Guys, especially if you're a lawyer or personally familiar with this type of thing, please chime in.

As we all know, there are at least two sides to every story, but sometimes only one side of a story gets told with extreme aggression, persistence, and/or bias...

Bottom line: For some time now ive had a sneaking suspicion that someone who knew of me a few years back was spreading some dirt about me pretty darn aggressively.

To be fair, idk if this is or was the case though.

I just would like to know: Does anyone know how i can make it stop if it is the case?

I don't wish her any ill will. I just want to be left alone.

I'd really appreciate a helping hand or two (and no disrespect towards women or stereotyping).

Thanks.

Oh - im in the US FWIW.

Edit: Does anyone know a better sub for me to post this in?