I feel like a misogynist because I doubt the existence of women actually trying to understand the dynamic between men and women in a relationship for the purpose of self improvement. Bravo if this is real though. Anyone who isn't intentionally trying to improve themselves is more than likely getting worse. I try to improve myself, often in ways where it's with the intention to be to the benefit of women I interact with, feels good that at least some women are reciprocating.