose it. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/12 01:26 AM |
| 2 | New York Magazine on Reddit - we get an honorable mentionI guess I thought it was kind of obvious. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/12 01:21 AM |
| 8 | New York Magazine on Reddit - we get an honorable mentionYes. Sarcasm doesn't travel well over the Internet. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:22 PM |
| 8 | New York Magazine on Reddit - we get an honorable mentionHere is what the id does: collects porn. Makes porn. (A popular NSFW forum is Gone Wild, a collection of self-shots of naked Redditors, male and female.) Indulges in extreme paranoia. (The subreddit r/MensRights, which describes itself as “earning scorn from bigoted feminists and white knights since March 2008,” was recently put on notice by the Southern Poverty Law Center.) | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Sweden trying to ban stand-up urinationWhy would banning urinals be cleaner? You know what else would be cleaner? Banning menstruation in the toilets, and forcing women who are menstruating to use separate, clearly labelled toilets. While we're at it, banning bowel movements also seems cleaner. They should make another, clearly-labelled toilet for that. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 12:27 PM |
| 2 | The picture that raised my consciousness about mens rightsThe mods have been protecting the culture of this sub by allowing it to police itself for years. It's working. I sincerely believe it would not be this popular if we took the approach r/feminisms has. So for that reason, among others, I'd like to leave this sub as is. I liked your idea to create places for more serious MR discussion, however, and that's my rationale behind the new sub/s. A place where facebook screenshots are not welcome. I'm not sure if links to Reddit comments would work there… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 11:47 AM |
| 1 | The picture that raised my consciousness about mens rightsHaha, welcome to the new sub :) The intent is more serious discussion. I still want to keep this sub as governed by the users. I may even make more subs with different goals (like SRS does). I like the general discussion in r/antiSRS. Incidentally, I also created r/MRDiscussion. Between that and r/MensRightsDiscussion, which do you think works better? | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...And on that premise I agree - many of us do. The reason you're seeing resistance is because the implication of what you're suggesting carries serious and long-lasting implications. Implications which we've been discussing ad nauseum for years now. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:57 AM |
| 2 | The picture that raised my consciousness about mens rightsYou raise some good points too. Maybe the solution is the creation of another subreddit for more serious discussion. As r/TrueGaming is to r/Gaming. I just created r/MensRightsDiscussion, and I may advertise it if other users express interest in the idea. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...Every post here can be considered an overreaction and ridiculous to someone somewhere. We should be catering to our members, not the whims of everyone else. We try to hold ourselves to a better standard than r/feminisms precisely by not banning and removing dissenting and contrasting opinions and content. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Coming Out PostNo probs :) | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Coming Out PostMy apologies :) | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Coming Out PostSame goes for you. Anymore arguments with zeppoleon and it needs to be via PM. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:12 AM |
| 2 | The picture that raised my consciousness about mens rightsPersonally, I agree. But fracturing the sub at this point doesn't seem wise. Further, who gets to make that distinction? The mods have always tried to let the community decide. If we start injecting our own ideals on the members, that marks a pretty radical change in direction. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Coming Out PostYou two need to take it to private message if you'd like to continue this. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...For some users that isn't an overreaction. To you it was, to them it wasn't. I'm not sure how else to explain that different people have different priorities. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 08:05 AM |
| 1 | The picture that raised my consciousness about mens rights/facepalm Seriously? I mean, I'll oblige, but why the sudden about-face? | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 07:42 AM |
| 5 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...We're just circling back to the idea that you should be the one to determine what is and isn't important to men involved in men's rights. I disagree. I don't think I have that right either. There's no feasible way to implement such a system, and even if we could, I wouldn't want to. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 07:37 AM |
| 5 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...You don't see any other options? What about general social education? In your example, what about having an office policy of taking complaints from men seriously? The person who sent it doesn't have to be fired, but it would be nice if it wasn't tacitly acceptable. That said, it depends on context. If this was completely out of the blue, no harm no foul. But if this was consistent with a more broad system of tolerance towards male sexual discrimination in a given workplace, then it's serious. Wh… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Found this subreddit, checked the top submissions to get a feel for the community...Remember, not everyone has similar priorities to you. Consider that there are men in office situations who are objectified and harassed on a near daily basis. Theses emails are the tip of the iceberg for them. Just because you find the issue trivial doesn't mean they do. I appreciate that you are a proponent for equality, but realise almost all of us are as well. Join in on topics where you agree and feel they are worth your time; ignore topics which you feel aren't. We are a diverse group and w… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 06:03 AM |
| 8 | I was in a room full of women when this commercial came on I got looked at like I was Satan himself.The 1 in 2 statistics just completely destroys their message. It's so obviously fake that no one will take it seriously. In fact, it does far more harm to their cause than not making that commercial at all. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementYes, well, no rules about being suspicious :) Thanks, and I hope you enjoy your stay. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementThat's a needless dichotomous distinction. There is no official definition of "liberal", and indeed no opposite of that. If it makes you feel better, none of us are liberal or conservative by the American political standards. We take parts of each as we see fit. As for "mangina", I said: To respond, I'm not a fan of language policing either. Inappropriate jokes and insults will rarely even receive warning. That said, we do remove comments which are blatantly sexist and racist. For example, "wome… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementI think AnnArchist is a conservative. That said, none of the mods are socialists or communists, or monarchists, or anarchists, or totalitarians, or dictators, or oligarchs... Does every major political movement need to be represented in order to earn your belief in our neutrality? | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Tumblr FeminismI agree; it's never nice to wake up to a bunch of angry mail. But she did open herself up to that by posting that picture. When you broadcast yourself on social media on the internet you get the good with the bad. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 04:13 AM |
| 1 | IAMA Board Certified Urologist who performs vasectomies and tstosterone replacement ask me anythingNo, it's happening to a lot of users right now. Not sure if it's confined to r/MR or not at this stage. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementWhat we want is to remove American-centric political cheerleading from the core issues. Any time the issues are overshadowed by some petty ideology argument, we may step in. This is a multinational website, with users from all over the world. We have "leftists", "rightists", libertarians, communists, socialists, hippies, women, men, transsexuals, homosexuals, and everyone in between. If a user is here to attack people over largely unrelated ideology, rather than fight for male equality, we will … | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 04:07 AM |
| 1 | IAMA Board Certified Urologist who performs vasectomies and tstosterone replacement ask me anythingLooks like he might have posted the wrong link. This is a link to the IAMA. Thanks thrway_1000 for picking that up. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 03:50 AM |
| 1 | IAMA Board Certified Urologist who performs vasectomies and tstosterone replacement ask me anythingThanks mate, I'll make a note in the submission. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementWe are both mods and users. Consider that comment as coming from a user. While I think it's a cop-out, you're absolutely allowed to say "I don't care". | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Honesty From An Unlikely PlaceAnd I think it's good you do contribute. The last thing we want is to turn into a giant circle-jerk, so having contrasting opinions is very important. Most of us won't agree with you, and that's exactly why it's important for you to speak up. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Coming Out PostFair enough. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Feminist philosopher and 'atheist' blogger Ophelia Bloom mocking men's rights movementI castigate SRS for using gender shaming language. Why the hell are you doing it too? Disagree with those men all you like, but using that kind of language simultaneously weakens our position and gives weight to theirs. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Coming Out PostWell let's see how she fares. She hasn't broken any rules yet. If you see any trolling hit the report button and we'll take a look. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:43 AM |
| 14 | Tumblr FeminismKAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Seriously though, the user voluntarily publicly broadcasts that information. It's not like we're dealing with private emails or locked accounts. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Israeli legislature Knesset's Committee to Discuss German Circumcision ruling. "We cannot permit a limitation of Judaism anywhere in the world"Precisely. Every time this argument is brought up ask if the Islamic cultural practice of FGM should not be limited either. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Coming Out PostAs a rule we don't add any users to that list. In any case, it won't affect how your comments are handled when downvoted. It simply creates an exception in the spam filter and allows new users to create comments in rapid succession. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Coming Out PostThank you. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Coming Out PostI honestly don't know what to make of you, so you're free to post here as long as you don't break any of our rules. Welcome aboard. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 02:08 AM |
| 2 | IAMA Board Certified Urologist who performs vasectomies and tstosterone replacement ask me anythingThanks for the submission, and welcome to our subreddit. I actually have a query about testosterone replacement. What do you consider to be optimal levels of free testosterone for those in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s? What are the side effects of too much or too little testosterone? Further, studies have shown men have a lower free T count than their fathers and grandfathers. Do you agree with this conclusion, and what do you think is the cause? | /r/MensRights | 09/07/12 12:30 AM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?I applaud your attempt at objectivity. The truth is most people are largely incapable of looking at a situation dispassionately; particularly when they have emotional investment in the topic. Please feel free to continue posting here. I think your input will be enlightening. As I said, it's important we have contrasting opinions here, or we just turn into the circlejerks that other gender subreddits have become. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/12 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Cannot find a rape figure because it wasn't added to the sidebarThat resource is fantastic. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/12 09:37 AM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?I have no degree in sociology, but I don't feel that disqualifies me from understanding complex issues of gender equality. It doesn't prevent me from reading the studies and understanding the statistics. It doesn't prevent me from helping out at men's centers and providing support where and when I can. I hope you aren't suggesting the only people who could grasp the issues in totality are those with sociology degrees. I certainly won't ban you for stating your mind. We get a lot of trolls here b… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/12 05:48 AM |
| 1 | U.S. says Texas police department discriminated against women - by requiring they pass the same physical test required for men.We could make this argument for any agency, government or otherwise. I don't think it's important that the police force is representative of the population, provided the government is representative of the population. The police force is answerable to the government, and that should be sufficient. However, it do think it's nice if the police force is representative. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/12 12:00 AM |
| 3 | U.S. says Texas police department discriminated against women - by requiring they pass the same physical test required for men.I think you (understandably) misunderstand our beliefs on this issue. Yes, we believe the disparity in, for example, work place deaths is troubling. However, I don't feel this disparity necessarily needs to be "corrected". It's clear more men are choosing dangerous professions, but why is that? Some dangerous jobs are more physically demanding, and this will naturally attract more capable applicants. That's a natural function of capitalism, however, and isn't necessarily bad. It's efficient. But… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on the front page, thought of you gentlemenWhile I appreciate that these individual roles are important to you and any family you may have or wish to have, they are not important to everyone. I wish for an equal partnership one day, where we work to our strengths, rather than try to fulfil some societal standard of what a male and female should be. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 11:03 PM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?First, please realise you're talking to a r/MR mod. I have a lot of my own research and experience under my belt. I did not join this movement lightly. I used to describe myself as a feminist, and I bought into the patriarchy hypothesis whole hog. While you may feel my disagreement with you is condescending, maybe I feel your disagreement with me is condescending. This is how a healthy discussion works. Don't allow yourself to descend into discussing your feelings. Obviously the perceived weight… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?I have seen no change with regards to our attitude towards misogyny or misandry. We think both are wrong. We are more aware of trolls now, however, and that may be what you're seeing. Take note of the difference between gendered insults and misogyny/misandry. While the former should certainly be frowned on, it doesn't constitute misogyny or misandry. Usually the insult is simply gender-specific; for example "bitch" for women and "asshole" for men. The person only uses the insult because it's mor… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 06:38 AM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?A lot of discussions happened during and after the SPLC thing. Honestly, very few users felt we actually had a real issue with misogyny. Most of us believe we're painted or seen as misogynistic because we buck social convention by not making our primary focus women's rights. That said, we did notice a large increase in trolls, and many of the criticisms revolved around the crass comments of those trolls. So I've been on a mini crusade, and it's been working. The difference between an idiot and a… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 05:12 AM |
| 1 | My cousin who is a Femenist called me gay for being Anti-Feminist. :/ What are your similar stories when encountering a feminist?While Factory2 is indeed being a dick, we don't usually interfere in personal disputes like this. As for "bitch" being an example of misogyny; tell me, was my use of "dick" misandry? Such liberal interpretations of what constitutes misogyny undermine any message you may hope to portray here. I would suggest not engaging with Factory2 anymore, as it seems unproductive. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Norwegian man arrested for writing pro-MRA blogMy fuse is short. It's not a good time to be a troll in r/MensRights. Banned. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/12 12:28 AM |
| 0 | The cheapening of fathers, men and boys"Seems". You should stop basing your beliefs on your feelings. MRAs value logic and facts, not petty emotional displays. I've said my piece. Consider that your one and only warning. It's a ban next time. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 08:05 PM |
| 0 | The cheapening of fathers, men and boysNo, but you may not be anti gay, black, or women. That is the official policy. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 11:39 AM |
| 0 | The cheapening of fathers, men and boysNone of our mods are transgendered. That you feel the need to make such accusations in an ostensibly hostile manner suggests not only sexism, but transphobia of some sort. Tell me, do you also hate gay and black people? Might as well go all the way, right? I'll leave with this: I ban people for saying things like "men have minimal, independent critical thinking skills", and I will sure as hell ban people for saying that about women. Be critical of individuals all you like, but you're not allowed… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 08:51 AM |
| 7 | Mens rights isn't a liberal movement, its not a conservative movement, its not a libertarian movement. I'm getting pretty tired of people around here trying to hijack mens rights to push other agendas.Thanks for saying this. We have all kinds of members here, from people on both sides of the US political spectrum, to those from all sorts of political beliefs from around the world, to former feminists, to fathers and mothers. I'm tired of seeing people indoctrinated to a particular ideology attacking everyone else. We are all here for one purpose: equal rights for men. That's it. I'd like to see fewer people trying to co-opt the movement for their own goals. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 07:29 AM |
| 0 | The cheapening of fathers, men and boysSexism like that is not allowed here. Warning. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Is there a way we can get this taken down? (See right side...)Except for, you know, r/jailbait. Or do we not speak about r/jailbait? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Man beats rape rap after victim found to be a manIt's not rape, but it's definitely attempted rape. Is attempted rape not a crime in Sweden? I'm much more willing to bet this is just another side effect of a feminist society: the unwillingness to acknowledge that men can be victims of sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Man beats rape rap after victim found to be a manSurely they could charge him with "attempted rape". | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | I made a thread in /r/PoliticalDiscussion asking people's views on a variety of mens issues... I enjoyed reading their input.Great thread! | /r/MensRights | 06/07/12 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Most people have the impression that Mens Rights equals Anti Womens RightsThat comment is referring to the conduct on other websites. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Apparently BP didn't hire enough female contractors during the cleanup after the Gulf spill... so they had to pay out $5.4 million in damages to the US Equal Opportunities CommissionThis is fucking ridiculous. If women don't want to work these jobs, so be it. But fining companies who don't incentivize women to work these jobs? This is basically forcing companies to pay women more for the same work. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Nasty men's rights ad banned - Boing BoingThat is an extremely well-done advertising campaign. The vitriol it's causing is proof positive of its impact and necessity. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual Predator? - YouTubeYeah, his passion is infectious and he has a really good grasp of the issue. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 06:05 AM |
| 5 | The female idea of equalityThis garbage does not belong here. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Please stop gloating about 2XCI don't think you understand what I said. That particular section of the comments was linked to a subreddit known as ShitRedditSays. Their purpose is to downvote logical comments and upvote their circlejerk. I was pointing out that facts were welcome in threads where they have invaded. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Please stop gloating about 2XCThis marks a welcome change then. Most of the submission I see related to gender discussions in 2XC are linked to SRS first. We get maybe one submission link every week or two. You're right though: it shouldn't be a battlefield. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/12 12:32 AM |
| -5 | Please stop gloating about 2XCThat submission was linked to ShitRedditSays. I would normally agree with you, but if SRS wants to turn the comments into a wasteland of "LOLZ SHITLORDZ" I don't see the harm in injecting some much-needed facts. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/12 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Look how these women attack me for suggesting that this behavior is not okay. All the other people are female, and this pic was posted with the title "Go ahead, girl, no one is stopping you!"Warning. This kind of violent rhetoric is unacceptable. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/12 12:13 PM |
| 1 | New Family Violence Amendments Not Enough, claims Anti-Father CrusaderI have removed this submission. Consider this a warning. Please don't copy content like this and repost it. Instead, link directly to the original material. We will be removing submissions to any domains which obviously copy others articles in order to attract ad revenue. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/12 10:20 AM |
| 2 | New Family Violence Amendments Not Enough, claims Anti-Father CrusaderThanks for the heads up. For anyone interested, it looks like this is the original article. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/12 10:19 AM |
| 8 | So I just got out of Prison...Tips on Jail LifeWhile this doesn't belong here, I'm leaving it up because everyone seems to approve and it's actually really interesting. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/12 10:35 PM |
| 4 | my son had his first run in with sexism, i thought this would't happen until he was older:(To play Devil's advocate, one could call social interaction just about the most natural thing humans can do. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Uh oh! Jezebel is pissed at us again :(Okay folks, at this point I'm fairly sure Jezebel is short on traffic and is engaging in cheap controversy to bring in some eyeballs. This is what tabloids do, and it smacks of desperation. Please, let's not oblige. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:45 PM |
| 21 | Uh oh! Jezebel is pissed at us again :(That was immediate and jarring. "Don't you dare stereotype us you sexist pigs!" "Here's a gender shaming stereotype to silence you!" | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Pro-circ submission in r/atheismOP has been soundly rebuked. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 06:12 AM |
| 7 | Baby gets herpes from circumcisionHoly shit, Harriet. We talked about this just a few weeks ago. Sorry Celda, but this is unacceptable. Banned. And I'm not reversing it this time. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMThanks! And you as well. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMWell, considering condoms are men's only form of available birth control, it does seem discriminatory to me. But, if planned parenthood is available to everyone, then I suppose it's inconsequential. Fair enough on correcting everyone. It's always preferable to argue from an informed position :) | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 04:37 AM |
| 0 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMThanks for the section. Yeah, I read the relevant clauses and there is no mention of sex. You're also correct re funding. I should have considered the application. So I guess we're down to STD testing, vasectomies, violence prevention, condoms, and two clauses which which stipulate 1) that, should HPV be deemed to be harmful to men in the future, they would also receive the vaccine, and 2) should a more robust method for testing for prostate cancer become available in the future, men will receiv… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMFree birth control - There is no male birth control, so that isn't biased against men. Reality is, in that respect. Sorry. Condoms. Or are they already free for men? Smoking Cessation Aid - Mandated for both genders. While there is a section that does say that it is specifically mandated for women, that does not supersede the other clause which states that it is mandated for all persons. It's just an example of redundant language in the incredibly large bill; there's a good bit of it in just abo… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMYou missed free birth control, the HPV vaccine, smoking cessation aid, prostate health aid, and violence prevention for men. Basically, you didn't look at the list above, nor did you read OP's comments. And I agree - it is better to make them equal rather than scrap it. You have a nasty habit of responding before you understand what you're responding to. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Statutory Rape Does Not Equal Pedophilia - Post Titles Equating These Two Things Make Us Look Like IgnoramusesThat too. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/12 02:56 AM |
| -1 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRMThat's not the complaint at all. The complaint is that only women have access to the services listed above. Why are men excluded? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/12 10:37 PM |
| -1 | Why tomorrow is a BIG day for the MRM1) Free birth control for women, but NOT for men. 2) Free tubal ligation for women, but NO vasectomy for men. 3) Free anti-cancer vaccination for girls, but NOT for boys. 4) Free smoking cessation for women, but NOT for men. 5) Free STD treatment for women, but NOT for men. 6) Breast health for women, but NO prostate health for men. 7) Violence prevention for women, but NOT for men. I had no idea this was hidden this legislation. What kind of sexist asshole thinks this is alright!? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/12 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Statutory Rape Does Not Equal Pedophilia - Post Titles Equating These Two Things Make Us Look Like IgnoramusesHomophobic insults. Nice. Consider this your one and only warning. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/12 03:38 AM |
| 8 | If this had been of women it would have been grounds for feminist outrage over objectification and creepiness.I'll say the same thing I said about the other submission being discussed. When one is in public, they have no expectation of privacy. Yes, the feminists are indeed hypocritical. They will never address this website in such a manner - because they don't care. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/12 01:38 PM |
| 7 | Man sues Det. Sgt. Ingrid Jonas for allowing him to sit in jail on a sex assault charge and not revealing that his accuser is a serial false accuserNo, that's a cop out. She's evil. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/12 11:01 PM |
| 4 | German court rules that circumcision of boys for religious reasons is illegalThe funny thing is, at this point, he's creating a whole army of adversaries. Our 40,000 members all have negative opinions of this idiot's services now. I wonder how that'll translate to sales in the long run. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/12 11:01 AM |
| 9 | What's up with the constant spamming of manhood academy in every thread now and then?I suspect his primary motivation is profit. As you point out, they sell subscriptions to their community. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/12 01:42 AM |
| 16 | What's up with the constant spamming of manhood academy in every thread now and then?They're from a rather dedicated spammer. We managed to have some of his domains automatically banned from Reddit, but he changed the content and domains. Just report them and we'll remove them. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/12 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Woman attacks husband over copies of "The Onion" in his trunk, then scratches and twists her own arm to try and claim husband attacked HERVery few women actually do this horrible shit. The problem is the ones who do are neither discouraged from nor punished when they do. People are susceptible to corruption, and women currently have a lot of power in society in certain ways. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war."I think I was subconsciously goading you into a discussion. Objectively: The purpose of a capital enterprise is to maximize returns - all other factors are superfluous. If that means killing a person, such an enterprise has a duty to do so. Laws prevent unethical behaviour. They also prevent behaviour which would negatively impact society or the economy as a whole; industries and enterprises which create negative externalities. Game theory shows how and why corporations and citizens cannot coope… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war."This is insightful and depressing. And true. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 05:03 AM |
| 1 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war."I've had my share of posting in libertarian/anarchist communities. Let's just say the experiences have put me off participating in them again. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 04:30 AM |
| 2 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war."I would say you are objectively, demonstrably wrong. Still, upvote for interesting perspective. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 03:51 AM |
| 2 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war."Both major US parties are complete shit. They're trying to out-shit each other. The only thing that can save American politics at this point is either proportional voting or maybe campaign finance reform. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/12 03:50 AM |
| 0 | TrueReddit submission's top comment quickly turns into "misandry isn't real"If we were linked here all bets are off. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/12 02:00 AM |
| 21 | How I un-friend zoned myself [FR]Yeah but you know she's thinking about you while she's making out with the retard. Basically, it forces her hand. No more waiting around. I think that's generally a good thing. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 01:41 AM |
| 8 | For Christ's sake, there's +37,000 of us and Brian Banks is $20,000 from meeting his goal? At $1 each, he'd be awash in cash. Please donate, this story needs to get out there...If you're going to apply that definition in such a broad sense, every single kick starter raises awareness in some way or another. Might as well just scrap them all. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/12 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Feminists Hate Warren Farrell's books. Mass deletion of wikipedia pages about his books. Perhaps we could work together to make sure these pages come back.Feminism isn't synonymous with women's rights. I support women's rights but not feminism. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/12 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Pure insanity. Swedish feminists want to ban peeing while standing up.I'm having trouble following your comment. Are you not a native English speaker? So far I have: I'm a feminist and I hate men's rights. Does that about sum it up? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/12 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Pure insanity. Swedish feminists want to ban peeing while standing up.If it's a matter of degree, what about disadvantages which affect, say, 49% of the population? Or 45%? Or 10%? Where do you draw that line? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/12 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Pure insanity. Swedish feminists want to ban peeing while standing up.I see you are Swedish. That means you probably find the idea of men having rights preposterous. I'm so sorry you had to grow up in such a sexist environment :( | /r/MensRights | 14/06/12 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Pure insanity. Swedish feminists want to ban peeing while standing up.Not hyperbole in this context; it's taking the example to its logical conclusion. If you support one, you must support the other, or you're a hypocrite and your argument doesn't stand. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/12 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Really? (x-post from r/funny)Sometimes I think the only way to fight this rhetoric is to just make our own statistics. This just in! 100% of men in relationships abused!* *based off a survey of five pre-selected people asked leading questions | /r/MensRights | 14/06/12 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Some tips for beginnersIt does. Thanks mate. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Norwegian party wants to ban religious male genital mutilationOf the few studies which do show a measurable increase in HIV contraction, there are many, many criticisms. One of my personal favourites is that they only conducted the studies over the course of a few months, and included the time in which is took for the subject's penises to heal. They were clearly having a lot less sex than the control group. There are many more, but at the end of the day, with enough repetition, you can produce just about any results you like. You just need to make sure to … | /r/MensRights | 14/06/12 06:53 AM |
| 2 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"You know "SRS" is short for "ShitRedditSays" yeah? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/12 09:34 AM |
| 5 | X/post from r/videos, this makes my blood absolutely fucking boil, would someone be so kind as to explain the reasoning for the double standards here...(NSFW)This doesn't really seem like a reasonable rebuttal. Demonspawn was pointing out how society shapes our attitudes towards how women are perceived when they commit violence. It's that perception we're discussing, not how much violence each sex perpetrates (on average). Your comment is the equivalent of "yeah, well I fucked the mailman!" | /r/MensRights | 11/06/12 08:02 AM |
| 1 | StopStrange and interesting :) | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | StopWhy are there no footpaths? | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 03:44 AM |
| 1 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"It's an MR rule which ignatius implemented when the front page became little more than r/antiSRS. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/12 03:15 AM |
| 8 | feminist programmer calls for gender separation in the classroom because a male asked difficult questionsHe doesn't seem to be claiming oppression; just pointing out the hypocrisy in your stance. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/12 03:03 AM |
| 10 | feminist programmer calls for gender separation in the classroom because a male asked difficult questionsAnd yet no one is making that argument. Instead of addressing this submission, this issue, you're just attacking things you don't like about users and this subreddit in general. Do it elsewhere. Right now we're talking about your blog post. By talking about unrelated issues you're basically saying "I can't defend what I said". | /r/MensRights | 11/06/12 02:15 AM |
| 17 | feminist programmer calls for gender separation in the classroom because a male asked difficult questionsI upvoted your first post because you're sticking up for your beliefs. I respect that, even though there were inconsistencies. This reply post, however, is just terrible. You shifted the frame of discussion when you were corrected, and then went on to call everyone who you didn't agree with a racist. I'm not sure if you aren't being used to being wrong, or if you're just not very smart. Either way, you're awful at defending your position. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/12 01:13 AM |
| 26 | Female headmaster tried to scare boy by warning that if he wet his bed again, she would cut off his penis and feed it to the pigeons. She then grabbed the boy's penis strongly and injured him.Guys don't understand what it is like to be women. Men are the default gender, therefor she fully understood what she was doing, and had the right to do it. No, she did not. We don't tolerate acceptance or advocacy of violence. Particularly when they involve a three year old child. Banned. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/12 11:02 PM |
| 29 | Urban Dictionary's definitions of MisandryLooks like a Something Awful or SRS raid. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/12 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Some tips for beginnersTeach me. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 05:21 AM |
| 2 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"You didn't link to SRS :) It was just a general request to everyone. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 09:54 AM |
| 3 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"Just a request: please no linking to SRS. We've gone down that road before and no one wins in subreddit wars. If you want to browse on your own, by all means go for it. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 02:54 AM |
| 4 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"As I said in mod mail, you have repeatedly accused us of banning dissenting opinion, and yet you were not banned. Well that makes you a liar, and we couldn't have that. To protect your honour, I have banned you. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 02:39 AM |
| 3 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"Linking to SRS is disallowed. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 02:16 AM |
| 1 | "Two female moderators, who chose to remain anonymous, talk about how they counter the rampant sexism on the site with a Shit Reddit Says subreddit"Linking to SRS subs on Reddit is disallowed. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 02:16 AM |
| 0 | NeoNazi Attacks Communist Rival and All Reddit Seems to Care About is That the Person Hit was FemaleGood comment/discussion here. And another here. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The “man crisis,” continued - Salon.comNo probs. As I said, stuff gets reposted occasionally, so it's best just to move on :) | /r/MensRights | 07/06/12 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I dare you to show this subreddit and all your comments on it to your mother. Facebook proof of her reaction would be greatly appreciated.BENNED Seriously though, trolling isn't tolerated. Cross-posting to SRS is also not tolerated. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/12 12:35 AM |
| 10 | The sexism of believing the female body to be made more perfect.It appears to be the genitals of a fetus during development. In the first couple of months the male and female genitals are indistinguishable. It would have made more sense to label one "male" and one "female". | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 05:36 AM |
| 1 | If rape is about power, would pretending to enjoy it deter the attacker?Sorry, I removed this submission. As interesting as it might be as a sociological discussion, it's not related to MR, and it really is SRS bait. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 05:32 AM |
| 4 | I'm a woman, and I'm on your side.Tits or GTFO. One and only warning. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | The “man crisis,” continued - Salon.comAs a user, I don't have a "problem" with any of these posts, but I did find your original post strange. That's why I asked. As a mod, I want to get rid of spam. I guess I'll ask again, since you seem evasive. If you didn't mean to imply he's spamming, what did you mean to imply? Especially with things like "I am sure there are online authors who use accounts to push work on here". | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 05:23 AM |
| 2 | The “man crisis,” continued - Salon.comI'm sure you contribute meaningfully, and that's great. He shouldn't have called you a retard, but you shouldn't have implied he's a spammer. Interesting content tends to get posted multiple times on Reddit. That's just the nature of a news aggregate website. It's probably best just to ignore the submission. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 01:37 PM |
| 3 | The “man crisis,” continued - Salon.comSure, you can say a lot of crazy stuff. I won't stop you unless you break the rules. I was just pointing out that Salon.com isn't a blog, and dicipres doesn't own it; two things which you asserted. I guess I wanted to understand what you were saying. What makes you think dicipres is spamming? He has only one submission from Salon.com ever. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Whitehouse uses disingenuous statistics on wage gap for vote campaign. Website includes space to submit responsesBrilliant. That report was commissioned by the US government. Just keep pasting: Statistical analysis that includes those variables has produced results that collectively account for between 65.1 and 76.4 percent of a raw gender wage gap of 20.4 percent, and thereby leave an adjusted gender wage gap that is between 4.8 and 7.1 percent... Additional portions of the raw gender wage gap are attributable to other explanatory factors that have been identified in the existing economic literature, but … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 01:06 PM |
| 3 | The “man crisis,” continued - Salon.comSalon.com isn't a blog, and dicipres doesn't own it. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 01:00 PM |
| 0 | I recently posted a comment debunking the idea of male privilege in r/philosophy including actual studies and was down voted to oblivion, without any counterargument. Not one empirical proof of privilege is provided in the entire thread. Am I out of line?Pick your battles. When you discussed racial privilege as well as sex privilege you started two debates, with twice as many opponents. It's a quick way to get swamped. I understand that it made sense in the broad context of "privilege", but since Reddit isn't conducted as a structured debate, you need to use more tact. Being linked to SRS and SRD and who knows what else probably didn't help either. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Just got this email from the Obama Administration O_oI hate women and their idiocy. Not acceptable. One and only warning. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/12 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Came out as an MRA to some colleagues yesterdayIf you look back you'll probably notice a lot more shaming language. "Just give this MRA thing a rest" is a good example. It's used to infer you're whining. It's subtle, but very effective. As evidenced by the fact that they kept talking about gender issues, she just wanted to silence you. By playing on male stereotypes (strong, decisive, silent), she did just that. The only way you'll get better at this is to practise. This was actually invaluable. You'll understand how to pick your battles bet… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/12 08:42 AM |
| 2 | The IAMA Anti-feminist post and the AskReddit threads are FAKE.I agree. I guess that's the kind of "trolling" I can get behind. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/12 04:07 AM |
| 3 | The IAMA Anti-feminist post and the AskReddit threads are FAKE.I actually didn't mind the submission. It created a lot of great discussions and promoted the idea that maybe, just maybe, feminism isn't egalitarian in nature. The troll had a lot of good arguments to present, and didn't seem bent on portraying MRAs as idiots. All in all, it seems inconsequential that they are a troll. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I keep hearing about the patriarchy, what the hell is it?Very good arguments. It's difficult because I've seen as many definitions of patriarchy now as I've met feminists. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/12 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.I like square toed shoes too :-/ | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 09:58 PM |
| 3 | I keep hearing about the patriarchy, what the hell is it?I'll preface this by saying I'm probably going to have to bow to your knowledge here; you have just written a thesis. I think it can be argued either way. To my knowledge, not all theories are able to establish a strong causal link, particularly when dealing with many highly correlated variables. For example, smoking is still only correlated with lung cancer. While the thought has crossed my mind, I think arguing over the term "theory" with a feminist, rather than "patriarchy" is usually a non s… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 01:20 PM |
| 5 | I keep hearing about the patriarchy, what the hell is it?Haha, yes, I prefer that. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Sometimes we need to remember that oppressive gender roles hurt everybody. (x-post from 2x)crickets | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 11:24 AM |
| 2 | I have an honest question.We have whole subreddits dedicated to trolling and undermining us, unfortunately. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 11:21 AM |
| 4 | I keep hearing about the patriarchy, what the hell is it?It's a theory. That's what's so convenient about it: they say it doesn't require proof. It's a way to maintain the status of "victim". As they've discovered, it's quite a powerful tool. The absolute best response to any claims of patriarchy is to ask for proof. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 11:13 AM |
| 10 | Sometimes we need to remember that oppressive gender roles hurt everybody. (x-post from 2x)As someone who posts here frequently, I'm surprised that you're surprised that we're anti-feminist. You've surely seen enough examples of problems within feminism at this point. Furthermore, this submission is on the front page of our subreddit. We agree that gender roles are harmful, we just don't agree with what feminism is doing. Your reaction in this comment seems irrational and uncalled-for. That said, I'm glad you'll stick to your egalitarian principles. At the end of the day, that's what … | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Sometimes we need to remember that oppressive gender roles hurt everybody. (x-post from 2x)This user posts to ShitRedditSays. They're not interested in discussion, just stirring shit. Please report this user's comments and if they violate moderation policy, I'll ban them with prejudice. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 11:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you answer someone stating that all the shit men go through is the result of none but their own actions?"I'll be sure to tell that to the next man who's beaten, raped, or murdered by a woman". | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 02:53 AM |
| 2 | How do you answer someone stating that all the shit men go through is the result of none but their own actions?And heeeee's outta here! | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm a dumb ass for thinking men can defend themselves against women.I think he should have just arrested her after the shove. That's assault on a police officer. I don't really think the punch was necessary, man or woman. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else here find this disgusting?Her oxytocin receptors dry up O_o | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 01:36 AM |
| 1 | My teacher agrees that Im gayHi DishonoredOne I've removed this submission. I'll need you to message the mods from your main account. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 30/05/12 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Car Insurance Sexism.Then I should probably bow to your experience ;) Thanks mate, you too. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/12 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Car Insurance Sexism.Thank you. It was a good discussion. I'm almost through with a degree in accounting, so I've read my share of economic texts. If there's one thing I've learned it's that there is always an opposing opinion on any given theory. Neither of us will be wanting for sources to support out arguments. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/12 11:59 AM |
| 2 | "You Hold The Power To Stop Rape..." (Found on /r/WTF)Talking of enslaving women? Nope. Not allowed. Never was. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/12 11:40 AM |
| 2 | If you want respect, police yourselves.Twas my pleasure. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/12 11:38 AM |
| 1 | "You Hold The Power To Stop Rape..." (Found on /r/WTF)I've warned you once about this already. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/12 05:44 AM |
| 21 | Dating For Nice Guys: Getting out of the friend-zoneI learned this one the hard way: from experience, the women I've pursued very rarely know what they actually want. On the rare occasion when they do, they're never honest about it. I'm with you. It's a nice story but take with a grain of salt. | /r/seduction | 28/05/12 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Car Insurance Sexism.Actually, it's the opposite. Artificially low interest rates not only creates a larger financial system than free-floating interest rates, but it also fuels bubbles. Additionally, economic crises after the Fed was created have been larger than pre-Fed. Banks set the interest rates. They don't have to borrow from the federal reserve, but it's usually the cheapest means of credit. And of course economic crises were worse in the US after the advent of the FR. The world economy has exponentially inc… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Car Insurance Sexism.So no, there's really no argument to say that it would be replaced. Except the wealth of economic data which shows that the more deregulated financial systems become, the more corruption and instability presents itself. You're pointing to corruption within this system and claiming it wouldn't occur in another completely unproven system, without any evidence to back up that assertion. Anarcho-capitalism, for now, is nothing more than a thought-experiment. All evidence points to some kind of ultim… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/12 01:33 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsI guess we mostly agree then. It's just the circumstances over which men should be given a waiver we kind of disagree on. As long as we can agree on rape and deceit I'm happy. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/12 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Car Insurance Sexism.all of which would maintain the crucial price mechanism and avoid state corruption. To be replaced by corporate corruption. At least state corruption relies on politicians being voted into that power. If the citizens were diligent, they'd organise and have the corruption rooted out. That's within their power. Corporate corruption, on the other hand, is devoid of public responsibility. Furthermore, there are actually laws in place to prevent boards from making ethical decisions if they conflict w… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/12 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Latest: SFU students up in arms over men's centreWhy should these men have to challenge their masculinity? I also see "classism" as a synonym for "men are oppressors". That's a pretty open attack on men and masculinity. How do you think women would feel if they were forced to address how toxic their femininity was to society, and how they're all evil, privileged assholes simply because of their gender? Sorry, "gender crimes" is a pretty accurate paraphrase of the kinds of hate-filled lunacy coming from those people. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/12 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Refusing to punish false accuser in the Brian Banks case undermines public confidence in our justice systemRemember: we have plenty of allies who are women. Many women don't lie, and painting them all this way does everyone a disservice. Maybe just leave it at "the law allows unscrupulous women to abuse it". | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 11:02 PM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsI don't see it as reasonable in certain circumstances like rape. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Teen’s NFL Dreams Squashed By Fake Rape Claim, Woman Confesses 10 Years LaterAh, I didn't see that. You're right then. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Possible course of action to bias in family courts.Perhaps you could change "kept in line" to "treated him with equal respect free from the specter of financial ruin". Then we're talking a modern day fairy tale for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 01:17 PM |
| 16 | Teen’s NFL Dreams Squashed By Fake Rape Claim, Woman Confesses 10 Years LaterThat right there is perjury. If that evidence was admissible to exonerate him, there's a good chance it can be used to prove perjury. Now to find a DA willing to go after someone who makes a false rape allegation... Nope, I'm all out of ethical DAs. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 07:20 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsMy argument is that women must have the right to abort; she must retain control of her body. To stay on this narrow line of rationale, let me expand on the counter-point. I work to make money. I must work or I will die of starvation or exposure. When someone takes some of that money from me, they are effectively forcing me to work more (or differently). It is a form of removing my control over my body. I'm not saying I think men should be able to control women's choices regarding their bodies. B… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 11:46 PM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsWe agree on the reformation - I don't think it should be dropped entirely either. Most of us don't. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 01:19 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsBingo! | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 01:18 AM |
| 2 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsYes, women can abort. women are the only ones who can get pregnant. They didn't used to be able to. They used to have to just accept the responsibility because they "couldn't keep their legs shut". Society evolved. We realised that forcing women to accept that burden without her consent was immoral, so we gave them the right to absolve themselves of said responsibility. It's time men are given a similar right. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 12:52 AM |
| 3 | in which The *Patriachy* is responsible for the pay gap. Women choosing to have babies is men's faultI'm sure you did. There are almost as many definitions and interpretations as there are feminists. For the sake of keeping the peace, it may be better to just call these gender roles in r/MR. We will all agree with you then. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 12:43 AM |
| 2 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive Rights...So we men can just sign away our responsibilities? ...So women can just abort or adopt away their responsibilities? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 12:41 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsOne's financial situation influences almost every decision one makes in life, from where they live to how they spend their free time, to how they work. It is the primary motivating force in Western societies. You seem to be suggesting that women should be given an exception to this during pregnancy. I don't agree. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/12 12:41 AM |
| 3 | in which The *Patriachy* is responsible for the pay gap. Women choosing to have babies is men's faultThat may be your idea of patriarchy, but it's not all so for all feminists. What you describe is simply called "gender roles". Patriarchy attempts to describe unifying factors, as well as assigning a kind of global score for each sex. Neither can be proven. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 10:15 PM |
| 2 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsBut reality is that abstinence is our only control, and demanding "financial abortion" when we could simply keep it in our pants speaks poorly to the sense of entitlement many men feel regarding access to casual sex. This was the same argument used against women when abortions were not allowed. Will you be consistent, and say that you don't think women should not be able to have abortions or use birth control? Or are you using a double standard? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 09:20 PM |
| 3 | A Solution to Men’s Reproductive RightsThat definition of coercion is far too loose. I'm coercing my wife to become pregnant when I say "I like babies". And I'm coercing her to have an abortion when I say "I don't like babies". Coercion is the act of compelling someone by force of authority. Provided he doesn't have any authority over her decision to abort - legally he does not - it's not considered coercion. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Tricked into a fake porn audition, woman is saying she was raped. She gave consent, is this suddenly rape?I've removed this submission. I'll need you to message the mods from your main account if you'd like it approved. Please don't post these sorts of submissions from throw-away accounts. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 11:55 AM |
| 4 | This definition is disgustingly sexist (the first one)I sent a suggestion to Google. Not sure if it will make a difference. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityYes, yes it does. It specified "a limited time" But not 99 years. Which is not "everyone" Not everyone uses the services of the police. Not everyone uses every road. For the federal government, the Constitution denies what it does not allow. For the state governments, due to the 10th, the Constitution allows what it does not deny. There is a reason for this, as I explained in my last post. This is the text: The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it t… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/12 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityYes there is. Is English your second language? there is no mandate in the constitution for copyright being 99 years The Constitution doesn't specify a time. Later statute does. The Constitution doesn't specify how the general welfare of US citizens should be protected. Later statute does by creating welfare. as was the general welfare, not the specific welfare which we have created. I don't understand your distinction. Welfare is given to everyone who needs it. I would definitely change the firs… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 10:37 PM |
| 5 | [FR] - Used the old "fall off the couch" trick last night. Worked better than expected.You're an angry grammar Nazi. I like it. You forgot your full stop. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityWhat you describe in Ireland is basically just tribalism. I wasn't very familiar with Irish history, so I did a little research. They matured much the same way most other parts of Europe did at the time. Tribes went to war and fought over land and resources frequently. It was no utopia. There is evidence of local tribes coming together to fend off Viking attacks and the like, of course. But there is no evidence of all tribes in Ireland forming some kind of collective agreement until much later. … | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityWell I actually don't think anarchy is logically possible, for the reason you set out: force. Without a central authority governing who may use force, anyone can use force. Hence anarchy. Cue Somalia. Under anarchy, no person or organisation holds a monopoly on power. What is to prevent a faction from becoming violent? Nothing but other people and factions. And then you have warring factions. I agree that for a society to function there must be ways of enforcing rules, but I don't see how that's… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityNo it can't. Because there is no mandate in the constitution for welfare. And there is no mandate in the constitution for copyright being 99 years. That was laid down later, as was welfare. General welfare, not specific welfare, not group welfare, GENERAL welfare. Right. So things like universal healthcare and welfare. There are actual ways to have universal healthcare and have it be Constitutionally valid. It would have to be implemented as a service of general welfare, as in it is a service th… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?I was with you up to the point where you made a case for legalization sex with minors. There's a reason we don't allow minors to consent - they aren't able to accurately assess the consequences of their decisions, like making babies. As for the rest, I think we mostly agree. Rape and deceit should be treated differently, and that's really all most of us are asking for. Accidental pregnancies is a more difficult topic, but I'm fine to just agree to disagree if we already agree on the important ca… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityThis is exactly why Somalia is anarchic. Whenever a power void presents itself, there is never a shortage of people who will attempt to fill it. This is observed in Somalia, with warring factions (collectives) all fighting for their own personal welfare. This is almost the definition of anarchic. Don't confuse "anarchic" with "peaceful society without central authority". Anarchists aren't inherently peaceful. As for anarcho-capitalists and taxes, without a "small" government being able to enforc… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityThe Constitution created the framework for copyright. The act simply implemented the framework. It can also be said that the constitution provided the framework for a working republic, in which citizens vote for laws which they agree with, including welfare. Ergo the Constitution provided the framework for welfare. Subsequent acts implemented that framework. Further, the preamble states: We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/12 01:30 AM |
| 4 | AMAA of a man who was convicted of rape (girl was considered too drunk to consent) and was a "wife" and raped in prison for seven years. Thought you'd all be interested in asking a few questionsTwo great issues to discuss with some of the more ignorant people there. First: he had consensual sex with a woman, yet was convicted of rape. They had all been drinking, yet only she was considered too intoxicated to consent. Second: he was brutally raped, repeatedly, while in prison. No one cared anywhere in the chain of staff. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityNo statute has the authority to contradict the Constitution. Understood. I'm specifically talking about statute and precedent which doesn't amend the Constitution. For example the Copyright Act of 1790. This act didn't amend the constitution, but it did create the framework for copyright. It created a copyright lifespan, which the Constitution did not. Do you respect these laws, or only laws which specifically enshrined (and amended to) the Constitution? I have nothing against federal taxes or s… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityYes, much of current copyright law is, also, unconstitutional At the risk of sounding facetious (I'm not), doesn't this effectively end patents and copyright, unless you cede that case and statute written after the constitution has its place? State taxes. Why are you fine with state taxes but not federal taxes? Yeah, that's why the military budget is yearly.... This seems like a technicality. All budgets are on a yearly basis. I just read an interesting commentary. It seems the intent was to for… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityArticle I, Section 8, Clause 8 You'll need to be more specific than that. The Constitution only says "limited times". Where does it say Disney gets to patent Mickey for 90 years? Sherrifs? Those are under the state level. FBI? Actually unconstitutional. Mind you, we did fine with only sherrifs until 1903 or so. So who pays for the sheriffs then? And not only is the FBI unconstitutional, so is the Secret Service, ICE, ATF, and CIA. Further, it looks like Article 1, S8:12 says that no appropriatio… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityFind me where your government is authorized to provide services like patent laws and police. Hint: in the US Constitution, they aren't. In fact, very little of what the US government does is actually in the constitution. Instead, your citizens vote on things they find important to them. Things like providing laws for property and police. Such is democracy. It just so happens the majority of your citizens feel that people who lose their jobs should be saved from becoming destitute; at least for a… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?I'm not sure how to argue over how much such a law change would cost. I'll use New Zealand as an example. Our total budget for last year was $100bn. $420mil was collected in child support payments. Even if we assume that all child support payments would be taken care of by the government (which I'm not suggesting at all), that's only 0.0042% of the budget. I'm somewhat amused by the idea that you have of all these poor defenseless men who have been "tricked, coerced, or raped" into have children… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityOh, my mistake! You only believe that taxes going towards things you don't agree with is unconstitutional. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/12 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Apparently “Real Men” Don’t Eat Veggies EitherI read a study a while back where women were given a significant quantity of soy protein. They actually changed their menstrual cycles. I suspect a small amount isn't problematic, but I still prefer to consume as little as possible. Considering males are experiencing a significant decline in testosterone as is, I don't want to do anything to make it worse. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 11:50 PM |
| -2 | Woman murdered her 33-week-old fetus by eating rat poison. Women's rights groups provides an attorney to help defend her. Some 80 organizations and individuals, including the National Organization for Women filed friend-of-the-court briefs supporting her. No mention of fatherYes, this double standard is worrying because, to me, it sets a dangerous precedent. Is killing a foetus murder or manslaughter? Fine, then charge both sexes, including doctors performing abortions. Is it not murder or manslaughter? Then charge no one. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?This is a good utilitarian argument. While I don't think society would collapse under the strain of all fatherless babies, I do think it would add a significant burden to any social welfare support available. So the question then becomes: is it moral to force men who have been tricked, coerced, or raped into paying for child support for 18-20 years simply so that society at large doesn't have a slightly increased total expenditure in terms of welfare for poor mothers. I answer no to that questio… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityOf course I oppose those. But isn't the intent behind those to correct some perceived social discrimination? That is, the intent isn't to create a flat social structure, but to correct inherent discrimination. I'm going to bow out now. I can't defend progressive integration or quotas because I'm very opposed to the concept. I don't want to move into a discussion about the motives behind the people who support such ideas. I can only guess. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityLook, I can appreciate your devotion to your ideology. If you really believe all tax is abhorrent then you're a true anarcho-libertarian. May I suggest making the move to Somalia? They're the closest we have to no laws or government involvement in personal affairs. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityMaybe the confusion is over the definition. I see equality as meaning equal opportunity, not equal outcome. I actually don't know of anyone who advocates for equal outcome. That would be nuts. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityYou mean taxes? The thing we use to create and enforce laws for property and safety? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to post a rant I had earlier because it finally clicked why feminism cannot create equalityYou seem to be confusing equal rights with equal outcomes. Equal rights means everyone is free to live their lives being afforded the same rights as another person, regardless of sex, race, etc. That doesn't mean everyone should experience equal outcomes. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Something Just Clicked For MeWhat about powerful women? Why do you think only powerful men are capable of oppression? Are all powerful men complicit? How did you prove that? How did you define "powerful"? While I like that your definition of patriarchy doesn't include regular men, it still attacks powerful men for simply being men. Also please realise that your definition of patriarchy isn't that which we get bombarded with. Most feminists don't make the powerful distinction you have. Kyriarchy does describe many different … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?That's one thing we're working on. Another should be equal reproductive rights. Men are also told they should take care of an unwanted child because it's immoral and wrong not to. It's the same argument: it's used to shame men into responsibility which they shouldn't necessarily have. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Something Just Clicked For MeAnyone who defends the patriarchy model singles out men. I am a man. Use something like kyriarchy if you'd like a sex-neutral social oppression model. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Something Just Clicked For MeThen focus on the people doing the oppression, not me. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Would fail-safe male birth control be the answer to the male reproductive rights debate?No. Accidents happen. It would help, but there would still be many instances where women ended delivering a child despite the men not choosing to become fathers. Men need a way to renounce claim to a child. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Something Just Clicked For MeI understand the distinction you're trying to draw, but it doesn't make any sense. If society is "geared" towards me and my friends, and society is a collection of individual actions, and I am part of said society, it logically follows that the actions of me and my friends contributes towards said patriarchy. And if we all contribute towards oppressing women and benefiting men, aren't we exactly like the moustache twirling men round a boardroom table? Sorry, but I don't do anything to oppress wo… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/12 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Something Just Clicked For MeIt's not sexism if it happens to a man BECAUSE PATRIARCHY. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Need help on a Temporary restraining order filed against me.popcorn.gif | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠWarning: we don't condone or tolerate advocating violence here. Next time it will be a ban. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Man in an abusive relationship seeking help. Let's give him some support.My pleasure. As this link hasn't gained much momentum, may I suggest creating a similar self post in this subreddit yourself? Also review the side bar. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Golden age of the manginaLost me at "mangina". I don't like it when people insult men using emasculating insults like this. That's crap that feminists and misandrists pull. We're supposed to be helping men out of their gender roles, not into them. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?That's your argument? 'That's just the way it is'? How about we work on real, constructive ways to improve this admittedly one-sided situation? It used to be 'just the way it is' when women weren't allowed to have abortions. Feminism changed that for the better. Now it's our turn to change men's rights for the better. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/12 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠWoops, thanks :) My phone is trying to tell me something. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/12 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that men don't have reproductive rights, only responsiblities?That's not really much of a choice though is it? Never have sex again or become sterile. That's the same argument used to prevent women from having abortions: well if you don't want a child don't have sex! Women progressed. They fought for their rights and they won. Now it's me for men to do the same. Telling us we shouldn't have sex is fucking insulting, and you should be ashamed. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/12 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠHaha, wise words to live by. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/12 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠYou have a ridiculous amount of karma for someone who's only been on Reddit for a year. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/12 08:30 PM |
| 6 | We need divorce reform.Warning: we don't allow advocating violence. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/12 10:03 PM |
| 2 | N.O.W. campaigns against House VAWA H.R. 4970, which allows shelters for men and has anti-discrimination provisions, ironically calling it "Exclusionary".Why is there necessarily greater camaraderie between people of the same sex? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/12 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Female, Joining Men's Right MovementCan you elaborate? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/12 10:37 AM |
| 0 | Female, Joining Men's Right MovementHi Please message me from your main account and I will approve this submission. Thanks Gareth | /r/MensRights | 16/05/12 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Dating: Men vs. Women. While this is obviously a joke, it still hits home.This is your one and only warning. Continue and you'll be banned. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/12 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Ruling: Boy can stay on girls field hockey teamFantastic post. This sums up my feelings on the issue as well. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 11:19 PM |
| 2 | If you want respect, police yourselves.No probs. The warning stands then. If I catch you lying about or misrepresenting users, or making any other unfounded claims, you'll be banned. Have a nice day :) | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Norway: Ban considered after circumcision deathThe child should belong to both parents. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Raped by a woman last night. Don't know what to do.Please message me from your main account. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 07:35 AM |
| 0 | What do you all think about Kyriarchy, as opposed to the (woefully incorrect) feminist notion of Patriarchy?Feminists won't give up the idea of the patriarchy overnight. What I like about kyriarchy is it removes men as oppressors. It's basically the same patriarchy model, but men aren't seen as evil villains. That's a massive step in the right direction. While I don't agree with kyriarchy as a whole, it is far preferable to patriarchy, and I'll be advocating for it whenever I see a feminist who tries to tell me the patriarchy exists. Remember: our fight is for men and men's rights. If we can convince … | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Substantiated false rape claims should carry a penalty equivalent to convicted rapeSomething proportional to attempting to have someone put into prison for a significant portion of their lives. Trivializing false allegations makes you look both callous and intentionally obtuse. Reporting a false robbery wouldn't have the same repercussions, so the punishment should be less severe. You seem to be advocating for the exact same punishment for every case of perjury. That's absurd. It's why they have variable sentencing guidelines. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 01:27 AM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.I don't see how the "so" changed the sentence to sarcasm. Would you explain what you mean please? Bear in mind I have already given you a warning about misrepresenting user's statements. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 01:24 AM |
| 2 | UCLA Bruin Feminists still don't get it.Remove the names next time please. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/12 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Substantiated false rape claims should carry a penalty equivalent to convicted rapeThey should receive a harsher penalty than the customary slap on the wrist. Something proportional to their crime. Many years in prison. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/12 12:02 AM |
| 11 | What in the heck is this? (a subreddit called beatingwomen is linking here)BENNED. Frankly, I don't know how you managed to fly under the trolldar for so long. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Substantiated false rape claims should carry a penalty equivalent to convicted rapeAnd if an attempted murder doesn't succeed we have no idea how dead the victim would be. Law also looks at intent, not just the actual repercussions. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 10:23 PM |
| 4 | from TwoX - a rape victim talking about false accusationsLet's hope so. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 07:34 AM |
| 7 | Substantiated false rape claims should carry a penalty equivalent to convicted rapeAny sentence should fit the crime committed And if the crime meant a person was going to be placed in prison for the rest of their lives? A fitting punishment seems more than the regular perjury sentence of a slap on the wrist. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Playground Double StandardThis is so messed up for so many reasons. What the hell has happened to society!? | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 04:34 AM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.In what way has the tone changed, and how did that change the meaning? | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 04:28 AM |
| 16 | from TwoX - a rape victim talking about false accusationsWe've been discussing this recently, and while we won't prevent users cross-posting like this, we ask everyone to be respectful of their community. SRS is doing a good job of painting us as a downvote brigade. While most of their users do not believe that, if we do pick up the habit for interrupting their threads like this then we're only going to be validating the claim. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/12 04:27 AM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.It's a question with or without "so". See the question mark? How does "so" change the meaning? | /r/MensRights | 11/05/12 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Saw this today and I suppose that's where we're headed...Haha, I think you'll get along just fine :) | /r/MensRights | 11/05/12 04:43 AM |
| 20 | Saw this today and I suppose that's where we're headed...They are literally the joke of Reddit. Half of them are trolls from Something Awful, half of them are legitimately out of their god damn minds. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.So you believe that men are all on the verge of raping people, and all that is needed is a short skirt? I missed out the word so. How does that change the meaning? | /r/MensRights | 10/05/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | OneY mods remove link to r/MensRights on sidebar. Users are not happyI didn't call you a traditionalist. And I don't see how those links prove Ig is a feminist. Would you link to just the comment you're referring to? | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 10:24 PM |
| 2 | OneY mods remove link to r/MensRights on sidebar. Users are not happyIf it makes any difference I probably know the guy better than you and I can assure you, he's no feminist. He's a true egalitarian though, so he's not into the whole "women should be in kitchens" trope the traditionalists have been parroting. You made some vague references below but you didn't substantiate them. Can you point to those comments? | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.high five! | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.This is loaded for a number of reasons - most of which I'm sure you're aware. The only correct "answer" is this: Not everyone within a given social strata experiences all the advantages or disadvantages all the time. Don't generalize like that. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.Haha I don't think it matters anymore :) | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 07:08 AM |
| 5 | So, these "dude tips" are all over UCLA. By the Bruin Feminists for "Equality"Ah, see, I think that's offensive. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 07:06 AM |
| 65 | So, these "dude tips" are all over UCLA. By the Bruin Feminists for "Equality"Sadly, that's the logic. She can't legally consent. Don't ever give drunk women rides in the US. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 06:44 AM |
| 12 | So, these "dude tips" are all over UCLA. By the Bruin Feminists for "Equality"For the same reason "Chicktips #27: if you have a baby, remember not to beat it" would be offensive. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Anybody else notice r/Mensrights seems to gain about 100 new subscribers a day?I believe it was the Black_Visions saga. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.I think we mostly agree then: let's focus on discrimination where and when it rears its ugly head. Let's not generalize. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 04:05 AM |
| 1 | My life after break-up, multiple partners and life-fulfillmentThanks mate. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.I agree that we can use social indicators to measure an average advantage or disadvantage. But that/those indicators can't be compared against others. So we can't say "well women are paid less, but men die more often, so men have it worse". As you say, they cannot be compared. So my rationale has always been: stick to the indicators. Are women paid less? Fine. Lets see the evidence and work towards getting women pay parity. But let's not make grandiose claims like 'women have it worse than men'.… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 02:59 AM |
| 8 | Anybody else notice r/Mensrights seems to gain about 100 new subscribers a day?This should probably be posted to r/MensRightsMeta. That said, r/MensRights is certainly growing faster than it used to. These are the traffic and subscriber stats for the last couple months. CMOS is pretty close: an average of 107 subscribers per day over the last two months. And that appears to be increasing. We must be doing something right. My guess is there are a lot of disenfranchised men out there who don't even know there are other men with similar feelings. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.How do you conclude that men benefit more often? I mean, what evidence do you have to support that? I don't see how two advantages or disadvantages could be compared. Let alone the total life sum of an individual. And against an entire sex of an entire country? I don't see how it's possible, but I'll await your answer. Additionally, assuming you can prove that, how does a sex average privilege generalize to the individual? Some mean objectively have it worse than some women. Treating those men l… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 11:42 PM |
| 2 | People simply flaming mensrights again without evidence on srs and askreddit, looking for a debate?Oh you are one to criticize. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.Would it be valid to say that white men had it worse than black men at the time of the civil war because a lot of white men died? No, because not all white people had it worse. You could say some white people had it worse, and you'd be correct. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Open letter to feminists, but MRA should take notice.You're (rightly) attacking a power structure which is completely decoupled from "men". Very few men partook (or partake) in any real power in society. That you continue to blame "men" for the actions of the few is fucking insulting. It doesn't make any kind of sense. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 11:07 PM |
| 1 | My personal story of why I am an MRAWhat's your end game? Are you really just this confrontational or are you trolling? | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Tonight on The Voice: Christina Aguilera is Sexist!Spot on. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 09:00 AM |
| 6 | My personal story of why I am an MRAWelcome aboard. Regardless of your political orientation, I'm happy to have you as a member. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 08:56 AM |
| 5 | My personal story of why I am an MRAThat's it. Last warning. If you don't have anything constructive to add don't say anything at all. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 08:54 AM |
| 17 | Tonight on The Voice: Christina Aguilera is Sexist!I ask everyone who goes there to be respectful. SRS hasn't linked it yet and it would be great if it stayed that way. The users are often very receptive to our issues, but we are beginning to get a reputation for invading their discussions. We don't want to anger their community for no good reason. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 08:49 AM |
| 5 | People simply flaming mensrights again without evidence on srs and askreddit, looking for a debate?I don't usually say this, but since SRS did it first, warm up those voting fingers, we're going troll hunting. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/12 05:56 AM |
| 5 | My life after break-up, multiple partners and life-fulfillmentMy girlfriend of almost five years broke up with me a few months ago. I honestly believe we were happy, but not Disney happy. I think society gives women a fucked up sense of what a relationship is supposed to be. They subconsciously buy into this motion of being love-drunk forever. That's just not realistic. It's hard, but I've been through it before. You must look forward. Train yourself to look towards your new goals (you have those, right?) whenever you're looking backwards. It becomes habit… | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 09:17 PM |
| 5 | I am a transgendered man, how can I be a part of the men's right movement? Does men rights exclude transrights?By law in most countries, if you are in immediate danger you may take steps to defend yourself. But you may only use as much force as is necessary. Your comment amounts to a threat of violence, and for obvious reasons we can't tolerate that in this subreddit. Oppose feminism all you like - we will agree with you. But you won't be allowed to threaten violence like that. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 12:12 PM |
| 5 | I am a transgendered man, how can I be a part of the men's right movement? Does men rights exclude transrights?Tone it down. Opposition to feminism is fine. Wishing death on them is not. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 11:01 AM |
| 2 | I need some help understanding the Men's Rights Movement.That is an excellent link. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Gender inequality in /r/picsWe're wary of low-karma users trying to start discussions of this nature. According to you: To be fair, /r/mensrights is pretty creepy/trashy/dumb.. Among other things. Perhaps this isn't the best place to have this conversation if you come here with that kind of attitude? Downvoted. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 05:03 AM |
| 1 | MensRightsMeta: please subscribe!Thanks, will do. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 04:14 AM |
| 3 | I don't usually post here but this made me rage. She pretty much trapped the poor boy.Okay, I created one. Spread the word. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I don't usually post here but this made me rage. She pretty much trapped the poor boy.Unfortunately I am not. I'll look into it though. With 35,000 users I'm sure it would come in handy. We may even create one for mods and meta discussion. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 09:41 AM |
| 7 | I don't usually post here but this made me rage. She pretty much trapped the poor boy.This is important. We have a super secret IRC channel? How did I not know of this? PM me the details please :) | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 09:32 AM |
| 14 | I don't usually post here but this made me rage. She pretty much trapped the poor boy.Hi Boxedbananapants Please message me from your main account and I'll unhide this submission. Thanks! Gareth | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 09:31 AM |
| 5 | Why are there not more feminists here?Hi, I'd be happy to look into an instance or instances of users being banned without just cause. We are human, so I'm sure we make mistakes. Which usersnames are you referring to? I'll look into it. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?Haha, it probably wouldn't phase me. I've met some crazy people on Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/12 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?Oh, chocolate chip! Why thank you :) | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?I'm saying it's wrong for it to be 'default' to infringe the child's rights. You already stated that, should the father choose a paternity test, the child's "right" comes second. You've already set the precedent. The discussion now is in which situations you feel the child's "right" to paternal anonymity should remain. Privileges in this context are entirely arbitrary. An "as standard" right is still a right. My right not to be murdered is still a right, even though it's "as standard". I wouldn'… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Whenever someone accuses MR of misogynyWe are currently discussing this. I will be making a meta post over the next couple of days to announce a change regarding cross-posting and request input. We won't prevent cross-posting as the mods agree that the users should be able to discuss issues related to men's rights, even in other subreddits. What we want to do is avoid a reputation for becoming a downvote brigade - particularly sensitive and personal posts and submissions. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Feminist elementary school teacher brags about how he discriminates against his male studentsThe hypocrisy pisses me off most. He's talking about gentlemanly values while claiming to be a feminist. It's more of the same: take advantage of privileges, otherwise cry discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 09:40 AM |
| 6 | I was a 25 year old virgin and tonight at 27 I got two booty calls. Here's what I did!I disagree. Don't ask for it right off the bat, but if you've had a good conversation, that's the time to ask. The worst she can do is say no. I would be much more worried about missed opportunities. | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?Exactly. His business. His to find out. Not yours to tell him. Precisely. No one should be able to withhold relevant information about his business. If someone wants to find out, they can, at the expense of their (potential) child's rights. If a man doesn't have any suspicions, how will he know to ask for one? No. :) Fine, but let it be known you opened this Pandora's box. He can opt to insure himself against that via a DNA test if he so wishes. Not if he doesn't know to ask for one. Totally dif… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 03:30 AM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.Yes, I did, because you said: "you believe that men are all on the verge of raping people, and all that is needed is a short skirt?" | /r/MensRights | 05/05/12 03:15 AM |
| 0 | [X-Post] About RelationshipsNo more meme pictures please. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Nearly forgot! Update on my meeting with the feminist club.Thanks for the update! Was very interesting to read. I'm actually very interested to see how your date with the feminist goes. It's almost like an intellectual boxing match. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?How is this a rebuttal? I've said numerous times that it is my opinion, my viewpoint, my belief etc. I'm asking you to elaborate on why you've chosen one set of rules over another, but at this point I think we may just be circling the "because that's what I believe" drain. It's none of your business. It's his business. So he should be given all the information about his business. I am saying "If he wants the information, he can find it" whilst you are saying "He is learning the information irres… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 07:24 AM |
| 2 | FYI: OneY is a feminist subreddit, I was banned for this "insulting" post.For the interested, you can see nlake's comments here under the title "Proposed "men's centre" at Simon Fraser University. Thoughts?". Honestly, I don't think what you said is worthy of a ban. Your liberal use of "cunt" notwithstanding, you were careful to castigate sexists and feminists, not women in general. In other words, I don't believe you violated their rules. edit: looks like it was over the use of "cunt" | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.ENTP is chaff? Lurk more, sir. Nothing could be further from the truth. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Of course, genital mutilation is only bad when it happens to females.Don't do that. You didn't need to use a sockpuppet. And next time you use one it may be wise not to use one which has a history of commenting adjacently to yours. Also, try to build up its comment history a little better. Seven comments in six months? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 04:00 AM |
| 1 | You want privilege? You got it!I'm sorry, I didn't mean to imply that your article was devoid of logic. I don't believe it is. We kind of went off on a tangent there. Yes, perhaps I do. Or perhaps I try to live as I think people "ought to" live. I don't always succeed, but to err is human :) Cheers | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?If he has a right to know, he can choose not to exercise that right. I'm going to move away from the word "rights", as rights are defined by the majority in any given democracy, and they are fluid. The distinction you've made between active and passive rights is purely semantic. You're describing different societal rules which conflict, and you've chosen which rules you subscribe to (which should win). There's no real logic to it. You've just chosen it. He has the ability to find out, but we thi… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 03:27 AM |
| 2 | You want privilege? You got it!While I admire your passion, I still value logic and reason over emotion. Why? Because emotion is fundamentally unreasonable. It knows no logic. It is blind. It is immature. It is selfish. Emotion doesn't even need a reason to exist. Emotion is the cause of the great disasters and crimes throughout history. It's the devil on our shoulder telling us to act out of impulse rather than thought. Experiencing anger when bad things happen to people is entirely understandable. That is human nature. But … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 03:20 AM |
| 2 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.Hey you're preaching to the choir. I'm no fan of the feminist organizations either. I'm just commenting on individuals who would like to become involved. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 12:32 AM |
| 1 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.Ah, well, I'm sorry to here that. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Same-sex marriage can last, say wives - They also say "It's different for gay men. They tend to be less monogamous."In other words, "don't discriminate, we're women! But those men over there? Yeah, totally incapable of monogamy". | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:49 PM |
| -1 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.Haha, yes, some sure will. But that seems fair. Just tell them to drop the label while they're here and call themselves egalitarians or something. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?You're throwing around the word "rights" too liberally. I could argue that it is the man's "right" to know he is the biological father. I don't believe giving him knowledge is "forcing" anything upon him. It is simply giving him knowledge. How he uses that is up to him. It allows him to make an informed decision about his life. I'm extremely wary of people who consider the truth to be harmful. The only people I've ever met to use that statement have been dishonest; who rationalize away their mis… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:35 PM |
| 3 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.It's the slippery slope. Some "good" feminists may try to inject their beliefs into the movement, but so might anyone else, for any number of reasons. We don't have a central governing body. Just like with feminism "men's rights" is different for each person, so it's impossible to brand people "good" or "bad" MRAs and feminists. Remember, many people call themselves feminists for no other reason than they believe in equality. Such is how feminism has branded itself. If these people could be educ… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:27 PM |
| 1 | You want privilege? You got it!This is heart-wrenchingly true. I have friends who have been abused by the system, but it hasn't happened to me yet. I would probably be more hostile otherwise. Still, we should never praise basing emotionally-driven, no matter what has happened to us. I think we should always strive to be better. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:23 PM |
| 1 | You want privilege? You got it!Very reasonable. As I said, I thought the message was spot on. And I'm sure many users put up with the hostile tone because of that core message. You need to strike a balance and you've probably done just that. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.I didn't say you quoted me, I asked for a quote of the section which you were paraphrasing. Calling butthurt on reading comprehension when you failed to read my comment? I'm getting that trolly feelings deep down in my bones. So, onto your wonderfully inept use of "logic". First, I didn't say women need to dress a certain way to prevent rape. This is yet another example of inserting words. I'm noticing a common them with you. Instead of addressing what users are actually saying you're setting up… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?You'll need to define "need" then. We believe that men should know the truth, even if they don't actively seek it out. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 11:09 PM |
| 6 | As a feminist, I want to say to r/mensrights: THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I believe feminism strives for equality, and the issues you bring up here are valid and not petty.Sorry mate, I'm with Alanna here. I really do get where you're coming from, and in a black and white world I would agree. But I really only think we harm ourselves by attacking the feminists who actually do want equality. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 09:01 PM |
| 1 | You want privilege? You got it!You know your audience much better then we. If your audience responds positively to "fembot"s and expletives, then far be it for us to make suggestions. That said, there is a clear resistance to the delivery here, and we are no small community. I believe the message would have had much more power if you had exercised just a little more restraint. You can still express emotion, but there is a classier way to do it. We're used to seeing emotional rants in the feminism corner, and many of us like t… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 12:29 PM |
| 2 | You want privilege? You got it!I think I recognized that it was emotion, not intellect that would get most people interested in the MRM. This isn't a rousing endorsement by any means. I would like to put my hand up as one of the ones who make the decision mostly free from emotion. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?If you trust your partner to have not cheated, you would trust that the child is yours. For most people, trust and faith in another is all the 'evidence' they require to believe that the child is theirs. I would be heinously offended if my significant other demanded proof that I hadn't cheated on them without having a strong reason to believe otherwise, because that would mean they didn't consider my word good enough. None of this changes what I said, nor does it address it. What about the men w… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 12:12 PM |
| 3 | You know what I like about this subreddit?We WANT women to feel comfortable here. Many women feel revelation at discovering they had similar feelings about the world. They want to talk about it. This is the perfect place. If you don't want to join in the discussion then don't. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/12 12:56 AM |
| -1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.Would you quote where I said that? We don't take kindly to people fibbing here. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 10:23 PM |
| 4 | You know what I like about this subreddit?Okay, as promised I've been keeping an eye on your comments. You aren't contributing meaningfully to any discussions. Everything you post is inflammatory. Most users consider you a troll. If the only comments you continue to contribute are like this, you will be banned. If you don't have something constructive to add, don't say anything. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 09:23 PM |
| 3 | If you want respect, police yourselves.Warning: Women are welcome here. This kind of rhetoric isn't called for. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 09:17 PM |
| -1 | If you want respect, police yourselves.This is only proof if you believe that suggesting women take precautions = victim blaming. We would disagree with that. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?If there is no suspicion, you wouldn't need a test. This logic isn't sound at all. No suspicion doesn't mean the child is genetically his. He may be completely trusting, but she may still cheat. It is important in these instances that men are given the truth, even though they may have had no suspicion to begin with. It is not my opinion and I am equally entitled to mine. Absolutely. I don't understand it, but you are entitled to it. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Question: I've been reading a bunch of threads about men bringing up another man's baby (because the wife cheated). Do you think it's fair for men to request a paternity test when they have a baby, just by default, to make sure they're not wasting their money/time raising another man's child?A couple problems here, and reading your comment history you are clearly smart enough to know what they are. We are also discussing cases where there is no suspicion. Men who do not know they are raising someone else's child should be aware. If the child isn't genetically his then the child isn't genetically his. That's important for many men, even if just to know that she didn't cheat on him. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 03:07 AM |
| 1 | "How to spot a misogynist"Na, I'm a kiwi too and this is just some idiot blogger. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 02:47 AM |
| 1 | "How to spot a misogynist"Geoarchy. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/12 02:47 AM |
| 18 | Club Bitches"He did to ME what WE DO to guys!" She cried. That's where I realised it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 06:41 AM |
| 6 | "How to spot a misogynist"According to point five, attempting to discuss male injustices automatically makes us misogynists. I guess we're all dirty misogynists now. Fancy that. I had no idea. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/12 05:20 AM |
| 7 | "How to spot a misogynist"This is an article from an online paper in New Zealand. Feel free to join in on the discussion at the bottom. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/12 03:54 AM |
| 12 | Use of the word 'misogyny'.Rape is just sex? Okay, so I'm tired of SRS users misquoting, mischaracterizing, and outright lying. No one - in any way - claimed rape was just sex. You're banned. Tell your coven that lies will not be tolerated here. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/12 02:26 AM |
| 1 | If we want to be taken seriously, we need to start banning accounts that are clearly misogynistic.No. We discussed that one at length. He's otherwise and snarky, but he appears to have a genuine interest in the subject. I actually banned him a few weeks ago before unbanning him after he promised to be good. If you see any comments of his that break the rules let us know. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/12 11:04 PM |
| 3 | If we want to be taken seriously, we need to start banning accounts that are clearly misogynistic.Time after time this subreddit it put on SRS. I don't really understand how this is relevant. SRS is widely regarded as one of the most bigoted subreddits on Reddit. If we are being displayed there it is only because we believe in equality, and they hate that. They prefer to view all gender discussion through a lens of female oppression. If females aren't given an advantage, that means they're being disadvantaged. They adhere to a patriarchy model, which is provably false. The appeal to populari… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/12 12:13 PM |
| 10 | If we want to be taken seriously, we need to start banning accounts that are clearly misogynistic.Hi datanner I help moderate here. Since you're new, you don't really understand the subreddit dynamic, so giving us advice of this nature is coming across as condescending. We are always open to suggestions, but perhaps lurking for a little longer would have told you that, for example, we already ban outright misogyny and misandry. Indeed, we ban any outright bigotry. The problem of ambiguity arises, however, and this is where your brother is likely confused. SRS users believe every comment whic… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/12 12:03 PM |
| 3 | If we want to be taken seriously, we need to start banning accounts that are clearly misogynistic.We ban at least several accounts each day. Most trolls are easy to spot. New; low karma. Some are harder, and we vote on them. What we don't want is to silence dissent. That's healthy and should be encouraged. It keeps us sharp. What we do want is to keep out people who aren't even interested in discussion. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/12 11:53 AM |
| 8 | Someone brought up the "genital mutilation of girls." When I pointed out that baby boys are mutilated all around the world every day (> 50%!), conversation just stopped. Like, I had two heads or something. How should I have handled this?I thought that was a fancy turn of phrase which I hadn't heard before. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/12 10:36 PM |
| 13 | "It's called wooing" or "it's called I deserve free food because I have breasts"? (xpost from /r/okcupid)This is an interesting point. Humans are very susceptible to corruption. If society reinforced a model whereby we got lots of attention and free stuff just by being pretty and asking for it, I have no doubt many men would turn into the equivalent of this. That doesn't mean we shouldn't identify it and work towards stamping it out. It just means the pretty women who don't do this have a stronger will and more conviction about what's right and wrong. This also makes finding a nice, attractive woma… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/12 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Fuck everything about SRSWhile I agree, we don't allow linking to SRS. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/12 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Thank youWelcome :) | /r/MensRights | 27/04/12 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Boy kicked off of girls field hockey team for being too good.Well said. Even though black people do show a measurable performance margin over other ethnicities in competitions, it would be wrong to apply that to the individual. Ditto for boys. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/12 11:16 PM |
| 6 | You guys want more members? Knock off the circumcision crap.If you really want to be banned, I'll oblige. But if I may make a suggestion: stop being an ass. It seems your original intent was merely a frustrated rant. You quickly derailed yourself. I was actually going to ban you until I read your post history. You don't really like our subreddit, but based on your experiences with feminism, you also agree with a lot of our beliefs. You have a lot in common with the majority of our members. It would be great if you would try to find the common ground, rat… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/12 12:06 PM |
| 29 | Why women lose the dating game.I learned through a decade of rejection that I can live without being in a relationship with a woman. This is a powerful realization. Most men have to constantly struggle for most of the things they achieve; be it their career or relationships. Most of us go through a kind of trial by fire. So it's no surprise that we end up more worldly, and maybe a little jaded. We've been taught - repeatedly - to rely on no one but ourselves. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/12 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Frida Ghitis blurts it out...ATTENTION This screenshot was likely faked. This is the Twitter feed. While she may have deleted this particular comment, you'll notice the tone and structure is way outside her norm. Further, this was posted by a brand new account. While many people like Frida do attack and marginalize men and men's rights, it's possible that in this instance Frida did not. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/12 08:30 PM |
| 1 | OneY moderators censoring critiques of feminism - on a forum about being male!That's a common SRS tactic. It's designed to shut down real discussion. Flip it round and create a specious link between their position and something equally deplorable. Then keep screaming it in bold caps. It shows you understand their retarded tactic and usually makes them pretty frustrated at the same time. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/12 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Keep reading, it ends well.Hi vegibowl I'd like to apologize for the members who reacted that way. There is a reason for some of the hostilities. We've had a troll creating fake self posts recently in an effort to rile up members. For this reason, many members (including myself) have been quick on the draw to use the "troll" word. Please do stick around. You'll find the vast majority of us are simply seeking equality the best way we know how. That said, we do favour a light-handed approach to moderation. Members are allow… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Shared parenting bill in the Minnesota Senate. Democrats are unanimously against this bill, and Republicans are for it.Well put. It's a race between Dumb and Dumberer. You guys really need to institute proportional representation, stat. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Shared parenting bill in the Minnesota Senate. Democrats are unanimously against this bill, and Republicans are for it.I think I remember watching a South Park episode about this. Voting is always between a giant douche and a turd sandwich. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 01:23 AM |
| 2 | What we stand forI agree. Defining people in such a dichotomous manner is incredibly superficial. It's nothing more than an attempt to set up arbitrary teams with which to fight over. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Men are twice as likely as women to have complications after brain or spinal surgery, and also spend more time in the hospital after the operationClassy. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/12 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Shared parenting bill in the Minnesota Senate. Democrats are unanimously against this bill, and Republicans are for it.As a man, I would have a hard time at the voting booths come election day if I lived in the US. On the one hand, I'm fairly liberal in my views. But I just don't see the Democratic party as liberal. How can they be, if they vote against progressive initiatives like this? I would probably just say "fuck it" and vote for Ron Paul. At least he actually does what he says he will do. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/12 05:24 AM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?Failure to force integration due to the Liberal belief in multiculturalism. This is a really poignant one. I agree that Western culture is too accepting of cultural values which don't mesh well. I think greater pressure should be placed on integration, but I don't believe that's a "Liberal" fault. More a fault of the politically correct crowd. I'm in New Zealand, but close enough :) And fair enough. I know we don't have the same problems with integration that folks in Europe and the US do. I've … | /r/MensRights | 21/04/12 05:00 AM |
| 7 | This Isn't /MR relatedHi 5eraph I understand that this subreddit comprises people from many walks of life, and that will lead to some diverse topics and discussions. But how much should we broaden that scope? We've done well so far by sticking by the idea that all topics should be about men's rights. When we start moving into, for example, men's lifestyles, there are better subreddits for that. Further, those unrelated topics tend to create confusion and distraction; just more areas for disagreement. The link you pos… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/12 01:24 AM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?That's not what I said. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/12 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Required reading for /r/mensrights: how to find and properly use viable scientific research.If I could sticky this, I would. Thanks for the informative submission. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?Because the economy is bad? Huh? So you should be encouraging immigration. Get down from your ivory tower ;) Which there is not. Ah, so this should be the primary goal of both parties. ...partly caused by feminism! Haha, I'll give you that, but as I said, it's not necessarily a bad thing. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 11:50 PM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?What's wrong with 100,000 new immigrants arriving each month, provided there's a robust selection process in place? Immigrants help the economy in most Western countries. And what's wrong with a falling birth rate, provided there's a robust immigration process? Plus blaming feminism seems superficial at best. Most evidence points towards increasing socio-economic conditions for the fall in birth rate. This is further reinforced by viewing low socio-economic groups within America, and observing t… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 11:35 PM |
| 13 | All Men Should Be Castrated? - International "Castration Day"Even satirically or facetiously, this is sick. This person is a fucking psychopath. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 10:31 PM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?I think you misunderstood. By focusing on the issues we can work towards a solution. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 10:16 PM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?That's a pretty fair call. I'm hearing this from a lot of disenfranchised conservatives. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Who Needs Feminism campaign - WTF?Immorality does not equal illegality. Or at least it shouldn't. Morals are entirely subjective. It's moral in many cultures to circumcise girls. That doesn't mean the practise should be enshrined in law. Or that I will agree with it. To point: if you maintain people are stripped of agency when drunk, logically that means you don't think people should be held responsible for their actions when drunk. That's exactly what a lack of agency means. So drunk drivers can't be held responsible. People wh… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Who Needs Feminism campaign - WTF?Is it rape if the person consents? Don't be facetious. If you're going to use this argumentative tactic I'll throw it back at you. SO WOMEN CAN MAKE CHOICES ANYMORE!? MISOGYNIST!!! | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Who Needs Feminism campaign - WTF?I would consider that immoral. But the alternative - stripping women of agency when drunk - is far, far worse than allowing subjective immorality to continue. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 10:31 AM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?From my observations in my brief time being a mod, it appears that we have a very diverse range of users from every political ideology. That's a good thing. But there is a very small but vocal group of people who self identify as to the right on the US political spectrum who insist on framing all issues in a political light. They're giving everyone a bad rep; people on the right, and indeed all MRAs. I don't see this same insistence, or vitriol, from people who identify as on the left. All I can… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 08:16 AM |
| 2 | When did this become a left vs right issue?This comment needs to be nailed to the forehead of every person making men's rights political. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 08:08 AM |
| 1 | When did this become a left vs right issue?Big government certainly is - to an even worse degree. If you have a look at how the US Republican senators vote, they always vote to expand government programs which benefit business interests. Couple that with the advocacy for much greater waste of resources on wars. And there are other problems. Denial of peoples' rights on a basic level, such as religion and sexuality. But to address the other points, immigration isn't bad, provided it's done right. In fact, it's often essential for Western … | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 08:07 AM |
| 15 | I feel more comfortable in MensRights than in /r/women or /r/TwoXChromosomesThirded. r/ainbow is awesome. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Student Newspaper: 'Beyond a reasonable doubt' standard for sexual assault is 'tantamount to victim-blaming'Don't do that. Your views are controversial, but you've made them in a generally polite manner. Don't spoil that by calling us all rapists. That sort of rhetoric shuts down conversations. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 07:37 AM |
| 2 | The female of America...Get your post and karma count up a little bit then before making any more self posts of this nature here. Feel free to join in on discussions in other submissions already created. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 01:23 AM |
| 1 | The female of America...Hi CokeZeroPepsiOne Please resubmit this under your main account. Alternatively, PM me from your main account and I will approve this submission. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 19/04/12 01:06 AM |
| 5 | Hi MensRights, I'm pregnant and want to do the right thing. I could use some solid advice.Hi hisBabyMama I've removed this submission. It has little to do with men's rights. Further, you're using a throw away account, and that sounds some alarms. I'll approve this submission again if you message me from your main account. Gareth EDIT: Confirmed legitimate. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/12 10:30 PM |
| 3 | aweful lot of trolls running around here today.in what ways and what capacity? For new accounts? Asking for verification; applying the rules more strictly; checking previous comments. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/12 06:01 AM |
| 2 | aweful lot of trolls running around here today.but possibly just a loose whore with regrets This is a problem. So is "most rape is not rape" (comment previously removed). You need to be careful about the distinction between attacking feminism and attacking women. Further, don't make generalizations. Women who get drunk and have sex are possibly loose? Possibly whores? You sound ridiculous. Use facts; use logic. Stick to the aim of this subreddit: furthering the rights of men. Your account is brand new, so consider this your one and only warn… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/12 05:04 AM |
| 7 | aweful lot of trolls running around here today.The blogger Eschatology has basically informed me that they will continue to troll r/MR. To be honest, who cares? It's one user. It gives me something to do, and it's oh so satisfying banning them. They also tend to use the same formula, which makes identifying them incredibly easy. They make a few user names, do a little trolling, rinse and repeat. Please use the report button. I also want to add that the user seems a little detached from reality. They created a submission lately which complete… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/12 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Rape is about sexual enjoyment, nothing moreI've left this up because you've framed this in a manner which discusses the motivations of rape insofar as feminists ignore other motivations in order to further their ideological belief in patriarchy. Further, it doesn't violate any rules. I believe that ignoring the multitude of reasons for rape is dangerous, and so discussion of this subject is important. But be warned, blahblahblah_123_. I'll be paying close attention to your brand new account. Any hint of violation of our rules - that incl… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/12 10:30 PM |
| 3 | You guys helped me out...I was on the edge of giving up, but, after 1 year, I now see my son on regular basis. THANK YOU!Congrats :) | /r/MensRights | 17/04/12 12:02 PM |
| 3 | I was beat up by a woman.Report button is what I need :) I've removed this submission and will approve it if the user messages me from their main account. This is the same formula Eschatology always uses. Two more accounts below obviously from the same user - banned, of course. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 06:01 AM |
| 2 | I was beat up by a woman.Hi throwawayassault I've removed this submission. I'll need you to go ahead and message me from your main account before I approve it again. Gareth | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 05:59 AM |
| 6 | Why Are Men Frustrated With Dating? Is dating a punishing situation for men?Oh yes. It's a symptom of a sick society. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Why Are Men Frustrated With Dating? Is dating a punishing situation for men?This is great for two reasons. First, it lets him know where he stands with her right off the bat. No games. That's really a good thing. Second, because he knows where he stands, he can end the date then and there and not waste another second of his life. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Sperm donor liable for child support, judge rules.Sperm donor's do not put their names on birth certificates. Perhaps someone should have explained that to him then. I would have assumed that's the name of the biological parent. He wrote letters to the kid calling himself "dad". Why would a simple donor ever contact the child? That's not proof of conflict. "Dad" means biological male parent to me, and so I would sign such letters "dad" as well. He wasn't a simple donor. He wanted to be involved in their lives. But that doesn't mean he wanted to… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Feminism's latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls.A simple "such-and-such bullshit will not be tolerated" from the mods would clean up a lot of the irrelevant shit and allow for a healthy discussion of men's issues. By whose definition? I understand what you're saying, and personally agree with you, but you have no idea what it's like to juggle the interests of 34,000 users. Such a policy would placate you and maybe 1,000 other users. But we get 20,000 people angry with us. We can't be exclusionary to benefit the few. You say that the value of … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I was banned by JtO.Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | I was banned by JtO.JtO is not a moderator here. Which account was banned? From where? You have an impressive rant, but it seems to be lacking in all the important information. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 12:38 AM |
| -3 | Sperm donor liable for child support, judge rules.He put his name on the birth certificate, did he not? I think we've established - beyond a reasonable doubt - that, yes, he did indeed put his name on the birth certificate because he is in fact the father. He does not wish to dispute that fact. if he wants to be paid for his services, he should have some contract. I don't believe he does. Where does it say he requested to be paid? In a few instances this has happened, maybe I'm getting that trolly feeling in my bones. I think I might just check… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Sperm donor liable for child support, judge rules.I understand that. I'm commenting on the law itself. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Feminism's latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls.It's something we might consider, but the mods have always been more hands-off. We're not parents. We prefer for the community to largely police itself. Your parallel with SRSD makes me extremely uncomfortable, for example. They have a terrible moderation policy. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Sperm donor liable for child support, judge rules.he obligated himself to be the father by having his name on the birth certificate as the father. He is the father. He didn't obligate anything. He is the biological father. Did he sign the contract declaring he should be paid? Which contract are you referring to? He didn't sign any contract stating that he's just a sperm donor You realise such a contract would be unenforceable anyway, right? "The welfare of the child" comes before all else. What we have here is a person who chose not to lie on t… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Feminism's latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls.the old "keep it in your pants" was never expected to be followed or taken seriously. Great observation. I see men opting out of society all around me. Before becoming involved in men's rights I just assumed we were dealing with lazy men. Now I see that it's men who feel they have nothing to gain by becoming a cog in a wheel. They have no rights insofar as family is concerned, so they don't want to get married. But it's more serious than that. Men feel resentful. They feel taken advantage of. If… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Feminism's latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls.While I agree with you, basic psychology shows that people are more willing to consume content which is more easily digestible. Think "bite sized". It's lazy, sure, but to the average, media-assaulted person, that's what they gravitate towards. We can rally against it, or we can acknowledge that people make their own choices as to how they consume information. In other words, people who care little for articles are not going to see your condemnation and radically alter their media consumption ha… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Young Boys to Pay For Society's Sexual ContradictionsLink directly to the article please. I've removed this submission. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 03:13 AM |
| 22 | Sperm donor liable for child support, judge rules.I don't see why any of that should obligate him to pay child support. He did a good thing. He even helped out with the kids when he could. Shouldn't he be paid for services rendered? I don't understand why he's being punished for being a nice person. This whole situation is beyond screwed up. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Who Needs Feminism campaign - WTF?Bingo. I don't drink excessively because sometimes I make stupid decisions. I don't blame anyone for those stupid decisions but myself. So I don't drink excessively anymore. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/12 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Who here has committed an act of physical violence towards a woman(s) and what was your reasoning?I've never hit a woman, but I've been hit by many. I, like most men in their 20s, have been taught that hitting a woman is one of the worst things I can do as a man. But I'm expected to stand there and accept any physical abuse dealt to me by women. I am far from alone, and this thread seems to support that. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/12 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Who Needs Feminism campaign - WTF?A lot of people haven't spent time figuring out that getting someone drunk and then having sex with them is immoral. They tie them up and force alcohol down their throats? That's not just immoral, that breaks many laws. To be honest, I've never heard of frat members tying people up and using funnels to force women to drink. I feel that if they were going to do that, why bother with the alcohol? Are you sure you don't mean that she CHOSE to drink alcohol, then she CHOSE to have sex? Because then … | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 10:28 PM |
| 0 | A horrible thing indeedTrolls trolling trolls trolling trolls. I say ignore and move on. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 10:02 PM |
| 1 | College MRAs, let's launch a counter-feminist flyer campaign (in response to "Walk a Mile in Her Shoes" campaign and for any other men's issues).Sorry, to be clear I'm not suggesting I will remove this because they oppose the rallies. Members are free to believe as they wish (and it seems justified at that). I asked for verification of their main account because we've had a spate of trolls here recently, and the user is on a one day old account with no karma. It's suspicious, given recent events. Considering I've received no reply, my suspicion is growing. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 12:36 PM |
| 3 | College MRAs, let's launch a counter-feminist flyer campaign (in response to "Walk a Mile in Her Shoes" campaign and for any other men's issues).I'd like you to PM me from your main account, or I will remove this submission. Further, while I can't speak for everyone, I would not suggest condemning "Walk a Mile in Her Shoes" campaigns. Rather, we should be focusing on positive rights for men. There are more important causes to focus on. Edit: I have removed the submission. I will approve it again if you PM me from your main account. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 06:25 AM |
| 1 | When asking a girl out.. (works great)Those are awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Men you have privilege, so use it to end ALL gender inequalities. please.User for 7 days. I think I'll pass on this one. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 04:04 AM |
| 2 | AVfM Radio: MRM just angry, privileged white guysWell, if you report the comments it helps us find them. We can't be all places at once. That said, every time I ban a user it comes with a disclaimer: we don't ban for dissenting opinion. That is, people who are discussing or arguing in earnest. I read through this user's posting history and it's easy to tell they're trolling. The total negative comment karma gives it away. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 02:12 AM |
| 1 | "Why all the Men's Rights hate?" on SRS -- I could use some help, MensRights!Sorry, we no longer allow linking to SRS subreddits. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 01:59 AM |
| 1 | /r/TrueFeminismHmm, I see it, but I think it would be lost on most people. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Growing up with a feminist mother...Oh, haha, I see. Maybe stick to just the one in future. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | "SRS: The only subreddit with a death count."Can you link to the front page submission? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 11:49 PM |
| 10 | From the sister of black visions who committed suicide - a thank you to men's rightsIt's rare for server clusters to have just one copy of a given database. When you delete a copy, you're merely telling the server not to reference it for public access anymore. It will most likely reside in one form or another until the backups are no longer needed, or more space is required. Text is so easily stored that I think it highly likely that backups are kept for significant periods of time; especially given Reddit's propensity for catastrophic failures. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Growing up with a feminist mother...Care to explain the relevance of these pictures? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 12:50 PM |
| 9 | /r/TrueFeminismARE ANY OF US ACTUALLY REAL!? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 12:38 PM |
| 9 | /r/TrueFeminismIt looks like it was created by kloo; the founder of this subreddit. For whatever reason, it appears to be deserted now, and the title and sidebar are needlessly inflammatory. I've removed it. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 03:56 AM |
| 364 | From the sister of black visions who committed suicide - a thank you to men's rightsHi Sandy As you are most likely already aware, this is the final submission from Jerry. We removed a number of provocative comments at the time, so you may not see them if you require them for evidence. If you do, please PM me and we'll organize something. A subpoena to Reddit should yield all the comments in the submission, including the hidden comments, but I wanted to give you another option in case it didn't. Further, three comments were deleted by the users (one from AlyoshaV), and you shou… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/12 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Can I ask what you all think about this? I have been a long time lurker/supporter, but this seems kind of horrible.Most MRAs are egalitarians who feel feminism isn't doing a good job advocating for the injustices men face. This should be common sense, but a lot of feminists are hell bent on twisting what we stand for. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Is it Mentoring, or Enabling?Thanks, Demonspawn. Quite an interesting read. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Can I ask what you all think about this? I have been a long time lurker/supporter, but this seems kind of horrible.In practice it is difficult. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Can I ask what you all think about this? I have been a long time lurker/supporter, but this seems kind of horrible.Perhaps, but god knows I've gone against the hivemind before and I had the integrity to use my main account. It adds weight to a discussion. And it's not like MR has disowned me. We encourage discussion. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 09:19 PM |
| 2 | I didn't think it could happen to me. I would like to thank mensrights for helping me narrowly dodge a bullet.I'm glad things worked out well for you, and reading this subreddit has helped you recognize a dangerous situation and de-escalate it. Since this submission doesn't matter to you, I've removed it. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 12:47 PM |
| 9 | Can I ask what you all think about this? I have been a long time lurker/supporter, but this seems kind of horrible."I've been a long time lurker/supporter, but..." This formula is getting a little tired, no? Why is it that anyone who wants to complain uses a throw-away account? | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 11:27 AM |
| 3 | I didn't think it could happen to me. I would like to thank mensrights for helping me narrowly dodge a bullet.Your timing is unfortunate. I'd like you to PM me from your main account to confirm this is authentic. I'll keep it confidential. We've had a spate of trolls from various hate-groups recently. Edit: Still no PM. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 11:20 AM |
| 2 | I didn't think it could happen to me. I would like to thank mensrights for helping me narrowly dodge a bullet.If you click on the "Why?" link you'll understand why the bot is necessary. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 11:14 AM |
| 7 | "Eschatology" makes more unfounded accusations; recent discussion about personal informationEDIT: I've deleted this and moved it to r/MensRightsMeta This is to address the recent submission by the feminist troll known as "Eschatology". As most users suspected, it was just another sad attempt to write something inflammatory. Ideologues have little in the way of a conscience when it comes to fair representation of the facts. This was recently discussed here. I wanted to ask the community how they felt we should deal with these sorts of submissions in future. At this point it's clear that… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 04:08 AM |
| 1 | /r/MensRights MUST avoid harassing behaviorFeministMRA gave the information herself in previous comments. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 12:51 AM |
| 2 | /r/MensRights MUST avoid harassing behaviorThanks. There are more of them lately. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 12:19 AM |
| 2 | /r/MensRights MUST avoid harassing behaviorThanks, got it. Not sure how I missed it. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/12 12:01 AM |
| 2 | The Sperm Jacker Troll has "a record of inappropriate and unprofessional behavior"And we certainly wouldn't want you or your friend's personal information becoming public, would we? ಠ_ಠ | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:56 PM |
| 9 | The Sperm Jacker Troll has "a record of inappropriate and unprofessional behavior"Because there isn't personal info this submission isn't against the rules, but I am talking with the other mods. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:54 PM |
| 6 | The Sperm Jacker Troll has "a record of inappropriate and unprofessional behavior"For posterity I want it to be understood that these are the actions of two people at most. We've removed all posts with any personally identifiable information. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:53 PM |
| 6 | The Sperm Jacker Troll has "a record of inappropriate and unprofessional behavior"I think you may be right. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:49 PM |
| 3 | /r/MensRights MUST avoid harassing behaviorCan you PM me which comment? I can only see three with personal info and I've removed them. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:40 PM |
| 18 | The Sperm Jacker Troll has "a record of inappropriate and unprofessional behavior"Since there is no personally identifiable information in this submission I'm leaving it, but it's important to say that this sort of thing is not condoned here. Consider that we've recently had a mod step down and delete their account because some feminists did the same thing to him. I know it's hard sometimes, but I'd like to think we're better than that. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 11:39 PM |
| 40 | On Dr. Phil's show right now, female teacher who had two children with her underage student is now blaming HIM for forcing her to do it.Check the comments. Or don't. Many of them are along the lines of "this isn't a child. He knew what he was doing!" I wonder if these people would say the same thing if the sexes were reversed. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 10:17 PM |
| 25 | /r/MensRights MUST avoid harassing behaviorI removed the posts, but this was a difficult call. The user posted the information willingly. We're not going to start protecting people from themselves. That said, danielhillard was clearly attempting to incite some form of retribution at this person's place of education. That could have serious repercussions for their future. While differing opinions are sometimes difficult to stomach, we don't ban them. And we certainly don't start public shaming campaigns. The admins are very clear here: th… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Anti-MRA David Futrelle to Teach Coeds How to Have Good SexWe try to maintain free speech while removing obvious troll comments. It's a difficult distinction to make, but, while manboobz seems to be a bit of a misandrist, his intentions appear genuine. We don't ban dissenting opinions. Trolls, on the other hand, get bans for things like "LOL MRAS R FAGS". | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Questionable Posters From Feminists... (Pictures Included).One and only warning for alluding to violence. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 05:13 AM |
| 12 | Just another story of a man abused by his wife.This kind of thing needs to be seen by more people. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 05:10 AM |
| 5 | The Real Man vs The "Nice Guy"I see a lot of hostility towards the nice guys, especially from women Ditto. The way I see it is a "nice guy" is just someone who hasn't figured out yet that what women want is usually different to what they say they want. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are not the main cause for divorce - Lesbians Initiate Divorce As Often As Straight WomenI think we basically agree, I'm just a little more reserved with how I'd choose to frame the stats. Ditto for ig. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/12 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men are not the main cause for divorce - Lesbians Initiate Divorce As Often As Straight WomenBut how does that statistical correlation apply to the individual? This is the problem with using statistics in this manner: you don't understand they cannot be applied to the individual. Further, that such a figure does not determine contributing factors. I'll be the first to agree that this is likely partially to do with the "Disney effect" - the socially-instilled belief that all women are special and deserve the world handed to them. But that is but one factor out of millions. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/12 12:05 PM |
| 2 | What a wonderful world we live in edited for privacyWomen are rarely brought up on criminal charges for disputes of this nature. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/12 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Girls and coding: female peer pressure scares them offWomen are more susceptible to social pressure? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/12 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Girls and coding: female peer pressure scares them offOh, you're being ridiculed because you're nerdy, have obscure interests, and go against the grain? Must be because you're a woman. Nail on the head. Boys feel exactly the same pressure not to show interest in "geeky" subjects. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/12 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Guess what got me banned from r/Shit RedditSays and r/SRSDiscussion?Sorry, LePetitChou, we don't allow linking to SRS affiliated subreddits anymore. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/12 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Father imprisoned for not earning enough made to sigh prison rape waiverNormally when users click on a username, it takes them to history of a user's comments. Reddit seems to think your account doesn't exist. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Father imprisoned for not earning enough made to sigh prison rape waiverWhy does your account link to a "page note found"? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 01:22 AM |
| 16 | Man in Jail for child support asked to sign "Rape waiver"This is so depressing. It's unconscionable that a judge would award and maintain child support and alimony greater than half his net take home pay, let alone more than the total. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?The ideas aren't mutually exclusive. We can celebrate differences without presupposing everyone has differences. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I have an idea.Who? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I have an idea.Most of us will also identify as egalitarians. I stick up for women's rights where appropriate. But feminism already has enormous influence, and is able to affect change for women. Men have no such movement, and that is the reason for men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 09:15 PM |
| 8 | "Evil feminists" vs. "A man's role in society"?Most of your examples are articles/opinions by "fringe" members of feminism. At least three of the links reference NOW. If that is considered "fringe" I would suggest you research feminism just a little more thoroughly. They wield massive political clout. Your premise here boils down to "I'm not like those feminists". Fair enough. But our argument is that there are sufficient numbers of those feminists to warrant our opinion of the movement. If feminists like yourself never speak out, and are ne… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 09:07 PM |
| 2 | "Evil feminists" vs. "A man's role in society"?Thanks. The comment is quite old now, and I didn't check all the links first. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 08:52 PM |
| 26 | "Evil feminists" vs. "A man's role in society"?First I'll give you the tl;dr, then I'll paste something from one of our members. The issues you describe are definitely on our agenda. But we don't think feminism is doing anything to help men in that regard. There's nothing necessarily wrong with feminism only seeking to advance women's rights. But when seeking equality, it's essential to view context and relativity. Otherwise women end up with privileges, and men end up with even worse disadvantages. So it would have been sensible for men to … | /r/MensRights | 01/04/12 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Do you have to be an anti-feminist to be a MRA?Last warning, Jeremiah. There will be no more attacks made against members over their political ideology. You need to define specific beliefs and actions which you disagree with (as they pertain to men's rights), and why. This crossed the line long ago, and you've been given multiple warnings. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 11:05 PM |
| 4 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?My pleasure, and thank you for your perspective and input :) | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 04:41 AM |
| 7 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?I feel like you're trying to misinterpret what I said. Be as masculine as you like. Just don't force your beliefs and attitudes on others. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 04:35 AM |
| 11 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?Thank you :) there is significant evidence that women are still expected to be caregivers/cooks/maids despite having a job This is fair, and I shouldn't have implied that women no longer experience gender stereotypes. There are many gender role trappings which both sexes need to be free of. I just believe that far more work has been done for women. Perhaps that's more of an indicator of how far women had to go? Either way, men require some help now. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 03:43 AM |
| 4 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?There is certainly an innate component to gender. The trans community will be the first to point that out. But what they would argue is that gender is necessarily tied to xx and xy. I'm not so sure it is. But I subscribe to the notion that gender exists on a continuum. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 03:33 AM |
| 3 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?I feel this confusion will prevail as long as we cling to our binary perception of gender. Things like segmented changing rooms, bathrooms, facilities, special requirements for body searches, different requirements for how police approach each sex, special provisions in in the military, segmentation in sports etc. I would very much like to move to a gender and sex blind society. I think that, ultimately, that's where we'll head. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 02:39 AM |
| 6 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?Thanks for the clarification :) | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 02:00 AM |
| 1 | An excellent analysis of key factors contributing to male prison rape.You were warned. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 01:12 AM |
| 24 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?Our primary focus is on men's rights. As far as I'm concerned, a FtM is treated the same way by the law as any other man, so we're fighting for their rights. A MtF used to be a man, and may still experience many of the same social injustices, so we're fighting for their rights. It's sometimes difficult due to the fluid nature of the gender of many transgender folk. Many of them actively resist gender categorization. There's nothing wrong with that, but once again, we focus on men's rights. One t… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/12 12:47 AM |
| 71 | I am a feminist and I really want to understand the philosophies of Men's Rights. Can anyone help me out?Hi epicparadox In brief, the movement is quite organic in its origins. It wasn't a case of a group of men getting together to affect change. Rather, men are beginning to feel disenfranchised with society; disposable. We began to question why. Most of us have come to similar conclusions. Feminism did many wonderful things for women and women's rights, but men have been completely overlooked with regards to our rights and social roles. In many ways we are still stuck in our 1940s provider role. Wh… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/12 09:15 PM |
| 2 | When Feminists and the gay rights movement gang up on heterosexual men, will gay MRAs stand up for men or stand with the gay rights movement?It wasn't I who removed it, but I won't approve it. The moderation policy doesn't specify the conditions under which off topic comments should be removed. That doesn't mean they won't be removed. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/12 09:00 PM |
| 1 | When Feminists and the gay rights movement gang up on heterosexual men, will gay MRAs stand up for men or stand with the gay rights movement?No, you can only talk about men's rights issues. If you don't want to do that then seek another subreddit. What ma99ie said was directly relevant to the submission. Further, it was concise and extremely mild compared with the rhetoric you're putting forth. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/12 08:49 PM |
| 2 | When Feminists and the gay rights movement gang up on heterosexual men, will gay MRAs stand up for men or stand with the gay rights movement?This is your only warning. This subreddit does not encompass political ideology or racial issues. You'll be banned if you keep at it. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/12 08:26 AM |
| 1 | 7 unique TL;DRs.I tried Piracetam a long time ago. There was certainly an improvement in general cognition, though less so with regards to memory recall. Preferable to caffeine. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do you care so much about circumcision?A few reports for this submission. While I find it offensive, the user hasn't broken any rules. If you disagree with their stance, tell them why. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/12 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Worlds first female president worries about feminist extremists!Last warning. If you have any suggestions for the side bar, message the mods. This post is now considered spam. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/12 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Worlds first female president worries about feminist extremists!What an amazing submission. She's eloquent and extremely well-written. She knows the issues well, and doesn't shy away from pointing the finger at a movement which has gone out of control. Thanks for posting this, sjonsson. This is the sort of content I really enjoy reading here. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/12 09:51 PM |
| 1 | feminist media angry at lawmaker for insinuating women might falsely file for rapeAll you're doing is getting your comments caught in the spam filter. You should send a message to the mods (it's the button on the right, "message the moderators") with these links. We'll take a look and add anything worthwhile. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/12 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Am I being too cynical about these women's motives?I'm just asking that the user substantiate the argument rather than resort to childishness. If your idea of a "conservative" moderator is childishness then I'm afraid we don't condone that sort of behaviour. No, I don't rate "Victorian social mores" as anywhere near "slut", for the reasons already outlined. I fear - and this may be hard to swallow - you're showing bias in favour of a political ideology, rather than focusing on specific issues as they arise and on their own merits. I know this ma… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/12 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Top Ten Reasons Feminists Should Embrace PUAs « JustBeAManAboutit – How to "Just Be A Man About it" in a Post Feminist WorldI don't think this is a men's rights issue. Consider posting this to a more general male space like r/OneY. I think there could be valid arguments made to feminism about the merits of the PUA community, but shouldn't those be made in, say, r/feminisms? | /r/MensRights | 23/03/12 01:16 AM |
| 10 | /r/mensrights has a feminist infestation, crush them like roaches.I'm gonna call troll. If not, a traditionalist, and their views are incompatible with men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/12 12:51 PM |
| 6 | /r/mensrights has a feminist infestation, crush them like roaches.None of the moderators agree with modern feminism in any way, I can assure you. But you knew that already. We are for equal opportunity. That's it. We try not to allow ourselves to be pulled into petty US political ideological discussions, because they just distract from the goal of this subreddit. Truth be told, the only people I've seen accuse me or any other mod of being a "feminist sympathizer" think women should be bare foot and in the kitchen. That's not what we're about. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/12 12:50 PM |
| 2 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)I think we mostly agree. There's no harm in pointing out statistical trends. But we must be careful not to apply those trends to the individual. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/12 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Am I being too cynical about these women's motives?Why isn't that important? I get very offended when someone calls me a "man child", "neckbeard", or accuses me of "mansplaining". If promiscuity isn't a value you support, say as much and support that proposition with a reasonable argument. I'm only biassed towards people who use insults in place of any reasonable argument. I didn't defect that in chavelah. Why is it that accusations of bias only come from people unable to support that accusation with reason? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/12 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I being too cynical about these women's motives?I'll take a page out of your argument. I rip shreds out of anyone that uses the term "neckbeard" because it's a gendered insult. So if I didn't do it to you, I'd be sexist, right? I mean, that's your logic. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/12 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Am I being too cynical about these women's motives?The only words I could discern which could be considered "shaming" are "fundies" and "neocon". In context, they appear to be used in a descriptive sense, rather than because of a lack of vocabulary. Chavelah certainly appears to look toward religion with a critical eye, but I don't see how that compares with calling her a slut. Would you explain which shaming language you're referring to? To be clear: if she was calling you a slut first, while I would encourage you to rise above the fray, I woul… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/12 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Am I being too cynical about these women's motives?This is a good example of why most of the community looks at you disparagingly. This isn't an argument. It's a bitter rant, fraught with ill-considered shaming language. The insults do nothing in this context but highlight an acute inability to address the subject matter logically and critically. In short, you're coming off as an emotional, irrational fool. Any argument you hoped to convey was destroyed with the first utterance of "slut". | /r/MensRights | 18/03/12 06:21 AM |
| 2 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)Moral crusaders, the religious, and (most importantly) politicians who use the battle cry "think of the children" to pass draconian legislation prevent such an objective assessment of the situation. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/12 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Court rules daughter must now take father’s last name after mother refused to name him as the father.That crosses the line into racist. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/12 03:28 AM |
| 2 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)That's actually very sensible. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/12 02:48 AM |
| 1 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)Yes, I've often thought a breeding license would be a stellar idea. But, as you say, laws are based on averages. It must be one-size-fits all. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/12 01:23 AM |
| 7 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)I don't see why this can't go both ways. Plenty of teenagers (boys and girls) are ready for sexual relationships. Hell, most teenagers do have sex. The Western world has collectively placed their fingers in their ears while shouting "LALALALALA" rather than deal with the fact that maybe some people are ready for mature relationships a little younger than 18. That said, many 15 years olds are idiots. They can be taken advantage of rather easily. How do we create a fair rule which adequately prote… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 08:50 PM |
| 5 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)And if she had become pregnant after pressuring your stupid 15 year old self to have unprotected sex with her? The courts have ruled you're still liable for 18-20 years of child support. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 08:47 PM |
| 10 | seriously though, sexual assault is hilarious. (when the victim is a boy.)The presumption of equality is very important. It's the difference between writing off potential male nurse employees because "women are better at nursing" and assessing the quality of each candidate independent of their sex. I'd like to live in a society where people are assessed on their merit, and not their sex. We shouldn't be treating anyone a certain way just because of a static characteristic, since not everyone conforms to rigid gender roles. I fully support men who want to shake their s… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Mother uses child support money only to buy 500$ shoes for herself [Facebook]You know the rules. No personal information. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Now we must meet upon the field of battle. SRS vs MensRights. MRAs we are legion!A call for violence is unacceptable, even regarding SRS. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/12 10:18 PM |
| -1 | Feminists Starting to Lose Their CoolI see your point, but try to see ours. The majority of SRS users only post here to troll. It makes it difficult to tell which posts are genuine and which are only made to incite the community. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/12 08:35 PM |
| -1 | Feminists Starting to Lose Their CoolApologies, but it doesn't change the message. The above post deserves criticism. Quite often that type of post comes from SRS posters. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/12 07:50 PM |
| -1 | Feminists Starting to Lose Their CoolI see it, but we won't be banning people over pointing out [users'] post history. [Metaphoricalsimile's] post above amounted to marginalization of MGM. [He's] going to receive flack for that. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/12 07:17 PM |
| 13 | A feminist definition of abuse backfiresThis is a warning. Trolling and spamming is not permitted. You will be banned if it continues. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/12 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Important Update on the SPLC, the status of their listing and my having to step downAh, I see. Well, apologies for the comment. I didn't know I was talking to the same person. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/12 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Important Update on the SPLC, the status of their listing and my having to step downHi Jeremiah Do you have any relation to JeremiahMRA? I have had some very reasonable conversations with him. I have not had such conversations with your account, however. If you are one and the same, may I ask why you're using two different accounts? Before my comment, I took a look through your account's comment history. They seem completely ideologically driven. I have difficulty taking anyone seriously if they aren't open to introspection; especially if they refuse to accept or consider oppos… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/12 10:16 PM |
| 9 | Does this subreddit really believe there are no male privileges and little to no sexism against women?That's right. Laws are finite. They can be objectively compared. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/12 11:04 AM |
| 11 | Does this subreddit really believe there are no male privileges and little to no sexism against women?"Males" aren't a collective. We can't experience anything collectively. We are living, breathing, unique people, and you would do well to treat us as people and not as genitalia. So to answer both points: some men experience some privilege and disadvantage, and some women experience some privilege and disadvantage. There are millions and billions of unique privileges and disadvantages. They cannot be compared, and they cannot be added to some imaginary total. There is no objective way to say tha… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/12 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Important Update on the SPLC, the status of their listing and my having to step downI can't actually tell if you're trolling, or genuinely crazy. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/12 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Woman falsely accuses one night stand of rape after he forgot her nameI prefer that her punishment be comparable to the punishment for the length of the crime she accused him of. That is, it should be proportionate to the type of crime of which she made the accusation. If rape carries a variable term of 5-20 years, that's what she should have been facing. Harsh punishments need to be meted out to deter this sort of crime. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/12 03:41 AM |
| 9 | Wow. Just wow. Massachussets wants to fix alimony so that it isn't a lifetime pay, and this is CNN's editorial response.There are plenty of women on our side. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/12 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Wow. Just wow. Massachussets wants to fix alimony so that it isn't a lifetime pay, and this is CNN's editorial response.No, you have the gist of it. Somewhere along the way marriage became less about two people living their lives together, and more like being in business together. Even if a person decides to coddle and pamper their significant other, treating them to a lavish lifestyle, it's automatically assumed that the stay-at-home partner is making an equal contribution to the partnership. This is of course ridiculous, but that is the basis from which alimony arose. So when one spouse manages to advance their… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/12 03:04 AM |
| 56 | Wow. Just wow. Massachussets wants to fix alimony so that it isn't a lifetime pay, and this is CNN's editorial response.Remember, the matriarchy also hurts women. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/12 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever feel like seduction is just draining?What you describe is real confidence. Not confidence borne of everyone else's expectations. Real confidence is staying true to yourself even when everyone else disagrees. Real confidence takes a lifetime to achieve. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 02:21 AM |
| 3 | TIL: Southern Poverty Law Center thinks R/mensrights is a burgeoning hate group.While this is true, neither can unemployment benefits, anti-competitive legislation, and pensions. I'd rather see reform than throwing the baby out with the bath water. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 06:07 AM |
| 8 | TIL: Southern Poverty Law Center thinks R/mensrights is a burgeoning hate group.I agree. I am far to the political US left, and I'm getting rather tired of being ridiculed for it. I'm a very outspoken MRA, and I don't deserve to be called the things they ascribe to "leftists". Something that serves to confuse the issue is that certain users like Jeremy use a different definition of "left". It's more of a catch-all term for any ideologies which he doesn't like. It's possible Factory2 does the same, but with so many different definitions floating around, it becomes impossible… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 01:59 AM |
| -2 | TIL: Southern Poverty Law Center thinks R/mensrights is a burgeoning hate group.Thanks. Enough is enough. Pack your bags, boys. Let's go brigading. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 01:54 AM |
| 74 | TIL: Southern Poverty Law Center thinks R/mensrights is a burgeoning hate group.And every time this discussion comes up I feel obliged to remind everyone that we don't want to become r/feminism or r/SRS. They encourage banning for disagreement, and look what they've become. Insular reasoning abounds, and very little critical analysis and discussion results. They're all jerking themselves into irrelevancy. We already ban obvious trolls and spammers. The massive gray area is where people with vastly different beliefs and ideologies choose to post here. That's what makes you u… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 01:48 AM |
| 9 | 4chan rebels against women being the gatekeepers of sexI usually support all sorts of content being posted here with tenuous relation to male issues, but this is a poorly written, fake story from 4chan about some "alpha as fuck" person's fantasy. The female character isn't even believable in any right. While it's likely that some women feel that sex can be used as a tool, portraying them all in this way (as you do when you frame this story as a kind of social commentary) only serves to scare away a lot of potential, rational, members - from both sex… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/12 06:35 AM |
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