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Q4PP: advice, please

dearisabella
February 20, 2018
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Title Q4PP: advice, please
Author

dearisabella
Upvotes 4
Comments 37
Date February 20, 2018 7:57 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7yyxev/q4pp_advice_please/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/q4pp-advice-please.263514
https://theredarchive.com/post/263514
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Comments

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You won't remember him in 2 years

[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Break up. Next.

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I stand by my comment.

[–]concacanca1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Personally I think the boot up the ass is a better first step then nuking the whole planet but the guy can't have too many complaints if she leaves him.

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Personally I think the boot up the ass is a better first step then nuking the whole planet but the guy can't have too many complaints if she leaves him.

I like my boots, I wouldn't want to get shit on them.

[–]concacanca0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotta get yourself some good old wellingtons for the task.

[–]GinSmokeLies 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just went to RPW and read your comment and I concur.

[–]Maikowski2 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he doesn't wanna talk - dump him.

[–]MyPasswordisPutin3 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Next!

[–]oceanicallyunbounded3 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It doesn't sound like you're getting anything positive out of this relationship. I hear a lot of reasons to leave, and no reasons to stay other than inertia and misplaced guilt. Is this a relationship you really want to be in?

[–]DarkLord0chinChin1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

Girls versus Videogames, battle of the century

[–]oceanicallyunbounded 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The video games are definitely the least of the minefield of problems here.

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

Girls hate every moment the mule isn't out in the fields plowing

[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

No babe, this girl wants to seem like a good RPW so she feels guilty about wanting to dump a fat, lazy, loser, clingy guy. But really she should have dumped him when he flunked out.

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I've been on the receiving end of an AWALT "oh are you playing videogames" judging. They hate a man enjoying himself.. And she wasn't even my girlfriend

[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Did you also drop out of school because you were stupid or could not handle the "pressure" land in community college and cling to your GF like this schmoo?

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not defending the guy

[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It wasn't the video games that landed him where he was, it was all the other stuff he dropped the ball on.

[–]squidracer 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

School is overrated.

[–]squidracer 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh, none of my ex's cared as long as i still went to work

[–]squidracer 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What's wrong with being a fat lazy loser? That's a future goal of mine

[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good luck reaching that goal.

[–]squidracer 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm trying, but i get bored too easy

[–]MyPasswordisPutin 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Don’t be exaggerate. That’s not even true and you know. Too much of any one thing is unattractive.

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I don't know what's true, all I know is how women view videogames

[–]MyPasswordisPutin 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Ya anybody playing pretend for extended periods: not hot. Moderation.

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I do what I want

[–]MyPasswordisPutin 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol. My ex used to tell me that all the time. 😂

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice, I have something in common with Chad at least on text level

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

NAWALT: I love when my husband plays video games, it means I have free time to read or work on my poetry (plus one less person asking me to do things with them).

I honestly don't understand why women don't cherish that free time to themselves.

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Are you single?

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love when my husband

lol no.

[–]GridReXXit be like that2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I play video games.

Video games or sleep or any form of escapism becomes a problem when it’s all you’re doing as opposed to taking care of yourself.

The man is depressed because he bit off more than he could chew with academics and regressed completely to lounge mode.

The video games aren’t the problem. They usually never are.

[–]TheBookOfSeilCuckleberry Finn1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. Looks like he full-on regressed as a result of being separated from you.

The thing is that he might've always been this way, but being that he was habitually focused on his university studies, you didn't get to see it until he lost something and regressed back to his (most likely) pre-university/"adult life" behavioral tendencies.

If this isn't something you want to deal with, then I feel you already know what to do. I doubt living together with him will restore him to the person he appeared to be.

[–]squidracer 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He sounds like a loser. Next

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[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Say a prayer for him and move on love.

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