[Backstory] He was a heavy, heavy drinker. Like to the point he doesn't remember a majority of the year of us dating because he would black out from when he woke up to when he would pass out. One time he fell asleep and got a slew of messages going off on his phone. He doesnt even talk to his close guy friends and when they do talk it's a message maybe once a week. Obviously I checked the phone to see if it was something important. He dl'd tinder and was having conversations with girls and there was a girl who he messed with a year prior and she was sending him nudes. Also he always used to check my phone even though I never so much as smiled at another man.

[Current day] Fast forward to today and hes 3 months sober (to the day) and out of habit I check his phone once in a while because I get worrisome. A few tabs before his most recent open tab he had the app store open and the most recent searches were Tinder, then POF, then Badoo, and then the general term "dating." When I asked him about it he said he was "just checking" to see if I had the parental lock on on apps you have to be over 17 y/o to dl. A couple weeks ago he had a girl he searched/sent a request to on facebook which was a tech from his rehab. The conversation about it went "who is she?" To who he replied "a friend from rehab.." "oh?" "A tech that I barely knew who I talked to movies with while I was in rehab" "so why are you adding her?" "She told me to" (this was about a month AFTER he left rehab) I explained how unprofessional it is, bc you arent allowed outside communications with techs/counselors bc if you relapse and go back you think you own the place, not conducive to recovery, etc. He blocked her and told me how in his IOP group he talked about how I call him on his shit which he needs and how when things are going right he subconsciously self sabotages it and how he was sorry bc if the roles were reversed he'd be livid. S So here we are, I dont know if his intentions were to dl those apps but it looks like it by the several searches even though he said he was trying to see how far the extent of the parental block was. This man convinced me to get my BC taken out and wants to get me pregnant, we currently have money saved up so we can move out to our own place within the month. Hes 27, I'm 22.

I dont know if this helps but we used to fuck like bunnies. Past month we've only slept together maybe 1-2x a week. He has consent to wake me up and fuck me or use my mouth which he does once in a while since sober and used to do it all the time the past year. Now he leaves our bed to watch porn and jerk off in the bathroom.

Sorry if this is scrambled, I went outside to clear my head as I just found out about this app thing about 15 minutes ago. First time poster in this group. Please let me know ANY advice y'all have or any explanation as to what is going on here.