Was I assaulted?

CrowMagpie · 2024-06-16T02:30:11+00:00

No. You were not assaulted.

You were raped.

Rich-Dark5061 · 2024-06-16T01:53:08+00:00

Yes. You were raped. I'm sorry that this happened to you. It's unfortunate that sexual abuse against men is taken so lightly and is often considered a laughing matter.

ThrowawayAccount3704 · 2024-06-16T03:18:14+00:00

You were absolutely raped and have every right to act traumatized. I’m sorry that happened to you.

VoiddVoyager · 2024-06-16T06:01:11+00:00

Yes you were raped.

AngryTrucker · 2024-06-16T05:33:52+00:00

You were raped. I'm so sorry this happened. Please take care of yourself.

Njaulv · 2024-06-16T08:23:17+00:00

The people saying that are very weird. It is often the case that even much younger kids don't realize how inappropriate the situation was until years later. Or in some cases completely block it out until years later. Those people have no clue what they were talking about. BTW that is statutory rape because of your age at the time.

Curious-Ad5285 · 2024-06-16T19:50:09+00:00

"Playing the victim" is hilarious considering you are THE victim😂

RevelationSr · 2024-06-16T09:02:17+00:00

Rape: Sexual Offences (Scotland) Act 2009

Moist_Photograph8111 · 2024-06-20T23:30:37+00:00

Hey, no you were not just assaulted you were raped. At 14, your brain is a child. You are miles away from adulthood. She was an adult. You were raped. I ask you to tell someone. It’s not too late. Or atleast tell your mother or father. Do not attempt to confront her without police present, you could be charged with harassment (something I’ve seen happen with male CSA survivor who confront their abusers) you deserve peace and you deserve to feel free. There are lots of great helplines in the uk or resources for rape. Rapists do NOT discriminate, it can happen at any age any gender any race any sexuality. You are just as much of a man. Sending love ❤️

Naraksama · 2024-06-16T01:05:10+00:00

Did you consent to this sex or did she simply grab you, open your pants and ride you into the Wild West? If the latter, congratulations, you were raped and are an SA victim. You have the right to be angry when a basement-dwelling feminist says "men can't be raped".

RIPjjRememberGahal · 2024-06-15T22:34:51+00:00

Personally... My opinion is Yes... If a legal adult (over the age of 18) is engaging in sexual behavior with a legal minor (under the age of 18) it is in fact abuse. A minor cannot consent until 17 or 18 in most states here in the USA, and parents have no right to consent for the children to have sex...

Yes, William Wallace I would say you were abused as a child. I am terrible sorry that this happened to you my dude.

If you dont mind i would like to ask you a queston my dude?

ShiftyShifts · 2024-06-18T03:24:38+00:00

So I have never told this story in any capacity because the one time I tried I got laughed at like it was a joke. But I had a an experience like this. My cousin had a neighbor 100% adult 25-30 years old mother. He and I were 12, and she had us come inside after we talked to her outside a window of her house. We went inside and she had full on sex with my 12 year old cousin in the same room as me and then tried to talk me into "finishing her off" after my cousin. Which I denied, she then tried to pressure me into it and give me alcohol. Eventually she got angry and had sex a second time with my cousin.

Ok-Ninja3273 · 2024-06-22T03:33:25+00:00

Did you get help now bud?

Genghis_Card · 2024-06-17T15:51:24+00:00

"Female on male" isn't the issue. The question is- is it legal in Scotland for a 23 year old to have sex with a 14 year old? If it's illegal, you were raped. If it's not, then you weren't. It's as simple as that.

That being said, if I'd have had a 23 year old woman balling me when I was 14, I'd have felt like the biggest stud in town. Was this your first sexual experience or something? I mean, if you were a pure virgin boy who had your conscience damaged by this horrific event, you should talk to a counselor. Otherwise, I'm thinking you're gonna be OK.

Title	Was I assaulted?
Author	The_face_of_the_moon
Upvotes	40
Comments	40
Date	June 15, 2024 2:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1dgjiky/was_i_assaulted/
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