Men's problems don't matter apparently

People (even other men) use "be a man" to shut up men who talk about their own problems, this makes them unable to get anything off their chest and can lead to suicide, self harm or violence.

More men die of COVID-19 but it affects women more.

Millions of men die in wars, have to watch their friend die in front of them and kill children in battle but women are the real survivors.

Men are expected to provide for the whole family, keep a job, fight for promotions, work on someone else's schedule and pay for everything but women do all the real work.

Women are valued for being alive while men have to work extremely hard to be valued but women have such a hard life and men have it easy.

My point is that men are expected to always deal with their own problems because "men never need help". Men do have problems, you will figure out that every man has problems if you let him speak.