At least for me, prior to my divorce, I was paralyzed by the fear of Asset Rape and Child Custody disputes. I just read horror story after horror story of men getting screwed by divorce courts.

In my case, being less than two years after divorce and remarried to an angel in comparison to my ex, things have turned out much better than I could had ever imagined. In fact, had I known what the outcome would've been, I probably would've hurried my ex out the door the numerous times she threatened divorce prior.

Perhaps, it's because the movement is too young, that we don't hear from men who have gone through the divorce court gauntlet, come out on the other side, and stated it wasn't as bad as they had feared (or maybe it was!).

Obviously, it will be a mixed bag. I know it would had been more helpful for me to understand the aftermath.

I don't personally know a lot of divorced men myself, but the ones I do know, ended up trading in for a much better wife and are much happier now.

Anyway, I'm interested to hear some after-divorce reports. Obviously, the process itself is hell, and perhaps for some years after.

Are RPChristian men much better off in the end?