I’m curious if any of you ladies have done Gottman’s Eight Dates with your husband or significant other? I see this book highly recommended in other relationship/marriage advice contexts, but I’m worried it might be too blue-pilled therapy-ish for lack of a better descriptor- hopefully you know what I mean. I know Laura Doyle is very against marriage counseling.

My fiance brought up wanting us to take a weekend to have more intentional, deeper conversations about what we want our marriage and lives to look like, and I came across the book when looking for suggested topics or guidance on pre-marital conversations.