Last night at work (I work overnights) I was listening to all the wimenconokain that their men don't do anything at home. No cleaning, cooking, shopping or childcare. I know it isn't true because I've heard all of them talk positively about their husbands but this was a bitch session and I let it go. Then on the way out to our cars I told them (in context of a conversation) that I get my kids dressed and fed and off to school every morning because my wife works days, and I do the cooking and shopping because it's easier to do it when they are gone. A chorus of "you're whipped " and "she's got you trained" rang out. Because of course, I do what they want their husbands to do and they find it unmanly. Luckily I literally don't care but it's frustrating living as a white make in this world of double standards. The end.