Hey all! This is my 1st post here so I hope I can find some good answers. I'll try to keep this short.

I've never really had a real long term boyfriend officially. I've had FWB's, but I wasn't satisfied in those "relationships." The sex was good, but it started out as being friends 1st then sex came later. All my life guys have looked at me (either oddly or sexual), but never really asked me out. I can only think of a small number of times when a guy has asked me out. Some of my female friends can legit can numbers or have a guy dance with them when they go out. With me not so much. I'm pretty shy to make matters worse and I just feel ugly all the time. Even though I workout, have a job, my own place, my own car, etc and I still can't get a legit date. I feel like most guys just want sex with me and nothing else and that makes me feel like shit. I don't want FWB's, I just want a long term BF.

What would you all do in my situation?