Leveling up after effects

Kara__El · 2019-04-30T17:48:43+00:00

I used to be fat. You know what the worst part of being fat is? Invisibility. People aren't cruel. It's not middle school. They just look right through you, because you're one of the thousands of fat girls. The same is true for being frumpy. You blend in and people treat you like part of the scenery.

It doesn't take much to stand out, though. You don't need lip fillers and other pseudo-medical solutions. You can just dress nicely and do your makeup. Keep your weight in check. It doesn't mean people didn't like you before. They just didn't really notice. It's human and it's okay.

marcus8crassus · 2019-05-01T07:08:49+00:00

The world and society are what they are. You can dislike it, despise it, hell, you can try your best to fight it. However, it will still be the same way because that’s how this world works. I would suggest embracing it for what it is.

Also, don’t get all of these cosmetic enhancements like lip filler. A quality man is going to see that for what it is - insecurity and a giant red flag. He’s gonna look at you like a pump and dump.

If you don’t respect yourself, how can you expect someone else to have respect for you? Cmon now, you don’t want to fuck a fat beta bitch male, nor do you want to get locked into a five year contract with a lemon. We all naturally desire doing the best for ourselves that we can.

observantpariah · 2019-05-02T03:00:33+00:00

You're here. That's a good start. Positive attributes that are beyond skin-deep might be hard to advertise... but you'd be surprised how rare they are. Men are so used to women that have nothing to offer but looks that they give up on finding someone with depth. I can bring up any interesting philosophical topic with my male friends and they join in and reciprocate. If I ask a female she immediately gets bored. I know of three exceptions in my non-internet life and I chase those women constantly for the value of conversation they provide. This sub-reddit seems to be a lightning-rod for those type of women. After 10 minutes of talking to a superficial woman I CRAVE conversation with one that would even mention terms like "validation."

Zegiknie · 2019-05-02T14:37:55+00:00

Puberty did that for me. I was the invisible little sister until I caught up and then boom!

TBH I felt like it was about time, lol. And I enjoyed it and milked it (modeling). It's over now and I'm okay with that - I had my share.

Enjoy it! Make the most of it. Time goes by so fast!

loneliness-inc · 2019-05-01T14:10:31+00:00

You see yourself from the inside out, others see you from the outside in.

You see yourself from the essence of your being to your deepest desires and wants to your intellect to your emotions to your functions to your skin to the clothing on your skin.

Other people see your clothing first and a small amount of skin that isn't covered by clothing. Therefore, they judge based on what they see. You can't expect them to see the deeper you because it's impossible to see that. They can maybe catch a glimpse into that part of you if you spend a lot of time together, but no one can notice that when they first look at you.

And as u/kara_el said - such is life as a human.

Title	Leveling up after effects
Author	freyalifestyle
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	April 30, 2019 3:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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