This post is regarding divorce and I would like to give a little background to explain the situation. Location - FL, USA

I have been divorced for 4 years. My now exwife left, cleared accounts and emptied our marital home prior to filing. We had a minor child that stayed with me and I ultimately was given full custody during the trial.

After the FJ was rendered (over 4 months after the trial) both myself and my exwife filed motions challenging portions of the FJ. My motions involved the financials used by the judge in making his determination (used my gross income vs my exwifes net income)...we made the same amount of money annually. I was ordered to pay an amount of alimony that I could not possibly afford without even considering the fact that I was solely providing for my minor child as well as maintain the marital home.

My ex-wife won her motions challenging the FJ but I was never heard. My ex-wife filed at least 10 motions of contempt and various others against me for non payment of alimony during this period of time and as a result 3 years had gone by with me not being heard...I could never get my motions heard (I went through a number of attorneys who tried), the court just kept hearing from my ex-wife and ruling in her favor.

During this period of time a new judge replaced the old judge. My attorney filed motions to get various financial docs from my ex...it took 2 hearings/orders to get my ex to produce (1.5 years), ultimately I had to subpoena most of the docs I needed from her. About two months prior to me filing the subpoenas the judge threw out my motions (now 3 years old) without a hearing or anything. My attorney petitioned the court to have my motions reinstated but the judge was refusing to hear some of the most important aspects of my motions.

I also need to include that my exwife was supporting another man for 2-3 years and he was living with her prior to our original divorce trial. Every financial affidavit, testimony and etc to the court was fraudulent. My motions were finally scheduled for trial and the trial occurred recently.

My exwife admitted to supporting the other guy for 2-3 years all while dragging me through hell while I was caring for our minor child...my case was completely and without question proven. I was asking that the court significantly reduce the ordered alimony or eliminate completely based on my exwife being in a supportive long-term relationship, the issues with the Financials used in determining alimony and a suspension of alimony for 3 years...I lost on everything.

I have been completely bankrupted by this process, feel like I have been completely discriminated against and have lost all hope. The court literally will not enforce anything that was awarded to me in the FJ. The court hammers me and holds me accountable but will not hold my ex-wife to the same criteria. I don't know what to do anymore, please help.