Theres no fn place i can talk. No where to run anymore. No more friends or lovers. I just cant do this alone. All I do is work and school and never see anyone as its all online and I cant talk about the things ive gone through because no one believes me or blames me because of the details and im not

Mod-ulate · 2026-07-21T13:41:35+00:00

I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. I encourage you to see a psychologist/counsellor.

Unfortunately, your post doesn't meet the topical requirements for this subreddit, so I have removed it. If you have a question to pose to other men, try /r/AskMen. If you just want to share, try /r/OffMyChest or other similar subreddits.

Careful_Pen_5740 · 2026-07-21T06:44:24+00:00

I’m sorry, but I think you should seriously consider going to see a psychologist. A really good one. Even a bad one can help you, because talking about how you feel and really opening up helps a lot.

Don’t dismiss this possibility: seek professional help, enjoy your hobbies, and don’t stress out about meeting expectations that are partly self-imposed and partly imposed by society.

If your personal relationships (especially romantic ones) have gone to hell because of the sky-high expectations we place on each other, it’s not your fault.

Relax about that, enjoy your life, and let things be what they’re meant to be. That’s not your concern; your mental health comes first.

WestHistorians · 2026-07-21T06:41:38+00:00

First, you need to clear your mind. Take some deep breaths, go for a walk outside, listen to some calming music. Get the anger out. It doesn't help anything.

After that, you need to build a support system. Go out and do an activity that involves being with people. Go to a gym and play sports, or join a dance or workout class.

Therapy is also helpful in situations like yours, but you need to find the right therapist who is supportive.

Hang in there, you will feel better if you get the anger out of your system.

Total_Fortune6775 · 2026-07-21T06:42:27+00:00

Stop looking for others to help you. Help yourself first.

Remote_Purpose_4323 · 2026-07-21T07:46:15+00:00

Yeah I get it, I just stopped dating, everyone is go egotistical to have real relationships. People spent too much time in socials and they don’t need other people, because they fill in every second of existence with content.
There’s literally no chance to get bored, or get a real connection anymore.
So I just accepted it, and I found all the communities based on my preferences and hobbies.
You are not going crazy, this is happening even in the corners of the world far from US with feminism and misandry.

picardathon · 2026-07-21T13:43:46+00:00

Nature is red in tooth and claw and even humans have the capacity to be good and evil: nowhere is it guaranteed that anyone will have paradise on earth, it is what it is. All we have is the ability to imagine a better world and maybe an opportunity to contribute to that by our actions.

Unfortunately many people have been given unrealistic expectations that suggests they can have it all just because they exist, or that if they work hard they will be rewarded: life is more complicated than that with influences largely beyond our control affecting our future beyond what we do.

What you and many others are experiencing is banging your head against the same brick wall of expectations of life, yet expecting a different outcome despite doing the same things over and over again.

It's time to stop banging your head against that same wall and find a different path that doesn't have a wall of unrealistic expectations under the circumstances.

Look inside yourself to find the fundamental things you really want for yourself, not what you have been conditioned to want or pre-determined solutions to those fundamental wants and then find ways to achieve them separately from the most available sources. Things like sexual fulfilment, friendship, occupation, etc don't even necessarily require the involvement of capricious women.

You are imploding because you have never considered any other solution to your life than the one conditioned by tradition, so there is an apparent vacuum outside of what you have been told you should want and how to achieve it from your perspective. It isn't a vacuum at all, but filled with possibilities you haven't considered, so they are currently invisible.

You can talk in this forum; telepresence allows seeing other people (on various forums of interest), even if separated by the tyranny of distance and engaging in communication, which is no less important because it doesn't allow physical contact. It's a start and Rome wasn't built in a day.

Icy-Friendship1163 · 2026-07-21T08:23:30+00:00

Build a profession you like ,live for yourself.

Try physiotherapy twice a month,consider r/vasectomy,dont marry (r/Divorce_men) ,dont cohabitate,dont date.

Phisioterapy twice a month ,fap with moderation .

Read r/womenarenotintomen. ,r/singleandhappy, r/fire.

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