It's because women are into self worth. One example: "confidence is key for men", women say. Well, healthy confidence is literally a sense of self worth. Self worth and romantic/sexual success go hand in hand for men on a fundamental level, and the type of pressure that comes with it is an alien thing for women, they never experience it.

So rolling your eyes at men for this is like if I as a man rolled my eyes at women who use make-up. We all know that women were brainwashed by patriarchy to be pretty, so women wearing make up is cringe. How does that sound? Heartless? It IS heartless imo.

And before every women who reads this automatically associates it with "oh this guy thinks that being objectified and being used by men for pussy is a good thing", no, you don't get it. That's the extreme. It's the equivalent of the guys who say that women literally only care about money. Women like that exist too, women can be shallow and selfish. But that's an extreme as well.

The point is, as a woman your beauty is ALWAYS at your disposal and it always plays a role into finding a mate, it's quite literally inescapable for you. The most loyal, awesome, mature husband material guy you could possibly find would still see you as physically beautiful from the moment he first sees you, if he really is into you that is. That doesn't mean that nothing else matters to him, but this difference is still gonna be there. Women never have to, heck it's literally impossible for them to experience how it is when NOTHING but your self worth is what determines whether you are qualified for a relationship or not.

My dream is a world where women are generally aware of this, that's all.