I keep looking to quote this survey, so I wanted to put it here so I can find it again. May you use it as well.

http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf

Some noteworthy facts:

  • 36% of women and 29% of men experience physical violence, rape or stalking at the hands of their partner over their lifetime up until 2010. This does not include "forced to penetrate" stats for men.
  • Over 2010, 2.9% of women were the victim of sexual assault by an intimate partner. This includes 0.6% of women raped and 2.3% the victim of other forms of assault.
  • Over the same period in 2010, 2.5% of men were the victim of sexual assault by an intimate partner, including made to penetrate and other forms of assault.
  • In two categories of sexual assault, men actually are more often victims by their intimate partner: unwanted sexual contact and non-contact unwanted sexual experiences. Men can only be the victim of "made to penetrate" and women can only be the victim of "rape" according to this study.