How do I fix myself?

plein_old · 2024-09-22T02:23:32+00:00

This reminds me of a documentary I saw once, with stories of about 10 people who won the lottery, winning multiple millions of dollars each.

Their lives changed overnight, all their financial problems and practical issues were gone. But within maybe 1-2 years, nine out of ten of them had spent all the money, many had declared bankruptcy, and many had developed very serious drug addictions or even worse.

The 10th one was happy and content.

Perhaps the moral is, when people's problems go away and they feel a sudden sense of freedom and joy, if they are not careful they will find creative ways to go back to what is familiar to them - even if it's a cramped situation of darkness and continual problems.

I don't know what the solution is, but some people try various kinds of meditation or religion or spirituality to help process their thoughts and feelings, to help let go of dysfunctional habits and embrace a joyful life.

AutoModerator · 2024-09-21T23:14:20+00:00

Title: How do I fix myself?

Author BabyJane2903

Full text: Hey everyone, so… I took some advice from here and also read the empowered wife and since day 1 my relationship changed. My partner started being more happy, doing things for me, his motivation jumped from 0 to 100 just because I gave him respect and gratitude. The only thing is… I feel bitter about it, I feel unhappy. Having the solution to my relationship problems and having peace for the first time since years I can’t help but feel restless and unhappy. I don’t know who I am anymore, nor what I want to do. Laura says do things for yourself but what? It just seems that I need him unhappy to try to fix him so I have purpose in life. It sounds fucked up, but it is so. Does anyone have an idea what can help me? Did someone struggled with this before? I could use a helping hand. Thank you ❤️

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flower_power_g1rl · 2024-09-22T10:33:39+00:00

What is your purpose in life? What lights you up?

Title	How do I fix myself?
Author	BabyJane2903
Upvotes	17
Comments	4
Date	September 21, 2024 11:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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