Intentions. Everyone has them. The majority of people overwhelmingly think their intentions are well intended. Most probably are.

So why are there so many issues that arise in interactions with women when most men almost never intend to cause problems by something they say or do?

It's often a natural response for a man to explain what his intentions were when he runs into a problem with either his plate or his girl. Most of you probably already know this doesn't really work. It will almost indefinitely elevate the problem in her mind and even if you are able to talk it away she will be left feeling an element of disappointment with you regardless.

You see, we overwhelmingly think with the reason and logic side of our brains. A mature man will take into account the intentions of an offender and more times than not forgive them and move on from it. This is why men never really hold grudges against their friends or really people in general. Once it is resolved it is forgotten and the slate is clean. I don't even need to explain that women are the complete opposite of this approach.

This is the conundrum that fools and puzzles many a men with little experience with women. Usually to their detriment. However, it is a rather simple understanding that will completely change the way you interact with a woman for the positive. Once you recognize it legitimately your entire success rate will change drastically.

Women think with emotion. Surprise. Surprise. Your reason and logic and most importantly intentions do not matter in any way to a woman. What matters to them is the way it made them feel. Right or wrong is irrelevant and if you ever feel the need and more often pride to prove your innocence you really are just one step away from losing your attractiveness to them. And yet it is so incredibly simple to solve this by a mere acknowledgment of what they're feeling.

Now I'm not advocating bending over and apologizing profusely. I'm simply saying recognizing this will teach you when to keep your mouth shut, listen, and say the most minimal thing you could possibly say. "I understand".

Keeping frame is ultimately about controlling your response to when a situation or problem arises. The less you say the more is actually said. I emphasize she WILL respect you more for not explaining yourself. If she asks you directly why you did something then have at it. But more times than not she will not. She's simply doing a tribute to her favorite pastime. Venting. About you. To you.

Now to the second part and caveat of you saying you understand. While that will almost always quell her momentary irrational mindset sometimes it will not be enough for her to completely drop it. Men, in general, and especially in TRP have an almost equally irrational fear of saying I'm sorry. It's the ultimate defeat for many. I tell you this today, however, that how you say it can keep your integrity and more importantly your frame still soundly intact.

If it's a stupid pointless thing like you scared her unintentionally or you fucked up on forgetting something and she's upset just fucking say it. Say I'm sorry baby, pull her into you and smack or grab her ass firmly but gently. It's not worth the battle and her response will be palpable in the positive. As in her panties will get wet even if she doesn't show it.

If it's something bigger. Something she's being unreasonable about and won't drop. Once again. Don't explain unless asked. Say you understand how it made her feel and that you're sorry that she feels that way about it or you. Don't put the sorry onto you but that you're sorry her emotional state is happening. That's an important distinction. Lastly, be a man. If you actually fucked up. Just own it. Own it through a genuine apology. She will not all of a sudden walk all over you because she caught you red handed. She will actually respect you for not being a little boy about it.

Now what I say here in this post seems obvious. But if the majority of you really think about it most are probably not abiding by these incredibly simple guidelines. The woman you're interacting with really does not give two shits about your intentions. All they care about is how you make them feel. Emotionally. This is why things like don't buy expensive gifts for a woman is part of RP philosophy. The only emotional state that matters to a woman is in the moment. Your expensive gift will not matter at all once her next emotional state comes around so please, don't waste your money. The only caveat to that is if the gift is related to something she holds emotionally dear that she'll revisit often. Like building a doghouse for her dog or some shit like that.

The recognition of that momentary emotional state is your best friend with keeping frame. You will not react anymore if you see that you're only one experience away from her once again treating you like a King. Saying the least you can and simply acknowledging how she feels will provide you with immense respect from her and as a result a sexual desire for you.

TL;DR: Women really don't give a shit about your intentions. Positive or negative. The emotional state they're in at the moment is all that matters. Do your frame a solid and stop trying to explain away what she's upset with you about.