A Married Man's journey

divorcedbp · 2015-07-08T13:24:53+00:00

One sticking point. You weren't raised by a single mother, you were raised by a widow. 'Single Mother', to me, means divorced. Since women initiate 60%-90% of divorces, their circumstances are entirely of their own creation and I feel no pity or respect for them.

Your mother in all likelihood shared little to no traits in common with the typical 'single mother'.

mkopec · 2015-07-08T17:52:30+00:00

Thanks for your service, bro.

Jaghiro · 2015-07-09T11:33:56+00:00

I was used and abused from 14-18 because even then girls aren't quite as dumb as we so often take them for.

Amen brother. My cousin is about 14 years old. She looks like 17, is really sporty and intelligent and has many beta orbiter already.

I dont know if she already had sex and I don't really care, but she said to me "I like to use these boys, they do what I want if I can give them the right feel"

I just laught when she said that to me.

GayLubeOil · 2015-07-08T23:03:02+00:00

For when ye speaketh the name GayLubeoil, the clouds part the light shines through and the great one gazes upon you.

In all seriousness if you want to succeed on TRP provide content that is both useful and entertaining to 20 year old college dudes. It sounds like you had a difficult life and have a lot of experiences to share. But those experiences need to be presented in a fun way. Colorful experiences from the Marine Corp are probably a good start especially if they can teach the intricacies of power dynamics or organizational politics.

pirateninj4 · 2015-07-08T12:48:11+00:00

Everything right up to the part where you came home and owned it is a play by play of my first 20 or so years alive. Kudos to you man for figuring it out early on. It'll make it a lot easier to maintain that throughout your relationship.

There's definitely room in TRP for married theory, god knows it'll add some diversity to the threads you'll see most.

Welcome!

AureliusThunderkok · 2015-07-08T14:03:46+00:00

Without endorsing the motives of those who sent you, I thank you for your service.

ISODAK · 2015-07-08T20:51:14+00:00

To those saying "thank you for your service", aren't we in TRP a little wiser than that?

Service happens when the consumer voluntarily exchanges their money for expected value of the goods or services. Mechanics, waitresses, cooks, etc... these people serve me, and I willingly pay them.

Am I offered the option of paying for military "service"? No. Do they provide any benefit to me? Considering there are no threats to US soil, no. You could argue some minor indirect benefits, but you could also argue indirect harm in that US military action overseas fuels anger against us.

So if a profession provides little/no benefit, costs a ton (US spends 3x more on military than #2 China), and payment is not voluntary, how can it be called service? Call it for what it is.

Sorry you got duped at my expense. Glad you got some good out of it.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-07-08T15:13:44+00:00

My father died too when I was in my teens.

Authentic widows with actual husbands that literally died tend to still be down to earth traditional women. Over time they gradually degenerate and catch up with the overall culture, but they are much better mom's that divorced mom's who have accelerated degeneracy.

So be thankful your mother was a widow.

forevereighty9 · 2015-07-08T16:05:13+00:00

Wow man. Good for you on every part. I would love to see more posts from you. I too needed to learn to distinguish what I like and enjoy from here and be my own man. I prefer a LTR and to want marriage one day. I know with the skills and ideals from here I can make sure I steer my ship with my woman.

Title	A Married Man's journey
Author	Thorgusta
Upvotes	9
Comments	25
Date	July 8, 2015 11:49 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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