RPW Dating Tips

Kara__El · 2019-12-21T18:33:44+00:00

Well, I'd suggest you ignore the coming comments against online dating. Many of us met our husbands online and anyone who has dated recently knows it's ubiquitous at this point, if you're out of college. That being said, if you are in school, don't pass up the many chances you have to meet like minded men your age organically. You'll never have them again.

As for profiles, I think the best advice is to keep it brief and positive. Keep in mind that your profile is one of many and no one wants to read a novel. Share what you offer and what you're looking for, instead of venting about what you don't want.

Include honest photos, at least one full body, all of them taken within the last three months. If you wouldn't wear that outfit in this weather, the photo isn't current. Don't post photos with other people. No one wants to play Where's Waldo.

If you have conservative values and want to stay home with your children, share information that reflects that, as opposed to saying so verbatim. Talk about how you like to knit, are involved with your church, love children or how you're teaching yourself to cook. "I want to marry young and stay home" sounds daunting at best and golddigging at worst. Get to know a guy over a couple of drinks before sharing.

Meet quickly, as soon as you feel safe. Most men won't be the guy for you, so it's best to find out quickly, if you're not compatible... and that's okay! There's nothing wrong with you, just because you're not someone's cup of tea.

Read Marry Him: the Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. You're dating people, not fictional characters. They have flaws, as do you.

szsunshine · 2019-12-22T01:36:40+00:00

There is a woman who has a you tube video on how she used data analysis to maximize her OLD profile. She made her photos fun and flirty and glamorous (but not too sexy) and also used words like “laugh, fun.” Basically she was very fun and feminine and light in her profile. However, she was also a smart woman and did not hide who she is.

2019-12-21T18:45:25+00:00

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fairishvanilla · 2019-12-21T23:15:34+00:00

I hope people will correct me here, since I’m still learning and haven’t dated all that much.

But, did you hint that it’s too early for sexual comments? Of course some guys will do it anyway, but I’ve found a small hint seems to help some guys switch them off. As long as it’s not critical or judgmental. Some apologize then ask you out on a date. It’s like they switch their mindset.

Title	RPW Dating Tips
Author	biancamuyis
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Date	December 21, 2019 4:46 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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