PPD advice

ECoast_Man · 2015-01-09T22:21:11+00:00

Ah...

Practice coupled with abundance mentality.

Go in a date with a girl. Might be awesome might have not clicked at all. But you don't care, because there are plenty of fish in the sea.

rapunzelly · 2015-01-11T00:00:06+00:00

I used to talk the ears off my friends and family about it. Journaling also helps. Make sure you're putting in your best effort and continously improving at what you know to improve on, but learn to show yourself the same kindness you would to a buddy who was having trouble.

relationshipdownvote · 2015-01-11T17:39:51+00:00

then like a day or two after the date i get crippling self doubt and knit pick the date and my self

I have a sure-fire way to fix this. If you just met this girl recently and you are thinking about her too much or how you came off, all you have to do is start talking to other girls. As soon as those thoughts come in your mind "how did she take that thing I said", "should I text her again", etc. Just immediately get on tinder, go to a bar, start flirting with another girl, go on a date with a different girl. It's amazing how fast it makes that worry go away and the effect it has on your attitude.

Title	PPD advice
Author	wazzup987
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	January 9, 2015 10:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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