I've honestly never been able to actually present a case that there are bad aspects of the male gender role anywhere outside of the internet. I can't verbalize any of it, no matter how tactful without getting interrupted and cut off with stuff about patriarchy and feminism. While I don't disagree with a lot of what people bring up, they don't let me present my case and give them awareness of certain issues, so to anyone who doubts that aspects of being male as seen by society, well, suck, here are some questions they can ask men:

Ever been called a creep for acting too forward when you had to psych yourself up to even try to do anything?

Ever felt like you could never conceive of a woman wanting to have sex with you for mere physical attraction, the reason you'd often want to have sex with a woman?

Ever thought of sex as something you had to earn from a woman at a certain point in a relationship?

Ever lost attraction from a woman after telling her about your insecurities?

Ever had a time when a woman told you her insecurities, you realized you had shared them, but you couldn't tell her because you felt she would never like you?

Ever not understood why women would get offended at being called attractive when that rarely ever happens to you?

Ever felt your insecurities are nothing but a burden to people that they wish to dismiss and cast off?

I feel this tactic would be better because it's one thing to present an argument to someone about how men view things, and it's another to give them something they can go test for themselves.

I'd suggest add more questions to this, as I think it would be pretty useful for getting people to understand that the male gender role sucks.