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A general question regarding sexual partners....

Pornography_saves_li

August 13, 2015
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Title A general question regarding sexual partners....
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Pornography_saves_li

Upvotes 0
Comments 21
Date August 13, 2015 4:06 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
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[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

delete this post. askTRP is that way ===>

[–]Pornography_saves_li[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My intention isnt simply to ask a number, but get a sense of what men deal with. Ive been hearing these stats for years, without a way to put them in context. If you believe that srt of conversation belongs elsewhere, so be it.

[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sadly asktrp mostly is answered by n00bs which automatically degrades the purpose of using asktrp & theredpill completely.

I ignore asktrp because it's become worthless. I wish I could respond to you but your post was erased and I have no cached copy.

[–]NotUpToAnythingGood2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For me, it was just one partner until Feb 2012. Since then, I'm up to 13. I've been steadily applying RP principles and improving myself.

Each of us is a different story and the context of our successes (or lack thereof) are wildly divergent.

[–]greenpegatlas2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The life time average is misleading as you need to account for aging and cohort effects. Best thing to do is look at the here and now. And I think the most relevant comparison metric is number of different partners in the last 12 months for people not in a LTR.

Looking at 18-42 year olds, never married, not currently defacto, never had sex with men: median last 12 months is 1, top 20% is 3+, top 1% is 15+. No effect of age at all within this cohort.

If you are still interested in life time partners: of those meeting the inclusion criteria above: 23.8% of 18-22 year olds, 44.0% of 23-27 year olds, 59.4% of 28-32 year olds, 60.8% of 33-37 year olds; 58.3% of 38-42 year olds have 7 or more lifetime partners. Need to keep but in mind the proportion of the population meeting the inclusion criteria diminishes with age though. If you examine all exclusively behaviourally heterosexual men, independent of relationship status, its 24.3% by 23, 42.3% by 28, 49.8% by 33, 54.0% by 38, and 55.8% by 43.

(all numbers quotes are based on really quick tabulations of the NSFG 2011-2013).

[–]SleepNowMyThrowaway1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

46 here, married 12 years, total 14, two virgins (including the wife).

[–]KilluaKanmuru1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Apparently it depends on your SMV. low SMV= the Sahara

[–]Pornography_saves_li[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I actually dont think the correlation is that clear cut. For instance, i was a virgin at 18, out of my first relationship (of any sort) at 20, and by 22 had racked up over 100 partners. Did my SMV change over that time? Additionally, the very first time in mh life i asked out a woman 'officially' was after my divorce. So basically, all those encounters were me being propositioned.

One of the big things the manosphere has shown me, personally, is that i am my own worst enemy. As in, i got in my own way, for years, because i didnt understand. If most men only sleep with 7 women in their lives, i suggest most men are far more ignorant than even i was.

At any rate, people think this doesnt belong here, so moot points all, really.

[–]KilluaKanmuru0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Your SMV could have changed and are you claiming that your SMV was low while racking up that number?

[–]Pornography_saves_li[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Actually, my point was more along the lines of 'i dont know'. Did/do i have high or low SMV? I have no idea. The rapid rise could have been anything from high smv to just picking up on signals better (im artsy, and more 'emotional' than most guys, thus read body language a bit better than most).

[–]KilluaKanmuru0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You sound like a natural. What obstacles did you overcome within yourself to sleep with so many women?

[–]Pornography_saves_li[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mostly just accepting the interest was there, instead of in my mind. Learning the IOI's helped in that regard, and silly as it sounds, improvement in my self regard helped as well. Also, beer. Lots of beer.

[–]creepyguy130 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've had five since the beginning of this year and what's your number.

[–]LibertarianLibertine0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The 7 lifetime partners is low. Due to the poll taking into account the older generations that didnt usually sleep around as much as is common now.

[–]Dustin_Bromain0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit. Well I have exactly 7 and I'm also 22. I've only recently found TRP and I'm in monk mode. Hopefully I can get my count up soon.

[–]bustanutmeow0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I couldnt give you a solid number if you held a gun to my head. But my best calculation is 50+

[–]1OneRedYear0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Late 30s here. 50 plus. I've lost count. I'm short and average in every way. I just try. Also loose women in college and the club scene ran up the board.

[–]nantucketghost0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

deleted What is this?

[–]ModRedSovereign0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Post questions to /r/asktrp.

[–]GarrusShotFirst0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not including prostitutes - 33, 2 LTR's (1 was 2 years, I cheated constantly, lol, the other was 1 year, cheated 3 times) about 5 were what I'd call I was dating or a "Girlfriend" the rest were pickups and one night stands/FWBs.

Prostitutes included, gotta be close to 50.

I'm 26 BTW if that matters.

[–]JustApproach1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It really depends on tour SMV, geographic location, age, income, status, height, ethnicity, weight, tone of voice, experience etc.... asking people for their numbers of sexual partners on the internet is going to get you unreliable data because people want to seems cool and protect their ego's.

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