I've seen this subreddit change and morph from news centric and activism discussions into a pity party for men to feel bad for themselves. I've been a part of the subreddit for years and it's so heart breaking that the only victories that are achieved are the echo chambers that have formed. At this point its just emulating other fem driven subreddits.

If people are too busy pointing fingers and flinging shit to the otherside instead of cleaning it up it will never change. It will never work.

In my personal anecdote I've had many small victories with people at the university and public sphere in discussions about men's rights. Specifically about court discussions and gender norms. It's possible but people need to get their head out of their ass and stop throwing pity parties for everything that doesn't fit their narrative.