Hi ladies, my love interest and I have been talking long distance and he’s flying across the world to come see me. I feel almost guilty that he’s paying for his flights and accommodation. I make significantly less than him, but thought I should maybe offer to help offset the costs of his travel to show that I care?

I want to be red pilled in my approach about how I talk to him about money. He seems happy to fly out here and take care of his own arrangements, but I don’t want to risk him resenting me for the costs he’s shouldering.

How should I navigate the money conversation in a graceful and red pilled way?