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Familiar judge denies the pass again, woman flips out.

HomunculusEmeritus

May 22, 2017

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Title	Familiar judge denies the pass again, woman flips out.
Author	HomunculusEmeritus
Upvotes	407
Comments	77
Date	May 22, 2017 2:56 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/6cnq4u/familiar_judge_denies_the_pass_again_woman_flips/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PussyPassDenied/familiar-judge-denies-the-pass-again-woman-flips.922134 https://theredarchive.com/post/922134

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"If he actually abused her, yes" "we don't know that. It's just as likely that she abused him..." that's why it's grey as fuck.

The only thing the report says was that domestic violence was involved and the police were called to their home because of it. That's the big fat grey area of our knowledge of the situation. We don't know who was abusing who.

Granted, she seems like someone who had some sort of cluster B personality disorder (aka, psychologist find you so obnoxious they had to come up with a psychological term for it you sick fuck [not you the person I'm responding to but you the person with the personality disorder]) but the report was vague about the details of the abuse. She could have been abusing him and he could have threatened to leave so she tried to kill him. Or he had been abusing her and she had threatened to leave so he tried to kill her and defended herself. None of that information is in the report so who knows. All we know is she's obnoxiously dramatic over a broken leg and the police had been called to the home multiple times over domestic violence issues. Either way, I'm glad as fuck I don't know her.

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How about you just let us watch the video and not have to sit through some guy talking about the thing we want to see for the majority of the video?

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I don't mean to be a dick but it worked for me and I'm using my iPhone

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It totally does justify preemptively arming yourself. If someone physically hurts you to the point where they might kill you the next time around and you have no choice but to stay, what do you do? Do you let them hurt you to the point where you can't fight back, or do you get something in order to defend yourself. The police had been to her house multiple times for domestic abuse. The second or third time was when the police should have gotten the hint.

I'm not saying that men don't have a hard time and I never will. But what I'm saying is that this needs to be looked into further and to not just take the mans first word. That's utter bs. Whether the person is dead or not, maybe it was out of defense that she stabbed him. Maybe she was on her way to the police station when he broke her leg, then she stabbed him.

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Actually leaving a domestic violent situation is the most dangerous time

So while you're sitting there judging her for not leaving, know that leaving the abusive relationship is the time when people are most likely to be killed.

So why didn't she just leave? Because that's when she's most likely to die if she was being abused. Why didn't she seek help if that was going on? Because women who report abuse often face more danger than if they had said nothing.

I'm not claiming the woman the OP posted about was abuse. I'm illustrating why someone who has been abused and has called the cops multiple times still feels trapped. It goes the same for men. They face not being believed, being laughed at, and not being taken seriously.

The big societal problem is that not many people care enough to look into why someone stays in an abusive relationship and would rather blame the victim than actually empathize with them. In this case the domestic violence victim could be either one of them.

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Did you actually read anything I said? People who leave domestically violent relationships are the most likely to be murdered. Period. So why shouldn't she be prepared for the next time her husband decide to attack her and possibly try to kill her? . I could link the again but you apparently didn't bother taking in the well documented facts I linked you too.

On that note, yes you are blaming her for being a victim (if she didn't kill him and if he's the victim the point still applies) because you're saying it's someone's fault for being abused for not seeing/ not having a way out. That's what victim blaming is, blaming the victim for the situation they're in. So yes, you're absolutely victim blaming. People who seek help from authorities are more likely to be seen as liars again, as I have provided a link you also don't seem to have read.

Victims of domestic don't see a way out. In the situation provided by the OP, we don't know who the victim was really.

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