I ( 20F) started to have a friend (22F) one year ago. We also have friends in common , they are all males and we are the only women in this group.( Im new in this group) I used to love talking to her because she gave me this sorority vibe so I kept my guard down when we were talking about men.

We love to laugh about guys in general and even guys from the group. It’s never in a mean way it’s just very funny. One day we happened to talk about a guy from the group and how cute he is. I also talked about him like her. For me it was funny because I’m seeing this guy as a big brother. Hes literally the type of men that give me a safe vibe.

Today she told that she asked to one the guys in the group if the guy in question has something with me ? They obviously said no. For the first time of my life I felt betrayed and I felt bad. It was unnecessary rejection and I still don’t understand why she did that. I also don’t understand why she said that to me. I feel heartbroken it’s strange, I even cried a little bit.

I don’t know why I feel bad. I don’t know why she did that ?

Thank you in advance , have a nice day