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Patriarchy explained

maxcorrice · 2018-06-14T20:02:05+00:00

Men sure can do some scary things when they're angry4,327 points•147 comments•submitted 3 years...

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June 14, 2018

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Title	Patriarchy explained
Author	maxcorrice
Upvotes	89
Comments	20
Date	June 14, 2018 8:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8r4wbg/patriarchy_explained/
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[–]TheMythof_Feminism 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Not exactly related, but I was once a desperate, anti-social, hyper awkward fuck.

I got shot down by many women over many years.... but as I grew in experience, confidence and social status, it became very easy to get the response I wanted from women. The problem is that at that point in my life I just stopped being interested.

And here's where the relevant part comes in;

I have never met a single man, even the psychos, that react the way the average woman reacts when her advances are rejected , I've been stalked, received myriads of death threats, had my place of work barraged with messages about me. Had my home staked out for who knows what.....

I always find it funny when someone says "men are dangerous when angry", that's true, but they're still measured. I find the opposite is true for women.

[+]Daemonicus -8 points-7 points-6 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheMythof_Feminism 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Don't be stupid. Guys do that shit too.

Last year, an old female acquaintance of mine who apparently had a crush on me re-added me on facebook. She wanted to meet up, I politely declined, she blew a gasket and became deranged because " I can't believe you'd reject me ". She hounded me for over a month before some other guy caught her ire.

This is not rare. I have observed that this is actually very common. Women at large

Men aren't always "measured".

I don't remember saying "men are always measured", nice strawman argument.

Being an asshole isn't gendered. Being violent isn't gendered. Being unable to control your emotions isn't gendered.

What SJW level trash is that? we're talking about tendencies. It's not complicated. Turns out women at large take rejection much more poorly than men do... but go ahead and fall back to your simplistic absolute nonsense, heh.

[–]Triskerai 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[+]Daemonicus -8 points-7 points-6 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Last year... Meaningless anecdote.

Arguments/stories like this are useless. And they become dangerous when you use them to attack an entire gender. It's literally what Feminism has done to men.

This is not rare. I have observed that this is actually very common. Women at large

Rarity has nothing to do with it. You're making it seem like only women do shit to those extremes. They aren't the only ones.

I don't remember saying "men are always measured", nice strawman argument.

"that's true, but they're still measured" Did you somehow forget what you wrote? That phrase implies that "measured" is the default reaction, something that women can't do. Something that men always, or even almost always do.

It's bullshit.

What SJW level trash is that? we're talking about tendencies.

No gender has more of a tendency towards asshole behaviour.

It's not complicated.

Actually it is. That's your problem. You're being reductionist in order to justify your own self loathing/hatred. It's what Feminism does.

Turns out women at large take rejection much more poorly than men do...

Uh huh.

but go ahead and fall back to your simplistic absolute nonsense, heh.

I'd rather fall back on my 8 years of tertiary education, and 12+years of professional experience (Psychology), thanks.

[–]TheMythof_Feminism 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Arguments/stories like this are useless.

Sure.

What's your point? I added it for flavor purposes. I thought that was obvious but I will try to be more clear in the future.

Rarity has nothing to do with it.

That was the entire argument.

Are you telling me it went completely over your head? come on man... I refuse to believe such a simple concept was not able to be understood. Don't waste my time with that red herring nonsense, instead , present your actual argument and we can go from there.

"that's true, but they're still measured"

and

"men are always measured"

are not the same thing. You are either being unbelievably disingenous, or this has all gone over your head. In either case, there is nothing further to be said.

12+years of professional experience (Psychology)

I am not impressed. I work in the field of medicine, actual medicine. Your field is considered a complete joke to us. Your attempt to puff yourself up has backfired quite hard, but I doubt you understand.... that's enough.

[+]Daemonicus -9 points-8 points-7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's your point? I added it for flavor purposes. I thought that was obvious but I will try to be more clear in the future

If it was for "flavour" you wouldn't have tried to condemn women as a whole. It could have been a personal story, and it would have stood on its own. Now you're just trying to hide behind it.

You are either being unbelievably disingenous, or this has all gone over your head. In either case, there is nothing further to be said.

The irony is pretty thick here. Your words speak volumes. I'm not taking that sentence out of context. It goes hand in hand with the rest of your incel bullshit.

I am not impressed. I work in the field of medicine, actual medicine. Your field is considered a complete joke to us. Your attempt to puff yourself up has backfired quite hard, but I doubt you understand.... that's enough.

Yeah you say that, yet your posts are awash with fallacious leaps in logic. You say you're in medicine, maybe you should get some help, instead of retreating into your anime fantasy world.

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