There's all this talk about getting tricked into fatherhood and how you don't have a choice. There's the arguing for a choice for men and that's all good, but meanwhile... Why not more of a practical angle on relations with women? There are many ways to stay safe. Protection in the form of a fake identity and never sleeping around in your own neighborhood or social circle is a very effective way of not becoming tricked into fatherhood. Until there's some changes we should urge each other to take such precautions.