Why is it normalized for when, a couple post a picture, some women in the comments are so mean to the man?

MozartFan2000 · 2025-03-08T04:58:07+00:00

Because we live in a gynocentric and misandrist society where many women constantly hate on men and have no empathy for men especially young women. Social media, gynocentrism, and toxic feminism have fucked up our world.

Emergency-Thanks-324 · 2025-03-08T05:02:41+00:00

VILE FEMININITY

ControlOk8832 · 2025-03-08T05:09:21+00:00

When I see couples posting stuff I insult both of them cuz I hate couples

redspikedog · 2025-03-08T05:06:29+00:00

I hate this shit. And it's not just women, it's sometimes men as well.

They see you with a rather cute girl and they want to know who it is, sometimes you won't even know that they even try to message the girls. - I've been through this myself. I have to block them on both accounts.

Sometimes it's girls saying mean things and behind your back they try talking them out of your relationship and sometimes even try to introduce them with another person. I've seen this before with some of my friends and something I do is reassure that they are a dating service or a psychiatrist of some sort and if they are not, to STFU before I find their boyfriends a better girlfriend.

A real friend, a real woman, and a real man knows to respect others relationships. They are in a relationship for a reason to begin with.

CuriousPassion77 · 2025-03-08T05:40:22+00:00

Just stay off FB and IG etc, works great for me. Stopped in 2018 fully and life is better

AfghanistanIsTaliban · 2025-03-08T07:23:07+00:00

It's normalized due to group polarization. They would never say this stuff in a man's presence IRL.

There seems to be a popular opinion that looks never/rarely matter (and if it does, only men care about it) in mate choice, but their quasi-anonymous comments in the vast sea of TikTok say otherwise.

A common refutation to the hypergamy effect is that men "marry" (using it as a general term for sexual relationships) upwards in looks, which would justify women marrying upwards for wealth and status

But this simply isn't the case. Both sexes seem to value looks over traits linked to long-term stability. Moreover, women say that they marry for personality, but actions may reflect otherwise.

Here is a relevant study: The Relative Importance of Attractiveness and Intelligence to the Mate Preferences and Choices of Women and Their Parents

and a science news article discussing it.

(FYI: Sample size is about 200 daughters and 200 parents, which is ideal in interview-based socsci research. For example, there is a published article to Sex Roles with a sample size of 201 which claims that women's fatigue is underestimated. If the previous data has a high bias risk, then the latter data also has high bias risk. You can find many feminist-leaning papers with sub-1000 sample size.)

Here's the kicker: Results showed that for picking a long-term mate, a man's looks influenced BOTH groups of women, both mothers (59.6% of the time regardless of personality) and daughters (72.6%!), more than his personality profile. And both groups claimed that intelligence was more important for them than attractiveness.

Despite the increased attention on men's appearance, men are still socially expected to be the breadwinner. According to the Fed's data the wage gap is interestingly also concentrated in race and marital status. Single white men earn roughly the same as married white women and married black men, but make considerably less compared to married white men. Married men in general also work longer paid hours, but this is rarely discussed in the context of "unpaid labor" (ie. labor not explicitly renumerated with money)

nc1996md · 2025-03-08T05:36:52+00:00

I’ve never seen it. But bro we all need to go to the country or Midwest and just find good women, that’s where I’m at rn lol

Lopsi6789 · 2025-03-08T09:44:38+00:00

It’s not normalized. It’s bad behavior.

World-Three · 2025-03-08T05:09:19+00:00

Evolution is built on survival, and survival has been continued by manufactured ways of creating struggle so that people continue to outdo themselves in order to have what nature has always provided us for the sake of survival: each other.

Making men struggle to get the exact same thing we've gotten for thousands of years has been extrapolated. If everyone was happy with each other we'd still be living in straw huts gathering by the fire.

Unfortunately, attacking women really doesn't do anything because most people don't require much of a woman except for having good genetics and having enough of a brain to tolerate. The former can be circumvented with surgery...

Regardless, if you attack women you'll just hurt men. Because women would get together and cite the attack and blame all men for it. Or start the 4B movement somewhere else and damage society even more because most men are under the terms of 4B already and having people bray on about it would just confirm suspicion.

Women work together even if they hate it. Men don't. If you hate a man, he'll take it on himself to do better. A lot of women will just go outside and shun men for having a preference. Or worse off, shun the man she's with for not thinking higher of her than she is.

Tldr: men get hurt? Men's fault. Women get hurt? Men's fault.

michaelpaoli · 2025-03-08T05:31:51+00:00

Some folks are *ssholes. Not unique to women. So, what else is new?

And sure, guys will be seen doin' same about the women in couple's photos ... nothin' new there.

social media

Pretty damn anti-social if you ask me. Maybe learn to lower your expectations of it. Algorithms are also designed to generally maximize ad revenue, which generally means maximizing engagement, which generally means maximizing content that'll get folks to react and remain engaged ... the algorithms don't care if you like it or hate it, so long as you remain engaged.

ReceptionInformal749 · 2025-03-08T05:20:53+00:00

They are jealous or couldn't got picked yet, never saw a beautiful girl being that toxic

Title	Why is it normalized for when, a couple post a picture, some women in the comments are so mean to the man?
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Date	March 8, 2025 4:53 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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