Your Husband Is Not A Mind-Reader {Iris&Oleander}

TempestTcup · 2017-01-19T19:27:23+00:00

LOL, I'm so bad about this sort of thing! Part of it is that I want him to do what he likes and be happy, and part of it is that i don't want to force him to do what I want when he wants to do something else.

I know that he will drop what he wants, to do what I want, because like me, he wants me to be happy and do what I want to do. When I feel strongly about something, I will say something, but I chill on the smaller stuff :)

whistling_dixie · 2017-01-19T19:44:27+00:00

I definitely do this. It's so stupid, but it obviously makes sense - you don't want to ruin his fun or be a pain, so you bottle up and stew on it. I always try to tell myself it's in the name of being a good partner, but ultimately it gives me a martyr complex - "I sacrifice so much for you, why can't you just do XYZ for me!?"

Well, he has no idea I gave anything at all up because I was just chewing on it and getting all worked up while he thought everything was fine. And that, my friends, is how you make yourself look like a crazy person.

Irisandoleander · 2017-01-19T17:18:28+00:00

I wrote this one down quick this morning based on some conversations in the IRC lately - I would love all the feedback from you ladies :)

roboticyogi · 2017-01-20T21:00:52+00:00

Oh what a good reminder! I don't like "making waves", but I need to remind myself that what my bf WANTS is to hear what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling.

Nice to hear others go through something similar. :)

Title	Your Husband Is Not A Mind-Reader {Iris&Oleander}
Author	Irisandoleander
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	January 19, 2017 5:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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