Do you want to be the life of the party ?

Do you want to be the cool guy in the room ?

Then you have to be JOSEF.

JOSEF stands for:

Joking

Observant

Smirker

Entertainer

Flirty

Let me explain briefly why those traits are that important.

Joking

Everyone wants to laugh, to feel the good vibes.

If you are a person who radiates positivity you are perceived as someone worth to be around to.

Life is meant to be playful and you can be the one that makes it fun for others as well as for yourself.

Observant

Being observant leads to greater conversations.

Ditch the boring talk and observe your environment to make associations that enrich your conversations.

Tell a good story, have an opinion about what surrounds you.

Smirker

Smiling too much can be perceived as goofy.

While smiling can be good as it provides warm feelings to the people you interact with, taking it to the extreme is perceived as you being needy for seeking approval from others.

Balance smiling with smirking: it comes off as cool and sexy.

Entertainer

When people get too serious release the tension with some fun.

People appreciate someone having a witty humour that makes them feel like life isn't meant to be taken so seriously.

Be the source of fun and good times.

Flirty

Flirt with everyone.

Make them feel good about themselves and tease them a little bit.

I made this post short because I wanted to get straight to the point.

Test this yourself and see what happens.

This is an art so refine your skill until you are the master of social interactions.