I've spoken to feminists before and one of the biggest weaknesses in their argument about sexual consent is the concept of compromise. We can see some of the conflict here.

http://www.gurl.com/2016/11/29/what-to-do-if-your-boyfriend-wont-go-down-on-you/#1

Sometimes they don't even acknowledge that with holding oral sex that you want to get your boyfriend to engage in sex he does not want is rape based on the way feminists have demanded it be defined. They simply say demand it in return. That's the biggest issue they have with porn (addiction?) because ot essentially decreases the male libido in a relationship and inverts the issue of mismatched libidos putting women in the position of requesting a compromise.

I've seen the same thing with feminist women complaining about men ghosting them. I haven't seen the reverse. I've not particularly looked for it. I did look for that link above, but that's for illustration. I've seen many similar posts on other web sites. Maybe it's because men do most of the ghosting. Maybe it's because women are less comfortable with initiating the conversation and pushing the relationship along (ie asking for dates, proposing, etc.).

One feminist even complained that he had told his friends she was a crazy stalker because he didn't want anything more to do with him, but she kept calling him. That doesn't alter the fact that it's feminists who push the no one owes your their time or attention One feminist asked men to be kind since women need closure. Fair enough, as long as she realizes and respects men';s right to say I'd rather be safe or I'm unwilling to do the unpaid emotional labor of answering / returning your call.

On the other hand I've seen many articles excusing, I mean explaining, times women have been cruel to men asking men to understand. Really all men need to read is she's a bitch. She's not worth your time worrying about. Done.