This has happened twice. I matched with a girl on tinder and we talked for a week or so on tinder then met up and hooked up. She herself said “Are ok with just coming over banging me and leaving?” and I said sure if we can be consistent. About 2 weeks later I text her at about 2am asking if she was up and wanted to meet up. 2 days later she text me something (I forget what) but she pretty much was pissed that I hit her up to hook up. I stopped talking with her after that.

Another girl I had went to school with there was a similar situation. The difference is that this time I would unsend the message if they didn’t respond in a few hours. I didn’t see a big deal with it. She too gets mad saying she saw the messages before I unsent them and that they were disgusting (I didn’t anything crazy and it was always something like “hey you wanna get together”)

In both of these situations the girls specifically proposed the hook up relationship (not a fwb) then get mad when i gasp hit them up to hook up

What’s the deal?