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| 1 | NFP impact on sex life?True. My bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | NFP impact on sex life?You're right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?Depends how much traffic they see. I have a very messy littlr kid in the house, and things get smelly and soggy quickly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why I submit to my husband like it's 1959Chillax. I am merely pointing out the arrogance of your post. Which isn't just you - it's a typical SJW thing to claim someone elses cause and 'fight' for them, as if they were unable to do so themselves. While there are women out there who have no choice, they are not here. They are the women without access to internet and education. Nearly all of us are western women with every option available to us. And anyone trying to limit those options is at fault. I deserve whatever I choose. And standi… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/20 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Why I submit to my husband like it's 1959It is my independent choice to have a marriage as I see fit, so shut your keyboard. Such arrogance to think consenting adults need you intervening in their private lives... | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/20 09:36 AM |
| -1 | Boy/Self Improvement Advice for College StudentPerfect on paper, so I am guessing you lack sex-appeal. Even beautiful women sometimes do. Do you masturbate and orgasm regularly? Can you dance seductively? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 6 | Laura Doyle's advice vs my therapist'sAdvice. Turn the "I don't want to be critisized" into something clearer. Do you not want feedback? Yes, you do. You can tell him his feedback hurts, though. Or that you can't use it (then ask for applicable advice). And that you want to feel safer in his love. Keep the therapist for personal development. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 08:02 AM |
| 14 | What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene?All these answers aren't hygiene exactly? I change hand and dishtowels at least daily, clean toilets at least daily, wash hands after ever outing, before meals, after toilet visits, after diaper changes, before cooking, during cooking if I have touched raw ingredients,... Using the method as prescribed in hospitals (there are infographics for this - most people skip nails and wrists). Throw away used handkerchiefs immediately and sneeze and cough into elbows, not hands (!). Use lots of saline no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Hi! How do I stop being naive?Who are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/20 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Hi! How do I stop being naive?Why would a man want to commit to you? (not an insult, genuine question) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Hi! How do I stop being naive?How exactly did your relationships fail? I have learned more from my brothers than my sisters. Have you been listening to them? Your ex no contact posts make me think maybe you're not naive, just clingy abd needy? Give us something more to work with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 07:31 PM |
| – | Self CareHot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?Idk | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 20 | What to do about a hostile non-RPW friend?You are her rival, yes. But she is not yours. She is just another minor annoyance. Don't sweat it. Make more better friends! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 8 | I’m(19f) so scared that I’ve been too promiscuousI think you are either a boring troll or extremely religious? You literally are a virgin. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 12:14 PM |
| 34 | What to do about a hostile non-RPW friend?I don't think it is worth salvaging. If it is a one time incident and they apologize without prompting, sure, forgive a friend. But hostility and friendship just can't go hand in hand. This has been going on for months. Treat her like you would any rival. High road, polite, correct, but call them out in a cheerful way - "why are you telling me this?", "well that's not nice", "was that necessary?" (but with a long suffering smile, not a frown or angry tone) She is not a friend, but an enemy. Sorr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Moving out for the first time tips!Just my 2 cents. I moved out at 21, into a similar situation (3 other girls). My husband (boyfriend then) didn't exactly move in, but we were usually staying at either his or mine. The frustration with the filth and drama from the other girls drove me absolutely mad, and I was so happy when we finally got a place for just us 2. I kept that place sooo clean and peaceful. I mean it's a learning experience, and especially important if your parents are enablers or cockblockers, but don't expect to e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 09:30 AM |
| 7 | UPDATE: My husband found out I’m pregnant yesterday hasn’t said anything about it.I know women who had to be hospitalized because they were physically depleted, one woman whose kids were taken in by another family because she lost it mentally and families who tried but could not handle it and lost custody despite trying their best. OPs husband has realistic worries. And hopefully lots of support. If you're overworked, something has to give, something always suffers. It's up to the parents to decide if they can handle it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 08:50 AM |
| 7 | RP-SexNumber two is much huger. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 08:06 AM |
| 17 | RP-SexWomen make much more oxytocin upon orgasm than men do, and can orgasm much more. Oxytocin makes you feel bonded and more trusting. So don't have sex with someone who doesn't deserve your trust and loyalty. Rough sex is fun :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 08:05 AM |
| 5 | UPDATE: My husband found out I’m pregnant yesterday hasn’t said anything about it.Now show him he can have faith by tweaking any efficiency hacks you haven't implemented yet. Self-care, mealplan, organise the laundry system, minimize toys, if there is anything left to do, prep now. Eat especially well! Congratulations on the new baby! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 2 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?I see you're right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 10 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?"If I’m not being as mean as him during an argument, he will call me dumb. He says I am an embarrassment if I go to the bar with a friend (female, of course). He also makes a point to tell me he holds back his meanest thoughts about me, because I would “cry like a pussy” if he did" (from her post history) Very possibly the first mate is drunk, too, but the captain seems tipsy at least IMO. You don't tell someone they are a bad girlfriend. You either break up, or give constructice feedback. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?He is still who he is. You are not the one to fix this. He doesn't feel unloved, he is just piling the pressure on. Because he isn't feeling as catered to as he feels entitled to. Leave him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Am I really being abused?Late to the party, but... As an endorsed contributor, who actually enjoys some things others deem abusive, takes care of house, homeschools kids, always looking my best etc, Sorry, this is abuse, plain as day. I actually disagree with the people who say you can just refuse your husband sexual favors, without giving a reason. But the way your husband handled this was abusive. You had a reason. Think about it - a man dissatisfied with his sexlife is setting his wife up to give in, instead of makin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?Your* | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 5 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?Especially given her post history. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Biting your tongue - a lifesaverYeah I upvoted you, but even though it was an oversight in his part, I felt the need to add that. Because it's still a nice little field report about not assuming the worst. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell my boyfriend how I feel?Your friends are right. Get therapy, this is unhealthy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 6 | What are your best tips for overcoming feelings of jealousy/envy towards other women?Call me crazy, but I just enjoy their beauty. I love seeing beautiful things that nature made, so a naturally beautiful woman as well. Enjoy the scenery. I don't think I'm bisexual exactly, but not turned off by women either. So yeah, no negative emotions. I don't connect someone else being hotter to my own life. Because it's just one person who has relatively minor impact on my life. At least fake it till you make it re: not turning sour, because nothing underlines your ugliness as much as givi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 24 | I’m a rpw but my boyfriend doesn’t feel appreciated?Drunk captain, abandon ship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Biting your tongue - a lifesaverYeah but he doesn't need to be perfect all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.GOOD talk to me @ suicide thread? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.MAKE YOURSELF THROW UP | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.Puke | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:52 PM |
| 0 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.At least practice ignoring your gag reflex for really good deepthroat bjs before you go (and puke that crap out when you fail) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | My husband found out I’m pregnant yesterday but hasn’t said anything about it yet. Should I be worried?Give him time. He wants to regroup before tackling this issue. He doesn't want to burden you with his worries, which I am sure he has (doesn't every dad?) Just wait. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.DONT KILL YOURSELF YOU IDIOT | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:35 PM |
| 3 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.OP IS SUICIDAL PLEASE SPAM HER WITH MESSAGES TO NOT KILL HERSELF She might still read it. I cant send private messages, only reply, havent figured out that stuff yet (i know im an idiot). Tried to reply to her suicide post and my answers didnt show. I think shes too smart and self aware to let the past catch up on her, and has plenty potential for a joyful life. So would appreciate if you all could help | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 7 | what steps can i take to work through my shame? i don’t want to be held back by it, i want to use it as a tool to be better.Being 21, you are dealing with the consequences of your upbringing. You have only legally been an adult for 3 years, and your brains aren't fully developed yet. I mean a bit of cringe is justified, but shame? Nah. As you age, your life will be shaped more and more by your own decisions. We have similar moms. What helped for me was mostly time. Growth happens when you are at rest - both physically and psychologically. I have cut out the nasty people and it helped tremendously. Things like keeping… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] How to respond when my boyfriend's coworkers disrespect me to his face and he tells me about it?The concern is not in that he is being mean to you, but he is showing vulberability. He told you about how he 'lost' a social interaction, not how he handled it/fixed it. It's not a problem per se, but it could potentially be, and put you in a mommy role. As for how you can support him - pack delicious lunches, show up after work looking classy and beautiful and ignore his coworkers. If they get into your face, treat them overly polite in a patronizing way, then act like you're trying to keep a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Should I drop my education for him?Norwegian and Belgian culture IMO are very different. Take into account that Belgians are much more into hierarchy and manners. Education in Belgium is kinda stifling if you're used to Norwegian style. Your marriage will see harder times than this. If you can't survive long distance with a clear end date in sight, how are you going to cope with children, diseases, war, or whatever else might befall you? I say stay, and you will be a better wife for it. If he gets laid off you will be able to rak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/20 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How often do you think about how your physical appearance helped you?Someone will definitely have a fetish for this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 15 | Femininity shouldn’t mean materialisticThis is so moralizing it's annoying. I believe being materialistic to an extent is inherently feminine - because materials make for security for our kids. Let it be known I married my husband when he was still unemployed and we spent years and years living in unsafe neighborhoods before the money came in. I wore second hand and hand-me-down for years, and so did my firstborn out of necessity. I am not consumerist, and still wear some hand-me-downs while husband makes 6 figures nowadays. The kids… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 7 | My husband said he didn’t want kids.Holy shit that's messed up | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Housewives/SAHMs and domestic tasksWe're pagan, which isn't very prescriptive, but meaningful to us. Like before Yule we have mother's night - part spiritual part practical deep cleaning and the me folk go out. My husband is breadwinner and I do all the housework unless I can't and then we hire help. I'm sick atm and my husband tries to help because no cleaner. My MIL came over and did some laundry but the house is a mess. I don't count the hours, I normally don't have actual free time, but I can do fun stuff with kids and have a… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - December 28, 2019Get them to come for a paid no strings meet up. If they focus on the kids more than on you, that's a good sign. All my great ones almost ignored me to bond with kids instead. The bad ones sat on the couch to chat with me about expectations. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | All of you reading this are wonderful people and I deeply care about everyone of you.TBH I'm terrible but here's a kiss anyway 💋💋💋 | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle those in your life that haven't been Red Pilled?Oh honey... He is damaged goods. Next. Seriously, he would next you for having a similar background if you had one like his. You're not here to make up for someone else's mistakes. You need nun mode. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 26 | My husband said he didn’t want kids.He either married you under false pretenses or changed something too big to ignore. Find out which and find out why. Is he newly red pillled? Traumatized by something? Is this 100% sure? Don't have kids with someone who doesn't want them. I'm not quick to point to divorce, but if you want kids and he is decided, leave quickly. Couples I know with one reluctant parent struggle. It's ugly. Kids suffer most. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/20 06:08 PM |
| -4 | My boyfriend (24m) says some concerning things and It’s hurting me (19f)No moralizing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Concern of my Captain not taking time to restHe takes an entire day off for dating you? That's slacker compared to some guys. Most men are either broke or busy. Accept or move on. In the mean time, support with massages etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 11:01 AM |
| 11 | My boyfriend (24m) says some concerning things and It’s hurting me (19f)This. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 10:58 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend (24m) says some concerning things and It’s hurting me (19f)No. Yes, if they agree to faithfulness he should exercise impulse control. But I know many happy couples who have some form of open relationship. Love and sexual attraction are two different things. OP doesn't want this, so she should next, and this guy goes about it in a douchy way. But it's fine if someone is matter of fact about their desires, and it's fine if their desires arent average. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 10:58 AM |
| 6 | Book recommendationsWith a comma in between those two titles somewhere | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendationsBetter than before Fascinating womanhood | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Young RP, seeking guidance from experienced ladiesYou're gonna get modded away because 'man here', but I just wanted to point out to the other girls this typical post. Men who see a damsel in distress want to help, and find a post from a woman wanting to please and be pleasing irresistible. You're not even doing it for this dude, but his heart is warmed enough for him to write a page with all he can think of. And that's nice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Young RP, seeking guidance from experienced ladiesI don't see why NSFW jokes should be gendered. It is feminine to want to please your man. As I said - ask him 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 03:19 PM |
| 21 | Young RP, seeking guidance from experienced ladiesHonestly woman, you've already found him, so ask him, not us, if he would prefer certain outfits. Maybe he's into loud. YouTube tutorials for the grooming. Generally speaking, if you already have a man, focus less on being better and more on behaving better. He knows better what that means to him, than we do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 12:41 PM |
| 15 | Boyfriend cheated... where did I go wrong?If he cared about your feelings enough, he would have told you beforehand so you had a choice to stay or go. Maybe he did love you, but not enough to do things right. Some don't tell simply because they enjoy sneaking around. Some are scared of the consequences. It doesn't matter though... He does not make the grade. Next! Sometimes people want to keep you simply because it is convenient or pleasant. A good lay who cooks - most men will keep her around even if she's otherwise mildly annoying. Th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 12:37 PM |
| 3 | RP strategies for weight loss?Agreed, baby steps. Don't lose 100kg. Just lose one, keep it off, and muster the courage for the next one. Repeat as necessary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 10:05 AM |
| 2 | RP strategies for weight loss?I'm a big believer in balance. You don't have to be 100% fitness fanatic green sludge chucking supergirl to look good. I'm tall so don't be too shocked by the figures lol, my BMI is always around 20 - here's my system: 65+kg on the scale in the morning: no cookies (basically if I hit my top weight, I eat only normal wholesome food until I am below - and that includes lasagna but not cake) 64-65kg: take it easy (I will have some popcorn with a movie or maybe one cookie but no baking pies and goin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Cheated on after my first relationship post-RPW. Emotionally distressed. Need advice on best way to recover. Please help me.1 - your gut is also made up of lots of tacit knowledge. I'm firmly on team learn more info. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 08:54 AM |
| -10 | 33 year old former feminist. Am I screwed?To make this as concise of possible GIANT WALL OF TEXT Will answer later if I ever get through reading the above novel lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Something Good from an RP SubIt's all just about helping people achieve their own personal goals. We must be butthurt if someone's goal is to get laid as much as possible. And neither must they if our goal is to tie a man down with bonds of marriage. Everyone should make their own choices whether or not to go along with someone else's. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 03:08 PM |
| 2 | What's your easy, go-to dinner?Asking the real question | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how did Christmas go?First day was great, classic turkey and my side of the family came over. Small group but fun. Second day was hilarious - my in-laws took the liberty of inviting 7 extra people and we had lots of ready made crap with ketchup and they actuallyloved it. Brother in law without job and with lots of debt showed his gut to announce girlfriends pregnancy. Third day was the lovely neighbors, and we know WAY too much about their business so that's always a riot. Also the neighbors nearly got into a fight … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 01:51 PM |
| 9 | How can I be a better girlfriend?I think you should try and take your vents to a girlfriend who enjoys sharing those things mutually with you. But I also worry a little that he doesn't seem to understand that you have insecurities like a human being. Have you tried just literally asking for more comfort and reassurance? Very alpha is sometimes woman-speak for not that nice. I hope he is nice? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Being a stay at home wifeI was (have more money now). Biggest difference was the safety and peace was lacking in shady neighborhoods we lived in. Otherwise life hasn't changed much since money came in. It's doable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I’m New and I Wanted to Share My JoyTrue the world mocks you. All the SAHMs and wannabes I know experience such relief when someone doesn't. FWIW, working moms get lonely too (friends of mine, I'm sahm myself) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Happy new year! A quick reminderWe deep clean before yule and new years is spent burning things and being riotous, but I support the message (different timing I guess) :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How can I be a better girlfriend?Is he red pilled? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 3 | How To Cheer My Man Up?Have you tried some kind of silly animal ears? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | "Being home cures everything"Win! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:50 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I'm holding my boyfriend back in lifeNext. He needs to own his shit and not bother you with this. I know how harsh this sounds, but find someone more mature. Age is just a number. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Men do or don't want sex?Men typically want a faithful woman, and camming with every Tom Dick and Harry could make him question your wife potential. People typically like to keep doing what they do, so he will assume you're gonna be easy for other guys even when you're in a relationship. No judgment on my part, but the reality is, most men do judge that. Also maybe you're the open relationship kinda girl maybe? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Men do or don't want sex?She was not redpilled. At all. Most men only want sex unless they have a reason to want more. But if they want more, they don't want the sex any less. If you're autistic, please nun mode until you have spent a long time reading here and feel like you can predict what the answers will be like. Step 1 is to find out what you want. Most women want happily white picket fences ever after with a sexy millionaire who loves kids. Or something sort of like it. Just sex usually doesn't work very well for … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Cheated on after my first relationship post-RPW. Emotionally distressed. Need advice on best way to recover. Please help me.This, plus Read up on narcissism to learn to recognize them better. Even if you do everything right, life doesn't always turn out perfect (see #7) Do you have any father/big brother figures in your life? Yes, you need a man, but you can make that loneliness less urgent if you have other people in your life to support you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | He proposed and I said YES!W00000h! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Do you always agree with your boyfriend’s/husband’s politics?Mostly, but if not, he's into debating and makeup sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Such unexpected luck. Yes, please (and apologies for the very late reply, things to see, people to do, you know how it is). Best meal I haven't been able to copy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/20 11:59 AM |
| 7 | My boyfriend(22) wants to move home and in an apartment with me(20)He sounds convenient. But you don't seem to want this. If you want a male-led relationship, go for someone who leads. If he is the right one for you, you'd feel much safer discussing this with him, not us. Sounds to me like he told you what he wants and hopes you can give it, without thinking like a leader or even a team. But I could be wrong :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 11:56 AM |
| 28 | He Doesn't Want To Pay..?He seems to not have given this much thought - asking you to pull out your wallet on road. I'm not troubled by the splitting, but he lacks social graces and consideration. He should have waited for you to bring it up again. As for you, you should have checked right away when he paid, and then told him your next move (send the money/pay next time/etc). Personally I think XYZ about who should pay and when and why, but who pays what should be something you can discuss graciously amongst yourselves.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 11:49 AM |
| 10 | He Doesn't Want To Pay..?No. RPW is not about equality. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 11:44 AM |
| 11 | According to feminists I’m being raped. Are they right?Do you feel like you're making the (right or wrong) choice? Or do you literally have no choice? Rape is when your choice is made for you by the rapist. You choose whether or not to abide by the belief system you've been raised in. I'm thinking not rape, since you state you are generous. You don't get raped out of generosity. If you don't enjoy sex, that is still problem. Sex done right is just about the best part of marriage. IDK where the problem lies, but I would recommend working on it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle traits in your SO that feel too alpha?:-) that's lovely. Glad you got out of that belief-system, glad you didn't need to lose contact with your family over it, glad your SO is understanding and respectful of your family and background! ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 6 | How does one deal with SO wanting you to play video games or be into sports?I'm into men who will embroider daisies unto aprons with me but I've never found any, so I settled for my husband instead. Seriously though, if someone is very passionate about something, it's nice to be able to share that high... But don't fake it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 6 | My marriage has changed for the worse since I quit drinking regularly.LMAO I still get aroused at the smell of a certain face mask for my skin, because I multi-tasked a few times as a teenager. This post sums it up very well. OP, retrain your brain, or get help from a sexual therapist. Maybe you can find a substitute non-alcoholic drink that tastes similar? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle traits in your SO that feel too alpha?I'm so glad you're okay and so appalled at you having to grow up with such a father. I think that this is something your man needs to know about, so he can understand if you freak out about things easily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Affordable/DIY gift ideas for boyfriendThere are magazines like CrossstitcherUK that explain the basics and have projects, it's easy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:19 AM |
| 30 | I’ve developed feelings for my boss and I don’t know how to overcome them. Advice please?Your feelings and thoughts and attractions are nobodys business but your own. Don't ever tell your husband something like that again - it only serves to hurt him. There's no need to feel guilty or tormented for being attracted to people or fantasizing about things (half my fantasies I would never even want to try for real, too freaky!). They are just thoughts, that is all. Actions are regulated, speech oppressed, but thoughts should fly free as the birds. If these particular thoughts are an anno… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:10 AM |
| 11 | I’ve developed feelings for my boss and I don’t know how to overcome them. Advice please?So much this. Why would you make this your husbands problem? It's yours, deal with it yourself. There was no need to hurt him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:04 AM |
| 9 | I don't mean to be mean, but why are all of you having such a hard time finding a good boyfriend?Low effort troll. I preferred your fantasy of being a white boy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 09:02 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?I can't believe I didn't even know that existed! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Why he doesn't talk to me one-one?Then an excuse - you forgot your lunch and wallet, can he help out (promise to pay him back, that'll be your next excuse to approach)? Or you're waiting for (class/ride/dentists appointment), is it okay if you sit with them for a while? Can they teach you a few words? Or... IDK, what is he interested in? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/19 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Why he doesn't talk to me one-one?I'm a little bit frustrated. Since you already know him, and have a good time with him, you don't even need an excuse to approach him. You can just go up to him. Otherwise, he might be not interested for a million reasons - for all you know he's into rabbits instead of women. Just talk to him, don't wait in your tower (or if you do, throw him a braid). | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I [21F] really messed things up with the guy [22M] I like. Any advice?And thanks for the compliment :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 3 | I [21F] really messed things up with the guy [22M] I like. Any advice?Either he changed his mind about being done/said so on impulse, or he truly is done but you've been demoted to plate. Given that you have made your needs clear and he has failed to deliver, then only made an excuse after you were already hurting, I'm a little bit concerned. Why didn't he let you know upfront that he wouldn't be able to contact you as much? I'm not entirely convinced he is responsible and reliable enough for daddyhood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 27 | Nun mode vs. potential captain or sinking ship?Sadly, your own instability means you need a more stable/normal man to compensate, especially for the kids. Next this one. Also: nun mode and therapy. Prophetic dreams - no, you don't. We all have dreams come true some times, or some of it, and then confirmation bias. Add pregnancy hormones to that (they cause crazy dreams) and post-partum stress and you will lose it. Seriously - after my first, I had dreams where Gods spoke to me, and many post-apocalyptic ones. And I'm kind of normalish (I thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I [21F] really messed things up with the guy [22M] I like. Any advice?Things are salvageable, but your dynamic is a big deal. Little girls need their daddy often. You can't be that vulnerable with someone who you don't see for long stretches. You are needy, and this you cannot suppress. It won't work unless he either finds more time, or you live together or something. Be vulnerable and honest with him when you have the chance to talk, but look out for yourself. If he wants a little girl, he needs to be there for her. You need to be honest with yourself at what is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 08:13 PM |
| 23 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?Erotica is more fun IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 08:03 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?My firstborn was conceived during a hentai movie 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle traits in your SO that feel too alpha?I didn't state he lacked devotion, I asked the question. OP can do some introspection and answer herself. It's very possible to spend 15 months with someone for the time being. Her reaction to the statement is extreme beyond your regular insecurity - she's willing to leave him over it. There's something intense at play - either her deep rooted issues or her gut warning her. Maybe even both. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 07:18 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsThanks, will try! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I don't suppose you have a good Kärnter lammkeulenbraten recipe for me? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 11:05 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle traits in your SO that feel too alpha?Is she insecure because of low self-esteem, or because she senses his lack of devotion? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Should i have kids first and then my career???They might have some ruffled feathers over you not listening to them, but they will most likely go nuts over the grandbabies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:27 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsClear glass. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:21 AM |
| 6 | How do you handle traits in your SO that feel too alpha?Is he too alpha? Everyone is reacting to the post, but the title is forgotten on the way - why did you choose this for a title... How is he too alpha? Or do you fear losing control if/when he gets more alpha or high-value? Is this upsetting because you feel he implied he wants more than you can give? Are you afraid he will (be able) to take more from you than you can afford to give? If you don't want a man to get more powerful, maybe it's because you suspect he does not, in fact, have your best … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Need advice - I'm new to RPW and I have a few questions, esp regarding a guy's hobbiesI didn't know it was normal in India to not go public! That is a big thing, changes the entire situation. Thanks for the extra info. Everyone being quite liberal makes things easier if that is your way of thinking, too. Can also complicate things if expectations are unclear. Communication remains important. 6-8 hours a week on a hobby isn't addiction (unless that hobby is shooting heroine), and with a demanding job, not that strange to stick to one hobby. But what about him warning you he is cas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 23 | Need advice - I'm new to RPW and I have a few questions, esp regarding a guy's hobbiesSo he's shady, keeps you a secret, warns you he's casual about you, subtly pressures you for sex and addicted to gaming. But he's rich, so there's that. Yeah... no. Next. Lose the weight, learn to cook and find someone who is much, much more into you. Gaming can be a hobby, can be a very social hobby, can be great fun. But most women are desperately lonely if they end up with gamer men. Just because he wants you, doesn't mean you should try with him. Don't let him 'try you out'. Geez. What about… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 08:07 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsI've got a water bottle (karaffe? IDK in English, like a vase but for pouring water) that looks yucky and none of my brushes fit in to clean it. I've sprayed some antikal in and then ran it through the dishwasher and it looks somewhat better, but not good. Anyone know how to clean it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 07:55 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsI rarely deep clean, but use lots of disposable wipes all the time. They come in compostable! A bit here and there really adds up :-) We air anyway, utility bills be damned. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 6 | [Your view on my view] Being LadyLike, Organized and Happy after marriage.Red pill is harsh, but it's not about being harsh. OP shows awareness of her previous "that'll never happen to me"bias, which is a very common one that saves us all from crippling anxiety, lest we get stuck on all the horrors that might possibly befall us. The issue is not her previous infallibility myth, it's her current dormant state. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep a positive mindset when thinking of the future of a relationship?Intelligence without direction. Channel this anxiety into something useful and fun. Example. I live in very close contact with nature. Gardening, foraging. We're hiking every day. This season, it's scary outside. Nothing grows, and it gets cold and dark. Feels like predators watching me - too much instinct? The shapes of the branches are monster arms. What do I do? Lots of light and warmth indoors, and a bit of emergency prepping. I turn the seasonal anxiety into an interesting hobby. Learn some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 05:13 PM |
| 13 | [Your view on my view] Being LadyLike, Organized and Happy after marriage.I get periods like this. You just run out of steam now and then, it's normal. Nothing in nature blooms all year. We ebb and flow. Don't let it get to a point where you'd be ashamed of getting naked or inviting people over. Have a baseline for lazy times. For me: lazy times I don't wax or epilate, just a quick shave. I don't organise or deep clean, just a 'liveable' upkeep. Also upkeep workouts, nothing too intense. Have a basic wardrobe (also lingerie: mines all black lace, no more effort than p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 04:41 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsLots of fresh air (window open), wiping down not just working surfaces, but also walls and cupboards in the kitchen regularly, mopping regularly, simmering some water with citrus peels, cleaning with vinegar (the smell dissipates quickly and takes other smells along with it). And one of those suction things above the stovetop. And clean the trashcan itself, too. There should be no lingering smell when the linerbag is out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Should women be asking men out?"Niet geschoten is altijd mis. " This means if you don't shoot, you will always miss. True, if a guy is really into you, he will likely make a move. But if he's not (yet!), you are already in a state if rejection. This is the status quo. So making the first move either changes that, or not. You can't lose. It can be a good way to spark his attention. Being a bit subtle is best. This gives him a way to graciously bow out (rejecting people is painful, and men typically don't have much experience).… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 04:20 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this dynamic?The fact that it is so nasty is the very reason why it got likes. That is what makes it funny. Shock value and maybe a bit where they recognize someone they know in it. Not my cup of tea, but whatever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Does he only want me for sex?Until you have given him reason to want more, all he wants is sex. It's not that you have messed up if that is the case, it's that you haven't succeeded (yet?). | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 07:52 PM |
| 48 | What makes a man see a woman only as "fun night" material?Are you crazy? Even if a man hates his wife - actually quite rare, but it happens! It's usually to his detriment to leave her. Finances, social situation, selling home, family drama. And usually, they have at least a fondness for her, like for an annoying pet you complain about but would never dump. Oftentimes, there is love there, as well. Your looks have nothing to do with commitment except from men who marry for the public eye (exceedingly rare). Men want a good-enough woman who treats him fa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 07:48 PM |
| 15 | Married two years and still no kids or houseShow some faith. Your goals (him being all Man and Confident) are too big from this as a starter situation - to go from mothering him to having a leader. Start small - let go of something you manage for him with a "wow, looks like you've surpassed me, guess I am of no use anymore". Start small. Apologize for being a know-it-all re: his mother (seriously, life is not a soap opera, people who need help should speak up for themselves - what is up with advocating for his mum? Why are unspoken social… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies keep your home clutter-free?My kid gets extra chores when he's naughty (temporary - he negotiates a lot so it's been toys taken away, laps around the house, writing lines... and so on LOL). It's so tidy now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 02:52 PM |
| 20 | If female hypergamy is a thing, why did I choose him?Good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 04:48 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsWe don't have a reward system... he taught himself to read as a baby, and devours documentaries and books now. It was a very simple word search, something he would normally do to relax a little. I give him a little pile of assignments to make sure he doesn't just learn whatever, but also covers the obligatory school things. He is normally self-directed mostly, with pretty good google-fu. Maybe because learning is just part of his play, he resists so hard when it isn't fun, IDK. An appeal to reas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 11:45 AM |
| 4 | How to avoid becoming an alpha widow?Well said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Indeed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Use to be RP, trying to get back to thatProbably has something to do with the abuse. You're traumatized perhaps, and have come to associate his initiative with abuse? I think time is a healer, I'm not sure what you can do about that. I'd suggest to give it time and until then kind of fake-it-till-you-make-it by challenging yourself to seduce him subtly. Then his initiative will feel like your own doing, even if it really isn't. And stay sexual for yourself. Masturbate, read erotica, always groom and wear nice lingerie. Then it won't f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?My husband finds the red pill stuff that I mention obvious, and wonders at the controversy surrounding these ideas. He doesn't feel the need to read the articles, but will humor me now and again because I'm so into it :-) But things like holding frame were part of his upbringing - he never cried in front of me, was taught never to show weakness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I don't seek to rise above my base nature except insofar it serves me and my family. I feel a lot of people try to be superhuman for no other reason than disdain for their own humanity. Self-denial is no virtue in and of itself IMO. Personally I do respect a mans choice to be an irresponsible playboy adventure seeker, of he so wants. Just wouldn't want to be with him, but that's of no consequence for a guy like that anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Help, going on a first date!Ask him before meeting if he would be okay with (part of the plan you're comfortable with). A lot of people do go on a date (or several, I hear 3 is the magic number) because they feel it's vagina entrance fee. So possibly, sex is all he wants. If he's open for possibly potentially more than sex, he'll be okay just meeting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 07:39 PM |
| 8 | What's your opinion on nudes?He doesn't care about you. Half the nudes online are from hacked phones. It's just not safe and people who care, don't ask. Never nudes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Deeply. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?The other day, my husband told a (very contrary and stubborn) friend he would never be able to do the workouts he was planning to. Knowing full well that this was the one thing that could fuel his drive. Was he in the wrong? I think not. Maybe some women regret being seduced, but the bottom line is still: someone is turning them on, then giving them sex. That is not bad. The nasty thing is not the manipulation. It's the holding it against the woman when she yields to him and pleases him. It's th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 01:43 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsMy homeschooled (profoundly gifted) kiddo (6) takes hours to finish a teeny tiny 5 minute boring below his level assignment today. Literally. I get that he needs a challenge, and I do give those. But how do I get him to accept that sometimes, you just have to get on with something and do it? Should I give more of these kinds of assignments so he finds the most efficient way, or talk to him about it, or...? (Not very RPW related, but smart people come here) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 12:06 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsDepends on his preferences. For example, my husband prefers a cute coiffed (other c-word). If I were to only groom things when going swimming (for other eyes), he'd see it as a slight. Many women go bigfoot hairy legs in winter. That'd be a rookie mistake. When going shopping and trying on clothes, turn to him before looking in the mirror. Catch his eye in company. If you have to be polite and listen to some other guy, move a little closer to your own or hold on to his arm while you do that. Man… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I know a lot of men who like their own preconceived notions of women, and enjoy being around women without truly seeing them. I don't care about their approval, like I don't care about what the birds think of me. Tweet tweet chip chip. The angry one who sees and dislikes me is a terror. I'd rather hang around with a pack of hungry wolves. The happy one who dismisses me would make me question my RMV. The happy one who approves of me is someone whom I can feel safe with, so I can be my true self. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/19 11:11 AM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Nosehair. Unless you've lost yours through chemo or something. People without sneeze soooo much and it itch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 07:34 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI'm gonna go to bed before 11! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Being an Alpha Widow is not cool or interestingEven if they don't love little kittens? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?If you see me and dislike me, that is scary. If you see me and dislike me but you're happy, that is unsettling. If you see me and are pleased with me as I am, I want to please you more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Feminine upkeepIf you have great hair, sure. My hair needs a bit of time, or I look like something you might mop the floors with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Why does manipulation get such a bad rep? How about taking control of the things you can control - isn't comforting someone a manipulation, isn't seducing your own husband a manipulation? There is a big universe out there, why not tweak it a bit to your benefit where you can? Harming others usually is usually avoidable, I do feel people should do their best to avoid that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I like you :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?His lack of subtlety is his charm. (No comment on his policies, but I laughed and cheered when he got chosen - he comes across as the stereotypical American LOL) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Deal breaker marriage wise, yes. Not relationship wise. I would have been okay with not getting married, I would have stayed. But getting married with an 'out' seems senseless to me. Why get married, then? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Yeah the older ones seem more chill to me, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 03:11 PM |
| 12 | I feel like I don't have enough time.Rude comment coming in. Are you always this long-winded? Because that may keep some men away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Rant: Being an Alpha Widow is not cool or interestingYup :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayYes. He should want you very much, or you should next. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Could be coincidence, I really, really don't get out much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Moralizing isn't allowed here. I don't want to divorce at all, the lack of pre-nup was mentioned to show the confidence he has in this relationship (despite being RP aware). Hypergamy has nothing to do with resources, but with attraction. Someone who feels 'better than me' or 'the best'. I married him when he was unemployed and in debt, by the way. And he comes from relative poverty while I come from money. I'm fine with hypergamy. It worked out - and like when shopping for couches, you have opt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayJust wanted to reply that I agree with this (stupid EC badge makes me feel responsible) - do apologize, but when you see him face to face. Wait for him to initiate further contact. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 5 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayIt's not inexcusable, but it is a bit passive aggressive. He could be still undecided about what he feels about this situation. Combine that with a few other factors and the behavior is understandable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 10:01 PM |
| 16 | I’m alpha widowed. The guy I’m obsessed with doesn’t even respect me. I want to change that.Nun mode, therapy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 09:58 PM |
| 13 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayThen his pulling away is understandable - you are coming across as unreliable now. Explain briefly, apologize, make amends, and make a gesture to show you you are serious about him (like meeting your parents or whatever is the proper next step for you ATM). | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Absolutely true. But implementing subtly, to mimic the natural, I think can be helpful in some cases. Not to make her dread him leaving, but to remind her he is wantable. I think when done right, it can definitely make for happier marriages. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Wholesome and lovely ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Well, a lot of what people call hypergamy is hypogamy to my tastes. I think you (like me) are primarily attracted to intelligence. I also (secondarily) like the dominant/intimidating/muscly thing, but not loud and extraverted types. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:30 PM |
| 6 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayWould help if we knew what request. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Yes to all that, but I literally mean I have heard the lingo used. And in discussions if I dropped the term red pill, then against my expectations didn't need to explain a thing. I would estimate about half the younger men (twenty somethings) know by now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:20 PM |
| 15 | Too many (potential) captains"How do I quickly spot someone who is captain material and not get distracted by all the other guys?" You don't. Anyone can fake it for 4 days, and lots of great men are slow to warm up. Meet good people, but don't be disappointed if there's no follow-up. Besides, there are likely to be more women than men, there. So do your hair nicely. And then relax. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Help me reconcile lifting with my goal aesthetics please!Whoa there sweety. Getting a little ahead of yourself, there. Keep doing what you're doing. If your quads get too big, you can always change things up and they will shrink again. Better to keep going, then to let ifs and maybes slow you down. Don't switch. You've only just started. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:00 PM |
| 10 | How do you know when "boys" become "Men"?The title of this question implies that you only consider someone a real man, if he gives you the amount of attention you feel entitled to. Do you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?TBH I think a little bit of dread is a good thing. Not in an "I am gonna leave or cheat" way, but seeing that others want what I have does help me cherish it more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I think there are many more men who are redpilled, but don't subscribe to the sub. I have spotted them in the wild several times, and I hardly leave the house. I think a lot just lurk, learn and move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?If he resents feminine attributes (such as hypergamy), it's like he wishes I was a man (but with bobs and vergine) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 05:34 PM |
| 3 | How can I talk to bf about red pill ? How to word it?If he likes a certain 'trick', mention where you got the idea. If you discuss/gossip about realtionships, freely use the terminology and explain if he has questions. Just let it casually come up. And I heartily disagree with all the people who think you should be secretive about this. Or keep male red pill a secret. If that info makes him respect or love you less, wouldn't you want to know and deal? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Promising first date!! Need some pointers!This, too. If he is a great catch, why is he going for a single mom with family drama and nightmares? Is he love bombing at all? Tread carefully. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/19 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Promising first date!! Need some pointers!Considering your other question on Christianity sub, I think you should take it slooooooooooow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Can a RPW be single forever?Thanks for the new perspective! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/19 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What is RedPill about?LOL of course, it's just that your question makes it seek like we're a cult (many newbies look at us that way), and you have to believe XYZ to be welcomed in the fold. That's nonsense, there is no ideal. This is a toolbox. Take what you want, leave the rest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm a man just starting to go out on my own to college and things, and I want to say this subreddit has been very helpful/wholesome for me.Rhinoceros, you mean? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What is RedPill about?I'm so tempted to troll you into oblivion... There's a sidebar/about section and you can just lurk and read. Our ideals and beliefs differ - personally, I'm a pagan and ideally, I'm getting a lockpicking set this yule. Sup? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Can a RPW be single forever?I'm so sorry to hear that! It's just a small part of the package, though. But it must be rough emotionally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 10 | Alpha widow. Transgender. Anal sex is painful, how can I retain a man in this state?No, you can't, you're letting people damage your (don't know the word in English, lower part of your intestines) out of low self-esteem. You are unable to have a healthy sexlife right now. A cheater isn't always obvious, but they tend to be more entitled and generally low on conscientiousnes. Some men want more women and are honest about it (ask!), some are sneaks. Some men are actually really satisfied with just one. You are too desperate, too eager, in too much of a hurry and this attracts bad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Can a RPW be single forever?To be fair (off topic), I resent depending on strangers/society for food and water. Many of my hobbies revolve around survivalism and self-sufficiency because of that. I'm not a very trusting person :-p (but I am a housewife) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 9 | Alpha widow. Transgender. Anal sex is painful, how can I retain a man in this state?The flaws in your thinking are: All men (want to) cheat You can prevent a cheater from cheating by putting out Neither are true. You need therapy if you ghost people for feeling inferior. And nun mode! Raising your value is for when you are in a good place mentally. You already have enough value to find dates, yet you ghost them. So work on your psyche, instead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:15 PM |
| -6 | I'm a man just starting to go out on my own to college and things, and I want to say this subreddit has been very helpful/wholesome for me.You're welcome. Aren't I just the best? Like, amaaaaaazing. Petting the unicorns will get you booted. Go to TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?Doesn't take patience to enjoy indulging fantasies and maybees and possiblies. I have had some of the greatest discussions about entirely fictional situations and people 😋 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?Aye, but since truth is stranger than fiction, I tend to try and err on the side of caution and give honest replies. Obvious Troll is Obvious but what the hell ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?I suppose it's cybersex diluted 😋 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 03:47 PM |
| 3 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededIt means he's a player. The full name is Chad Thundercock. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?Wordly possessions = everything you own in this world :-p It was a joke :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | TL;DR online dating feedback needed😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?Sometimes people post fake stories or questions here because they get off on the very idea of submissive women. Our replies feed their fantasies. I've gone out of my way in private message response before to give advice re: childcare before, only to realise that person really just wanted to talk about humiliation and corporal punishment. They seemed legit at first, but it just got weirder and weirder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededI literally thought this was a copy paste from OPs online message from Chad. My apologies for the harsh tone. Still, you don't know OPs 'spirit' (nor are people clear on the definition/existence of spirit and intuition). It was my mistake to call you out, though. I should have seen you were commenting to try and be helpful, I don't know why I made the wrong assumption there. My miss, my bad. Your response to me was very gracious! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededThis is the typical wishy washy ego pandering babbling of a player. Going on about your generosity of spirit and intuition... LOL | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:20 AM |
| 4 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededHe got into an irrational argument online - if he clearly did so because it was funny, okay. Otherwise you have prime douche material there. You seem way, way too hung up on this 'interest'. People call him Chad, and you're not listening. A guy you're just attracted to has no business being the cause of drama in your life - especially not where the lines between work and life are muddled. Be professional. Cut the highschool drama. Also, if they follow you online, do not assume they are actually … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:14 AM |
| 1 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededOh hi Dylan. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:05 AM |
| 8 | Can a RPW be single forever?You'd be a very well informed single lady. That's it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:26 AM |
| 4 | How do you get over being Alpha Widowed?You don't get over someone by mooning over them. She's alpha widowed - means she feels there is nobody better. Looking at his flaws will drag him down a notch and open her eyes to other potential candidates. If she stays hung up on the positives, that's just going to undermine her next relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 83 | Hiding my redpilling from my captain?Admit it. Explain what about RPW speaks to you. It's terrible to have to hide your ideas and convictions. Awful. It eats at you. I do it with too many people in my life. It's become second nature to say the 'right' words instead of how I truly feel. Not with my husband, though. This world is oppresive in many ways, and social pressure is intense. If you can't be you, if you can't explore all kinds of ideas, and feel safe to do so, with your man... then he is not your man. I meet with disapproval… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”I'm unsure now. How can one be an asterix? Perhaps you could be more clear? In this subreddit I am a regular with an endorsed batch, I figured that makes it obvious that I don't hate men, myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”It's downvoted by idiots who think I'm being anti-male. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”Was it really that hard to understand? I'm explaining why the current mindset is so anti-male (leaders want an easy herd), not how I feel about men... ETA - Those with power want easy , docile subjects. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 03:38 PM |
| 4 | How do you get over being Alpha Widowed?Cultivate contempt for him. Meditate on his flaws. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Ways to inspire leadership in your man?https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/bhylng/how_to_get_him_to_lead_or_be_sweet_nsfw/ | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Why we should admire menI'd go as far as to argue some abusers are great men (to society, even if they're nightmares to their families). Nobody is black and white. I greatly admire some men while sympathizing with and pitying their wives. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What is RPW's opinion about forgiving people?Forgive him but stop thinking about him. Be civil and find someone else. Don't overthink this. It's in the past. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Homemaking Challenge UpdateNot well - but I did so much other stuff! I had a period of intense shrooming and drying. I had a period of intense chestnut gathering and preparing and cookie baking. A period of intensive Holiday prep now and this week wíll feature some pie, but bread has been storebought (for shame!) Still, it's a happy busy bustle here. I'm hosting Thanksgiving, we have a Sinterklaas party, then Christmas for 6 on the 25th and Christmas for 13 on the 26th. Guests are taking care of the meat on the 26th but e… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/19 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Do men prefer the '' Cool Girl"You can be unlike everyone else without being pretentious about it, can't you? Like explore mutual interests but don't brag? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 09:36 AM |
| 2 | What is your first date prep routine?I agree with this. Look nice/pretty, and if he's any good, look nicer/prettier for him once he's shown himself worthy. Don't go in a tracksuit, just look cute but don't go overboard. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 09:32 AM |
| 7 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”There's no synopsis and she's posted here so frequently it's starting to lool like spam. I didn't watch or upvote either, just reacted to the title. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”Since machinea and technology made the physical power of men unnecessary to those in power, masculinity is toxic and men are trash. They neuter pets because testosterone is risky, and cows are easier to herd than bulls. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | TRP Men after break-up go back to spinning plates, what should I, as a woman, do?You offered her to give some tips re: extra person in the bedroom right? I am interested in joining in on the fun with my husband a little bit :-p You seem an authority on the subject and I like to be well-informed :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP Men after break-up go back to spinning plates, what should I, as a woman, do?Copy paste one for me, please? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Is this request unreasonable?"I'm not in the mood" for us actually means "yes, but slow down" - he knows how to turn me on. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/19 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Is this request unreasonable?Wandering hands are a way of saying "sex is probably gonna happen", just not a verbal way. The bigger issue here is your sex drive. How are your testosterone levels? You can influence then with diet and exercise (you want higher levels!). Stay away from spearmint tea, do some strength training, google what foods can help. Also, are you orgasming regularly? If no, practice on yourself (masturbate). Read some erotica! Not fifty shades, there are much better ones for sale. Do a lingerie capsule war… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/19 08:42 AM |
| 3 | What are you willing to sacrifice to be with your captain?We moved countries as a family. I spent a lot of time socializing. Many people didn't turn out to be people we wanted to be friends with, or people who wanted to be our friends. But it paid off. Big moves means you have to invest in new ties - it's a numbers game. Keep putting yourself out there until you are satisfied with your social life! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/19 12:19 PM |
| 3 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?That's a great point you touched - a submissive attitude triggers them less. But they don't deserve it. Not even a little bit. So a little shit test here and there can be a good thing - if he sulks the moment you're not catering to him, he is bad news. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/19 08:49 AM |
| 8 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?I know an abusive guy with a victim mindset who might walk away from his wife and kid because he feels like he is being abused. To his mind, he is - she denies him sex, constantly rejects him. But that's the consequence of him constantly criticizing and humiliating her in that area, as well as doing things to her she hates and never making it good for her. Learning is always a good thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/19 08:42 AM |
| 4 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?What I read: "I abused people and feel bad so I am the victim" "My mom was abusive so it's not my fault" "Some abusers are worse so I'm okay" You just made yourself sound textbook abuser... (facepalm) And yeah, I know some people who had to cut ties with abuse victims, too. Simply because they were at a real risk from the abusive ex just by associating with the victim. Nasty situation all around... | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/19 08:38 AM |
| 7 | How should I tell a guy I work with that I want to get to know himHow about "I'll miss you..." at the end of your last workday together? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/19 07:25 PM |
| 15 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?Yes, too it's often here that I see posts where I doubt if it's a healthy situation. Submission is a risky thing. And the book can also help some women recognize their own shortcomings. Or recognize dysfunction in their extended families (I read it and recognized my mother a lot). Or basically just understand some things better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | When we disagreeHe sees it as preference. Yes, children should follow parents' preferences. But it is not preference. A big man has very different nutritional needs from a child. Find a way to convey this. It is your responsibility as a parent to privide children with a good variety of macros and micros, and if you don't spoil them wirh candy, they will naturally eat what their bodies need. Your kids won't have as much muscle to nourish, so their protein requirements will not be as high :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/19 05:27 PM |
| – | Self CareMaybe use an essential oil for the smell? A few drops won't irritate, but will make the whole bathroom smell divine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/19 05:17 PM |
| – | Self CareThe nausea is probably because you're close to fainting. Try and make them less hot, or eat more salt/liquorice to increase your blood pressure. Keep cool drinks nearby as well, and end with icy shower :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Vacation w/ Boyfriend’s Family + Dutch CultureZwarte Piet is out of the country after December 5th. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 05:21 PM |
| – | Self CareHot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Vacation w/ Boyfriend’s Family + Dutch CultureMake a good impression on an interpersonal level, by not taking over the household ;-) Pregnant lady will appreciate help, but also your interest in her experience with pregnancy, her ideas about parenting, her hopes for family life. All those hormones will make her sentimental and cry easily. It'll be nice for her to have a warm feminine presence around to feel supported. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Vacation w/ Boyfriend’s Family + Dutch CultureDutch men do 3 kisses with women, women with everyone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 08:27 AM |
| 10 | Vacation w/ Boyfriend’s Family + Dutch CultureI'm Dutch :-) New Years is, depending on your area, like a warzone. Urban areas will be full of fires and fireworks. Firefighters don't even bother with the little ones. Riots are a given in the worse places. Even jn the suburbish towns (we don't have actual suburbs), the scent of fireworks still lingers the next day. It's almost everyone who lights fireworks (not organized), and the heavier illegal stuff is LOUD. If you walk outside the days surrounding, don't shriek or run away, it will egg th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Guilty feelings and self-sabotage: advice?"I've done some browsing on TRP, just to see the kind of woman that I shouldn't be" This right here is your problem. You want to please all those guys? Or just the one you love (and thereby yourself)? He already picked you. You must be doing something right. Recognize the nasty thoughts, personize them and give them nicknames. Next time you think you're gonna mess up even though everything is right, just go "oh look, there's Don Downer again. Hi Don, sit down and have a drink". Treating demons l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Help me manipulate...Nice!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/19 07:46 AM |
| 7 | Help me manipulate...Nice one!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Help me manipulate...LOL Too cold this time of year! /remindme 6 months | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Help me manipulate...Ooh I love the lotion trick. Sneaky sneaky! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 06:25 PM |
| 8 | Help me manipulate...Haters gonna hate ;-) I used the word on purpose because RPW haters (and RP haters) sometimes accuse us of being manipulative. Manipulation gets a bad rep, everyone manipulates reality or suffers from it. Better to take matters in hand IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Help me manipulate...Oh my husband is a romantic, he's just a very busy one. That's why I want manipulative tricks instead of just asking him to make time. So he can just roll along with the natural mood (that I carefully crafted like a sneak). | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Where do I find a good wife?And I prefer Dylan Thundercock to this Theo Tradcon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Where do I find a good wife?100% this LOL | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Where do I find a good wife?Unicorns gather between the void and the rainbow. Much luck to you on your journey. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:45 AM |
| 10 | Help me manipulate...I think the divorce wasn't caused by the tips you mentioned though :-) so thanks for your reply & best of luck with whatever you are going through. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Help me manipulate...Romance entails sex and other pleasant togetherness IMO. So either with or without sex, to me it's about the mood. The end goal is to set the mood, without making my husband feel I'd be disappointed if he didn't notice/respond. I always wear lingerie, so for us, it is a subtle move. He likes it. When he gets home there is no subtle way to show, because kids are still up. So showing then would be a pressure move - too obvious and almost demanding. Mine likes to take all the initiative but he's a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Gift ideas for your captain?Since you have kids, laminate or frame some pictures or artwork related to them for office, wallet etc. DIY a 'my daddy' book for the kids. Make him something a little more special. If you bake cookies, he gets some but it's not 'for him'. Maybe make a special kind of liquor or whatever he likes for him, instead. Fun toys like spy cameras and lockpicking sets and throwing knives and axes. An experience gift like spa/skydiving/etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 08:03 AM |
| 5 | Boyfriend’s type is very different from meIn the moment a "why are you telling me this?" In hindsight a "what were you hoping to achieve by telling me that?" Watch his expression. School your own face to sweet stillness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:45 AM |
| 12 | Boyfriend’s type is very different from meThis. I don't think this is ignorance, I think guys who do this, know it. Bringing you down to try and keep you on your toes. Red flag IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?Look, you have your values, others have theirs. Of course everyone thinks their own values are superior, so everyone kind of looks down on people that are too different from themselves. The issue here is subtle rudeness. Act as if they are genuine compliments like PrincessTeex said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Describe your style? How has it changed over time?Neo-vintage mostly. Fifties style dresses. We are always out hiking, so I pair it with riding boots and leather jacket usually. Sometimes a classy trench when we go shopping instead, with heeled booties. I have had a few years where I wore only dresses, but now I've returned to my roots a little bit fashionwise. So that's kind of an old-money understated style. Classic colors, matching leathers (belts/shoes/watch), classic cuts. I am putting a bit of a British country spin on it because of the f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Describe your style? How has it changed over time?I use looped scarves (or loop 'em myself by tying the fringes together) as nursing covers - harder for baby to pull off :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Describe your style? How has it changed over time?https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.harpersbazaararabia.com/amp/article_listing/harpers/fashion/the-news/ralph-lauren-is-launching-a-rachel-green-collection-and-we-cant-wait-to-wear-it | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:54 AM |
| 6 | Describe your style? How has it changed over time?Dress like you own a boat in summer, like you own horses in winter. Old money style 😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:46 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffCook double batches every time! So you have something to heat up on the worst days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:35 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffOh you're reading the Great Waste of Time series! :-p It's fun but the writer died too soon... | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | how do you deal with a man who puts you on a pedestal?Say what, you next me? Oh my, now I'm going to have to stay with my loving husband - as I have been for 13 years. What to do, what to do?! An old woman gets a subdued voice... They're tired and slow and they can't keep up if you are at regular energy level. That is out of consideration for their fragility - like a child. Not respect. If you are actually close with someone, and actually respect one another, you can call them any name and they will smile and call you something worse and kiss you. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/19 11:32 AM |
| 38 | How to ask a male authority figure for an apologyYeah... Apologies aren't necessary for healing, but they are for feeling like you 'won'. OP, you are what they call a flying monkey. Here is some advice for you. Stay out of your parents drama. It is not your business and your asking here means you're overly involved. Very unhealthy situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/19 08:09 AM |
| 2 | how do you deal with a man who puts you on a pedestal?I really don't like these assumptions and the moralizing here. Being rude does not equate to verbal and emotional abuse. I do agree with the bottom line advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Book Series Recommendation: The Amy Vanderbilt Success Program for WomenDidn't she go through 4 husbands though? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Baking challenge for November... reminder.So the bread thing is running a little late due to my incompetence in using public transport 😅 but I'll switch up my cookie streak as soon as I can make some time! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Baking challenge for November... reminder.I didn't know about the challenge, but I made lots of cookies and if I can get a bread in jn 2 days, I can still join :-p | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/19 11:52 AM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?I started out just with what I learned as a kid (the very easiest berries) and then read some books that told me more, and it turned into a major hobby. I really love food :-p and nature and free things. The classics are by Euell Gibbons (really great engaging reads, but no pics just simple drawings), modern writers like Samuel Thayer and John Kallas are great for getting practical (pics in all growth stages). Mushrooms genuinely need a separate library, I love David Arora and Roger Phillips and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 09:08 PM |
| 3 | I rarely drink, but when I do I go overboardMaybe that's all you need :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Creating little celebrations or luxurious moments in your everyday?LOL we have bonfires a lot but I never poetried them... Great idea! And your husband sounds like great fun :-D | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | I rarely drink, but when I do I go overboardSome people just have no self-restraint. Hi, I'm Zegiknie and I don't drink. Because I know what happens to the cookies... :-p When I need to tone it down with the cookies, I use the typical indulging time for other indulgences. I suppose sex at a work function isn't a great idea, and cookies will make you fat. What else gives you a feel-good boost? Running? Great sales? Sexting your partner under the table? Or just order the most overpriced tea? The negativity is probably some repressed emotion… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Creating little celebrations or luxurious moments in your everyday?It's very wise to put on some crooners while cooking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Creating little celebrations or luxurious moments in your everyday?We do this in our homeschool, too! If weather allows, it's a poetry picnic :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The Coming Burst of the SJW BubbleI'm just here to complain about SJW. I saw a Hallmark Christmas movie on youtube (which is by definition all that a movie should be). The female lead was half-Asian, her white half brother fell for someone brown (Indian?), etc. Just a mix of characters. Then someone came and complained (on the free feel-good fest) that Hallmark has too many white leads with 'poc' best friends who 'pander to them'. SJW... Go. Away! Hallmark sells, by the way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | He just said ‘I love you’ but I can’t say it back. Now what?Either that or the very idea of commitment scares you, which is actually not uncommon among women. I know several who oestered their men for babies... then when the men were finally ready, they went "oh crap" and cried. What have you got to gain and lose? Maybe you're not that into him. Maybe he's not that into you (most guys love the RPW aspects, but they're not all there is to you - do you just check the boxes or does he love you?), maybe you're a bit shy about love and relationships, maybe yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | He proposed!Yay! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:21 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?It was the one I gathered most of, this fall. Ceps are tastier but this one is just everywhere! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”xD | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women of VirtueLol true | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”You calling me a dude, bro?! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Masturbating...Well. I have always been masturbating, and orgasm often and easily, and am very happily married with a satisfying sex life. My friend never masturbates, has never orgasmed. This made her resent sex once life got busier with kids, so her lovelife dwindled and her marriage is on the rocks. Orgasms burn calories and have plenty health benefits. Better to be relaxed and just do it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Women of VirtueBe GLORIOUS I don't like the idea of virtuous, I prefer awesome. Virtue has stifling Christian connotations for me. I like fun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”LOL I might have twisted the story a bit for entertainment purpose, I don't actually think my husband hates me or that there's a wrong kind of chocolate. I could continue the story and invent many ways in which one would be incapable of arranging their own chocolate and why a bath would be totally fair, and I'd love to but am on the clock a little bit. But uhm, yeah. Common sense - so rare it's a goddamn superpower. Most people feel absolutely entitled to throw out all their negative thoughts an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Body counthttps://youtu.be/3pgB6eqk_bI This is a nice one with lots of diastasis/fitness level adaptions. Or you can adapt a workout on your own with the rules - don't do anything that makes your belly dome/cone, makes your insides fall out, or stretches at the tissue. So for most that also means no planks and pushups, no deadlifts, no sidebends. Also try and carry baby at your chest, and if you must do it one-armed, switch sides! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Body countGlute bridges. Use the kid as a weight, they like it :-) Yeah diastasis recti can set your whole body off balance. I'm sure you know not to do crunches? You could get physical therapy for it or try one of those programs online (IDK if they are any good or all the online reviews are just guerilla marketing). There are also videos on youtube for free: (Phone dead links later) What I do know - glute bridges are great for glutes and against diastasis. I had a spot of stresss incontinence after baby … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend cancelled date to play videogamesHe says he is unsure and then steers by your emotion. You're gonna need a sturdy ship with a captain like that... His idea of spending much time together seems to be entirely different from yours. Since it's early stages, I'm leaning toward next - he's not excited enough to give you as much of his time as you need, he's got an addicitive hobby you dislike, he's not acting like a leader and you want a male-led relationship (right? I assume because you are here). I'm not against gaming per se, but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”Let me give you an easier example. If I'm exhausted, some stupid little thing (bought me the wrong kind of chocolate) can make me break down in frustration. But if I am that worn out, I usually do not see it as fatigue, I see it as solid proof he hates me. Takes a few minutes for me to see sense. I don't take out all the drama on him like "WHY DID YOU BUY BRAND X WHEN YOU KNOW BLABLA WHINE NAG", which would only get me a "WHY THE HELL ARE YOU COMPLAINING WHEN I AM LITERALLY HANDING YOU CHOCOLATE… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 11 | Creating little celebrations or luxurious moments in your everyday?Oldies while folding laundry. Metal on those days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Body countIf you have a problem with being made to feel crazy, it's not very nice of you to call me psychopath... It's actually common practice here to check someones post history, you know, to see if there is anything helpful in there they may have overlooked themselves. You could be thankful that I took the time. If you knew what you wanted, you wouldn't be asking about n count. You would either enjoy increasing it, or be on the hunt for a keeper, or be with a keeper. Free advice: don't be so touchy. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Body countI get off on PIV too, also a bit weaker at first following babies. But it improved entirely with exercise. Do you work on your glutes, too, not just kegels? Kegels alone paired with weak glutes can somehow lead to all the typical post-baby pelvic floor dysfunctions. Could be nerve damage of course, but can't hurt to try and improve your situation :-) Anyway yeah - I orgasm super easy too, don't actually need my man for that. But it's so much more fun with a good sexual match. Especially if you'r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Body countI care that much about sex. His skill leads to orgasms leads to oxytocin release leads to feelz of connection. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 5 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”STFU is great for when your feelings and thoughts are a mess. In stead of the emotional reactivity situation (that can easily get out of hand), take some time to gather your thoughts. Approach whatever is wrong in a calm and collected, non-dysfunctional, constructive way. It's not about being a doormat. Sure you can cry on his shirt, but if he is the reason for your tears, that is likely to lead to defensiveness and needless drama. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 21 | How to be a more warm, radiant person?Take care of yourself and cut out time wasters and distractions. That way you have the energy and time to spare for another. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:12 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Imleria badia, mostly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Body countIt's not your n-count, it's the schizo thing and the psychotic break and the alpha widowhood and all that. I think nun-mode and therapy is a good start. Figure out what you want and why, and what you want to give. If you're emotionally unstable, sex hormones just complicate things 100x more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Body countThis but in bold. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Attracted to my cousinDon't act on it unless you like drama and unhealthy offspring. Plenty of fish! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 11 | Resources for atheist RPW?Pagan here, I feel ya. I don't do right or wrong, I do pleasant and unpleasant (and checking both directions time-wise, ie. ancestors and next generations). Just read the Christian stuff and ignore all the shoulds and the moralizing. Then take those ideas and assess them honestly for your life/situation/biological make-up/preferences. Unfortunately, without faith, you can't simply just do what it says in the book. You have to think for yourself a little bit. For encouragement, just express your … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 08:29 AM |
| 2 | I love red pill, but...Then maybe the lack of time to date is the only issue? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Husband’s love of clutterMy husband is messy and it never changed. Don't expect that bringing this up after his studies will make a difference. Insofar possible, keep your spaces separate (his drawer, your drawer, his room, your room) and agree with him on places where you can dump whatever was in the way for cleaning. Some people like things. He does. Accept and deal or move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | What would you define as the X-Factor?Women who have it... They send out happy vibes. They are loose - not in the sense of slutty, but more relaxed. They can be wild or calm, but they are that way because that's their natural energy. Men who have it... Dominance without anger, alpha and beta, win or lose with the same composure, smart. Both: sparkle, eyes glinting with some kind of fire. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Self confidence in a relationshipIt is absolutely normal for women to be insecure about their looks. Society want you to be insecure (to make you spend money on snake oil) and you instintctually and redpilllually know the benefit of good looks. You are already using that insecurity to fuel your workouts and doing what you can. Use the rest for cute vulnerability. Whining about looks = no. Getting naked and asking if he still likes you = yes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | how can i learn to cook?Yes. Basics. Simple first, then learn adaptions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I love red pill, but...Do lots of grooming and dirty can be sexy. It's the contrast (same as strong guy holding cute baby/animal). Does it surprise people to learn you're an electrician? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | “It feels natural to treat you like a lady”You go, girl! ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Found out I was seeing a guy with a girlfriend... I feel low value23 and 17 is not creepy IMO, not a huge difference (maybe you think it's creepy because it is illegal where you live?). | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do men want to marry some women but not others ? Not the book.Yes. Even if nothing lines up and she's ugly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | “Thank you for making me feel like a king”You go, girl! ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Need an attitude adjustment about messy dishesIt's the little things in life that make you happy... And the little bowls on the couches that can drive you over the edge. Consider it great practice for stoicism. This, too, shall pass. When she leaves the house. Where I am from, we have a tradition where you get to write scolding poetry for your loved ones about how bad they have been on a certain holiday. Hope you have a similar way to let off steam and not have resentment build up. Maybe a few extra hours of housekeeping can come out of her… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Unaligning Political Views!Have an upvote. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 16 | I’m turning 33 soon and want to know how to realistically and successfully date at this age. Are there any tips or things I should know?You'll get all that if you space out kids a few years. Or hire your wife some help. Or find a wife with a great family network. I don't know any women who get it all done if they have lots of very littles and no help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has semi nude pictures of an other girl on his phoneWhat worries me is not his keeping some pornographic pic. Unless you specifically agreed against those kind of things togethet (pressuring him into it doesn't count) What worries me is he was like a guilty teenager about it, trying to avoid your anger and to get back at you. Immature behavior on both sides. My best advice: apologize for getting angry, it's his business if he wants to look at that. Then have a good talk about boundaries. Own up to your insecurity. Maybe you can grow together as a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:47 PM |
| 10 | I like when he interrupts meLol no, but I like it when he slaps me so who am I to judge :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | “You’re the best girlfriend I’ve ever had”You go, girl! ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Happy TalkI love men. I think society stopped loving them since they don't need as much muscle power (because of the machines), and society serves the rich. Less testosterone makes more placid workers. Being positive about men seems to me a necessity to off balance the anti-male undercurrent that's going on now. But aside from that... they are just so alive! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend cancelled date to play videogamesHe double booked, the activity with his friend is not yours to judge unless it affecta you. He's comfortable enough to tell you honestly, that's not bad! He likes gaming, that's not bad in an of itself either (unless it's addiction). Why do you take issue? He saw you extra because of the incident, so it makes sense he would cancel you and not the friend. This is small fries. You clearly are important to him (he came over to help!). If he is too tired to see you, that means he expects little pamp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions on showing appreciation toward future in-laws for a BIG gift...How about some cute grandkids? (IDK about Chinese culture except money and status is a big thing there - they are more open about it than us - and have intergenerational family ambition, which is tabooish here because you're not supposed to pressure kids). | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/19 08:14 AM |
| 5 | What do you owe a man you just started dating?Yes. If he contacts, politely decline/explain. Otherwise just go on with your life. It's super rude to just ignore someone, unless you've been absolutely clear and they're stalking you anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/19 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Do men really notice how we dress and do our hair?Toning it down dress- and grooming- wise signals casualmode (not working, free time). So those girls get approached more, because it makes them look approachable/easygoing. Like you'd find it easier to talk to the guy in the hoody, than the man in the suit. Dress and groom better for a date, and he'll notice. Don't be super frumpy, but don't be too formal/over the top in every day life, either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with your periods and PMS?If doctors say you're okay... Orgasms more often. It's supposed to help (stronger uterine walls? IDK). Get pregnant and nurse day and night as long as humanly possible. It can be over a year post partum (like me right now) before they come back. Some herbal teas might help. Raspberry leaf, ladies mantle, chamomille. Exercise throughout your cycle. Just being generally fit can help, especially against being slow and brainfogged. I'm similar. Endometriosis runs in the family, but docs said I didn'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Is No One Monogamous Anymore?Lol upvoted, going to steal that line 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm really fascinated by this subClassy ☝️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 12:08 PM |
| 12 | I'm really fascinated by this subSometimes women come here in what seem like abusive situations, and they always get told something along the lines of: "drunk captain, abandon ship". Sometimes women who come here are kinkier than others can understand. Sometimes the lines are blurry, and we try our best. Sometimes the women are in too much turmoil alltogether, and we advise therapy and nun mode (steer clear of relationships). My husband and I are consenting and informed adults. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 10:55 AM |
| 23 | I'm really fascinated by this subYou're petting the unicorns. Mods gonna getcha! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 10:30 AM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Congratulations!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 09:02 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffYikes, that's difficult to organize then. Maybe a gym with airconditioning and babysitting facilities? Or some kind of yoga you're supposed to do in the sweltering heat? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 09:01 AM |
| 21 | Women's Rights: Bring Back Dominant Masculinity to Protect WomenI am a heathen, and didn't have the time to listen to you talk. Just wanted to say that the camera angle doesn't do you justice. You're beautiful, but the low camera hides that a bit. Put it on top of something, next time. Presentation matters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Am I being unfair?It signals low conscientiousness. I think your mind is already made up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 08:55 AM |
| 2 | I feel I have a very bad relationship with men and I want to changeThat gave me such warm fuzzies to read! You've got so much to be proud of, you could have derailed so much, but instead you're hanging in there. There will be some aftershocks, but the worst is over. Someone smart and kind is looking after you now: YOU. So you're in good hands ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Is chemistry due to large SMV difference?Agree, it's just hormones and timing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Can’t find a man, living in a feminist cityNo. Because all she is, is curious and slightly attracted. You're thinking like a man. She's not hoping to get laid, she's trying to find out if she wants to. So a bad excuse is just sending out feelers. Like a tiny little shit test. If a woman approaches you and wants just sex, sure she should mention it upfront. But most of us here want a bit more. And you can't very well say "hey there, are you worthy of my submission and want to have babies together?" Because no answer would be sufficient. T… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 01:11 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffMaybe start with a short exercise video (like Tone it up free ones on youtube), and then you'll get some endorphins that make the dieting easier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 11:41 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffMaybe you can go swim? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 10:59 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffHealthy eating and exercise doesn't get harder, it gets more necessary though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Self care categorizedAlso good when you have a cold! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Can’t find a man, living in a feminist cityDude, the bad excuse is not a mind game. It's a way for him to graciously bow out if he's not interested, without awkward confrontations. And a way for her to graciously bow out if he spits while he speaks, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Being soft-spoken in the workplace/school?Okay, you're 15. And while all 15 year olds are terrible and annoying (they call it 'the awkward ages' for good reason, bloody teenagers!!!), and all of them are anxious and self-loathing, your case sounds more serious. Hitting yourself is taking it a couple of steps further than typical teenage angst. I know u/hammocknapping said go get therapy and stop looking to reddit for answers. But I also know, that is just going to make you feel like you're justified in hating yourself so much, since peo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 10:10 AM |
| 79 | Is No One Monogamous Anymore?This. N=2 is too few to draw conclusions. Most people are monogamous. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Self care categorizedIf telling people to throw up, masturbate, plot revenge and watch horror is your idea of wholesome, yeah okay. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 08:52 AM |
| 12 | I'm intimidated by handsome/high value menWell, they are intimidating. I'm glorious ;-) but I get intimidated, too. Try being vulnerable and open. If you let a man know he's a bit intimidating/scary or seems larger than life to you, a good one will put you at ease. Don't be all "you're out of my league/better than me" because for shame, have some self-respect woman! But you can be a bit shy or timid and that won't get in the way of your lovelife. Also don't be so judgy (of yourself and others). Average looking women? Maybe they're great… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/19 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Self care categorizedDuring pregnancy, throwing up is sometimes a relief and temporarily lifts the nausea :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/19 06:53 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid branch swingingYou're petting the unicorns. Mods gonna getcha... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Self care categorizedMy thoughts exactly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 10:20 PM |
| 45 | Should you defer to him?Ability doesn't have to be 'natural' and feminism is very silly, but yes: pick him if he's worthy, dismiss if he's not. But if you have already picked him, keep treating him with respect even on his off days. Have faith in him and he will rise to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I feel I have a very bad relationship with men and I want to changeNun mode and therapy. There's nothing wrong with anything you did. The only problem is that those behaviors do not serve your interests very well. So stop the self-judgement, please. Also, if this e-sex is an addiction to you, please find a way to keep yourself unrecognizable and anonymous until you're over it. And if, after you've come at peace with your past, you still have fetishes or kinks, that's fine, you know. I read somewhere that rape victims actually frequently roleplay rape as a way o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 10:11 PM |
| 2 | I feel I have a very bad relationship with men and I want to changeExactly. It's not a victim mentality when you were actually a victim. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Nun mode vs the wallThink of nun mode as striving toward starter qualifications. And if he's okay with current you, expecting (like men typically do) for you to let yourself go a little in time, imagine how happy he will be when he sees you're actually continuing to grow as a person! Plus tick-tock... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid branch swingingPetting 🦄 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid branch swingingThanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid branch swingingThanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Major Help Needed to Become More Feminine/TraditionalPutting the colorful in colorful language! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 3 | RPW reaching out to non-RP womenI once lost a good friend because I informed her of her boyfriends cheating. Lesson learned... People don't take kindly to info they weren't looking for. I've been conscious about setting an example when other women seemed curious, but I'll never give unasked for advice (IRL). | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 08:08 AM |
| 10 | How to avoid branch swingingI should be able to give stars, but technology is hard. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/19 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Don't fall for "natural".That's the beauty of red pill, we get to be rude here and it's considered doing everyone a favor with refreshing truths 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Don't fall for "natural".XD I think you're a Sagittarius. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 04:16 PM |
| 16 | Don't fall for "natural".Lol 0x1000? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Theory about “Man Flu” - Aka how resentment manifestsTrue for my husband and I. He gets a fever, sleeps a few hours and is okay. I just sniffle for weeks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaI think you'd make an adorable teacosy 😜 You sound more attractive than I am (I was a model, but more average features are typically all-round pleasers). Loose clothing is uncomfortable if it's heavy and drags you down, but the light stuff really does enable movement, airflow, and general lack of sweatiness. I actually like a modified teacosy look (think Eastern European folk style), and on men as well. But my husband dresses up for work and down for exercise and then there's really only time le… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Major Help Needed to Become More Feminine/TraditionalI love your archaic cussing idea 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 08:07 AM |
| 7 | Don't fall for "natural".If something doesn't come naturally, that means it takes effort. And if something takes effort, you had best make sure that effort is actually worthwhile. You forgot to mention that. Striving blindly is stupid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 07:57 AM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Free 10-15 minute workout videos on youtube. Baby has gotten too heavy to function as strength training and too demanding to allow much exercise time. I've been slipping the short ones in recently and it's doing me a world of good in these busy days. Also: luck. Everyone around us is dealing with serious setbacks, but not us. Phew. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 06:53 AM |
| 5 | How did you meet your boyfriend/husband?And we have a winner! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 06:36 AM |
| 7 | How did you meet your boyfriend/husband?At home, my brother invited him. I'm not sure who showed interest first. It was very gradual. ETA: Yes, mine literally just walked in one day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/19 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Just a thoughtI prefer The Wee Free Men by Terry Pratchett. The heroine resents her sticky little brother, uses him as bait so she can smack a monster with a frying pan, but goes to hell (fairyland) and back to save him from the evil Queen. Why? Because he's hers. She's a witch, and a wonderful role model. When the world is in great peril, her reaction is: "what can I do?" More spunk, ya know. But yeah, little prince is cute and all. https://images.app.goo.gl/gJvdRax1mwYZihqj7 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Undoing Mom's InfluenceYup | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaAh, trans kids. Reminds me of a little boy I know. He was otherwise quite clever, but couldn't seem to learn his colors. By the time he was done with kindergarten, they figured it out: he must be colorblind. They took him to a doctor, who ran some tests. But no: he had perfect colorvision. Turned out this kid was very consistent in getting his colors wrong. For years, he had everyone confused by his insistence that red means yellow and vice versa. Silly, stubborn little bugger. My own brother we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 03:14 PM |
| 4 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I like cheese tho | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 12 | Undoing Mom's InfluenceAsk him to help you with this!!! It's not worth it to explain to make excuses, but he should know you struggle with this. I had a similar problem (this and more) and I cut off contact with my parents. My husband still acts as a buffer between difficult people and me, because he knows I'm not so good with boundaries even to this day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 12:00 PM |
| 3 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?They're more like guidelines, anyway. I broke that one. Ended up happily married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 09:54 AM |
| 4 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I read in a JBP book that measurable gender differences are actually greater in Sweden. Didn't check the source (his list looked legit though), but you directly contradict that fibding. Do you have a source? Wanna compare? (Just curious, not trying to start a fight) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 11 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?The emphasis on looks is there more because it's easier to work on than the rest, I think. Looks matter more in early stages, they catch interest quickly. Especially useful for shy introverts. Later on, men see letting yourself go more as symptomatic of diminished love. They don't typically mind pregnancy tracks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?We should totally like end womens suffrage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 5 | How To Get Over A Break Up And Not Jump Back Into Another Relationship?You can't distract yourself out of social needs. Starting uni is a psychologically vulnerable time - perfect for picking up new members for cults! Wanna join mine? ;-) Seriously though, look into free uni counselling but more importantly: cultivate whatever wholesome relationships are left to you (my mum sucks, so my aunt is like her substitute) and work on building a network. Join niche groups so you don't get lost in the crowds (specific hobby stuff, not just any sorority ish thing) and study … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Feeling stuck and slightly guiltyI want more info, I'm just not sure what info is missing here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 48 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?The women who end up here too often are anxious-preoccupied and take these 'rules' entirely too seriously. Life should be fun. So I disagree with all the rules anytime people look at them as being 'rules'. This is a toolbox. Use what you need, toss the rest and ENJOY YOUR LIVES! The point of being a great wife is not to earn awards or save society. It's to have a great marriage which is also not an end-goal. The end-goal is joy. Too many here seem to forget... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 05:16 PM |
| 5 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I disagree but I love your reasoning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | What dating advice would you give to your younger self after discovering TRP?Carry on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaOh and - yes to being a non-deformed healthy young woman being enough for perks. But I got more. I was aware of the perks and encouraged to enjoy them. I always got much more of those perks because of that. I smiled, dressed up. I looked great. Many teenage girls mope about and neglect themselves (less so nowadays, it seems, though). Thought police is stifling and scary. Lots of Lilliputians work together to tie down the giants in terms of minds. Very red Khmer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaYou identify as robot, I identify as glorious. Let's morph into one and we'll be Optimus Prime! :-D So you've got inside info on who pulls the badgey strings and why... 🤔 Gender is not a social construct. But that doesn't mean you can't play the socially constructed cultural roles to your hearts content, regardless of your anatomy, does it? And I think it's more of a brain-thing than a privates-thing, so it's entirely possibly for someones brains to be more like a womans (and thus their thinking… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 10:08 AM |
| 21 | Offering support instead of adviceWonderful. To add: when my husband comes with something and phrases it like a possible request for help, I like making unhelpful suggestions such as: "have you considered feeding me more chocolate?". Annoying to most, but mine cracks up laughing when I do :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/19 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?I just wanted to add: even just the word 'justified' re: divorce makes me itch. Personally, I don't think divorce is ever justified. But that's my opinion. And opinions are like assholes: everyone's got one. OP doesn't need to justify a damn thing. She doesn't need to live by my standards or yours. That's her business. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?I have no issue with pointing out that this is simple hypergamy hamstering. I do have issue with the moralizing that comes with it in many posts. Basically a tradcon approach of made your bed now lie in it. We're not here to fix society, we're here to help individual women with our insights into male/female nature to live their lives as they see fit. Her problem seems to be not so much the hypergamy itself, but the guilt-induced hamstering about it. The tone of most replies here is too blamey an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaOkay so I actually just thought someone reversed the gender dysphoria term for fun there. Personally I do hang out with all kinds (from right wing extremists to muslim converts and I actually know an IRL transgender), but IRL conversations tend to centre around kids and food and gossip for me. There's just no time to really talk with littles underfoot! And online I get kicked out (or I leave when they censor me) everywhere lol. But to hijack a term like that for the rare few transies out there s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 09:58 AM |
| 6 | Dating someone met online with no Facebook/Insta, red flag?Some careers don't mix well with social media (higher up military/security). I know some good men who dated online without social media. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaSo I replied and then things went wrong and now I'm busy but this is interesting but kids need me | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodBelgium | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 07:09 AM |
| 12 | Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I.Yes and yikes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?Personally I didn't 'call her out', because it is her prerogative to divorce over petty reasons. Red pill IMO is about being aware of that pettiness, not about not being petty. It's not about what you should do, it's about making informed choices. For now she is in extreme turmoil and needs to find some mental clarity without a) messing up her chances in this marriage (already shaky because she is trying his patience) and b) making things worse (through pregnancy in a shaky marriage). What she d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/19 12:57 PM |
| 3 | How much does physical appearance matter?Attraction matters, otherwise just stay friends. Appearance also says something about his character: nobody comes by a hotty bod if they're lazy short-term thinkers. Nobody comes by a gorilla physique unless they take steroids and spend significant time on exercise. Poor guys in expensive clothes aren't compatible with me in terms of values re: decision making (snobbery over thrift). Sloppy outfits are often symptomatic of lack of self-respect. Overly groomed means either no life/too much time o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/19 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Is this hypergamy or something bigger?How is your sexlife? There is absolutely nothing wrong with a wild fantasy life (except sometimes my thoughts run away with me and I envision horrors which keep me awake, but daydreaming is everyones prerogative lol). No reason to feel guilty whatsoever. So is this a nightmare because you are killing yourself with pointless guilt, or because your sexlife sucks? Practical advice for now: don't get pregnant. Don't socialize too much with other men. Give it time, don't make decisions you're not cal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/19 10:01 AM |
| 14 | 29 year old woman and her "Five year life plan"This!!! You can only plan what you do. I'd say therapy and weightloss, those are easiest to get started on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/19 07:38 AM |
| 18 | How Big of a Misstep is This?You came to a stupid agreement and he did not have the courage to tell you no, sneaking like a child instead. Next. You cannot trust a coward. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/19 07:36 AM |
| – | What's for dinner?Cookies and coffee. I went to a class last year to get more specifics on how long and how to leech and/or roast :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Discussing RPWMaybe instead of protection through avoidance, you can work on your armor. It's unhealth for men to rarely ejaculate (risk of certain cancers), so with or without woman, take care of yourself :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 04:18 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?You know, I'm the kind of person who will wait at the stoplight even when there is no traffic and nobody to see, 'upholder' (from that book about mastering habits, whatsitcalled) to the max. But in this, I must rebel. These are my woods, and I will hunt them. I love chestnuts so much I rarely cook with them, I just microwave a handfeel, peel and eat as is. I think it's an association thing. They can be a part of a nice meaty stew though instead of potatoes (throw them in any time and they won't … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussing RPWIn short, red pill is about realism, MGTOW is for those who prefer not to engage with the reality of women because they take issue with this reality. Attempting to befriend RPW is kind of a ludicrous mission, there are too few of us to reliably tell how to even find one. Many of the subscribers here are men, trolls, etc. Hypergamy is easily curbed with practical measures (stay away from too much socializing, typically split into gendered groups) as well as a healthy dose of realism (I've got a f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 12:59 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?For the taste or the time it takes to peel and their short shelf-life? They're entirely too fiddly but I think the flavor makes up for that. Ceps are just about the only shrooms I dare pick (and Cantherelles), I'm not so experienced in that area (yet). We've had really big ones last year, but we have to be sneaky because strictly speaking you're not allowed to pick them here. Tomorrow schools start here, so the forest is ours alone again. Yay!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you determine commitment?It's up to him to convince you he's committed. You shouldn't have to ask. If he really wants to keep you, he should make sure you know. At some point, specifics should come up (what constitutes flirting, how much is okay). Same in reverse with sex: the onus is on us to make sure men aren't left in the dark about our degree of consent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Gender EuphoriaA room for linguistics? 😜 Spirits are flighty, mythical things, too. Pagans like me tend to dance with them 👻 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 09:08 AM |
| – | What's for dinner?😁 I'm counting the falling leaves until sweet chestnut time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/19 09:05 AM |
| 4 | Gender EuphoriaI think you can pat as long as you don't pet, I always thought one was more of a repetitive downward motion and the other more of a stroking thing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Gender EuphoriaI love you a little bit 😁 I take joy both in the physical and the cultural aspects, personally. But I see your point. EDIT: and so many downvotes for making such perfect sense. I seriously don't get it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 07:05 AM |
| 13 | Why the f*ck is it so hard to find sexy cotton panties these days?My husband likes the boring cotton ones if I buy them a size too small 😆 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodHmmm, so far nobody fell for my first troll atempt anyway. I guess my actual views cause outrage enough 🤔 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 06:33 AM |
| 4 | HomeschoolingCheck out the requirements for your state or country, first. The naysayers and traumatized ones usually experienced isolation, educational neglect or religious indoctrination. That's something you can avoid. The social aspect is hardest, because homeschoolers are often kind of quirky lol. Options include co-ops, but also after school daycares, sports, arts, community events, scouts, playgrounds etc. If you have an introverted child, you only need a few. If they're extroverted, get them among peo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 06:51 PM |
| 33 | Gender EuphoriaNSFW stuff, nursing babies to sleep, preferential treatment (it's dwindling a bit post-wall but not entirely, some people will just be nice because you're a woman, bless them ♡). Swimming, dancing. That instant bond you sometimes get with the only other woman in a company of men. When little kids aren't scared of me despite me being a stranger. Twirly dresses. The look of approval on his face when I look my best. The satisfaction of a clean kitchen. The pride and satisfaction of having produced … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthNot for long 😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 12:59 PM |
| 7 | How to make him commit after hooking up / gain back his respectNo conversation! Unless he initiates it. Just weasel your way into his heart. He likes you, presumably he liked sex with you. Be too good to miss out on (in other ways than sex). Keep flirting and hook that fish in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodI miscarried my first, too, and we moved countries less than a year ago (with a homeschooled kindergartner newborn in tow), I know how lost you can feel without a network and the insecurity of new life growing. Your plans sound smart! Join some groups, for expecting women and for your religion and so on. Use your Facebook to meet locals (freecycling, local events, join local groups ASAP so you can get a feel of the location). Unfollow the old friends. Facebook is a timewaster once you're more se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodChallenge accepted 😙 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthAll the sweer little disclaimers and thats okays make you sound thoughtful. But you make no sense at all. It's much more logical for me to surround myself with losers so I can be always right by comparison. Either that, or to be extra picky and meet my match a lot. If you're gonna jump to conclusions, stick to a consistent line of personal attack next time. And while it's all good fun to engage you, for OP and all the single ladies, there is one important reason I do: to make it absolutely clear… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/19 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodWhereas during chaos, I play dead (unintentionally by fainting)! Anyway you're fun which is better than usefulness. HEY! don't hate on isms, this is supposed to be a safe space for sexism... I only have mobile, but mods who read along, get this thing off me please? I won't be able to resist handing out stars to the trolls or crack under the weight of all this pressure and go troll myself... (I forgot all the mods usernames) MAN HERE FEMINISM IS WONDERFUL TOXIC MASCULINITY CAUSES OBESITY IN WOMEN | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 14 | How to prepare for pregnancy?Diet exercise - there is some evidence you can influence the sex of the baby through your diet (more calcium and magnesium for a girl, I forgot the boy version) and we did both times and now have one of each. Could be coincidence though. Otherwise just eat health and take some extra folic acid. I went a little nuts and avoided all caffeine and raw tasties you shouldn't take during pregnancy right away just in case, too. Doctors they can see from weeks 6-8 with an ultrasound, a kind of dildoish t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodHello Beesknees, likewise! Nothing wrong with wholesome, I meant... well miserable kids are dramatic, but being able to give them a great summer and feeling their appreciation is wholesome. Stressed out neighbor is mostly just stressed from too much loving and giving. Deadpetguy has drama not of his own making. There's difficulties, yes, but the loving and caring and being able to make a change and help out a little - that is the wholesomeness. Aaaaah IDK how else to explain except: Hallmark mov… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 10:00 PM |
| 11 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodOh dear, rereading my comment made me realise I'm living a Hallmark movie! All the wholesome drama 😲 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 18 | Awkward place between career and stay-at-home-motherhoodSAHM here. No, I do not struggle with those feelings at all. Lol, 5 weeks in (congratulations!!!) you have no idea how this pregnancy will be for you. Both of mine were completely different (and one of them would have left me unable to work, had I been so inclined). So now is not the time to scroll Linkedin. I have 2 kids, homeschool, NO job (I don't even sell our surplus harvest or handmedown stuff, we just freecycle) and at times have had help from cleaners and tutors. My husband sometimes wor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthHers is a relationship of under a year, they're not married, ergo she is still vetting. They have no extremer circumstances than a tough job (which presumably he chose himself, and then nearly lost) as far as she mentioned and he's not handling it well. She wants a single income family - so she absolutely needs someone 'extremely' stable. As for myself, I've got 13 years and counting with my man, and we've been through tough jobs, pregnancy loss, sickness, unemployment, 2 kids, 5 moves including… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 08:13 PM |
| 7 | So so so very new herePerhaps it's an immature mushroom he sat her on and she's kabouter Spillebeen. (Poor mods thought they were safe endorsing me when I went offline, lol, now I've come back a liability) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthA) Psychiatry having nuances is not important if the outcome is maladjusted behavior. B) I assume you are right about the residency stuff, I didn't know that. I heard alarmbells at facebook venting, office negativity and being redirect to psych. C) People not being solely their flaws is a dangerous road to go on, especially for someone who grew up with drama. Treating her well, they all say that. I stand by my statement not to submit to someone imbalanced. RPW dynamic is risky for codependent ty… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 05:21 PM |
| 0 | What should i do?Hair grows faster in summer, so maybe take a holiday :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthHe got sent to psych at work. If your stress shows in how you treat people, that's temper issues. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 06:09 AM |
| 13 | How to communicate and compromise with my husband on my future career?This is a case where Laura Doylse boundary trick comes in handy. Simply say "I can't". Because what matters is that you actually can't. He can't fix it for you or solve it for you when you break down. It's not under his control. So be clear about your limitations. It's fine that he is unaware of how hard you work (means you make it look easy). But you can point out where the boundaries of your sanity and energy lie and refuse to do this. Then let him come up with an alternative. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 11 | Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental healthI'd cut my losses. You can't submit to someone you don't fully trust. Sorry. Too many red flags. Your family history has normalised trainwreckage for you. It's not normal. You can always see what's what after he has fixed himself. The other way around would be different (if not ideal). But the captain needs to be strong. This isn't simple human frailty, this is a high risk situation. Submitting to someone with temper issues? No. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | I'm a man who might from time to time say something in here,...so here is my background (without Doxing)Your credentials aren't great - divorced? Home come, when you have been red pilled all your life? I mean that's not a little mistake. You 'man here'd and are trying to gain credibility with your age. Dumb people get old, too. There is nothing in this post of use to anyone. You're basically just asking for attention. Prove yourself with excellent advice. Give relevant background info per post, if needed. Earn respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 07:03 PM |
| 6 | After going back and forth he wants to talk in person..good or bad sign?Maybe you're a fun challenge and he's a player. Maybe he's being selfish by trying to keep what he can't afford (in terms of time to spend on you). Either way, move on, don't waste time with closure-ish stuff. If you're RPW, you have plenty options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Do I even stand a chance?Don't forget to avoid attention-seeking through virtue signalling at all costs. People will think you're a fake and hypocrite. If they observe you living a good life, they will start talking about how you've changed. If they ask you about it, try and keep the conversations as short as possible. Relishing in their noticing it will just diminish their opinion of you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 01:16 PM |
| 5 | When you SHOULD take the lead: making friends?So many upvotes, so few answers. I get the feeling almost all women struggle with this. And as soon as they don't, they strongly tend to in-group behavior including the exclusion of everyone else... Solutions... Meeting through social media (I tried and quiet social media and will report when I have time, but ended up with more friends because of it). For me, joining specific groups who have real life meet-ups and then participating in online conversationds led to real life meet-ups (homeschoole… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Fear of making mistakes?Or pretend to sneak away right under his eyes and cover your head. Or grin broadly and when he asks why, say "make-up sex..." with a guilty smile. Humor diffuses stress. He sounds a bit touchy, that's usually just overworked and tired people. And during holiday, people tend to think they should feel amazing right away. But usually, the need some time to readjust. It'll be okay, you feel X today and then Y tomorrow. It doesn't sound like there is truly any actual problem. People have bad moods. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 08:47 AM |
| 3 | I look like the mach aunties in my country and the beggars on the street of Mumbai, and live with my family in a tiny apartment on rent, how do I stop being jealous of women with better complexions and upbringing than me?2/10 not funny (you get a point for effort and time spent) Trolls should be shockingly funny. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Need honest answersYes, you can really cure crazy. Not all of it, but yes to this kind. And even without help, the maturity effect means you mellow out a bit with age. Nun mode, therapy :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 05:58 AM |
| 4 | My bestfriend (28/F) just got married to her bf of 5 years. This was another wakeup call to live my personal values. What do you think of my values?Why to all those, maybe then you'll be able to list some values. You're listing SMV/RMV increasing techniques. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does it get very itchy down there after your period?I got lower region toadstools during pregnancies. The treatment was simple anti fungal cream, but what worked better for me was flushing the area with cold water twice daily. Gets rids of the mucus that the littler life forms enjoy doing dirty things in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | (Not my) Panties in the laundry but....Well, did he fold them Kon Mari style? His being shocked made me think twice (my husband would burst out laughing, the shock could be worry about getting caught), but if others have access to the laundrymat, it's easy for some undies to get lost. Also cheaters don't usually do laundry for their sides as far as I know? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 03:48 PM |
| 14 | Do I even stand a chance?Yup, nun mode. You're young enough. If you want reputation restoration, disappear from instagram, live quietly, do some good things with your life and see where it goes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 03:39 PM |
| 16 | My bestfriend (28/F) just got married to her bf of 5 years. This was another wakeup call to live my personal values. What do you think of my values?You never mentioned your values, you just repeated what others told you and your worries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 14 | Is there any way I can beat the genetic lottery?Wear clothes that flatter, try different styles. Men looking for relationships tend to judge more by face than by body (factoid from legit research, my memory goes back longer than my browsing history though, so no source). Get great hair. Less reps more weight. Also, RPW are just strategies to get what you want. And getting what you want is just a means to an end (having fun with your life!). So loosen up, will you? There's no doom&gloom and some of the most fantastic guys out there aren't the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | My husband wants to divorce me a week before our anniversaryParenting a difficult one can cause untold distress. Divorce does the same to your kid, usually. The naggy reactive mess you're in can be fixed. Don't focus on the relationship for now. Red pill theories only work as well as your emotional health. A child who stresses you out is a red flag for parenting and that seems to be the root here. Also read these: https://www.metroparent.com/daily/parenting/child-behavior-discipline/taking-back-power-alpha-kid/ http://macnamara.ca/portfolio/reclaiming-th… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | What Are Your Interior Decorating Tips?Our home is filled with a bunch of handmedowns and second hand freecycled stuff (we can afford new, but we value nature and heritage). It works because it's mostly natural wood, classic old stuff. Paired with some small red and white touches (things like teapots and mugs, some of the pillows) it gives a log-cabin feel. We have some wall art, also classic stuff (nature scenes) and do seasonal stuff (fall wreaths, lights for yule, etc). Wicker baskets display seasonal produce. And then there's edu… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/19 03:13 PM |
| 11 | Is it possible to be RPW and lesbian?You don't have to do it 100% to benefit from the dynamic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 12:38 PM |
| -4 | Is it possible to be RPW and lesbian?Vet for penislessness, you'll be fine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 11:48 AM |
| 3 | My little brother's really rude...You're older, so you can make it worth his while to be nice to you. You can take him places, play with him, hear his side of things, be a confidante, etc. Set your ego aside and be the adult. Don't react, act. It's up to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 08:27 AM |
| 8 | Is being into dom/sub relationships and being a red pill woman compatible?If you get psychological outside the bedroom, it will be risky to mix. When is he actually displeased and when is it play? The rest matches fine. I'd say keep the name calling strictly bedroom-bound. Otherwise dysfunction lurks around the corner. The rest is not an issue (excepting when kids could see). | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Weight loss: why self-love might be more important than self-controlNah, everyone is different. Some people are motivated from rest, some from pressure. Some people do better with tough, some with gentle. I do better with gentle "I deserve health" than "I need to be skinny", too. And I've been on goal weight basically all my life (excepting pregnancies and post partum). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 08:46 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?Whatever the garden yields with some dead animals this week. Plus a bit of whatever the neighbors harvests too much of and what's growing in the wild. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How to train yourself into being more quiet and soft-spokenThis is easy to practice on social media, first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 08:01 PM |
| 11 | Is this Vice article a good representation of RPW?Tl;dr. Hang out for a while, read and make up your own mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Finding RPW (or similar-minded)There aren't enough around to give any realistic advice. They aren't typically any, anywhere. And if you do find one, you probably won't recognize her before someone else snaps her up. Find a woman who is respectful and submissive and manage her into something you enjoy, red pill guys can probably help you there (relationship game, what standard to set, what to expect). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How to be good with kids?Don't scare them (sudden harsh sounds). At 2 they typically do talk, but are hard to understand. So ask slowly and clearly "what do you want? You want the red cube?" And hear her out. She will want to touch everything, climb on top of you (once she's sure you're good people), run around and sit on the floor. So don't wear anything fiddly or unwashable. If you can go outside, they like mucking about with water and dirt. Don't be afraid to say "no" when they cross your limits (they can hurt you wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Waiting Until MarriageIf he doesn't agree, it's up to him, not us, to change your mind. Let's see if he's up to the task. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice picking a residencyCould your career be postponed? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 05:05 PM |
| – | Self CareI've got a running climbing baby and a homeschooled son, I hear you. The point of this post is not to say "too hard". Find a way within your family situation, instead. High tea and glamour days and long runs are out of the question for me, too. Instead, I take my little troublemakers into nature to soak up the scenery (somewhere they can't drown or get eaten). I hang out with my neighbour while our kids entertain each other. I put them to bed early and have a hot bath. I say there's alcohol in t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | How much should a man "take care" of you when vetting for marriage?If you had better self-esteem, would this be a problem? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 04:37 PM |
| – | Self CareHot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | ProposalJust my experience - woman who asked all got divorced quickly. Talking about it is one thing, asking means saying: okay, you passed the tests. Let's do this. It's kind of implied for most women to feel this way a bit earlier than men (say right after first sex). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Sad, crying everyday after the weddingExplain to him that you're sad and miss your parents and sister, you expected to keep seeing your family. Ask him when you can see them again. Keep trying with the sex, but pause until all is healed if you're sore/chafed, otherwise it will just get worse and worse. Try different things. Masturbate. Create a cozy reading nook for yourself. Make sure it's an extra place so he doesn't steal it :-) Take regular walks so the place becomes familiar. Plant something or get a pet. You're a little lost n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | My bf (34) broke up with me (28) over text, did I sabotage the relationship?Don't bother talking it through. He is a complainer. I had a daddy with a high stress job and have a husband with a high stress job. This isn't a stress thing, it's a personality thing. Some people are just like that. You don't like him. The whole singing lesson thing isn't even relevant. I don't like complainers, either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Organising / SchedulingWe Whatsapp our logistics. Husband has been meaning to get me on Trello instead, but it's a new thing to learn, so that will take some time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Local calisthenics park. Shooting range (very niche or not depending on your location). Harbor (if you like the sailing type, harbor bar if you're a cougar). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men interested in me.Try smiling at every possibly-potentially-suitable guy for a few weeks. If that's not enough, maybe visit some place your kind of guy might be interested in. And let other people know you're looking, so you can come by introductions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:21 PM |
| 7 | Why would a man continuously try to contact a woman be doesn’t want?He doesn't love you, but he wants you to want him, he wants to maintain his hold and control on/over you, and the egoboost/win feeling he will get when you come crawling back. He wants to sharpen his game skills. He doesn't care about you, but he does care very much about how much power he has. If he calls again, say "next time you contact me, I'm reporting you for stalking and harassment". He will probably stop. Otherwise, report him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/19 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Is my SO testing my sexual commitment?This, but think first what you want from the convo. Less sex? Reassurance? Info on the steroids? To swap some of the sex with bj's against soreness? A shiny new bottle of lube? And let him know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/19 12:13 PM |
| 3 | An intro, from a father looking to the futureChess is a good one IMO! London can be grey and rainy and cold. Have a fireplace or firepit outdoors and share stories and good food and laughter. We have a fire pit in Belgium and even if it drizzles a bit, we gather around and it's lovely. Cold backs warm fronts cozying up together Get some good sturdy rainboots and rainsuits to go hiking regardless of the drizzle, and gather acorns in fall, and herbs in spring. And read to them all the time. Let them pick the books. A lot of adherence to mode… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/19 12:06 PM |
| 7 | An intro, from a father looking to the futureTheir mother should teach them. All you can do is express lots of love and respect for their and their mothers' femininity and feminine contributions. Be delighted with their first cooking attempts, even if they suck. You wouldn't want their mom to lecture your sons on how to be a man, would you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/19 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Some advice for the teen-aged girls who read here.And don't risk pregnancy when you're not ready for kids. (Applause for OP). | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | How to get him to lead - or be sweet (NSFW)Maybe your meltdowns aren't as ridiculous as mine ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Leveling up after effectsPuberty did that for me. I was the invisible little sister until I caught up and then boom! TBH I felt like it was about time, lol. And I enjoyed it and milked it (modeling). It's over now and I'm okay with that - I had my share. Enjoy it! Make the most of it. Time goes by so fast! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/19 02:37 PM |
| 12 | How can you work on having a prettier heart?I'm going to have to disagree with the be a perfect little volunteering good girl crowd. I disagree with the Christian idea of loving everyone, enemies included. Unless you want to marry a Christian, that shouldn't be necessary. Just figure out what and whom you value, and treat those with the utmost care and respect. Maybe thy neighbour, maybe nature, maybe your country, maybe your own little circle, maybe books, maybe kids, maybe the Kardashians. I don't think anyone should volunteer for an or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/19 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?Just curious :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?Guys, plural? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Helping my friend who is giving birth soon?I prefered homecooked because they'rea healthier. Anyone can order something, but postpartum I wanted nutrients! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get him to lead - or be sweet (NSFW)It's the least annoying one, I think. Too much talk makes a man weary, too many games as well. Subtle but sweet is the golden middle road. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How to recognize TRP men😁 Stayin' sharp, I love it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Women who have changed their fashion choices/style of dress to become more conservative, did people treat you any differently? If so, how?It really depends on the subgroup. I get treated best when I dress as one of them, whoever them is. Hippies are nicer if you're barefeet, muslims if you cover everything, young people if you're fashionable, rich people if you dress preppy, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How to stay light -skinned all year round?Washing helps... Troll questions deserve troll replies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:49 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?TBH I prefer Wormhole Extreme... Yours looks metal! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Article: Where Are the Socially Conservative Women in This Fight?Individual level is the only real thing, anyway. All the rest is meddling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 3 | CryingAmusement / amused mastery. He will hold me, but with a twinkle in his eye I married a sadist 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Helping my friend who is giving birth soon?Meals after delivery (pregnant women are fussy eaters, postpartums can have almost everything again), yes! Maybe do a load of laundry as well. Hold baby while she naps or showers. Change her bedsheets (my maternity nurse did that daily the first week, postpartum sweat is no joke, plus all the milk stains... yuck). Fold something that needs folding. Wipe something that needa wiping. Listen and be fun and positive and don't be phazed by crazy talk (emotional verbal incontinence). Send away unwante… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/19 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Article: Where Are the Socially Conservative Women in This Fight?Minimum wage where I live used to be: tye amount needed to support a wife and 2 kids in a major city appartment. Sigh. Don't offer the bigshots too much labor, the price is already going down because of robots! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menFor friends IRL, I can tell, but IDK how, when their love interests aren't genuine. I've only been blind/wrong once when it was the parents of a friend, whom I didn't observe very much. Many players 'reform' as they age (get tired of it and settle anyway). My own BIL used to be MGTOW avant la lettre, explicitly cautioned my husband against relationships right in front of me, but now supports his 3 kids and their SAHM. Some never retire from spinning, but around me, most did. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?You have the same type of humor as my husband - most people aren't in on the joke :-p And to be entirely honest, he doesn't pick up litter, either. He likes trail running, not trail toddling around with kids, so he goes too fast usually. I just wish more people would do it :-) Because I like my woods clean. You and your evil guy (https://images.app.goo.gl/cJAeruZiJA79z1Gm9 what I picture) have solid drama avoidance technique :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menI think I know that, too, but tacit knowledge is useless to this sub. And I think most of the players are potentially open to relationships, but need some seducing, and that takes time she might not have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 06:34 AM |
| 3 | How to get him to lead - or be sweet (NSFW):-p when the roughhousing or the climbing gets too scary for me, I'll ask them to keep it out of my eyesight though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How I learned to trust the right guy. (Long);-) lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 06:16 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?But I doubt your evil littering man is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 06:16 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?Go dump him and we can be sister wives ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menI reccommend hot baths 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?Going to make a sandwich? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?LMAO And my husband thought you wouldn't have a good come-back to that last one! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:10 PM |
| 3 | How to recognize TRP menWow! Yeah without the humanoid shape things go downhill attraction-wise. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:09 PM |
| 6 | How to get him to lead - or be sweet (NSFW)Have you been together long? We had some fluctuations and adjustments over the years - especially with disease/pregnancies/post-partum. He is a natural leader and I guess tends to err on the side of too much dominance/too little comfort, but I do take an active role in making my (fluctuating) needs known. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Use This Thing?Aww, don't beat yourself up, even if he becomes kung-fu master, he can still use you to butter a very large slice of bread. Or hang you above the door as a symbolic warning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How to recognize TRP menEven a good strong and truly dominant man will have moments of weakness, though. Sometimes you have to take out the trash yourself a little while. But a good one will happily fall back into his role when he's himself again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 4 | How Do I Use This Thing?True kung-fu master can win battle with chopsticks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | How Do I Use This Thing?Wouldn't Excalibur be annoyed if a great battle was fought by Arthur holding a pastryfork, though? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:26 PM |
| 5 | How to recognize TRP menSo you are a narcissist 😂 you want yourself, but with a penis. "the one thing I'm most attracted to, is a man's intellectual capacity" Same! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How I learned to trust the right guy. (Long)I'm not OP... | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 7 | How to recognize TRP menOh I understand. When my husband has a moment of weakness and I have to make decisions, I always feel a little panicky. Like he had better get back to normal real soon! And he's not faking it (he just gets sick or busy or tired sometimes like a human). It's your trust in his strength that was betrayed. My husband turned out better/stronger/more badass than he let on, I found out some awesome stuff about him later on, and it was like finding gold. Opposite experience. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menI think what he has to say has more influence on attraction (for me) than looks though. The attraction is more based on respect/awe than visual I think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How I learned to trust the right guy. (Long)How is this stuffing down emotions? He showed them through f bombs and eye rubbing IMO. What would you think an appropriate display of emotion should be? In medschools, armies and young families, biological limits need to be ignored at times. It sucks, and it isn't healthy, but it's not forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | How to recognize TRP menAm I right in concluding it was the red pill stuff that attracted you, and the normal stuff that turned you off? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menI lucked out early with mine, but I read advice aimed at women, for online dating to meet quickly. I don't understand - meeting strangers based on a picture and 3 messages? Scary... (This isn't advice, just an observation from someone who found love before dating became a thing in her country!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 2 | How to recognize TRP menI'm not so sure, I think a lot of women got burned and that's how they find us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to recognize TRP menLol, no. But true for many others, so it was an understandable shot to try. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:05 PM |
| 7 | How to recognize TRP menI know, right? I'm adorable 😙 But personally, I've been married for ages, never got pumped and dumped. I'm describing some relatives, my husbands friends, and tips from red pill websites (how to Tinder). And just like pick-up artistry got old, red pill is going to become the norm and we're only gonna fall for the very top% who can make it look natural. Because women catch up and compensate. And we develop ever tighter anti slut defenses. Do you know the shape of a ducks vagina? That's some twist… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandWould he be open to just getting you off more often? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandCould he have any hidden kinks? Or a side woman? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 9 | How to recognize TRP men"They may tell you interesting-sounding nonsense just to ensure you spend time hamstering over them." :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandOr follow along free exercise videos on youtube. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Would anyone care to become weight loss buddies together, or be an accountability buddy for a young woman looking to lose weight?Keto made my husband sooooo ill, it's really hard to get the electrolyte balance right! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 12:43 PM |
| 5 | I'm suffocating (long)Ask him questions that force his mind on the positive. Subtly. What are you proud of? Which X do you like best? What did you enjoy about Y? It's a small thing, and doesn't solve your problems, but may help a little bit. And do exercise, it really helps your mood and that's one thing he can't be negative about then. I wish I had more, I'll ETA if I come up with something. Also agree with Kara__El, she's on a roll lately. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandHow was it with them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/19 12:25 PM |
| 6 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.LOL Kids are louder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 03:32 PM |
| 10 | I don't enjoy hanging out with any of my female friends these days...Make better friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Aging, injectables, and critical in-lawsHave you tried hypochondria? It'll keep your hamster exercised in a very educational way. Or maybe obsessive cleaning disorder? At least your house will be spotless. Seriously, avoid the petty bitches, make sure your home has more flattering lighting than the toilet at work and let it go. Maybe find some more supportive friends to gossip and boo the bitches with you. You can stop caring by having enough other things to care about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Don't waste the waiting/single season: what are the things about yourself that you wish you would've worked on more when you were single?Getting over childhood trauma. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 6 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandAgree with the ebb and flow (for both), but once a month is so little he probably has low T or something. Was he a virgin too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Sexually incompatible with my husbandAnd don't let him have any mint. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:45 PM |
| 17 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.I am SAHM. I do have some time to learn, and being a nerd, I learn about a variety of topics and not just home-related stuff. However, there are good, valid reasons to just be a SAHM and not try to be 'more'. To be motherly, a stock trading mindset won't do. My husband is in a relatively chill job (IT), but it still is a big switch between work mode and family mode. The tone of voice he uses on colleagues would make the kids cry! Also, we don't have "so much time" on our hands. I can learn while… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Online relationships & cheatingOnline stuff may feel real, but consider him a hell of a romance novel and finish that book. Glad you can laugh about it :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Use This Thing?Lol! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 05:37 PM |
| 5 | How do I attract the man I need,Do people know you're looking? If you have a good reputation, they might make introductions. Otherwise - men make the first move, but only if you indicate being open to it/having the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 4 | 15F here, what did I do wrong regarding sex and stressed 16M bf? [LONG READ]Nuns don't have sex, or romance. Just stay away from all of that and work on yourself. Or don't even work, you will mature naturally in time. Focus on you. You're thoroughly wrong to try a RPW dynamic with a boy of 16. You need time to get out of that mindset before you even start unfolding your wings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Older menN=1 mine is my age and we're happy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Use This Thing?I like it, it looks pink to me. How do I make everything pink? Will it get me banned? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:17 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?Oooh that's great, I'll make it a homeschool project! Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Online relationships & cheatingThe players gonna play play play play play. You got burned. What did you learn? Next, nun mode. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to balance dressing in a way that makes me feel happy, confident, and pretty with how my husband wants me to dress?If you're American maybe he is compensating for that with making you dress extra modest. To show the world that you're not (whatever bad stereotypes there are about Americans in Korea). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Did I react correctly to his story?Agree, "well I'm glad/grateful for him then" would be enough re: brother. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | It’s wild how much cooking changes the dynamicPrep and clean the kitchen for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | 15F here, what did I do wrong regarding sex and stressed 16M bf? [LONG READ]Next, nun mode. You're way too young. I'd say more but others already have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:49 PM |
| – | What's for dinner?We did a week of paleo dinners last week, and while it was fun, I want a week of something else next. Any ideas? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?We'll find another thing, pinky promise! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?Extra: if she doesn't have the same virtues re. Staying, he can easily get her to. Simply because she is in a terrible position now: only someone with the same infection would still have her. He can tell a nice Christian tale of finding Jesus and true love and bettering himself. They can be a cautionary tale for teens and people will admire their bravery in coming forward blabla. He could pull it off if he's otherwise badass. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if you are being used/ taken advantage of or just lack personal agency & grattitude? Is this duck that I am related to abusive or incapable??Obvious exploitation, neglect and abuse. Sorry. Stay away from romantic relationships and stay a bit superficial in friendships. Your current developmental and psychological state makes you a sitting duck for other abusers. Easy prey. Stay away from alcohol and all kinds of drugs. You are at high risk for addictions at the moment, too. Don't go to wild parties, don't stay anywhere until closing time. Stay far away from cults and anything that resembles it. Some pose as help groups to sniff out e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 05:30 PM |
| – | Self CareNOW I WANT A TUBTRAY!!!!! Your husband sounds like a keeper :-D | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Use This Thing?Maybe you need more superlatives. Like skip all the hell-yeahs and only go for the omigoditssosexyimgonnadieineedthismanhellyeah? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 03:20 PM |
| 4 | How Do I Use This Thing?There's always gonna be someone into that. Did you know there's a thing called findom where guys get off on sending you money? I am still scratching my head as to why I don't just do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?Well that entirely depends. If switching vehicles takes ages, because of endless paperwork and the search for the right kind etc, sometimes you might want to cross your dirtbike through a teaparty and be done with it. Argh baby woke but I want to argue with you, you're fun (and right but I won't admit it hehe) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 11:34 AM |
| 3 | I don't want to be a housewifeYeah I wish my husband worked from home, too. He does sometimes, but always would be better. And retirement even betterer. You won't do everything together. You will still find you are each more suited to different tasks, and split them as is most efficient. You will enjoy The Good Life (BBC series) much more than Outlander. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?LOL! I mentioned the option of staying not so OP would, but because his post seems to imply he wanted to stay and fix it somehow. I believe OP should do whatever he wants, so if that is what he wants, here is whatever helpful info I can share. 30 years of misery wouldn't be my choice, but if he wants to, that would make for interesting posts. I would only not support someones choice if I saw it as a great evil, or somehow bad for my family. If not, I'll throw in my 2 cents. I don't pierce my ear… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/19 07:31 PM |
| – | Self CareHot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. Hot bath. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] So we know about chicks with daddy issues, what about mommy issues?I cut all ties. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?shrug I like sacred cows, if they come from real conviction instead of cowardice. Shows character. Most need to be BBQed, but not all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | How to help my LTR?I think for someone symptom-free who asked to get checked for everything and was given rhe all-clear, it's not so strange they're unaware. All the rest: agreed, but I think she will be terrified to confess her disease to someone new and could grudgingly stay and in time, accept it. Like my in-laws, after years of fighting and threatened divorces, they are finally happy together (first fought each other, then resigned to each other, then accepted each other, now enjoy each other). So by that n=1 … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 06:17 PM |
| 6 | How to let go and move on if I have seriously messed up?Be. More. Specific! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Orange men preaching to the choirOooooh that makes sense! I always just registered it as a lower class thing. Same to phone-in-hand conversations then. I used to always swallow every treat, so I wasn't allowed gum. Can't say I've changed much :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Orange men preaching to the choirTIL Trump isn't an Oompa Loompa | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men.Cookie! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 0 | How can I encourage his sexual dominance?He sounds vanilla. Sorry. And yes, I read about the rough stuff he did do, but I think it's kind of an act. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 04:01 PM |
| 4 | I don't know what to doBe mindful that many people see this as a mental health issue (especially since feminists adopted it as a womans cause), so if you get a diagnosis, read up on the biomarkers to set that straight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Marrying a younger man (32F & 23M). Advices?My advice is hurry up if you want a family, tick tock. Also read a few parenting books just to get some ideas on where you stand. It's tough to decide on cosleeping or crib when there's a screaming baby and the only option seems to be nosleeping. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:40 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffI had a really bad day last week (ambulance was involved), and was like "oooh I deserve a compensatory treat" when I saw the hospital cafetaria. Instead I went for something healthy and would you believe it - that gave me such a boost! I normally feel exceptionally shitty days warrant chocolate, but by not doing it, I was like "OMG I'm so virtuous" and that made the day slightly less terrible for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 6 | How can I encourage his sexual dominance?If he DAREs everytime, uou can't have any actual adult conversation that way. Maybe rough stuff he does is Per TRP prescription and he is ultra vanilla deep down? How about you start out asking his fantasies, instead of focusing on your own. Then you will find out if you're actually sexually compatible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 6 | I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men.I had my heart in the right place but was anxious-preoccupied, too. I wasn't aware of it, and stumbled into my relationship. I lucked out in that my husband and I were both kind of diamonds in the rough, and with some self-help, all worked out and I'm over the traumas. It can be done... But I wouldn't reccommend you risk it - I say nun-mode and extensive therapy are quicker. Especially given that you haven't picked anyone yet. I am 100% sure that if the guy I fell for turned out to be an abuser,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | I don't know what to doOkay, I replied to another comment without reading this. The woman I mentioned also has CFS/ME and she's physically weak. But really sweet and submissive and fun to talk to (when she has the energy to talk) and pretty. She met someone through her family because of her great reputation. You might be able to have that, too. She made most of her friends online though, because that's less taxing than going out. Maybe you can find someone that way, are there any causes you support or games you play? … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:11 PM |
| 8 | I don't know what to doI know a woman who has one so severe she barely leaves the couch, but she's sweet and naturally pretty, and is happily married. She met someone through family because she has a stellar reputation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Navigating first month of living together and his busynessHe has a busy time, this might come up in conversation. How he is being catered to at home by you and how he looks forward to coming home to you might also come up! Give him beautiful lunchboxes if appropriate. If they come over, act like you're his private hired staff and looking for tips. Also when you're alone with him, obviously, but then sometimes you will be otherwise occupied or tired etc. Be just normal hospitable polite to them. Don't hang around too much, just serve snacks and be dicre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I even bring this up ?😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Marriage adviceMost couples overdo the wedding and end up too tired or drunk for sex on their wedding night. We did a city hall thing and some apple pie with our closest and then started the wedding night at noon. 10/10 would recommend. No feuding relatives, no drama, no costs! You can skip the party and go straight to the honeymoon. If you're into parties, make sure you and him are on the same page in terms of how wild and how long and costs and who to invite etc. Plan together, don't let it be your party tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Is there something wrong with me if no boy has ever approached me in a romantic context?https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVZh-3ewCElIPxjUynwfYoAt5vsG-t-gY Youtube videos about basic social skills for kids. Baby steps! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Should I even bring this up ?Maybe he was hurt because you planned the party without checking with him, first. Tell him, but in a 'clearing the air' way. Not to blame or ask him to make it up. Just tell him you made a joke but you actually felt hurt, and ask him to show you his side of the story (pick a good moment). Bring it up because full disclosure is best, and keeping these things silent means he isn't getting to know you more and more. I'm married with kids for ages and still getting to know each other better. But kee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?Sometimes it's for the best ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Family baggageSHE DID WHAT?!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/19 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Where to go from here?OMG you win this thread! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?😐 (I'm staring!) I think the staring does more. The questions are a dime a dozen on askreddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle infatuation?Yup. I love romance novels because I enjoy that new relationship buzz but I don't want a new relationship. I also love adventure stories and fantasy (especially reading them while luxuriating in a hot bath, or in a hammock, or on the couch with a nice warm blanket) but I don't want to be chased by trolls. Romance novelists always write a tache de beauté into the male characters to make them seem more real. Usually by making them unreasonable or less intelligent, sometimes by giving them a stupid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle infatuation?Give us a link? Because it's also the most intelligent women who read them, have the numbers been controlled for IQ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?If my brothers spoke highly of our mom, that would mean they are filthy liars. My brothers are honest. And it doesn't necessarily mean you have a shit MIL. In some cases, it can mean you hardly see her, or never see her. Sometimes that's easier than one who loves and respects a harpy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Family baggageDepends. A good sign in case of family bagage is a short, coherent story: it shows the emotions are integrated and healing has happened. A bad sign is rambling, that means trauma is still active. ETA: My family is full of feuds, my husbands, too. I mean psychopaths, drugs, alcohol, abuse, prison, estrangement, eating disorders, sadistic narcissists, severe PTSD, borderliners, and surprisingly few divorces actually, the works. Punches were thrown, scissors as well, dogs were stolen, and we are we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?I think I have created love with me and nearly the entire internet if this is true lol. Typical kind of questions that I have asked online strangers many times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Where to go from here?You don't need to understand or measure up. You need to next. Before the hrudgs in you grows. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Where to go from here?You again? This is too much. Next. Sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | New Wife TipsWell I like Reddit as a timewaster, never even tried Facebook :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:16 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffMy husband pampered me because I was sick -> he had less time -> he did programming on the dinner table -> I complained And he comforted me, too. On the bright side, I have swapped cookies for tea and talk :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Navigating first month of living together and his busynessImpress his friends. So they get jealous and start to doubt their red pilled views. It is entirely possible, I assure you. Those dishes aren't a chore. They are an opportunity to give him something to brag about. But bring him your problem, if it is really more than you can handle. I don't think so, though. I think you've got this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I help my friend?Help her in what she asks help for: wash up together after she hosts a party, take a day off when she moves, buy her useful gifts, introduce her to good people who would benefit from knowing her, advise honestly. Don't lie, but don't be insufferable meddling know-it-all (except online, like me). | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | New Wife TipsIf you don't want to delete them, use a blocker app like Blocksite and decide what times of day you will dedicate to use of those sites. Then let your husband set the password. I don't want to never waste time. I like wasting time. I use wasting time as a treat to distract myself from wanting to eat cookies. It works! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Lies and the hidden truthI'll take your word for the weeding out thing, too little experience myself. And absofuckinglutely to the 2nd part! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Lies and the hidden truthN count can indicate a lot of other things, but is a very rough measure. Thing is, if people who you have dismissed know, it can damage youe reputation enough to miss out on chances. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Lies and the hidden truthPeople don't have that right (not to be deceived), but if someone is still written off as unsuitable yet, playing it safe (not lying) is a good idea. Otherwise you have to mend things, later on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice: new beta tendencies:-) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | On the importance of vettingI'm feeling like the Godfather with people owing me favors ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/19 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Was I The Toxic One?He is an idiot and you are a complete fool to try to figure that nonsense out. Sorry to be harsh, but this is ridiculous. He was purposely being vague and dismissive of who you are as a person. You were probably a plate. A functional, invested man will either accept you as you are, or constructively let you know exactly what needs changing. Next, nun mode. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Angry MenLet's call it fury though? It's a matter of definitions, and English is not my native language. But fury is, to me, that inspired drive, righteous, and fierce, and controlled. Intimidating. The essence of Odin(Wodan). Anger is, to me, frustrated lashing out. Tantrums and indignation. Dangerous in a man, contemptible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice: new beta tendenciesI have a need for dominance from my husband, and it fluctuates how much and where (in vs. outside bedroom). My husband is a smart man. The few times he wasn't quick on the uptake of adapting, I could simply tell him. He is happy to oblige (to dominance requests more than to silk glove cuddlywuddly requests lol). Can you not simply discuss this in literal terms with him? Is he RP aware? Does he know about control game? I hear "married man sex primer" is a good book (no idea myself, and I'm not su… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - April 06, 2019Until you are at peace, treat him right because it's fun and makes you happy! Think of it like this... He has given you 4 years. If he stops now, you can be grateful for that, anyway. No covert contract of letting your walls down only if he rewards that with forever love. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/19 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Finances in marriageI send my wishlist for online shopping to him and ask for cash if I need to spend something, he arranges it all (the adulting parts). There's a document with instructions somewhere should he fall ill or something. I make the menuplan and grocerylist and he shops or orders for groceries. Sometimes he will take us to a nice shop (garden center or shoes or whatever). We don't date really, we just do what we feel like at the moment and have outings and hikes with kids, and we entertain and visit wit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 5 | My boyfriend just broke up with me"He's told me once that he thinks that he might be a sociopath" Next! The necklace thing is a lie. You did nothing wrong except choosing him to be with & confide in. The extreme statements he makes are enough reason to run for the hills (talking about killing him etc.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | On the importance of vettingNasty sense of humor IMO is people who just generally enjoy and point out the flaws and misfortune of others too much, unnecessarily. Who mock harmless quirks with a clear undertone of contempt. Like a negative focus. And you are very funny IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | My hamster is really really trying this time!I interpreted the forever together comment she made as equivalent to being married :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 4 | What women inspire you? What traits in women do you find yourself admiring?Melanie is great! Even Scarlett sees it in the end (books end anyway). | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | My hamster is really really trying this time!Yes. If he's not asking you to tidy and it's not in your way, it's not a problem. So don't waste your energy on it. And thanks! :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | On the importance of vetting"Sadly, my humor-meter is quite broken, so I wouldn't know a nasty sense of humor even if I sat on one." LIES! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What women inspire you? What traits in women do you find yourself admiring?I really like Kreacher from the Harry Potter books. He's male, but I just feel him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | My hamster is really really trying this time!SMACK! All this is nonsense. Why all the serious replies? So you picked a chill dude. Enjoy him, pick up any mess that is in your way and leave the rest. Skin that hamster, roast it, and use the skin as a nice, fluffy egg-cosy for Easter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 03:21 PM |
| 3 | On the importance of vettingPeople who go on about virtues, I distrust especially. The loud ones (like religious leaders and protest leaders). People who joke too much about being bad/evil as well, but they are mostly jerks as opposed to truly dangerous. People who have a nasty sense humor can be vindictive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Remaining Childlike0.o | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/19 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Good early date night ideas?Now I want to date you 😆 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Good early date night ideas?You have museums and museums though. A science center aimed at kids with lots of silly activities may be more fun than a gallery of political statement paintings. But that's just me ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 04:32 PM |
| 14 | Do men find boundaries attractive?The ideal woman (to most men) isn't hard to get. She is impossible to get (for all other men) and enthusiastically jumping into bed (with him). Most men aren't turned on by or attracted to a "no" at all, they like women who will go along with them. But they tend to like it more if you do have a spine, just not one that is opposed to him. Some religious men will dismiss you for not staying virgin, though. Just letting him decide things isn't ideal. It's the social equivalent of starfish sex. Bein… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | On the importance of vettingI'm not sure about this. There are some clear cases of people who smell off, sure. But people also change. One guy (husbands side of the family) was kind of a psycho kid, then "grew up", settled down, married. The moment kids came into the picture, he turned completely nuts and dangerous. Psychosis? True colors showing? Who knows. Several sweet family man guys I have known turned aggressive and nasty after brain infarctions. Many came back from military service with a few loose screws (my husban… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Disillusioned With WomanhoodWhat do you actually want? What can you do to get there? What can you do until you are there/in case you need a plan B? The rest is small fries. The odds of being upgraded for a younger model are very slim. Men do love other things than our youth and beauty, and wife-goggles are a thing. One income is only a problem if you overspend. Marrying a rich guy for love is entirely possible (not all rich guys are horrible, and actually most wealthy old men I know are great, really cool people). I am a w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeIt's easier not to take it personally then, maybe? You have the dumb smacking and screamers, and then you have the resentful abusers, and then you have the cruel evil ones. Mine were well-educated, well-off, and awful. I broke off contact, can't bear them. My husbands are poor and ignorant. He still often sees them, and happily invites the same man who punched him in the face to come play billiards. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 02:58 PM |
| 50 | Question About TRP and RPW!"It makes me feel that as a woman whatever I choose to do in life is worthless anyway and it would've been better if I was a man." What the hell?! You take internet comments waaaaaaay too seriously. You don't need approval from TRP men. You don't need approval from men. Just one man is enough. Who cares what they think?! This is basically the only place (online or IRL) where you can talk relationships constructively with a substantial group of honest women and some helpful men. Most men are okay… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeDon't pet the unicorns! :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeMaybe mom is just feeling guilty because her chores aren't done yet and she doesn't have time to play? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 03:32 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsMy phone has a blue light filter :-p it's automatically on all day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 33 | On the importance of vettingA choice in who to marry and have kids with means we get to steer evolution. And that is a pretty big deal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeNot unrelated and IMO very important (playing with kids - I disagree it's the male role per se). | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeHaha, true! I love my daily battle. Chaaaaarge!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 03:09 PM |
| 17 | When guys start showing interest in you...Why the low status guy did it - either you do a good job of coming across as approachable/nice/non-bitchy, or he is socially blind (doesn't perceive status), or you are overestimating yourself (which is unlikely, given prom king proposal). Prom king - you and him are just kids (no offense!!!), and even if he isn't playing you, odds are against him being the one you end up with. So it is in your best interest to not be alone together with him (and end up having sex with all the attachment glue ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/19 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeWise words! I think innocence is also a fun gift to unpack - my husband was very charmed when I was puzzled at this scene in Pulp Fiction with bondage wear (I had no idea lol). To be easy-going and easy to handle for him alone, but not fragile, that's the way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeYour mind is just focusing overmuch on the negatives. Wising up and opening your eyes is good, but should also lead you to see more and deeper beauty. Try a gratitude journal? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeAhhh but I have enough imagination ;-) I get it now, thanks. You posted that waste of imagination line before, but it didn't click for me, then. I'm off to dream of butterflies now... tralalaa... ;-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:45 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?Terrible cheap leaky diapers a size too small. The intent behind it though ♡ And spring!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Update: Situation TenseSeconded. And I am a big fan of giving people the benefit of the doubt. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Remaining ChildlikeI both wonder and worry about things that may never happen all the time. How could you possibly not? Don't you at least have a rough plan in place for basically any situation you could possibly foresee? (I'm a thinker, but not a fast one!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] So I realized I do want to have a traditional relationship, but no one around me seems to support thatAs a university educated SAHM, all I wanted to add to the great responses here: my education was overpriced, but I wish I had taken more classes! So many amazing and useful things to learn, so little time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 15: Inner HappinessVery good additions of your own! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I (18f) leave him? (19m)Next, nun mode. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Should I talk through my jealousy with my boyfriend, or work through it on my own?This. Be part of a project where you communicate about your contributions, and people you like will remain friends and the rest you can act professional with. Volunteering, religions, sport, choir, art clubs, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Recommendation Share!Maybe organize a meet-up in a very easy place (kid and transport friendly, public, safe) for a group? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)Never heard of it, will google soon! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)Shady to keep TRP from him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Grandma's adviceIt was a true story, though 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Walking away from a man who’s not ready to stop spinning platesYou can't negotiate commitment, but you can establish boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Walking away from a man who’s not ready to stop spinning platesOooooooh... Yes, exactly like that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)It seems shady to me if a woman would want TRP secret from her man. If she disagrees with TRP, she should trust that he does, too. If she agrees, why try to keep him ignorant? Only thing I can think of, is ignorance is bliss and he might be easier to please not knowing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)In some videogames, you have different types of "heroes". Some are healers. Some are melee fighters. Some are ranged fighters. Some are 'tanks' (can take a lot of damage). I am what they call a support hero. I make sure the fight is won by others. Not much use on my own, but I amplify the damage they do, I ressurect the foes they've slain to fight on our side. My worth is worthless without people to share it with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Walking away from a man who’s not ready to stop spinning platesAll the men I know who have upgraded plates to LTRs are unhappy with them. They aren't RP men making conscious choices, they are just retiring playboys who felt their age and the pressure to have kids. Just because someone got upgraded, doesn't mean she did very well. Some of them were just the least worst option for a man who wanted a more settled life. One example sticks out - this guy has 2 kids and they do things equal. So she naturally wakes up when baby cries, he doesn't, and she angrily p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Something to get off my chestI didn't really get it. Someone who did, please write the for dummies version? Because what I think I get sounds like interesting stuff. Falling in line vs. struggling to submit. Only I am submissive, and finding my husband made me less so (with everyone else). I had nobody to channel it to, before, and was a wishy washy pushover hamster of a woman. Now I get the worst of it out of my system with him, and don't get sidetracked by some other loud voice too much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Let’s talk about the reality of being a stay at home wife and mother.Julie Bogart says it better, and I quote: "Being your mom meant I got to cuddle someone non-stop for 12 years..." "There is nothing more divine than a baby who falls asleep on your chest while you fall asleep and the whole world stops while mother and tiny child become fused as one content, quiet, shared being. No meditation, yoga, prayer circle, private retreat has ever come close to providing me with the depth of peace, pleasure and abiding hope that sleeping with a baby (you!) has given me. "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?I am not mellow at all, that's how I get all those chores done! (Will edit for more thoughtful response when I have time :-p). | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Is Feminism oppressive to women? (video)I have had lots of shaming comments about being SAHM from women who didn't bring up feminism as such, but just chatted. Neighbors and the like. I Live in Europe. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/19 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Is Feminism oppressive to women? (video)That's horrible, I'm sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/19 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Is Feminism oppressive to women? (video)Pedantic explaining I have had from men and women alike. More style comments from women than men. Being demanding, absolutely also from women. None wanted my body (that I know of), but no man ever assaulted me, either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | How to be a RPW(Situation specific-long story)?Yup. Traditional to most women means she gets to be SAHM or closest possible thing. Many SAHP lead, male or female. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/19 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How to be a RPW(Situation specific-long story)?That really depends on what you both want. The RPW thing to do would be either next him if he wants to be SAHF while you want the SAHM role, or to just be career woman if he wants you to, or share tasks however he feels is right. Basically: give him what he wants, and if you don't want to, find someone whose wants you would like to comply with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?Sad but common... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 9 | Is Feminism oppressive to women? (video)IDK about feminism, but feminists have never been supportive or kind to me. On other sites, I have gotten threats and hatemail from them. No man has ever been oppressive to me. Women have been - but only feminists. Edit to add: there is also at least one nice feminist ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed - Resenting ImbalanceMy husband is like that. There was this dinner once where men were asked to stand up and applaud their wives for supporting them. He stayed seated. Some of the men had wives who actively fought them at this endeavor, and they stood up. He likes to never mention his family. He is also adamant that only inner circle people visit our home (new friends meet elsewhere). For him, it's a kind of protection thing. Believe it or not, IRL I do not like spotlights. And my husband does not like others telli… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a guy friend kisses you out of nowhere?It means you get to slap him across the face! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Push away high value suitors. How to stop self sabotaging? Imposter syndrome?Honesty isn't pretty but it's a big gift. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:38 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsReading nook. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:36 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsKeep the recipes apart. First make an index. Then see how many binders or tabs you need. Keep room for additions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome perfectionism as a homemaker & mother?Men make promises. Have fun with them (not at the expense of yourself) until you see them keep them. Look at them as such until they earn you. Fun. Store your heart elsewhere. That's hard with bad parents, find other connections to confide in and keep you safe. I am no expert at this, I stumbled into my man while still damaged. Maybe make a new post for better answers from others with more experience? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome perfectionism as a homemaker & mother?We have mommy issues in common then :-) I don't remember much of my childhood either. What the Gods and Goddesses have in common most, IMO, is they do whatever it takes to reach their goals. The more revered ones do some pretty distasteful things (for a pretty necklace or a sip of mead). And that is freedom - but sometimes you have to go through your 9 dwarves or nights on a tree. You're not alone, though. You can bring luck back into your heritage. Don't apologize for not replying! You owe me n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?Don't you think women in general are more mellow than men in general? I do think so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?OMG I feel as if you just looked into my soul and wrote this just for me ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?If you feel that way, I support you 🤗 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?It's okay to share because it's relatively meaningless. The caution is for taking it too seriously :-) Your female coworker may have suffered from an excess of abundance mentality :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:14 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsFor moms: is it normal that my 7 month old doesn't like being read to? Her brother used to love it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:10 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsI was 17, but didn't realize it was him until almost 21. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | First real relationship, advice? Settle down, keeping the spark alive.What Popeman79 said with one little warning. For 99.99999999% of guys, meeting friends and family and talking about settling down means it's going well. Then I know this one exception who does that with all his plates. Nobody tells the girls. You can never be completely sure, even if you do everything right. Love and life entails risk. I settled down with my first serious LTR. How to make it last in general? Too complicated to explain in one post. The basic of stomach full, balls empty and ego f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 05:51 PM |
| 10 | Mixed SignalsLOL he is teasing. Sounds like a fun guy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?If you'd make big permanent sacrifices I'd still support that. IMO family comes first, and husband is the head of the family. You never mentioned the mr and mrs Smith thing before. That makes the no invites thing and the rigid planning understandable (I remember a night out with a group of military officials... LOL). Has he tried guided meditations? It's a love or hate thing, but if he loves them, he might listen to one while you clean at a more leisurely pace. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?You mean their totally valid feelings 😘 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?Mapping out the grocery list is efficient, but becoming visibly annoyed at minor deviations is rigid. When you ask to do things solo and he won't have it, because his idea of relaxation is different, that's rigid. He has a rigid idea of what a relationship looks like (always together). He rushes you so you can both relax. Rushing is unrelaxing to both of you. It makes no sense whatsoever. I'm not judging your choice to do what you can to make him happy. But even for an introvert, not allowing gu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 11:32 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI am a routine and schedule loving 'upholder', but with a 6 week old, my routine consisted of feed & surive. I just did the most urgent thing whenever baby didn't need me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 10:09 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsMostly I don't keep saying "wow you're so cool", but I just mention things in passing as they come up. For example, we explained to our kid the other day, that he always had to listen to us. The kid wanted to talk about new rules before implementation, which we were okay with. But we also explained sometimes there is a reason why we don't have time to explain, and he suddenly has to listen. And I admitted that sometimes I might be too strict suddenly because I was just cranky and overwhelmed, bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?What is wrong with an emotional thrill ride? My husband and I have had consistent MB results for years, and it opened up lots of fun discussion, which helped us understand each other better. It makes you more aware of what moves people. And because it is all over the internet and not some Serious Test, it is easy to get people to take the test, easy and fun and non-threatening to discuss. Serious stuff is like medical records, really not as fun to share. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?NABALT! ETA: you're always easier to follow in subsequent comments (for me, anyway) :-) How does IQ factor in to the smart species thing? The fact that men tend to be at the extremes of the curve more? High IQ and good looks are correlated, supposedly both part of the same evolutionary tactic. Should we then also suppose low IQ/ugly people are more likely the offspring of rape? And how come we see both alpha and beta tendencies in the entire IQ range? Or is there a difference there I haven't spo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?Don't forget that a certain drive also benefits moms: get the best man, best nutrition, safest nest, being able to keep track of most kids, being able to teach them how to avoid predators and where the best berries grow. You and I also come from a long line of top 34% men. I consider myself to be extremely ambitious. Look at this lady: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/b8ceed/an_outpouring_my_gratitude_joy_the_duck_i_tied_to/ She did what doctors spend years studying and qualifying … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?I think he's likely on the Autism spectrum then. They call it a spectrum for a reason, it ranges from rainman to just quirky. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I dress more feminine while still being comfortable and confident?Oooh that's pretty! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Do I message back after no response?Oh, I've been married ages, I just wondered out of curiosity. Dating was mostly awkward American stuff back in my day. Advice is applicable for OP, not me :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?This sounds too extreme. Has he got a mental disorder of some kind (seriously no offense intended)? Or do you misinterpret him and he just feels a bit guilty if he lets you do all the work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?Normally I always agree with your posts, but I think this one is too simplified. I think they really do release pent up energy, because the drive to excel is largely subconscious and comes in the form of that energy/squirrely restless feeling. And sometimes you need to open a valve and relieve some of that pressure to channel it. My husband excels at work, makes a lot of money, they even nicknamed him 'the lone ruler' there. You'd think when he gets home, he'd be done and satisfied. But he needs… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 08:17 PM |
| 40 | I think I ruined my own proposal vacation...If it gets to the point where he is so defensive about being slow that he ruins the proposal, and you're not very excited anymore, it's bad. The thing about RPW is, it's not the end of all lifehacks. There is always a risk of things going wrong (even if you tie all the poultry to your legs, no wait, I mean) even if you do everything right. Life can't be controlled 100%. We as women generally don't like risk, so we try to cover all bases. But in the end, you always take a plunge. Being perfectly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 04:52 PM |
| 22 | An Outpouring: My Gratitude & Joy & the Duck I Tied To My LegYou single-handedly pulled his T levels up by sheer girlpower. And they say femininity is weak. Lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?My husband is introverted but exercises for stress release. Martial arts and solo workouts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?I don't think so. But female INTPs seem to turn INFP. You lose your edge with age ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Women need to do stuff which GIVES them energy and men need to do stuff which RELEASES energy - Agree?True for us. ETA I spent a lot of time actively doing things, I move around the house and garden and forest, the mental tasks are mostly multitasked with physical, and I am constantly on call ("look mommy look!"). At the end of the day, I am worn out. Physically aching and sore. I do relax before husband comes home (an hour multitasked with baby feeds, finishing up dinner, prettifying), but it is night and day. My husband is constantly holding back. He is strong, aggressive, energetic. And he wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:29 PM |
| – | Simple Questions:-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doMaybe you can make her think you're nagging for her, without actually doing it? And tell him "oh and I promised to say on behalf of your mother, nagnagnag". If he goes "what? Nagnagnag?!" Just reply "well that's the gist of it" or "I thought I'd summarize it". I would just tell him the secrets. You don't owe her confidences. She's a toddler! It's like my kid hiding one stuffed animal. We all know and pretend we don't. And give the toddler her little Facebook game lol! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 01:07 PM |
| 9 | How do I dress more feminine while still being comfortable and confident?Womanly but not revealing is hard nowadays. That's why I almost exclusively wear neovintage. Www.topvintage.com has pretty dresses. Add leggings and cardigan if necessary. I have no qualms about pairing my pretty dress with a pair of outdoor boots (we live right next to a big national park), Dubarry makes classy ones but expensive. Or comfy loafers or ballet flats. A kitten heel can be nice without adding too much height. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 01:02 PM |
| – | Simple Questionshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/19585478/ Spearmint. My husband won't go near it :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doAnd DON'T LET IT DRIVE YOU NUTS! Of course everything is about her. Keep it that way, don't expect reciprocity. Laugh at it and consider her a toddler. Toddlers are selfish and rude, but cute and funny because you don't want them to be more mature. If you actually accept your MIL is like this, you can deal much better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doExample - maybe she doesn't like the way he dresses. Pretend to team up with her in nagging him on that. My MIL is always looking for others to do her nagging for her, she loves it when she thinks I do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?I'll just mooooo along then | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doOh, if he's okay with her, you can still manage her. Do not try to win her favor or approval, she's a toddler (don't tell your man LOL). Instead, you will need to do some real subtle sucking up (you've got some damage to reverse because you mentioned her being awkward). She is 99÷ ego. So she doesn't see you as an ally in the common cause of his happiness, but as a rival. My MIL literally accused my then-boyfriend of letting me dominate him (right in front of me). You don't know a true pokerface… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do I message back after no response?I was wondering at this! I never actually dated as such, but I can't imagine being interested in someone and then just not messaging them ever again. Who knows what is going on with him. I'd at least try and make sure he is okay. But maybe I'm an idiot? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 11:25 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsIt's not the tea, it's specifically mint. Mint lowers testosterone production. Tea is another herb. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?"Two-wing-One The Altruist Through helping others, Altruists demonstrate an idealistic commitment to unconditional love. Unfortunately, they can be other-oriented to self-destructive extremes. You can recognize Two-wing-Ones by their warmth, encouragement, and overall air of acceptance. They enjoy giving smiles, hugs, compliments, and gratitude. " My husband keeps the self-destructive extremes in check, lol. It's pretty accurate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?Entj are bossy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?INFJ and type 2w1 | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doOkay, so my MIL cleaned my husbands room the first time I came to visit. He was annoyed! She would also pack him lunch etc. And he was like "please don't?" but not in a position to say much as he lived under their roof. When he moved out, she didn't really understand boundaries. Showing up unexpected, screaming in the street if he didn't open up. When our first turned one, we didn't want a party because a big fuss always just stressed him out. So they came anyway, bringing all kinds of extra peo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 09:50 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsFamily #1 But there are numbers 2 and 3 and 4 and 5 and... I just don't want to do any of that at the expense of our family. Thankfully, you can combine a lot of things. I love nature with a passion, and I homeschool. Foraging only improves my cooking. The things I create and grow and bake all benefit the family. But family definitely comes first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 09:08 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsBefore we were married, we both went to university. He had a lot of jobs and sports and extra organizations, I worked very little, spent one day a week on major housekeeping and market going, and did the daily cooking and clean-up after school. Evenings were for chilling (and sometimes work and extracurriculars). | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/19 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doOoooh she is just like mine! I'll reply more tomorow, husband wants me now sorry! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doWithout attacking their entire relationship, you could try and just bring him that specific problem. Say "I am uncomfortable with unannounced visits from your mom." No need to elaborate. And let him come up with a solution. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 07:52 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsUpvoted. But if you're tall, reasonably active and nursing (like me), you can accidentally lose that much weight. I've lost more quickly than that, before, without trying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 07:44 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsMostly homeschooling (my eldest is very gifted so that is quite intense), second cooking/baking and cleaning (basically always multitasking: cook during writing lessons, mental math while I clean, talk about space during laundry, and so on). My exercise and leisure is also incorporated into homeschooling (outdoor activities) and baby feeding (youngest is very easy/quiet, so I can do almost any sedentary activity while nursing like play chess with my boy, read etc.). I don't see how anyone can ge… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you been in Psychologically Manipulative Relationships?Me as well. It turned all of us into more extreme versions of ourselves I think. I coped with submission, one sister did the same, the other with avoidance. Brothers with dominance/conflict and avoidance. So me and sis1 would try and be good enough, sis2 avoided eye contact and stayed in her room or with friends, bro1 same, bro2 would fight/rebel and even got physical. Sis1 and bro1 are my close allies, sis2 is a loner, bro2 the black sheep and resents us all for not siding with him. I am still … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 06:48 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsHe goes to work, I stay home and manage kids, he comes back, we all eat, he takes one kid while I manage the other, we chill (he exercises in home gym or we hang out), we sleep, rinse and repeat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome perfectionism as a homemaker & mother?♡ Too much empathy can really paralyze you. Don't hate your big heart. Guard it better, instead. Maybe you have some primal/childhood needs that have to be covered before you're ready to grow further as a person. I had to go through some rough times emotionally/mentally, lots of nightmares and tears, and came through okay :-) Your username seems pagan - if you are, have you considered you may have some strings from the past warping your pattern, and sometimes something else needs to be woven thr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doI mean, any concrete examples? Sometimes you can't fix the entire relationship, but you can improve some facets. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 14: Pandora's BoxI don't have a love book, but I write down that stuff in my journal whenever I have time anyway. But that's a bit too NSFW to share. I think Pandoras box only happens if you've been especially naughty before shaping up, it never happened with us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:47 PM |
| 11 | My new role model ( how can I become like this )You can't, I think. The way you react in extreme stress situations like that isn't usually a conscious choice. People who mock bravery sometimes to these things under pressure and people with upstanding morals sometimes just faint. If you value self-sacrifice for love, sacrifice your time to do things for them, instead. Or donate a kidney. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome perfectionism as a homemaker & mother?I can't say I was at peace with myself when I was single. But it worked out anyway (after the initial calibration period). I think I just need someone to follow, someone to please, or I get anxious and end up trying to please everyone and be everything. But then I am an unhealthy level of submissive, I think. It got better just having someone, who cares about a limited amount of things. Now I can just do those things and have fun with whatever time and energy I have left. I know that doesn't ans… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | [help] How do you beautify your living space?Plants and tidiness, and pick a colorscheme (for future purchases) and favorite materials. Maybe pictures of art or loved ones on the walls. For coziness, add plaids and throws and pillows and create nooks with space for drink and book and snacks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Feel sad and don’t know what to doApart from neglecting to thank you (could be due to holiday overwhelm or forgetfulness or poor manners unrelated to her opinion of you), how is she a problem? I mean effectively? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Starting a healthy lifestyle, unsure where to start?If you're worried about form, take a trial lesson. It doesn't have to be corrected a million times, you can just remember what you learn. And watch a fee free how to videos on youtube. Any complicated yoga is out, though, if you're on your own. Find just anything that works for you. For me, it's mostly housework while babywearing and sometimes even jogging with the stroller when my kid rides his bike. And hiking with said kids My husband does part of his commute by bike or walking for extra card… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | SewingThis is such a nice idea! Also for babyclothes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | SewingMy husband says even before we had kids, me being very different and having a very different perspective was something he really appreciated. And he said "it's the thousand little things". One of my childhood memories - my aunt came to visit and had a tear in her robe. I fixed it for her and she acted all impressed, so I offered to embroider her initials on as well. Her last name and my first start with the same letter, so she absolutely insisted the letters shouldn't stand for Aunt Lastname, bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 09:27 PM |
| 4 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara KingHunters love to chase game, but farmers keep and tend their cattle. I feel another moo000OOOoo00o coming on... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 08:56 PM |
| 6 | How to have inner strength to withstand hardshipsAttitude is easier to change than circumstance. The anger is her biggest problem. Yes the circumstance sucks, but even if she ends up divorcing or something, the resentment isn't gone. She needs to deal with it whatever else she does. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 4 | How to have inner strength to withstand hardshipsChristian: whatsoever is good, pure etc, meditate on that. And she laughs at the something something proverbs 31. Pagan: embrace your fate and deal with it in a way that brings glory to your family heritage. Be a legend! Secular: youtube don't worry be happy, livin on a prayer, eye of the tiger, try (pink), try everything (shakira), bring it all back (s club 7), hero (Mariah Carey), thubthumping/ I get knocked down (ignore the booze parts lol), climb (Miley Cyrus), etc. Other: IDK, but they all … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Feminine capsule wardrobeI love www.topvintage.com (neo vintage, so the sizing works out) and my standard outfit is a pretty dress and if the weather calls for it, leggings and a cardigan. I don't do capsule, I like different colors. I do capsule lingerie though in a way: all black and lacy/sheer (what my husband likes), so it all matches. Because I tend to wear bras longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Always Be Sure to Tie a Live Duck to Your Right Ankle.Endorsed contributors say wise things, we should all listen to them! Perfect example ☝️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | How Did You Attract Your SO and Hold His Interest?😙 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Always Be Sure to Tie a Live Duck to Your Right Ankle.No, but save all those poor ducks. It's your responsibility for being influential online. Edit: I changed my mind. I think an official apology to the ducks is in order. Can't be having speciest savior syndrome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/19 07:46 PM |
| 21 | [LONG READ] I [15F] need to glow up for my boyfriend [16M]This, and adding: we have been 15, and we know how annoying comments about you being too young are. We have heard them all, too, at 15. And regretted it when we dismissed them. And cringe as we remember. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 4 | How do you ask men questions and vet men during a date without it coming across as an interviewBe entirely non-judgy and validating about everything. They will be more honest (if you come across critical, they may lie to get laid). If you differ too much, pleasantly agree to disagree. Have a mental experiment - IDK exactly how to describe it, but nerdy people in general tend to enjoy this. Basically discuss an imaginary scenario but pretend it's real (like zombie apocalypse prep). It's not a way to bring their values completely to surface, but you get to see their thought processes a litt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 7 | How Did You Attract Your SO and Hold His Interest?Milk is free from various cows all over the meadow. Why buy a cow who doesn't give milk? And if milk is free, why buy the cow? Well... Because her moos are like a melody, she is such fantastic company. Her fur so shiny, and no dung on her hiney. M000oooOoOOOooo000🎵 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:36 PM |
| 12 | Trying to transition to more feminine, but... (18F)Maybe he is just worried about the boys who will chase you. Steeling himself for the day he's gotta give you away? One thing though. Baking your own bread is not silly. I am very silly and do many ridiculous things, but baking bread is such a basic skill. I once shared a meal with a farmer/hunter- everything was homemade, including the ham and wine. I told him I envied his skills, and all I could make myself (back then) was dresses and bread. He replied "who bakes their own bread can do anything… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:23 PM |
| 8 | Always Be Sure to Tie a Live Duck to Your Right Ankle."I invite others to stop and think about what they really have to offer before they type out advice." Most of the time, yes, okay. But sometimes I just wanna have fun and feed the trolls. And sometimes it's more discussions than actual questions for advice, and it's fun to just exchange opinions. And then I also have a personal allergy against people who, when asked "how does one mix for green paint" dont say "blue and yellow", but "why aren't you going for orange instead?". So I try to only men… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:14 PM |
| 7 | Always Be Sure to Tie a Live Duck to Your Right Ankle.0.o Reddit is stranger than fiction! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:03 PM |
| 11 | Trying to transition to more feminine, but... (18F)Try wearing those dresses in other venues first, around more strangers and less people who already have this image of you set in their minds. Your dad is uncomfortable because you are distancing yourself from him - but you do need to. You're not a man, and you will have your own life. Keep doing whatever bonds you, but don't feel bad for becoming your own woman. He'll be proud of you. If you dress too sexy, he might be annoyed and comments or looks from other people might make him feel humiliate… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 08:00 PM |
| 16 | Always Be Sure to Tie a Live Duck to Your Right Ankle.Instructions unclear; involved duck in fetish. Sorry, could 't resist! But I haven't seen the hide fetish post or anything similar. And now I don't think I'll ever get rid of the mental image of that duck. Lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 07:41 PM |
| 4 | I’m worried my husband doesnt find me sexy.Awwww you poor thing. If he wants to have sex with you, he finds you sexy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 9 | How Did You Attract Your SO and Hold His Interest?I was super hot, and I think he was hooked when I brought up my plans for world domination. No seriously. He was my brothers friend, lived far away, and we got chatting on MSN messenger (whatsapp of the day waaaaaay back). It was before people did zombie apocalypse prep plans. He enjoyed to take the ridiculous discussions really far :-) and that's what made him actually enjoy talking to me. Before that we didn't really talk, but I got bored one day and brought it up because his studies were in a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/19 07:46 PM |
| 18 | Cursing. How much is okay?LOL people here overreact a little bit. I think you can get away with it as long as your intonation and intent is pleasant. Reminds me of the nicknames thread on here. Everyone called their husband babe and sweety or some such word. I call mine a creep. I don't punch his arm or scowl and call him a creep. I give him that private smile and call him a creep. Expressions like "shit happens" and "fucking amazing" don't usually offend people unless you say them to dismiss their emotions or sarcastica… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Things land only after shit hits the fanPs 2 weeks is frigging awesome for a pregnant hormonel RPW noob! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Things land only after shit hits the fanFor trust: Try practicing on things you don't really care about. If you're a smug know it all, just stay quiet and wait if he learns his lesson. He probably won't, because things will work out his way. And then you have learned yours :-) Then work your way up. Things where you care about the outcome, but care more about harmony. Do it his way and accept that things could go wrong, but you're willing to pay the price. You will start noticing how often things actually go right, and the real trust … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/19 08:20 PM |
| 5 | 'Not all male voices are equal! Is sexistNo, also opening pickle jars. Feminists are just picklehaters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 03:52 PM |
| 3 | 'Not all male voices are equal! Is sexistThAt'S SeXISt! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Help! I'm so skinny! 😢Also this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend is giving me an ultimatumYou are right of course, but the wording sounded a little strange (her "responsibility to maintain a marriage headed relationship"). Also he didn't help her with ideas, he just stated his own wishes, as if they are opposing teams. That's why I was very sceptic. My husband would have brainstormed solutions with me. OP seems to be pulling it off like a champ anyway :-) so that's a happy ending so far. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 01:14 PM |
| 34 | Help! I'm so skinny! 😢Strength training plus protein. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 10:18 AM |
| 6 | How to undo the negative psychological effects of Red Pill?"Knowing" you have no value? Whaaaat? Who decided these things, who assigns value, anyway? The players gonna play play play play play, that doesn't mean you have no value. You just have poor vetting skills or ran across a master manipulator. What are your values? What do you believe in? You only need to answer to yourself. TRP doesn't equal lying and abuse. You can be aware of male and female differences and be a genuine good person. Your ex sounds like a bad one. Not your fault. Heartache hurts… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend is giving me an ultimatumAs someone who used to be the baby sister in a similar situation, I see I am biased. But there are in-between options. Between jumping ship and enabling. My older siblings lived there own lives, but also made more time for us younger ones out of concern. It helped to have someone to talk to who understood. It is her fathers job, and she can't do everything. But she can do some things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Posted that in the wrong community . Was directed here☝️ yup | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Posted that in the wrong community . Was directed hereThey have something you don't. Either higher RMV or you're not as hot as you think or he prefers that type. May I recommend you stop the situation though? It seems he is getting to you. All this time spend on the hamster wheel over him could have been spent browing 9gag or curing cancer, instead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with people still plugged into the matrix who act like your the strange one for avoiding monogamous relationship in order to foucus and improve on ones self? (21 years old)Some people just want to watch the world burn. If you are one of those people, ask them to set you up with a nice girl. Then plate her. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Posted that in the wrong community . Was directed hereYeah it is moot, I'm glad you can see that! https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillwomen/about https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Guy M(26) I’m F(22) seeing is a “stud/alpha”. Can someone explain this to me?;-) I already commented. Just standing up for my favorite sub :-p | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Guy M(26) I’m F(22) seeing is a “stud/alpha”. Can someone explain this to me?Bruh... We give glorious advice! | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 13: Sympathetic UnderstandingSame in part. I do the blunt "can I just complain for a while?", even. And he will say yes or no. It's nice to vent sometimes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Posted that in the wrong community . Was directed hereFirst, I WILL EAT YOU UP FOR HAVING CASUAL SEX! ...kidding ;-) There are several options. Your FWB doesn't want a relationship right now Your FWB likes a different type of woman Your FWB doesn't see what other qualities you have (or you lack other qualities) Your FWB sees bad qualities in you (it's okay to be easy if you're only easy for him, but if you get around, who's to stay you will stay with him if he LTRs you?) You perceive yourself as being above him, that in and of itself is unattractiv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 04:56 PM |
| 3 | "Thank you for all that you do, it doesn't go unnoticed"I love a happy ending ♡ thanks for updating! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyMy kiddo (5) went to an arts and crafts for kids 5-11 thing at the museum. They made flowers. He pretended to knock himself out with a flower, fake fell down and did a dramatic "whaaAaAa" Lady there said other kids were scared of him, and does he have ADD/ADHD. This was 3 hours of sitting in a room with glue and cardboard. Belgian culture! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyGreat ideas thanks!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyThank you so much! I love these ideas! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boy:-( | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there a female equivalent of wife goggles?You'd think it was an act because they want to look tough, but the broken nosed brother didn't have anyone to pressure him so his nose is still crooked. My dads a doctor though, so if I point my husband toward a doc, he assumes I know what's what. Picked up enough lingo to seem knowledgeable ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyThanks for the tips! I'll definitely not get one without talking to a vet after all you've posted here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Roughhousing little boyIt's highly cultural though. Dutch kids are waaaay rowdier than Belgian ones. Belgians line up before being allowed in class, Dutch ones play around until lessons start. So where we are from, we have had many comments on him being so easygoing, often just sitting quietly with his book. He will sit still for a whole hour working in his booklet at chess club. But we've already had Belgian people mention ADD or ADHD. Incidentally, the Belgian suicide rate is much higher than the Dutch one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyOh that's interesting! I thought there'd be more social part of the family dogs and then working/guard dogs. Many people here keep them outside, but I think they're not home anyway (always working). | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyYou are like having 8 experienced moms to advise, I am always so happy with your replies!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Roughhousing little boyWe have a sorta wilderness right outside the door! But lately I have been putting baby in stroller because she got too heavy, and that made the fun parts inaccessible. The local nature club is more academic, and 6+. We homeschool bushcraft stuff as well, but I think maybe not enough lately. Gonna look into backwearing to be more mobile again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - March 23, 2019If I had had a home birth with my first, we wouldn't have made it to the hospital in time. We're lucky neither of us had any permanent damage as it was. It was scary. Delivery used to be the number one cause of death in adult women. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Roughhousing little boyHe was dangling by his arms and his dad was there to catch him if he fell, but it was at the top of a tall ladder (tower for watching wildlife). When his feet slipped... I still get dizzy remembering! With the friend, there is no roughhousing at all. That kid just isn't interested (neither was his older brother, who turned out trans). But I think if I just bring it up, he will do his utmost to make mommy-roughhousing happen :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Roughhousing little boyNot insulting at all! Very helpful actually. I am just overly sensitive and fearful. I have (currently quite sizeable) boobs and am lactating. Just jumping in my arms for a cuddle has bumped those boobs enough to cause mastitis (I get that really easily). So really just quite gentle stuff hurts easily. The boy is all shoulders and elbows and feet and knees without any padding! But I get that he can learn to roughhouse more gently with me. I have just not given him enough opportunity to adjust, I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Roughhousing little boyThanks! ♡ | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Roughhousing little boyOooooh cool! Timing worked for getting him to get dressed (no natural consequences for a nudist homeschooler), timing. I'll definitely make a running chart! Maybe I can get over my dog-phobia... Do kiddo friendly breeds take well to living outside the house? We wouldn't want one inside. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Roughhousing little boyNot yet, at the clubs here they accept 6+ or 8+. My husband takes it very seriously and thinks kiddo should be a bit older, because it's a discipline and all. They don't have any kiddy tumbling that is more playful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | What I did to become more feminineFreudian typo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | What I did to become more feminineHush!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | [help] I know I need to be more feminine- but there's something in my wayThis is great! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone noticed that movies/shows seem to all star aggressive/masculine women nowadays?Try historical fiction :-) And if there is a book, read it instead! Often much nicer/more nuanced. Though I have to admit I enjoy some of it. It is entertaining, if not inspiring. I also like the "Dear future husband" song :-p It's just so cheery and funny. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Wow this group is awesome.I would prefer the term glorious, too. Or at least pink pill... ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:34 AM |
| – | Self CareI get that! You don't want intetesting fungi down there... The combo thing is more work. I would just throw some bleach on after showers daily (sorry nature </3), and regularly scrub (maybe while my conditioner sits) even if I'm not planning a bath, so there is no time for build-up. That way the pre-bath scrubtime is kept to a minimum. If you have enough towels in rotation, always dry the bath down with a towel after every shower, that gets rid of a lot and prevents a hospitable environment for … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | What is red pill woman view on dating outside your race?I'll take your word for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What is red pill woman view on dating outside your race?Do you know any good articles on this? I mean for the biology noob? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Is there a female equivalent of wife goggles?Some men..! My husbands grandfather told him never to show weakness. And to marry a foolish girl, lol. I get reminded of the last on regularly. My brothers are similar, one refused his broken nose medical attention and the other was cracking jokes about his bike falling apart before anyone even noticed his broken arm "hurt a little bit". I'd have been howling! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/19 05:12 AM |
| 10 | My boyfriend of a year is following risque Instagram and Facebook accounts of girls/strippers he's "casual friends" with. I told him it was inappropriate. He says I'm just insecure. Should I be fine with this?Then he really considers this acceptable for a serious relationship or you're not that serious to him. If this is what you want, stay. If not, next. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 15 | I don’t know how to approach my relationshipIf you need help choosing, next. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:36 PM |
| 9 | My boyfriend of a year is following risque Instagram and Facebook accounts of girls/strippers he's "casual friends" with. I told him it was inappropriate. He says I'm just insecure. Should I be fine with this?Would he be okay with you following your local fuckboys on Instagram? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereNo bragging? LOL I have specifically made brag-posts! But it is constructive here, I agree. MGTOW isn't a pleasure to read for me, more like painful to be confronted with all that hurt. Big wake-up, for sure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThanks for the edits! I agree 100% that we can learn from other peoples mistakes. I've also stalked MGTOW forums before, just to see what to avoid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereI am unconfortable. Sorry, but I feel this is mocking others for their ignorance, not actually looking for ideas to better ourselves. I hope this doesn't deteriorate into bullying. I mean can we actually learn anything new from these cases? Sorry to be such a Debbie Downer... | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:20 PM |
| 6 | How to cook good meals for husband and family with limited time?What the others said (earlier meal prep) plus babywearing. I always do mine in the morning, during homeschooling. The last hour before dinner all I do is put the stove or oven on and maybe check or stirfry a few minutes. The rest of that time is spent lazing around, doing some prettifying touch-ups, and cuddling kids. If I happen to be stuck on the couch nursing when husband comes home, all he needs to do is turn on the oven or stove and he can go take a shower meanwhile. Also it is nice to sala… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:58 PM |
| 12 | Tried to improve as a person, but now men abuse my "vulnerability"?Sometimes people act like jerks because of an abusive past. That is not something you need to judge. But you can empathize without staying with them and accepting that kind of treatment. It is sad for them that they do not know how to have a normal, healthy relationship. But you are responsible for you. Some people will treat you like shit even if they do see how great you are. More so, even. That has nothing to do with you, and everything with them. People act like jerks because they are jerks.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 11:46 AM |
| 53 | Tried to improve as a person, but now men abuse my "vulnerability"?Covert contract. I submit to you, so you must love me. Protect yourself and run run run from the bad ones. You're like a stray without a home, full of loving and no-one to give it to. So you just toss it at idiots and are hurt when they don't turn into good guys. Have you tried vetting at all? Consider this. All the loving you are giving to the wrong men, is subtracted from what you will have left for the right one. It is a simple matter of just not doing it. The action is easy enough, but the f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 07:57 AM |
| 9 | I'm worried I might not be good enoughNext. He sounds weak. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 07:43 AM |
| 3 | [help] I know I need to be more feminine- but there's something in my waySubmission is disgusting if you don't have or know of anyone worthy. Of course it is. It's demeaning. I'm different from you, but similar. I grew up in dysfunction, too. And instead of becoming guarded (too many walls), I became a pushover (no walls). Too submissive by far, and struggling not to submit to the wrong people. Trying hard to please at the expense of myself. I find the right man, submit to him, and the rest kind of magically worked out. He is worthy, and he wouldn't want me to be use… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 07:27 AM |
| 11 | Boyfriend is giving me an ultimatumIt's not your natural responsibility, but he should appreciate that it is your responsibility now. Because you have made the decision to take it on. Because you are awesome. And your sister needs you. If your sister is open to the "listen, would you be okay staying with X this weekend? Boyfriend asked to spend time and he missed time Y and is busy at time X. Then we can spend time together at time Z", then it's okay. Make sure she can reach you!!! and is at a home of trusted people who will give… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Boyfriend is giving me an ultimatumThis, but only if you thoroughly know and feel comfortable with the people she stays with, and get your sister on board, first. Don't for the love of god make her feel like you dumped her so you could screw your boyfriend. That would damage her and your relationship for life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What is red pill woman view on dating outside your race?https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3146070/amp/Mixed-race-relationships-making-taller-smarter-Children-born-genetically-diverse-parents-intelligent-ancestors.html Complicated stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 04:29 PM |
| 4 | What is red pill woman view on dating outside your race?Variety in genes tends to make for healthier/smarter offspring. Unsupportive extended families and community aren't a nice factor. Mixed children might have identity issues, and be treated poorly due to racism. No personal experience, I'm white with another white. Article about brains and racism because the research dude is a Chad: https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/humans-are-wired-for-prejudice-but-that-doesnt-have-to-be-the-end-of-the-story-36829 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 03:05 PM |
| 4 | How do I get my husband to help at home?Holy MIL I thought I had it bad in that respect lol. That does complicate things. All my husbands bad household habits are things he learned from his mom (leaving the dustbin lid open, dropping clothes here and there). You might want to first establish each of your ideas of what constitutes basic hygiene and neat and tidy and wonderfully sparkly. Try and do so in a humorous way, and laugh about your differences. Both of your ideals are valid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 02:54 PM |
| 13 | How do I get my husband to help at home?This. No need to baby him and make it a game - even my 5 year old doesn't fall for that anymore. I mean, a hoop over the laundry basket or garbage can might be fun, but it could be considered condescending, too. Just bring him your problem. Like this: feed him, cuddle on the couch, chat, say "look, I have a problem" (he goes "what is it?", you continue. Otherwise you didn't pick the right time). "I am overwhelmed by X, and I need/want more time for Y." Then he will probably come up with somethin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 11:29 AM |
| 6 | Questions for vetting?(All the plate spinners gonna instruct their friends to tell each plate "don't hurt him, he's a good one" lol). | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Questions for vetting?Yes, and his friends and grandma (hopefully) aren't biased by tingles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:58 AM |
| 6 | "That's not fair"I would have so much fun with those though. Make them so sappy it hurts. Cringefest! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there a female equivalent of wife goggles?Unless all the good is just a show and you slowly start seeing the real/bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Is there a female equivalent of wife goggles?Mine never showed me real grief, or fear, or weakness. Not after good friends died, not after losing our first pregnancy. He got a bit quieter, maybe looked somewhat paler. He talked about happy memories with them. But he never sheds tears except in laughter (or allergies). He claims he can't cry. I think it's not on purpose, like holding frame. I think it's because he lost his baby brother as a little kid, and his parents had zero time for him then. Like his tearducts got clogged, in a way. And… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Is there a female equivalent of wife goggles?Got place for my hammock? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Questions for vetting?Mutual friends. My husband was my brothers friend, and everyone who knew him was like "nice!" when we got together (except that brother, lol, the friendship died a swift death). Things others say about him, how others approach him, etc. First time I visited my then boyfriend, he still lived at home. His mom had cleaned his room. He was annoyed at her. Lessons learned: messy man, meddly MIL. Not a dealbreaker, to me. But I still pick up after him all these years later. His brothers and dad shitta… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?Www.topvintage.com you can shop by decade (ships to UK, USA, NL, DE, BE, FR) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 09:27 AM |
| 25 | "That's not fair"I think the better take away from this one is: how to advise without alienating. You did that splendidly: told her to just be her best self and the best girlfriend she could be regardless of what he did. Now she will think about how to do just that. Perfect! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Questions for vetting?No, but make others do the vetting as much as you can. Love and lust goggles will make you hamster mr. Dickhead into mr. Perfect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 07:55 AM |
| 3 | What would you tell your 21 year old self to do?It'll be okay. Don't worry, you've got this. Live and learn. I had already found him at 21, I did some stupid things, but we both learned as we went through life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 2 | What constitutes as a Unicorn man?Well, I have a husband, and he has some seemingly conflicting traits :-) Seriously smart and a bit nerdy - strong, athletic, socially competent, funny. Dominant, bossy, sadist - kind, conscientious, humble Driven, great career, inspired - family oriented, great dad, mellow/chill Hotty - not very demanding/easily pleased Traditional in relationship - modern in parenting He pulls it off because of 2 things. First he is busy as hell, second he knows there is a time&place for certain things, and he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 07:44 AM |
| – | Self CareNah, I was thinking hot bath first, actually. And then hot bath and maybe hot bath last. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 06:57 AM |
| – | Self CareHot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath Hot bath | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend and intentionally makes me madNext, nun mode. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Reinventing myselfDiet: Have you tried eating normal food only? A lot of people go extreme when they diet, but I always lose weight at a steady rate if I just only eat normal food. Just no cookies and chocolate and such. I maintain when I have some junk now and then and I gain when pregnant and when I go crazy (like holiday season). Example: Breakfast: eggs, bread and butter and cheese, some fruit. Or plain yoghurt, granola and fruit. Or oatmeal, maybe with a boiled egg and fruit. Lunch: same, or leftovers, or sa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Moving On"Why is he offering that now? He said he realised what he has lost.. is he just playing with my head" Yes. Just trying to see what he can get away with. I have friends who dated those kinda guys, and it never stops. Not until they no longer knew where to find them and how to contact them. Make sure the new guy isn't love-bombing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Mother and family bully me. F22 depended on my mother as it’s my final year.There is no point in trying to set up boundaries. Some people don't respect boundaries. Get out as soon as you can. Don't tell them anything personal, including your moving out plans or your new address. Google "medium chill narcissist". If you have reliable friends, hide your valuables there. Spend as little time as possible at home. Hang out in libraries and cafés and with friends or at school. This has nothing to do with you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If an attractive girl did this does she want my attention? (need a woman perspective)I would have done something like that if I was mildly interested/curious. Over at TRP they will guide you better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 06:18 PM |
| 4 | How did / do you “Glow Up”?The easiest thing IMO is a pretty dress. It's more comfy than flannel pyjamas if you pick a stretchy one. Leggings and cardigans can add warmth if necessary. Boom, you look like you made an effort. It's not true, but nobody knows. Healthy food does wonders, too. No need to drink powdered green matcha goji exotica, just apples are fine as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 08:33 AM |
| 0 | How did / do you “Glow Up”?Tannins feel astringent. You can soak them out of acorns too, and eat those. They used to be a staple food. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/19 08:27 AM |
| 6 | How did / do you “Glow Up”?Nobody has ever called me that before! Lol, cool. I'm cool😎 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 04:27 PM |
| 3 | I need some help from all the ladies. Any advice appreciated.So might she if she tries that one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 02:15 PM |
| 8 | How did / do you “Glow Up”?https://xkcd.com/150/ (Cartoon about adulting) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy, and how I was not like All The Women - until, all of a sudden, I wasSmart guys who aren't super awkward or weak are so hot. Intelligence with calm confidence omg omg hottttt. I married a sporty supersmart hotty*. And then I pretty much isolated myself. What hypergamy? ;-) Awalt. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/19 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Trouble keeping up with housework during pregnancySame, low blood pressure and iron in my 2nd pregnancy, and felt horrible. Iron supplements mostly made me vomit, too - sometimes it can't be helped (they have drastic measures for if you get too extreme). First pregnancy I felt amazing and did everything plus exercise until the day of delivery. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/19 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I could use some perspectiveThis is workable info - if it is an ego thing, you can make it sound like the work is below him, and you want to hire someone who will just do what you tell him to. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I need some help from all the ladies. Any advice appreciated.Ah that could be so, I didn't check the times, my bad. I did a little summary reply of things that stood out to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 10:48 AM |
| 7 | I need some help from all the ladies. Any advice appreciated.So let's see... Virgin Heavy drinker (4 bottles of wine is heavy right? Not sure because I don't drink) Razor tongue, mean/personal humor Carries around resentment until explosion, then cruel Active & sporty Wants someone kind, but with the same mean humor Jealous Kinky Mulilingual (probably smart or well-educated/traveled) Intense staring Tries to out-alpha the alphas And emergency condoms. Try being nicer, not staring people down, don't carry condoms like a desperado. Don't have sex on a horse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 10:47 AM |
| 2 | I need some help from all the ladies. Any advice appreciated.All between the quotes is what she said elsewhere, and I added the emergency condoms (from a "what's in your purse" question) because that seems odd for a single virgin - as if sex is something that might magically just happen, or that she wants to just suddenly happen, or as of she has no agency. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 10:07 AM |
| 2 | I need some help from all the ladies. Any advice appreciated."Anger: Describe your anger and how frequently you get irked and what angers you? I would describe my anger in 2 phases. Phase 1, I just keep bottling everything that annoys me or irks me and I try to remind myself its not worth to lose it. So I keep bottling it up, with the maximum amount for patience a person could really have. It keeps building and building till one magical and mystical day, it explodes. This is Phase 2. Phase 2, no person will dare stand in front of me. (Mind you, i have a s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendation - Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy, by Sarah Ban BreathnachI hate podcasts, auditory learning is hard for me (I just don't listen! ;-)). And haven't read anything by her yet. The book has already arrived though and my husband likes it (he read a bit and skimmed the rest). But thanks for the heads up! Someone else might benefit :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel guilty for wanting a monogamous relationshipA part of you won't be with him always. You will 100% get over him. Trust me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 08:45 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffThank you, she was our first baby ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?I think TBH having no weird thoughts would actually be weirder! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?I had the exact same thought before I became a mother. You calling me weird?! ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | I act like an insecure child instead of a woman; how do I become more mature?You said women used to do it, not that OP should. She was already "ruined". What you wrote was easy to misunderstand, not easy to gain anything from. A lot of bimbos volunteer and have a fling with a soup kitchen romeo to make them feel unshallow. I volunteer therefore I am a good person kind of thinking, just resume building for the ego. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Red pilled lipstick colorsHaving more contrast in your face makes you more attractive. Your lips get a bit brighter/redder when you are aroused, and arousal is generally considered attractive. I once lost a liter of blood and then I looked very nude lips runway modelish. So I don't think that's a good look. If you're mixing, I'd take a selfie next to a sheet of white paper normally, then one straight after exercise when you're flushed, and mimic that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:25 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffNearly time for nettles here, my husbands favorite soup :-) We had a lemon tree from seed, but we left it outside too long one winter :'( I have a very sensitive nose as well, it's a blessing and a curse ;-) (We always go off topic lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I act like an insecure child instead of a woman; how do I become more mature?Maybe you can rephrase it into some actionable advice? Steps to take for OP? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?Yes! I thought so, too. You know one thing that really gave me an extra push of self-love? My daughter. She is so much like me and she is so perfect. Suddenly I appreciate myself more, because I'm reminded of her, and I see myself through a mothers eyes. Weird right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | I act like an insecure child instead of a woman; how do I become more mature?Oh come on... Flirting is fun, adults enjoy flirting. She isn't ruined. And hard times may make good men, but they are more likely to crack women and embitter them. You can be light-hearted and fun and flirty and sweet. She needs to get rid of the pouting, not of her being lucky and charmed. It's a beautiful world when some people can retain a little innocence. Beauty isn't a curse. Some people develop character because they are intrinsically motivated, not because they will be kicked when they … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 3 | I act like an insecure child instead of a woman; how do I become more mature?This isn't especially constructive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendation - Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy, by Sarah Ban BreathnachThanks! It's on the wishlist for when I finish positive parenting, better than before, and 10 rules for life lol. And I just finished another parenting book someone here recommended... :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 04:45 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffMaybe pick some Rumex, they're free ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?:-D mine loves the minions version of Despacito lol. I do think you're right. He seems to find odd things about me attractive that I thought were kinda lame. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 04:39 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffACV is disgusting unless extremely diluted. Sometimes I accidentally drink it from my husbands glass... Slices of organic lemon in my tea for me! Expensive, but so tasty! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 03:45 PM |
| 5 | I act like an insecure child instead of a woman; how do I become more mature?You have gotten some great advice already. I wanted to add that you can reign in the brat and retain the childlike fun stuff. Really not all adults are stuffy (and a lot of them are just faking it and overdoing the boring serious side). I was also privileged, a model, highly educated, and not raised very well. You really need to focus on being mallable (can't spell it, mallaebale? Malleable?). You have some nice things going for you, now see what is lacking. The insecurity is typical for imposte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?Playing music puts me in the mood of the music, so burlesque music works! Unfortunately, my 5 year old has a different taste (so I do very silly dances instead of sexy ones while cleaning...). And strangely, we all like metal around here. Not really beneficial for feminine graceful movements. I'm giggling so much at the idea of pulling off my kitchengloves with my teeth, glowering through my fringe, hip sticking out. Gonna try that next time my husband brings up something IT related LOL. See if … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | My flatmate makes me doubt my ability to live with someonePracticality is my middle name ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I feel guilty for wanting a monogamous relationshipIt is! Don't fall victim to some dreadlord. Plenty of men like monogamy!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?All of us here fit the mold of not fitting the mold ;-) It's almost like we're... unicorns! (Ducks to avoid mods) The common denominator seems to be evidence-based practices. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | I feel guilty for wanting a monogamous relationshipI don't think what is specific to my relationship matters to you, but I'll answer just for some perspective. Obviously you should just follow your heart in this. We knew each other for years, got closer through talking online a lot (he was my brothers friend, lived a while away), then got together at 21. We started out with the rule of nothing physical elsewhere (porn and such doesn't count as long as there is no risk of anything physical actually happening irl) and it didn't cause any issues. S… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 09:14 AM |
| 1 | I feel guilty for wanting a monogamous relationshipAs a non-normal woman, can confirm. In terms of fidelity, stay way within your comfort zone, or it won't ever work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 08:00 AM |
| 3 | I feel guilty for wanting a monogamous relationshipWait, now you've gone and made me feel guilty for picking a man with a low need for variety ;-) Emotions are a valuable guide to personal happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?I'm perfectly normal! It's my husband who is the weird one! ;-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?I was talking about infants in the attic, though. So she wouldn't hear the crying. I'm not saying oma was awful. But her life was, compared to mine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?That's interesting! I can't imagine it not being torture after too long. I'd take a wild guess and say it's not psychological, but does have something to do with the brains (instead of nerves down there). I was shocked to read about the 45+ lady, not because she could, but that someone could be so cruel. And wondering if she was left with neurological damage. Or if it was just a joke to rile up the ladies on here, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?I bought new pink dishwashing gloves just last week and have a fifties soap commercial hanging in the laundry room! I didn't order, just printed and laminated. I did practice ballet as a kid, that helped my posture a lot. I've just been focusing so much on getting it all done, I want some more beauty in the doing... Maybe just being mindful is enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?I think a lot of people subscribe to a set of ideas, rather than just thinking things through, to be part accepted as part of the group. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?He wouldn't even see it 99.999999% of the time. I just think it would be fun to cultivate that stuff. My man isn't going anywhere lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Youtube links/movie recommendations of every day things done sexily?There's a scene of a plain woman scrubbing a table in Beowulf in a very sexualized way. I was scrubbing the table and thought to myself: just sticking my butt out a bit more would make this a seduction move instead of just a chore. I don't remember the movie, But Brigitte Bardot did a handwashing scene where it looked like some kind of sensual massage. I remember in my awkward teens, practicing walking in front of a mirror, to get that subtle amount of sway. And posture for standing and sitting.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Planning ahead for new babyDutch women get a nurse to come full-time the first week, teach parents everything, clean, look after mom, sometimes cook a little, bring older kids to school, support mom emotionally, give dad pointers, etc. Those are soooo great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Planning ahead for new babyRespect, not protect him: yes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | looking for a lesson learnedGood point - my husband wants me at home, but I'd estimate that's about 50% because of the kids now and 50% (used to be 90%) because he loves how happy it makes me to be. And maybe 10% the value and comfort added to his life. Before that, he wouldn't have stated "I don't want my wife to work". | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Planning ahead for new babyOP literally said she has done research and has lots of experience... Also, fuck gurus. Read a lot of contrasting views until you find your style, then more on the same that was helpful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 7 | looking for a lesson learnedFor better vetting, you can find out a lot about people through mutual friends. My husband has some shady friends. If their girlfriends asked me if I thought they were marriage material/loyal/faithful, I wouldn't outright say no, but I'd definitely pack a clear warning in there. You can't always know, but there are often signs. Conscientiousness or lack thereof carries over to other areas in life. For example, people who feel lucky instead of speak up when they get too much change back in a shop… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?We're gonna get chickens soon. My husband told me he wanted to slaughter them, but from the roof with a sniper rifle. He said just butchering them created stress and makes them less tasty, the sneaky way was better. I was outraged of course. I told him they would always be on edge, vigilantly watching for little red dots (and some of them have them in their feathers, so that is like poultry racism). I said these things call for ritual. And that we should have drums. Several days playing drums wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?Upvoted for vaccinating. I keep my kids away from antivaxxers as much as possible! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?Not an extreme example, my grandma would put them in the attic. Never went for a stroll in the park just for the fun with them, either. And hardly any showers - let alone hot baths! Less books, no internet. And those disgusting see-through salad jiggly pudding things. Fifties sucked, lol. I have a hard time imagining a possible future age that is easier for people who have a basic amount of money. You don't even need to be very rich to have luxuries that only nobles with full staff used to be ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 02:53 PM |
| 16 | Time to step my game up?Mealprep breakfasts and lunches maybe? So you can leave him stuff he can quickly heat or assemble. IDK what else he likes/enjoys and what might be missing. Maybe ask him for feedback? Careful though - he is rewarding what he is happy with (you, as you are now). You don't have to keep one-upping each other to the point where you get exhausted and self-care goes out the window. If he takes care of you and gives you things, the general idea is that you're supposed to enjoy them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Planning ahead for new babySo let's get real. You do know better, and a baby is not for experimenting on. Your not going to let anyone do it wrong with your kid, nor should you. You don't need to save his ego at the expense of your child. Your husband is already aware and comfortable with the fact that you are better informed. So no worries there! He also responds well to your pregnancy upheavels, so you two will be fine. Really, you will. He can just do every first time or first few times with your oversight, or a class.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?She is so lovely! And her kitchen, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 09:49 AM |
| 18 | Who do you resonate with/feel inspired by?We're the same :-) Part fifties (in relationship dynamic, dress style, homemaking, manners, entertaining); Part hypermodern (latest parenting insights, breastfeeding on demand as long as they want, bedsharing, lots of internet use and kids learn coding); Part hippie/boho (slow living, nature loving, laid-back mostly unschool homeschooling, permaculture, DIY, board games, poetry). I think the beautiful thing about this day and age is that you have so much info available that you can just pick wha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 09:48 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffI looked so pretty today that my husband pretended to be suspiscious and asked me whether I planned on leaving the house looking like that :-D I have been getting better at parenting my squeaky wheel son without taking too much attention away from my mellow baby girl. I have had several days in a row where all my ducks were, too. Normal for me is always feeling behind on something (cleaning or cooking or baking or looking pretty or interpersonal stuff or sex or parenting or homeschooling or outi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 08:28 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffPregnancy is a time for vulnerability ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I need a brand new startComments like that are bad enough from enemies. Loved ones should aim to be supportive and constructive. I'm sorry she's not good at that, it's painful when your own mom is like that. You shouldn't need thick skin around people who love you. I checked, you're right. I'm not sure about shops. But I do know that even with an androgynous face, a pretty dress makes anyone look more womanly and feel happier and prettier. Get a male friend or brother to accompany you shopping. Saleswomen just want to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I need a brand new startI just love www.topvintage.com Mentioned it a million times here, but I feel older styles are just more feminine. It's neo vintage, so the sizing is reliable. You can shop by decade. Your mom is meannnn. Does she have any constructive advice, or is she just trying to bring you down? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How did/does pregnancy affect your sex life?I get very emotional/hormonal and needed to be handled with silk gloves outside the bedroom during pregnancy. Couldn't even take a joke, curled up and sobbed over nothings, etc. First pregnancy I was energetic, second lots of nausea, low blood pressure and low iron, constantly fainting. So he had to be gentle, I couldn't handle much. Outside the bedroom. Inside the bedroom, I wanted him to compensate for that, in a way. If we could have sex less often/long or he wasn't as bossy as usual outside … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 05:11 PM |
| 2 | NSFW: How did you and your man calibrate your sexuality?Seriously? Most of them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | My flatmate makes me doubt my ability to live with someoneYou can only eject roommates if you're the landlord though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?Thanks for the nightmares... (Thank gods my husband never got us a vibrator) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/19 04:54 PM |
| 29 | Captain makes less than me.Then find someone richer than you. Or a job. (Edit - I get that you have one, but the dynamic just based on money is employee - boss) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | My flatmate makes me doubt my ability to live with someoneI tried that. Totally backfired, because the act of asking someone to sit down with me and make some decisions about this itself was seen as an act of hostility. They felt pressured by me simply bringing it up. Same when I went "ooh this kitchen is filthy, let's clean it" and I just started. They didn't say "no, I'm busy", they joined in, agreeing verbally. And then bitched about it behind my back. You can't always make it work with everyone. Even people in love who have a sexlife that defuses t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:58 AM |
| 33 | Captain makes less than me.Is your submission inspired by money? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 11 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?Yes. More fun to ask in a sexy way than to have a Serious Conversation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:45 AM |
| 0 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?How come the toy works but the oral doesn't? How long does the toy take? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:44 AM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?Ding ding ding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:36 AM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?It's the mindset, her last man put too much pressure on her. 45+minutes of oral... That sounds like having to eat an entire chocolate cake. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Need a hand in the looks departmentYou don't have to do anything my way or her way or anyones but your way or be 'in the fold', this isn't some kind of Stepford cult (I'd totally join that one though). We're here for mutual support, help and inspiration. Not to convert you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Advice on RMV and getting an education?"Self made men who grew up modestly are far more forgiving I believe." I come from upper middle, my husband from lower, but is universiity educated. Can confirm! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Need a hand in the looks departmentThe stretchy dresses like the festive are more comfy than flannel pyjamas. And muuuuuuch nicer when you have unexpected guests. I do wear soft slippers instead of shoes around the house - comfy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 07:20 AM |
| 6 | How to get better at girl game?Keep it simple. "Why do you want X so badly?" Don't nag, whine, justify, explain. None of that matters. Don't take yourself too seriously. "Because it's fun :-D" or "you'll loveit!" or "plllllleaeaease?" or "It's shiny..." or "IT'S SO FLUFFY I'M GONNA DIE!!!" (only for stuffed unicorns). I sometimes go "I'm gonna have to divorce you if you don't (X)", but only over tiny little things that I know he is fine with, and only because we're so solid. Don't make jokes like that if they sting a little. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Pet names/terms of endearment?We used to refer to our parents as "our monkeys" back home. Also Dutch :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 03:51 PM |
| 3 | A Captain and His Video GamesMake working out about you, not a way to get him to channel whatevs. He is channeling his negative energy, into the gaming. Much better than a footy hooligan. You can just ask him to take you out to do (fun activity X), because it would be such funnn! His extreme swearing could probably get him views. That kind of stuff can go viral if his language is creative enough, people love a good tantrum. Instead of working against it, inspire him to own it! Also, exercise can and does increase mental per… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 09:38 AM |
| 8 | How to make your man feel good in front of other guys/what NOT to do?Don't understand the downvotes on this one... He's right. OP answered the question without being aware enough of what was actually being communicated beyond the literal. If someone is negative toward anything about my man, I either laugh at them and point out their own inferior thing. Or go annoying-shrink on them ("are you feeling inadequate?"). Or agree&lify ("ohhh yeah, terrible car! Don't know why I am even with this man!" - while making smiling eye contact with my husband, move closer to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 6 | How to make your man feel good in front of other guys/what NOT to do?Only if the jokes are at your mans expense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Recently discovered this sub, and having a really hard time disassembling the smart, "dominant" woman part of me.So much this. Acting humble is often just a technique to disarm the hostility people feel when faced with a threat to their egos (such as a smarter person). | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 09:09 AM |
| 8 | Pet names/terms of endearment?I call him a creep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Lies we tell ourselves: I don’t look my ageI'll be looking like 90 at 100 damn you! I think it was the little button nose and dimpled cheeks, mostly. And good skin. I used to not wear make-up (my husband claimed he didn't like it, and like an idiot, I believed him). Now all is headed south (sobs). | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How to get better at girl game?I think my husband would be pretty annoyed of I tried that, actually. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Lies we tell ourselves: I don’t look my ageThanks, I never knew! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 03:05 PM |
| 6 | My flatmate makes me doubt my ability to live with someoneRoommates should all just go on a nice, long sabbatical abroad. Or die. I hated roommates so much. Am happily married with kids now. You'll be fine. If he lives on his own before moving in together, he will have a better idea of what needs doing and can find his way there. He will appreciate all you do more. Don't despair if it starts out difficult, with the distribution of roles and tasks. Just register what needs doing, and if you can agree on how often, divide the way you are both happy with.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 02:04 PM |
| 10 | How to get better at girl game?Avoid the entire situation where sex could happen until you're sure he's smitten. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 11:30 AM |
| 7 | How to get better at girl game?"If "how to be a keeper" is an abstract idea to you, if you don't really know what it means to "be feminine", if you find yourself arguing with men instead of charming them, then you are not relationship-ready, and you need to be in monk mode, working on that, before you gamble on your relationship readiness." Yup. I once did a chem test and failed the aspect that was covered in chapter 7. So I went to my chem teacher and said "can you explain this to me?". He said "what don't you understand?". … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 09:47 AM |
| 4 | How to get better at girl game?Only if you can pull this off. Otherwise it just seems like you don't care. I couldn't disappear for a week if he forgot my birthday (I have a habit of reminding people, so that's a big crime). If that had happened, I would probably well up with tears next time I saw him and say "you forgot my birthday!" - more vulnerable. Bit creepy fairytale, by the way. Edit: I was a bit distracted when I replied to this, but I decided to come back on it. Because this approach - I actually really don't see ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 09:36 AM |
| 3 | I need advice on my house furnishingWhat other stuff and space do you have? Could you sit on pillows around the salon table? Maybe bar stools by the kitchen counter? Those trays on legs over laps on the couch? Maybe a desk? Foldable table? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Lies we tell ourselves: I don’t look my ageHow would you know if you had refluxing veins? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Lies we tell ourselves: I don’t look my ageI don't believe you. I used to be mistaken for younger up until very recently, and I don't think it was people trying to be nice. Examples of instances that weren't my idea of a compliment: Getting checked out for lump in breast. Standard procedure was first ultrasound, then mammogram if you're over 30. I was 32, ultrasound looked good and doctor was like "okay all good byebye". Didn't check out my info, just assumed I was younger. Had to come back when they were wrapping up the paperwork and no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 08:03 AM |
| 13 | how to cultivate a more positive and feminine demeanor?Body: practice in the mirror. Be honest with yourself, no false modesty - you can tell what movements and posture work for you. Thinking: keep a positive journal. You will train yourself naturally to come up with things to write down and thus focus on the bright side more. Personality traits: most of yours is anxiety/fear based. That doesn't count as personality, what's beneath must shine through. Manners are non-negotiatable. You don't have to feel nice about saying "thank you", it's not about … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"You inspired my next question! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Submissive behaviourThis is only good advice in certain situations and could easily be misinterpreted. Don't just play dumb. Only idiots dislike learning new things. Do let things go to avoid needless arguments. My intelligence is one of the most important things to my husband. It's great for being more interesting and entertaining, for following what he says, and for raising his kids. If I had played dumb, he would have been contemptuous of me. He wouldn't have felt understood, so he'd have been lonely with me. Bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"I think mostly it was just a relief for me that I wasn't alone down there, lol. We're very well matched sexually, my husband and I ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Where to look for continuing inspiration?I know the kind of harsh women you mean, they're not lady friends. They're just friends. Try a knitting circle or something, maybe a religious group? For days when a heel is impractical - how about ballet flats? Or maybe some Dubarry boots - classy but very practical. I get spit up and drool and breastmilk and poop and mud on my pretty much daily. I have a baby and a 5 year old (who loves being picked up even when he is wearing filthy boots). That's why I wear aprons by day. But I always wear a … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone"surrendered" finances as a newlywed?We never consciously made the transition. We started out as poor students, lived together. He once borrowed my card and lost it. We cancelled it and somehow it never happened that I ordered a new one. Almost all payments were automatic and there wasn't much else to spend anywah. He studied accountancy so when money started coming in, he managed it. He offered me my own account when the student one expired, but I was like meh, this works. He leaves some cash for me at home and while I make the me… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - March 02, 2019Haven't read the book, but an article on TRP about immersion. That would freak me out. Like, they talked about providing a fantasy scenario where your husband plays the naughty masseuse. Now I am all for a massage, but to feel like it is some other guy, I'd probably get a panic attack or something. I happen to be a very vivid dreamer - I can feel pain in dreams, sometimes get sleep paralysis, lucid dreams and lucid nightmares (lately one where I was being tortured to the point where despite know… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Homemakers, how did you start transforming your home?There is a going rate that differs in different places. Where I am from, 10 euro an hour is normal, good ones may get 15. They don't have to pay income taxes (exempt by law). SAHM entails a hell of a lot more than just the cleaning, though. The reason so many SAHMs barely manage the cleaning isn't because it's hard. Any idiot can do it (hence the low wages). It's because they put their kids first. Now childcare, thát's an underpaid profession. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"I considered this level 1, just kind of too obvious to make the thread go NSFW for lol! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Submissive behaviourEven just a strange man talking to you. Do you act cold and clutch your purse because he might be a criminal, or do you smile and act pleasant because he probably just wants some nice interaction? If you need to clutch your purse, don't even bother, just run. My cousin once broke her nose because she held on to her purse too tight while being robbed. Otherwise, just be nice. If he says nasty stuff, assume you misunderstood and give him a chance to explain and elaborate (by asking with curiosity,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How has RPW changed your appearance?https://youtu.be/2GuD_N-bgcc In case you need some help :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Identity Crisis (recently red pilled) (20F)LOL you just asked if my brother is red! I saw some Dutch in your comments, and have a brother with some unpopular opinions who I'm pretty sure is on reddit, is all. Edit: can't find it now, could have been someone else lol. Sorry! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How has RPW changed your appearance?I use one of these https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-home&source=hp&ei=b2eHXO6xEpHUwAL01brgDg&q=knot+rolband&oq=knot+rolband&gs_l=mobile-gws-wiz-hp.3...1352696.1355561..1356225...1.0..0.93.876.12......0....1.......5..35i39j0j46j0i203j0i10i203j33i160.Ctk9fK8QeGc#imgrc=F-XceTnNDlP9AM: in the same way (sorry for messy link) Don't heat it, but I put it in ever so slightly moist hair to make the curls last for days, or just dry hair to look pretty by evening. Righ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Homemakers, how did you start transforming your home?Get her to come daily during your first week or two post partum if you can. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 08:20 AM |
| 9 | Homemakers, how did you start transforming your home?Have you found a one-handed flossing technique I should be made aware of? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Identity Crisis (recently red pilled) (20F)A good christian still complains about persecution? Submission is (sexual or not) something very intimate and personal. I guess I am happy to have sex, but wouldn't be happy to be caught doing it - something like that. I don't see red pill as a religion at all. We're proud pagans. Edit: heb je post history gestalked, dacht ff dat je mijn broer was :-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 07:59 AM |
| 4 | Identity Crisis (recently red pilled) (20F)Maybe embarrassed, more like. Nothing is worse for a womans social status than admitting to anything that isn't strong and independent. I am not as hurt by it anymore, but it never goes away. I either have to fake a bit of toughness or people think I'm insipid, stupid, weak. One friend of my husband once told me he really respects housewives and all they do. I go all out now when he comes over. Support for anything traditionalish or just not feminist is so rare! And women are social creatures. W… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Need a hand in the looks departmentPotatoes are nightshades, too. That means fries as well. And chips. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Need a hand in the looks departmentI wish. Topvintage has some, but no much and not that pretty. If you find a good place that ships to Belgium let me know! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:07 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsOkay thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand the red pill mentalityIt is! Finally, some recognition on here. About time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | how could I dress more feminine when I'm always cold?Especially if you like nausea... | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 05:27 PM |
| 8 | How has RPW changed your appearance?It hasn't changed much. When I found this reddit, I was like "Ooh, about time... Some of the other girls caught on" I have been stupid and dysfunctional, but I have never really accepted the status quo. So RPW mostly just made me feel less of a weirdo. Actual changes I made because of the tips of women here: Ordered and read about 6 new books (some are waiting to be read still); take magnesium supplements; changed my kids bedtime routine; start my morning by making myself tea before all else; bo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Help me understand the red pill mentalityWhat kind of candy? I mean I once went to this award winning French chocolatier and they had these candied chocolate almonds, and I'll admit that was pretty spectacular, but have you tried a decent home-made granola? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Help me understand the red pill mentality;-p lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | how could I dress more feminine when I'm always cold?Get yourself some skintight skiing underwear (leggings and shirt), then top with skinny jeans and a fitted cashmere wool sweater instead of huge swampy stuff. Sorel boots. Merino wool socks. The skinny jeans themselves only because you like that style, because they are icy cold. Or put yourself in a vintage style swing dress and wear petticoats (petticoats are soooo warm, but they take some courage), skintight ski undershirt, a merino or cashmere cardigan and fleece lined leggings, merino socks … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Identity Crisis (recently red pilled) (20F)Thirded. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 02:30 PM |
| 6 | Is it wrong for me to prefer Betas and judge Alphas this way?I could be wrong. But maybe you feel like too much alpha means higher expectations than you can deliver on. And so you dismiss alphas because betas are easier. This one was just a douchebag though. Next. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 01:43 PM |
| 20 | Identity Crisis (recently red pilled) (20F)Going along with what society prescribes is a very feminine thing to do. When you are aware society doesn't nurture or even safeguard your femininity (because you are smarter than the rest), it takes some effort to not feel shame. Because you are so keenly aware of what is expected of you. You are still a bit submissive to contemporary culture. Hence the shame. Now that you are aware of your submissive nature, be smart and choose when and for whom to give in and submit. I feel terribly ashamed i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Need a hand in the looks departmentStart small! Make-up: some light-reflecting under-eye conceiler and a little bit of peachy cream blush. Blend well. You will look like you have no make-up on, but healthier. If you're comfy with that and want more, add a bit of tinted lipbalm (I like Burts Bees). Mascara. You can even out your skin with a BB cream or really get into foundation and all that. Eat healthy. Clean food does wonders for your looks. Exercise, even if you are at your perfect weight. It just makes you look and feel bette… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 12:57 PM |
| – | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?The trees fell on the road, not on his car. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:45 AM |
| 4 | Help me understand the red pill mentalityBut well-made granola is really tasty. Not at all boring! You should make it fresh though - toast some oats and nuts and seeds, add to your Greek yoghurt, then maybe add a little bit of dried or fresh fruits. Bit of honey if you've got a sweet tooth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Help me understand the red pill mentalityAll red pill teaches is that your job doesn't make you any more attractive to a man. But the character behind your ambition - you admire people and want to work for them - does. You're halfway there already with a mindset like that. Red pill doesn't teach women to stay home. It just points out how they can use their femininity in a good way, to achieve their goals and personal happiness. Lots of women prefer staying home, so RPW helps them reach that goal. Because it is their goal. You can be RP… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:23 AM |
| 12 | Is it wrong for me to prefer Betas and judge Alphas this way?100% this. And he is putting in so little effort (making it so obvious) it's frankly disrespectful. Even I could play you better than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:06 AM |
| 12 | Is it wrong for me to prefer Betas and judge Alphas this way?The whole alpha/beta thing is just a working model. Both more dominant/masculine men and more feminine/submissive types can be either incredibly loving and caring, or cold as ice ('nice guys'), or somewhere in between. I think you feel a bit threatened by too obvious alpha displays. And I think this guy has you right where he wants you. Dee da dee da dee dee doe doe... 🐹 He told you he is a douchebag. Believe him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Things land only after shit hits the fanGet yourself a journal, woman! List your daily wins and losses. And the things you should remember. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 06:50 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsWith all the info that is already freely available online, is the Lifechanging Magic of Tidying up book worth it? I already keep a tidy house and fold like a boss, but I do like reading and inspiration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Splitting costs for a vacation with your boyfriend?Good one! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Jealousy and the secret weapon against the forbidden fruit: honeyNo lack of honey on other days is implied. This is about dealing with your own feelings of jealousy and channeling them into something positive. "Just ignore" only works when you already feel confident. Otherwise it is suppressing your own emotion and that's risking them popping up in dysfunctional ways. I don't even want monogamy from my husband. But I do get annoyed at his ex (that he isn't interested in) trying to get his attention, because of the disrespect. So I deal with those feelings and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Things land only after shit hits the fanHe sounds like a smart man :-) So give us an update with your plans, and we can give you more feedback. You need it to be your plan, or you're just going to revert back to your bratty childhood mode of tuning out instruction. What do you think are some good things you can start by trying? How do you want to be? What kind of mother and wife? What example do you want to set for your kids? What are some changes you can make to get there? How can you divide those changes up into actionable baby step… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 10:52 AM |
| 30 | Splitting costs for a vacation with your boyfriend?You're being extremely silly. Often, women support their men while he invests in studies to better support their families later. These men are motivated by their pride to work harder, faster, to change that financial dynamic ASAP. If your goals and values align, who pays what now ought to be determined by who has most to spend. I have been in your situation once and paid for everything. Am currently a SAHM and my husband makes 6 figures. Since you brought it up, make it your gift for him. If he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How can I help my husband?True for me, too. Once with each baby I got fed up and wanted to escape it all. Cured it by going for a little walk alone: the nasty mood stayed, but the warm cuddly cozy stuff was missing. Always a relief to come back home and have that love again. He might need a bit longer to see sense, IDK. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Things land only after shit hits the fanYou're not getting any advice from me. Why? Because your problems are rooted in overparenting. Now you ask others what to do again? No. You're the parent now. You make a plan. Use your own brains for a change. You can do it. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Husband is changingThere is nothing effiminate about adopting the appropriate mannerisms to succeed at your job. Reframe his behavior in your mind like this: he went from coarse masculine to sophisticated. Compliment him for his masculinity if he shows even a little bit. Tell him you found him so sexy when he did X, then follow up with actions to prove it. Ask him to take you/teach you (masculine activity like rock climbing, rafting, shooting, whatever he likes). Be active with him until you can't keep up. If he i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How can I help my husband?Men get post-partum depression, too. Look into it. He could be newly red-pilled and a bit lost. Find him a male mentor if that is the case (maybe on married red pill?) Give him his space. The staying with his brother idea is a good one. Let him miss you guys. He might notice that the negative feeling he has projected on you guys is actually inside himself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:55 AM |
| 40 | How do you react when he upsets you?Was he by any chance trying dreadgame? Applied incorrectly that makes for terrible manners. I would do nothing and see how he fixes it. You are hurt, he knows it. Can he handle this? Keep vetting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:48 AM |
| 10 | Jealousy and the secret weapon against the forbidden fruit: honeyPeople around him might drop hints. Some men are just sloppy. I know one beta who had an affair for like 20 years then asked for his wifes help to get her to back off, pretending the mistress was just a pushy friend - and this was a highly educated fellow. He also invited mistress to family things like birthdays and took their daughter on a city trip for her graduation. Sick stuff. Guys I know who have trips with friends to those countries (Brazil, Thailand, etc) all cheat there. Zero exceptions… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Jealousy and the secret weapon against the forbidden fruit: honey;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:10 AM |
| 1 | A man won't leave you in the dark if he wants youFeel free, or just make a throwaway account. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick""you can learn to regard it as coming from an ignorant person who deserves your pity" From anxiety to compassion. That was very helpful. Thank you! Collective IQ can be beneficial, too: https://www.nbcnews.com/sciencemain/gamers-solve-molecular-puzzle-baffled-scientists-6C10402813 :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/19 08:08 AM |
| 17 | I broke up with tge love of my life, not sure if I did the right thing or notWhat a manipulative thing to say. Not true, almost everyone has had a broken heart at least once and got over it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"This makes so much sense. I just hate improvising. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Moving to a New CountyThe Germans are used to immigrants and their mastery of the English language is usually very good. In the Netherlands, a lot of official forms come in several languages now (including Polish), can any Germans present please confirm if this is true for Germany, too? German is also very similar to English, and should be easier to learn for him because he already learned a related language. Listen to some Rammstein, watch some German tv with him, and he will be fluent in no time. You may have to pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Moving to a New CountyI am simple woman. I see Finnish metal, I upvote. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 89 | Jealousy and the secret weapon against the forbidden fruit: honey"if he's flirting back and acting in poor form, that's your sign that he may not be a high quality mate after all, and it's time to move on." Yes! Even in non-monogamy situations, respect shown by appropriate social behavior is necessary. If he can't handle himself gracefully in public, that's a problem. To expand on this, I point it out to my husband when he doesn't notice the women who make fools of themselves. Because of this, he doesn't 'need' to prove anything to himself. I think some guys … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 04:31 PM |
| 5 | A man won't leave you in the dark if he wants youHave you ever asked him what his reasoning was? Do you know why it went from casual to very serious so suddenly? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 12:25 PM |
| 8 | A man won't leave you in the dark if he wants you'Cause the players gonna play play play play play! If someone acts like a jerk, odds are it is because they are, in fact, jerks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - February 23, 2019Just don't kill him, you'd regret that later on. If you survive, you're doing great. Post partum is the hardest time, try and get as many baby cuddles and nutrients and minutes of sleep as you can and hold on. If it didn't get better, you think anyone would have more than one kid? Or even just one, seeing how others struggle? One day you will probably look back and think - that was worth it, and I am willing to go through it again. Yes, for real. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/19 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - February 23, 2019I am just going to brag now. My boy will sit still silently working in his chess exercise book and raise his hand if he has a question for a whole hour at the chess club. At age five. This is a big deal because some lady told me the other day to get him assessed for ADHD. Grrrrr... And my whiny baby when offered the boob "do you want milk?", turned her head and said "want eat". And then happily ate the fruit I gave her! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Places to meet traditional guys?Can your family do some match making for you? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Where to look for continuing inspiration?There are so many options for feminine dress, though. It can be gowns, or cocktail dresses. Or flapper style. Or swing dresses fifties style. Or rockabilly shapehugging things. Or seventies flowing dresses. Or fitted ballet-style soft pyjamaish wear. Personally I love the fifties, www.topvintage.com (recently found out the also ship to the States). Find something less intimidating than a gown, but more feminine than usual. That makes you go "ooh that's pretty!" Perhaps a fifties style suit: busi… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend Can Hard to Argue/Discuss Constructively WithThe thing with my husband is he loves to have a discussion and wins every debate. So it's best not to bring anything that affects me into the ring :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 10:10 AM |
| 23 | A man won't leave you in the dark if he wants youBefore my husband said it, he was clearly more and more enthusiastic about talking to me every time. Conversation flowed more and more easily and got both more fun and light-hearted and more meaningful. The fun got funner, the deep stuff more intense. He shared and showed more and more of himself. I think there should be an upward movement in terms of fun and flow at least until a little after commitment, and one lesser date or conversation can be an exception, twice a warning sign, three times … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 10:08 AM |
| 4 | My bf's brother said some weird s*it at the dinner table...I disagree. My husband doesn't even notice negativity from his family anymore because it's so frequent. He doesn't react. But he does protect my emotional well-being. If he notices something hurts me, he will protect me, guide me in how to deal, or prevent it from happening. Engaging with a rude brother is just going to egg him on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 09:11 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsOr wrap it in bacon! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 09:08 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsYes, and clean way more often without scrubbing. I spray spray spray regularly, dry things off regularly, and wipe everything with a cleaning wipe about once a week (and just a bit here or there daily) and the actual scrubbing is reduced to once every few weeks. The more you hate it, the more often you should do it to avoid it becoming a big job. Do a big clean once to make it sparkly once and then just keep it up with lots of frequent wipes and sprays. I have a scrubber ducky (brush that looks … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Be still my manic hamsterSexual dysfunction is common among people from ultra relgious homes. Too much guilt and shame. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"Thanks for responding. I think the unwillingness to spread theory is more of a self-protection mechanism. I am loosening up here a bit because of positive feedback, but have had threats and hatemail and just plain bullying comments on other sites before. Even when I write a piece on cleaning habits here, I am pre-emptively flinching for the replies about me being obsessed or not having a life, and still surprised that they don't come. I worry about the feelings I have hurt, even knowing that the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 08:37 AM |
| 2 | My bf's brother said some weird s*it at the dinner table...This! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 01:40 AM |
| 3 | My bf's brother said some weird s*it at the dinner table..."Why would he be so rude" Because he is rude. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"Maybe women don't often dreadgame because there is no need? Men know that women can have many men in their beds if they want to. The pressure is there for them naturally. I might be tempted to remind my man of that if I felt he didn't appreciate what he has. In fact, just wearing a nice dress when going to the playground with the kids could be construed to be dreadgaming. Playground single dads are a thing. I think touching the right nerve with dreadgame is no different than putting on a pretty … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Wealth, education, and datingCan you find someone a bit more old money style? Not necessarily rich, but from that cultural background, maybe nobility? I have a feeling the empty trophee relationships thing is more of a flashy new money issue. Even impoverished nobility tend to not be so awkward around people with money. They're rare, but you only need one. Doesn't work in the US maybe. Is it possible to somehow communicate that your family has money, but you don't? Some rich people purposely don't give their kids trust fund… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | The Big BragIf you can make a birthday cake without being allowed to use ingredients, you must be some kind of sorceress! Wishing you an easy delivery!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The Big BragLol there are pills against seasickness though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"Didn't see that and couldn't make sense of the last part (lesson that most needs teaching... huh?). But the comment itself was just the inspiration for the post, I'm not worried about how the guys see our part of the community. Maybe I shouldn't have even mentioned it, many seem to focus on the whole TRP vs RPW thing anyway. I'm really just looking for next step material/info/ideas/inspiration. Like some women here are 50, surely they know stuff I don't, but am oblivious to? I like learning from… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 05:08 PM |
| 5 | I need y’all to slap some sense into me.Bring your captain your problem! Lonely/can't socialize with the other wifeys. Seems like there is an easy solution ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 4 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"I have manipulated and lied for his benefit a few times. It worked out beautifully. And he laughed when I confessed, later on. Example 1 - waaaay back he was drifting a bit and gained too much weight. His (fat) parents nagged us endlessly about it. One time his mother said he should just do a 180 and get back to normal. I later told him she believed he would just do a 180. And he did. It had such an effect, I think, because his parents were always so negative. The perceived faith in him meant a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 04:41 PM |
| 6 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"Oh I definitely don't want to be like the boys! But I do want to know if there is more to learn that I am unaware of. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 02:21 PM |
| 9 | RPW 101b: moving beyond "how hold fighting stick"Perhaps some subtle psychological manipulation can come handy to make marriage more than just 'bearable' for him? Maybe it's just me, but I find the interpersonal part of being a good wife the part where I keep growing (and need to) most. The cooking etc. are easy, but touching the right nerve to be, for example, encouraging instead of pedantic, is something that took a bit of practice. I'm aware social skills come more easily to others though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Nun mode for a month advice and feedbackThis is the actual inconvenient truth people should be talking about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 11 | Nun mode for a month advice and feedbackThe masters program and nun mode might not match. That can take up a lot of your time and thoughts. Maybe try masters plus exercise and sleep hygiene (to get rid of the stress), then therapy and driving plus the rest when you're finished. It seems like a 5 year plan is more something to look at after nun mode, when you have a better sense of yourself and where you are at. Moving out I would save for last. That is a whole new experience and can be costly and stressful. Good luck - take a breath -… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend Can Hard to Argue/Discuss Constructively WithAs per Laura Doyle, phrase complains as desires. Instead of complaining about him being late, say how you would love to be together ASAP! Be less in-your-face about things. Like him forgetting something that was meaningful to you, don't be all "why did you?!", be more like "that didn't work out how I hoped :/" and only elaborate if he asks. If not, let it go: these are small fries. I have a policy of sitting in things for a week. If I can remember them by then, I try to think of the most effecti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 07:43 AM |
| 2 | The Big Brag19% you are tight! And that menu sounds utterly delicious, I think I'm going to steal the entire idea from you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 07:26 AM |
| 2 | The Big BragWhoaaaaaa nice!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 07:09 AM |
| 3 | The Big BragAbsolutely, it's so valuable. The breastfeeding subreddit is really supportive by the way, should you run into issues (almost every mom does). | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Can your sex drive be too high?:-) You tease less, but respond happily to him. Stress less, let him tease you. And think less. Be in your body, not your mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 10:22 PM |
| 5 | The Big BragAll the oxytocin! There are laws here that employers should give you a certain amount of time per day to pump breastmilk if you're a nursing mom. But pumping just doesn't work as well or feel at all comfortable, so it is great that you'll be able to stay home during that time. Nursing moms sleep an average 15 minutes more than bottle feeders :-) And breastmilk adapts to kids health and sex and age. It's really amazing if you can give your kids that :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Can your sex drive be too high?I think he may be a bit like my husband. He's okay if I offer a bj, but any more initiating from my side he finds annoying and a bit of a turn-off. I am not sure if that is because he perceives it as slightly more dominant behavior or because I perceive it that way and he senses my discomfort with that. I used to sometimes try and be a certain way in the bedroom that doesn't come naturally to me. I guess I felt inadequate and like I'm supposed to be less subby. Never responded well to me trying … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragHaving support from his family is great! It took me years to melt my icequeen MIL a little bit, really great that you're welcomed into the family! And learning new skills as well! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The Big BragLovely ♡ That always makes me feel all warm inside! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The Big BragMe too, I love all you ladies and your positivity! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:13 PM |
| 4 | The Big Brag_^ he is! He has this dry humor, half the time people think he's serious when he's not because of his poker face and he seems intimidating... Makes it even funnier :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 6 | The Big BragThat is so wonderful! You know that is worth so much. I treasure every non-trainwreck relative we have and what they mean to our kids! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragStep 1. Have easy baby. My first would nurse and exercise all his limbs and sometimes detach to scream. Shouldn't have given him a warrior name ;-) My second is like a doll. I'm usually on reddit while I nurse her, she just drifts off... I can just prop her up with a pillow and have my hands free! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 07:08 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragYour FIL sounds like a keeper :-D | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 4 | The Big BragMy husband says I can't give you gold for this... ;-p | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | The Big BragI think you just woke up a couple of embroidery projects of mine... Hush! Let them rest! ;-) (Actually now I want to go do them, good way to rest and relax. I think I can manage with baby in rugby hold...) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:55 PM |
| 7 | The Big BragIf it's annoying you can put underpants on over them to keep them up and roleplay superwoman ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:52 PM |
| 4 | The Big BragIt's good girl take-out ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | The Big BragThat's awesome!!! Maybe time for a new dress :-p and definitely some leggings! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The Big BragOoh, nice! Have you ever been on a cruise? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The Big BragGoogle search "pinterest nailed it" right now!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 25 | The Big BragTo share my own... I read an article about this woman trying to be a fifties style housewife for a week. Her husband didn't even notice because she failed soooo horribly. It wasn't even with authentic touches, all she did was try not nagging, and cooking and cleaning. Anyway, when my husband made an honest housewife out of me (I had been housewifing before we married), he gave me a (fake) pearl necklace as a joke gift to symbolize my new status (plastic is forever!). So I forwarded him the artic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragYup. Less risky to try a pinterest cake (for the record, the magic 3 layer cake thing really works)! But so satisfying when it works out with meat :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The Big BragShe looks so happy!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:57 PM |
| 7 | The Big BragNothing says I love you like the hind end of a pig ;-) I don't know what it is about meat, but I get intimidated by it, too. Maybe because spoiling an animal seems more of waste... | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 6 | The Big BragI love this idea! What was your craft? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:33 PM |
| 5 | The Big BragI genuinely always thought snatch meant vagina and was so curious about your personal record. Now I'm just confused! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragIf you sent it in, that means it's on time! So great job :-D | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 3 | The Big BragIt's called beauty sleep ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 04:19 PM |
| 14 | The Big BragNow is the time to keep going!!! Nice :-) (I have never gotten up at 5 on purpose in my life lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Am I overreacting? (probably)Just be careful. I grew up with that kind of money too, and I knew a lot of kids like us who grew up never learning any grit. It can be very hard for people who come from that to depend on themselves instead of a trustfund. But it does sound like he is working on it, and for an adult to lack those skills is forgiveable if they never learned as a child, are aware of it, and willing to self-improve IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Is this weird or am I overreacting? Girl texting my fianceI think it depends a lot on her feelings. I happily point out that our pediatrician only wears that simpering smile when he is there, because I think it's funny and he enjoys the ego boost. But if there was an undertone if annoyance, anything more than mild insecurity, she could come across as jealous/possessive/controlling. Mild insecurity could come across as cute/vulnerable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Places to meet traditional guys?I think the clothing store thing is a bit of a long shot. Kinda lika traveling nowhere first class in the hopes of a business man. They'll be preoccupied with other stuff. You want to do something fun and multitask that with meeting men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Having male friends"you are probably emasculating him in order to keep him in his "place" in your life. " How so? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Am I overreacting? (probably)Listen to the strangers on the internet this time. You're only with him because you don't know anything else. This would only work if you enjoy a mommy role and you can keep him in check. The RPW endorsed captain-first mate dynamic doesn't work with a toddler for a captain. Your standards are ridiculously low. Even without this incident... The man makes his parents do his money affairs. What?! My 5 year old has better finance skills - literally. He can go to the toy shop with a bag full of money… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 08:29 AM |
| 2 | I find it so difficult to make a man fall in love with me.....because I can not control my sexual urges.LOL! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/19 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Tips for looking pretty and put together as a SAHM pleaseMy baby sits in a bouncy seat to watch me shower, toddlers get bath crayons and sit on the shower floor, older kids can just play by themselves. Naps and evenings are for relaxing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/19 06:22 PM |
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