Women in my 20s and their 20s would date me, but find fault with ambition levels, or believe I didn't have a strong social circle and stop dating me. Women in their 40s (while I'm in my 30s) would come home at night acting like meeting me was the highlight of their day, which I reciprocated and was wonderful, but they couldn't offer kids and had obsessive personality issues that ruined romance.

In my 30s, women in my 30s would date me and we'd have wonderful connections, but they judged my salary wasn't good enough and they bet on being able to do better. I would wonder (after we had fantastic conversations and makeout sessions) if we could be romantic at least until they found the house-buying rich guy if it wasn't to be me.

They told me the same thing

"I don't need sex, but when I do need it, honestly I already have guys for that purpose"

So, ladies. Be honest and true. What do you have to say to men about this? Or should the majority of us accept that we are just not good enough for you, and are you nutsy enough to admit that you don't want us anyway and we might as well part ways?

Because, damn, I have heard this line three times directly.

You like me, I'm not good enough, but you do really like me, but you're single, but you're waiting, and either way you can fuck with me as I am until something better appears because anyway you already have multiple men to step in to serve that purpose.

Cam the purple pill crowd PLEASE explain this to me and justify it, because it sort of seems like a hard core dead end and fuck it let's dance on burning Rome.