Opinion on threesomes?

LuckyLittleStar · 2018-11-28T06:45:29+00:00

This is not a space to poll women about their opinion of men.

girlwithabike · 2018-11-27T19:58:37+00:00

Are you asking us what you should think about a particular boy?

It matters if it matters to you. It does not matter if it does not matter to you.

It's indicative of a man that women desire enough to do "crazy" sex things for. That doesn't mean he's a good man, just that he's desirable enough to get a threesome (or in the right place at the right time).

Just like two partnered sex, threesomes can happen in a variety of ways with differing outcomes. Just saying "he had a threesome" doesn't tell you much of value, unless you are someone who finds casual sex distasteful. In that case it tells you that you have different and potentially non-compatible ideas about sex.

Personally I am indifferent towards it. I find it neither and appealing nor an off putting quality in a man.

AnarchoNAP · 2018-11-28T00:26:55+00:00

Depends on how much he’s changed since then. If he’s still having threesomes then I think its clear that he’s not looking for the same thing as this group.

Zegiknie · 2018-11-27T19:36:42+00:00

IMO it's irrelevant.

JanuaryArya · 2018-11-27T20:27:42+00:00

I’ve had threesomes with boyfriend. Three actually. I’ve had threesomes in the past as well, so it wasn’t a major bridge for me to cross.

I’m not saying that you “owe” your current partner every sexual act you’ve done with someone else.

I’ve heard RP men say not to wife someone who does threesomes. But I’ve also heard them complain about women who’ve done threesomes in the past but won’t do it now.

My advice is to carefully consider the consequences of being sexual in that way, but if it’s something you (and your partner want) then each person should authentically consent. It helps to avoid regret. (Though nothing is perfect, having a threesome requires a lot of communication and a leap of faith)

I come to RPW more often to learn than to comment. And I’m not married, don’t quite share all the same values, but I wanted to add my 2 cents to this.

I know my account is only 5 days old, but I’m active with other user names. I’ve been in a LTR for 6 years, Swallowed the pill five years ago.

Title	Opinion on threesomes?
Author	mebutnotreally2
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	November 27, 2018 7:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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