Considering this sub seems to have been infiltrated, maybe thiswill get some traction here.

Women do not understand the term settling. They see it as being with someone beneath them, of a lower value than themselves.

Settling is a problem. I agree, but most women’s don’t understand it.

Everyone wants the 9/10 but if you’re a 6/10, you are not settling if you end up with a 5, 6 or 7. They are your natural counterparts.

We have seen, with the explosion of the internet and dating apps, that a small percentage of men (20%) are in some sort of demand and many of them will happily “service” many women who chase them, while most men have a barren time (60%).

In essence, women seem to have two channels - yes or maybe - covering maybe 20% men. An extra 10% may get lucky. But 70% are invisible, seen as non-human.

This leads to the “where are all the good men?” question. You can’t tell if a man is a good man by swiping right or left solely on the basis of an online dating profile on how good looking, tall or rich a man is. And the top picked men may often become cads if they can easily jump between many women. They find it difficult to “settle down” just as promiscuous women do.

Settle down is vastly different from settle.

In pre-online dating times, people got to know each other through shared social, education or work activities and this allowed personality to shine through. It’s a shame that has gone, to everyone’s detriment. And we will have 50% women single and childless by age 40 soon.

Only women can change this.

  1. Just understand that because you once happened to sleep with a very good looking guy, you need to accurately judge your own averageness.
  2. And give men a chance to show you their personality. You might end up with the man of your dreams.
  3. Finding someone who meets 70%-80% of your desires is a catch. Not settling