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The i-word is extremely overused

Diligent_Divide_4978

August 20, 2025
53 upvotes
/r/MensRights

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Title The i-word is extremely overused
Author

Diligent_Divide_4978

Upvotes 53
Comments 11
Date August 20, 2025 6:05 PM UTC
(11 months ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1mvmdxc/the_iword_is_extremely_overused/
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Comments

[–]MaleEducation1 34 points35 points36 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I remember Elon Musk's child calling him an "incel".

When in reality he is probably the anti-thesis for an "involuntary celibate": two ex-wives, 14+ children from 4+ women. I would bet he also probably has a line of women wanting to have his baby.

I can't take anyone who uses that term seriously anymore.

[–]peter_venture 13 points14 points15 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're not supposed to say this out loud!

[–]eacc69420 16 points17 points18 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

the left started using incel as a derogatory term, then they lost the presidential election as a majority of young men voted against them. Coincidence?

[–]SidewaysGiraffe 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, but only a tiny piece of a much larger problem.

[–]Kuato2012[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Remember when people were up in arms about "slut shaming" women? The traditional female sexual role is to be choosy about sex, so slut shaming reinforces those traditional conservative values.

The traditional male sexual role is to seek and achieve partners. So by the same token as slut shaming, incel shaming reinforces those traditional conservative values.

Funny though, the exact same crowd that hates slut shaming loves incel shaming...

[–]Yamcha-is-Life 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't understand why people use it as an insult? If anything, it's a compliment for being clued up to the current state of affairs and protecting yourself accordingly. 😂

[–]tilldeathdoiparty 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You see that’s where you are wrong.

You are not an incel, you have voluntarily chosen this path.

Incel means INVOLUNTARY CELIBATE so they are trying and getting no results.

So that’s why it is considered an insult, i personally hate that it is used because many of these men would have had a normal life if it weren’t for the social climate of today’s world.

[–]Yamcha-is-Life1 point 11 months ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I learnt something new today. I thought it meant intentionally celibate. Thanks for educating me. 🤦‍♂️

[–]2muchtequila 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think it's because originally it did mean you wanted sex but couldn't get it for whatever reason.

Not really a problem for other people, but I can see why it would suck for the guy who felt like they weren't good enough to get laid.

The issue came when you had the loudest angriest of those guys take to social media and basically get all of them labeled as hateful, angry losers who despised everyone who was happy and would rape women if given the chance.

They may have been a small minority of the people who could be correctly called incels, but their actions were the first thing that society learned about the term.

So in the social consciousness, incel no longer means a guy who isn't getting laid, it means an angry misogynistic man who will threaten to sexually assault people.

So now the go to insult for many men who aren't being "nice" is to call them an incel even if they're not celibate.

The word has effectively been severed from its original meaning.

[–]SidewaysGiraffe 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Marriage, not sex. "Celibacy" is not being married.

Granted, that's not how people USE it, but we don't abandon reality just because a large group of morons don't like it.

[–]generic_name 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women, and feminists, will openly call boys losers and blame their life circumstances on them (because male privilege or whatever).  But not give them any kind of support or help because only girls deserve help.  

Then guys like Andrew Tate come along with the exact same message of “you’re a loser” but then tell them they know the secret to fixing it.  And boys fall for it because that’s the message they’ve been hearing from feminists their entire lives, but now here’s a guy offering to help them change.

And then feminists wonder why boys are turning toward “alpha males.”  

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