TL/DR: Girls can put you in both boxes at the same time. The hamster will do gymnastics if you hit the sweet spot.

I successfully seduced and nailed a friend of my (female) cousin back in '14, lets name her Jill. Jill was Asian, a former beauty pagent queen, and I'll say HB8. We had a little serendipity work in our favor, met one time when 16 then again at 25. She had never been with a white guy, and also I think it was a forbidden thing in her mind, because I was part of this family she had grown up around, but I was the exotic outsider , being a distant cousin from another part of the country.

Long story short, it never went anywhere after the lay probably because she was seeing a dude already, and also because I think my cousin convinced her to cut it off if I wasn't long term material in her head (sabotage sisterhood). Fast forward to last week...I have no social media but Linkedin, she starts visiting my profile, writes me a message, so I decide to open that can of worms.
We open the line of communication (but live like 150 miles apart) and she starts saying shit like "you're dangerous" "when I'm around you all judgment goes out the window" "the girl your with must be head over heels for you" . All good signs, also she's trying to get me to help her justify cheating on her bf, who she lives with. Pretty fucking depraved if you ask me, and i'm not a low-life looking to fuck shit up for a little side action.

So I basically am willing to take a loss and she admits she's always wondered about me being "the one" or whatever. And then comes the beta bucks drivel: "Can't it be like the deals they make on TV" "If i'm 35 and still single THEN we'll have our shot", etc etc...absolute BB territory.

Moral of the story, girls will turn an AF into a BB and mentally branch swing between the two as their emotions feel the need.