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Thanks for your insights on how to wank properly.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:14 AM
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No, when you can't do something you don't half ass it and settle for a lesser reward; you keep trying and stop being a bitch about this and you take the full reward.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:12 AM
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No point, girls and financial success is only for the good looking guys as history showed countless time, get out of here.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:06 AM
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Why are you throwing tantrums with everybody you look like a kid.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:17 AM
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This isn't gaining knowledge, it's endlessly theoryzing what will or could happen and you'll do about it, without acting.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:16 AM
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Working 40+hrs/week in your passion is no slavery, it's a gift.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 10:32 PM
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Thats not gonna happen, we need those things if people drop all the dopamine heavy stuff tomorrow then we will face the biggest crisis ever. You can't save everyone and you need to use some people so that you can rise.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 10:25 PM
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Addicts can only know they're addicted when they stop not when they abuse something. This means you're craving easy dopamine that you used to get by gaming. There's no dopamine addiction as you say it, because we are naturally programmed to seek dopamine the thing we are addicted to are the easy ways to get some dopamine. You could drop videogames or not but it all depends on your vision, if you want to do great things (and by that I mean the kind of things people would tell you you could never …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 10:23 PM
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Your post and answers seem to carry a lot of rationalization, you're talking harshly about the no fap community that seem to be trapped into rules and dont want to change their view but as a popular saying suggest it, when you're blaming someone for something make sure you don't have the same flaws they have. People tell you to do it and you come with answers like "but what if you're x and do y already". Only yourself can judge if it's worth it or not for you, so do it, go for the full 90 days o…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:46 PM
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Being disciplined is not being a sheep, you can be disciplined and follow your own will or you could be disciplined and follow someone else's orders blindly. In both cases your efficiency will go up but there's no correlation between discipline and cult like thinking. I'd argue its the opposite in fact, if im able to do everything I want and complete the hardest tasks given to me, why would I have someone else lead me and reap the rewards ? Discipline is good and the men that shaped the world we…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:55 AM
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Thanks, burning out due to doing too much does ring a bell indeed. Glad you took the time to answer.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:15 AM
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Nice post, but how do you manage to find that balance ? I've tried to balance school, gym, gaming and my passion for coding for months now but everytime it fails and I go through a rollercoaster of high productivity followed by periods of intense gaming and porn binges. The only thing I have been able to put into my life for good is lifting 3x/week, I dont think I've missed more than 5 workouts since december. I really want to get to the next level and this rollercoaster is killing me, but someh…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 10:55 PM
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You can do all of that for girls, but remember one thing ; if you don't get them you'll be unhappy. That's why you feel like shit right now, you're fixated on girls. If you don't have girls in your life right now you have bigger problems then. Work on creating a social circle and becoming the leader, work on your career, create a business maybe ect... What trp teaches mainly is that girls are attracted by high value men, so get those muscles, money, social value, hobbies ect...
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:10 AM
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Your future is based on women 100%. Reading you It's like all your ambitions exist so you can have women. Make a real plan about what you would like to do in your life (Location, job, hobbies anything) and do it as if women didn't exist. When you get a full picture of the life you want , make a plan to get there, then each time a bitch comes around grab her by the pussy.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:13 PM
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You chose that pain the moment you kept reading TRP when everybody on the internet told you it was pure cancer. It might or might not get easier, we might all be lying to you, maybe you were destined to stay miserable your whole life. Winning isn't always the goal of fighting, after some time working on improving yourself you will notice that there's no going back, no matter how hard it gets or how lonely you are, the short high that gives any drug in the world won't be enough to make you forget…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:09 PM
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Anyone who lived in Asia can talk about life in the country they were living in ? Never travelled there, would like to know how life in Asia is different from life in Europe, don't really want to lose that lifestyle
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 06:55 PM
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What if your father is BP af though, should you still respect and take advice ? Personally I think respecting him publicly but not applying advice would be best in this context.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:08 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:08 AM
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Np man, I'm here if you have any question.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:36 AM
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Yeah pretty much, no matter how good you are at controlling people, and at dread game sometime in the future she'll go, or she'll stay and it will make you both miserable. It's just your turn to be with her, when your turn is over, remember the good times and try to make it even better with the next one. Also don't get oneitis or you'll be screwed big time.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 06:35 PM
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I've been following red pill for a year, lifting, fapping way less, lifting 3x/week, shedding away tons of fat, putting on muscles, improving style, finding my passion and being more and more outgoing towards girls. I've seen a lot of progress but sometimes at night I still feel like I'm worthless and alone. Do you know why ? Because I am, and you are too, your brain is telling you that you did good things but you are late, you should have done those things way earlier, so now you better not giv…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:43 PM
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You thinking if the situation is okay or not is not rp. Get more bitches and if the situation is okay or not won't even matter to you.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:29 PM
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this it snowballs quite faster than you think and soon it becomes second nature to do that. If you really struggle add a reward you really like after each session and in a month it will become a habit then you can cut off the reward.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:56 PM
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Force yourself to do it and it will become automatic. This shit is said over and over and I thought it was just something said to force you to do shit at first. But when I started lifting, I half assed it a lot, One week i'd go 1 time, another 3, and another I wouldn't even go. Then one day I said fuck it I'm going to the gym 3x/week on monday, wednesday and friday right after school. It sucked for around 2 weeks then at the 3rd it kinda became natural for me to go the gym. Force yourself to do …
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:53 PM
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Was more of a joke than an advice, found the situation pretty ironic.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 10:45 PM
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Self respect is something that takes time, it's basically putting reals over feels most of the time (Going to the gym instead of staying in bed, approaching instead of staying alone...) To develop that thing you need to have a vision of the man you want to be, and for each action ask yourself if the man you want to be would do that. But then that raises another skill that you might lack as well, not lying to yourself. Tl;dr : It takes time, try it, fail a lot and with some time it will sink, don…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 08:24 PM
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That woman is more RP than most of the guys I know lmao.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:24 PM
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Np mate, pm me if you need something.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:16 PM
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For real a member of TRP asking how to not get laid ? Buy her flowers and ask her out for dinner, tell them you want to marry her. I mean it's not THAT hard to drive a girl away is it ?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:23 PM
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Alcohol withdrawal can lead to pretty serious side effects, it's not just like stop smoking or no fapping.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:18 PM
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I don't think you've completely understood the concept of the alpha male, you should re-read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:14 PM
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On point, same with people at the gym really, those big guys are pretty friendly, they know the struggle and a lot of them are willing to help. Not losing anything by asking anyway.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:13 PM
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Actually I don't think judging people based on their looks is shallow. You can learn a lot more about looking at someone, their clothes, their body, the way they walk, than in a long talk where he/she's going to hide information from you. This is why we dress good, lift, eat well ect.. Our body is a reflection of our mind. And that comment on people being shallow seems like what a woman from fat acceptance movement would say.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:10 PM
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Months ago I entered the gym as a fatty. Yesterday I went out as a skinny fat. In a year I'll be getting out ripped. Did people judged me when they saw that fat kid who couldn't even do a single push up struggling just to maintain good form with 15kgs deadlifts ? Did they look at me wrong when I tried training my arms and my left arm couldn't even lift 6kgs without shaking ? Did they stop me when I tried the squatting rack for the first time when I didn't even have the knowledge required to make…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:04 PM
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Don't really understand the point of saying that, what's gone is gone better look ahead. Too many people on TRP that can't stop looking at their past already, they don't need that. Althought it is very true.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:45 PM
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Easier said than done sadly, how do you draw the line ?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:38 PM
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Can relate to that, found two friends I hadn't seen in 4 years, we were pretty tight back then. Turns out I was bored the whole night, didn't say a fucking word because they were next level bluepill and frankly pathetic. Only time we laughed was after I smoked weed. Just as with exes, don't try to salvage broken goods, move on, reality will never be as pleasant as your memories.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:31 PM
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Wasted time and energy ? Let me tell you that for too long I've been wasting time and saving energy sitting on my ass and hoping that one day things will get better. Then I started lifting and dieting and put in some basic level of game. I have learned through this year here on TRP to like the struggle and the challenges and to want more and more. Women notice me more, talk to me more, and as a result I have more success yes, but I still get turned down a lot because of my face and height and st…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:37 PM
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Inb4 he gets shamed for "not loving his kid for what he is".
/r/askTRP15/11/16 07:47 PM
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What do you mean ? Carefully planning my moves before acting ?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:00 PM
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Hope one day I can attain that level of wisdom and not give a fuck at all, until then let's get back to work.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 12:06 PM
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Get back to it with everything you have. Depression is an interesting state, either you give up and die (live a miserable life or literal death) or you pull yourself together and the pain you have in you will fuel yourself so much that you'll be able to make drastic changes for the better. So to me you need to get into a state where you can pull yourself together, acknowledge the fact that emotions are not yourself, just something you feel that will eventually go, just like pain.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:10 PM
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Nice reading, are you happy ? Do you think you would have been happier if you chose a different path ?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 05:12 PM
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Yeah can relate to the thing about feeling good while not having done anything, when I wanted to lose weight i'd spend hours looking for the best exercises and the best diet while not doing much. However when I understood that doing something not optimal is better than doing nothing I started losing weight really quickly and durably and was able to push through plateaus. Action > Knowledge.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:57 PM
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Thanks for the answer. I'll be sure to apply those advices.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:39 PM
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Relapsed yesterday before writing my post. I came to a different conclusion after thinking about it for an hour in bed, I only relapse when there's nothing to do, I DO get urges sometimes when i'm working or at the gym but I never relapse because my mind is occupied. As others pointed out I think keeping yourself busy and meditating are the two main things needed. A blocker is nice as well, installed k9 personally but I know that if i want porn I'll find a way to get it so the blocker is just a …
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:37 PM
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Thanks for the enlightenment on meditation, was looking to get into it, will read the book today.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:29 PM
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Really great advice, came to the same conclusion yesterday, everythings fine but it keeps going down when I sit in my room doing nothing but thinking about the pain. Made a planning for each day, filled every hole with schoolwork, gym and programming. Even giving me a nice 1 hour of deserved gaming to unwind after the day. Sure it's gonna get better, thanks !
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:23 PM
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Will look into that thanks.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 02:00 AM
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Yeah i don't plan on bulking if I can't see my abs yet. I'll do what you said, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 05:55 PM
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Great post, but isn't a plateau a sign you need to change something ? I've lost 20kgs by cutting 500calories for about a year and now I can't really drop more fat, i'm skinny fat and want to get ripped but the fat isn't melting ar all. I've read somewhere that it was because i've fucked up my metabolism by cutting for almost a year and that I should first go back to my daily caloric needs and keep strenght training and fat should go down as well as muscle up. Anyone has some thoughts on that ? E…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:02 AM
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You mean you can't withstand being alone for a couple of hours ?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:36 PM
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Find people, talk to them, get rejected for being awkward, repeat until you found friends. Just be prepared to feel uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:43 PM
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When I fail a day I like to chill out, pop a beer and a cigarette and relax thinking about why I failed and remembering why i'm doing this. I also plan out my next day which will be lived 110%. Failing one day is okay, just chill and relax, failling multiple days in a row is very bad and you should stop and change your way of living.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 09:39 PM
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Thanks for all your answers it was a great help !
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:53 PM
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That looks like something interesting i'll try it thanks !
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:53 PM
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No pasta, same rule for rice then ?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:44 AM
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Yeah I get it, thanks. I guess you can't change everithing at once and focusing too much on not being taken advantage of made me boring. But well i'm happy, next time i'll definetely won't be taken advantage of and i'll have some fun ! Making errors and improving later is part of the fun and the road heh.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:31 AM
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idk, lift, eat well, sleep well, drink plenty of water, have a passion, have fun. Drop all your distractions for some time and focus 100% on your passion you will feel better maybe.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:04 PM
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Japanese snaggletooth Wow a lot less creepy than the stuff I found before haha.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 07:19 AM
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You don't have to be bad, why would you purposedly be bad to people ? Be selfish for sure, but still give plenty of value to people. Basically weight out if doing x thing for y will give you more in the end or not. But being bad for the sake of being bad won't bring anything imo.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 05:09 AM
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Yeah but is that a physical lack of energy (Like you want to sleep) or is that psychological one (like you don't want to do anything). If it's the former it may be your blood sugar who's fucked up or maybe you lack magnesium or vitamin D.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 05:07 AM
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First Good sleep and good nutrition are mandatory if you don't have those fix them. Next you talked about mood then finished by energy, are you tired or are you feeling, down or depressed ?
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:45 AM
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this start binging on that shit like it's fucking doritos.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:38 AM
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Ditch her and start reading all of TRP, precisely the side bar, start lifting and get a passion. That's not what you asked for ? Well if you're a normal guy then your life is shitty or at least could be improved by a ton if you followed TRP. Ditch her, focus on yourself and on your life and get some pussy later. Or you could take advice for taking this girl only and realize later that you've wasted time that could have gone towards improving. If you're living like all the other people you know (…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:36 AM
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Its something with misplaced teeth.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:25 AM
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What would be extremely good would be doing a post everyday about each rule where you elaborate more on each one, maybe with examples. Very good list though, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 01:13 AM
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Not English, almost puked after searching it on google images... Was expecting kinky images to get out :/ ....
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:56 PM
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Some of my favorite tracks contain blue pill lyrics, I've stopped listening to them naturally without forcing myself, I just couldn't focus on the music anymore. I still listen to some though.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:54 PM
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You give value so people will give you there value too. For example let's say I have a website about self improvement and all those things you see around a lot now, if I go on TRP and make a post there then link my website at the end I can trade value, I trade my time (let's say 1-2 hours) vs the fact that people will come to my website and bring money to me. You can't run around and be a true asshole, insulting everybody ect, there's a middle ground between saint level and hitler level, give as…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:52 PM
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this also yeah don't change everything all of a sudden as he said, take something maybe week by week, for example this week you start talking only for things that matters. I'm the same as you, class clown, funny guy, you name it, when I started implementing everything in one go my teachers thought I was having personal problems and began to talk to me privately about that and friends thought I was feeling bad all the time. Take your time or others won't understand what's happening.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:44 PM
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Too many unecessary texts. What about a few beers should have been -> Come over to my place tomorrow night. Good night is not needed and should be avoided. You're telling her she has to play her cards right meaning she HAS to work for you to have sex, YOU have to act, you're not acting here she's right it's you who have to play your cards right, hell just play your cards because for now it's been nothing more than texting for nothing. -Setup a date -Stop texting for random shit (Good night ect..…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 07:00 PM
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Yeah balance is key, you're right, quitting completely or going all out and binging is easy, what's hard and more rewarding is enjoying yourself while still having the discipline to stop when needed. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:01 PM
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Very nice answer thanks.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:58 PM
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If you're scared it's a good thing, don't take the easy way out. When I started lifting I was scared of going to the gym because it was unknown for me, I was scared to look fat in front of the other ripped guys, to look like a noob with bad form ect.. I could have done bodyweight exercise at home like I used to do, but I went to the gym instead. I don't regret that, most of the time when you're afraid pushing against your fear will give you more than the easy way. You seem to have very low self …
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:09 PM
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I had that feeling and I actually had resent for someone for that (to the point I made sure he couldn't go to the parties organized by my friends) But all of this just stops when you understand there's a lot of girls out there. Go out more, meet more women.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:04 PM
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A good slap doesn't hurt, it's meant to show who's in charge, when you see children crying because they've been slapped sometimes it's not really because of the pain but because of the fact that they've been "humiliated". Imo, slapping should be ok if done properly (Not going MMA with your 6 years old), most people are against it because when they hear slapping they have that image of the beaten up kid with bruises all over him, a slap doesn't do that, that's a beating up which is not good.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:00 PM
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Hey don't take medication imo, my mother always had mood swings and got pretty depressed and burntout 3 years ago when she was working non stop as well as being harassed at her job. She started taking medication against that, she's still on it after 3 years, she's fatter than ever, drinks wine several days a week and always have her electronic cig at her mouth. This won't solve your problems trust me. Whatever you do, stay calm and don't act rapidly without a plan, it's the best way to do some s…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:16 AM
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Yeah i know the wolrd needs sleeping betas, but I really want to build a community and help people, games can really convey strong messages to the players. I don't want to control anyone, I just want to be free and do my thing. What I find sad is if you build a community, the strongest and most powerful people in your community will mostly be beta bob playing games 6hours / day.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 10:52 AM
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That's spot on, I want to stop but I keep going back to it even if I don't have fun sometimes, it's not even an addiction, it's really a moral problem guess I can't cope with it for now. I know RP is amoral, guess it will pass with time.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 10:47 AM
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Never thought someone would dare make a "science" post about anal. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:17 AM
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If you keep on failing, keep trying little by little you will take back your life. I kinda burnt off after a week of keto and fasting (This + cutting calories and weighlifting was rather rough). So I went to my kitchen with the intension to binge, you know those great binges that leave you unable to do shit for days ? Yeah the holy trinity of binging : food, video games and porn. Began by planning to make toasts with strawberry jam, adding some diet coke, loading some games and a nice porn. Ende…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:03 AM
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I had oneitis with a girl in my class, tried to arrange a lot of dates, though she flaked everytime (3 total) while still giving me mixed signals when we where in class. Third time I asked, she flaked, and then started texting me about some random shit so i can validate her the same day. I just told her that if she wasn't more available then she should stop texting to me about random shit that I don't care about, she went nuclear by text and told me that you can't stop talking to people just bec…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 10:25 PM
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My parents got 2 dogs, sadly just like children they failed the education of their dogs. Some people just think dogs are walking cuddle machines and just that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:34 PM
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Yeah It feels really choppy and unatural when I walk.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:34 PM
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Really hope it's only that, should be easy to fix if that's that. Thanks for the answer.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:22 PM
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Hey great information ! I do have a phimosis as well, I can retract it when i'm flaccid kinda easily, I can't when i'm hard though, feels like it's blocked when I try. I never tried streching but I think I may have a shot at it since I can do pretty well when flaccid already, did your phimosis incur any odor problems ? Kinda afraid of taking blowjobs, been cleaning it with soap but it feels like I can't perfectly clean it in some places. To OP you can also do a preputioplasty, it seems that it c…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:01 PM
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Honestly I don't see what's wrong with having 1 hour / day where you just entertain yourself. If that hour enables you to go all out during the 23 other hours then why not do it ? It's not about chasing all distractions away, it's about moderation, now if you can't have moderation and are an addict and need to spend hours everyday on it then yeah stop now. But if you're just poppin a quick FPS game to shoot some stuff after working whole day and working out at the gym, honestly don't see the pro…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:45 PM
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Quit playing Video Games. They're a waste of time and no they are not relaxing they are actually quite taxing on your brain requiring strong attention and actions per minute. Same thing could be said to playing chess, so you have to quit chess too ? If you can play in moderation there's no need to quit, don't become a cultist of quitting games like the people of nofap for masturbating, it's not because you can't play casually while getting shit done that others can't. Also I would say, first ste…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:18 PM
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Programming and freelancing can net a good income from home, however you'll probably need a year or two of hardwork before being able to have a stable one.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 10:42 PM
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Look people in the eyes for 70-80% of the conversation, don't stare blindly, don't have an expressionless face, don't smile like a retard 24/7. LISTEN to what they have to say, if you're talking with somebody it's because you want to hear another person opinion, else you might aswell talk alone in your head, don't talk when they're talking, don't answer brutally, be calm and think about what they just said and formulate a good answer very calmly. I'm very confortable with touching people in gene…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:11 PM
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Was TV created for women ? I mean they can hamster in front of the whole population and receive advices of other women hamstering with them. Seems likely.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:50 PM
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Which isn't a bad thing per se, when I look at some of the monkeys I meet sometimes I'm happy we have control over them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 11:08 PM
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Everybody has different ratings because everybody has different tastes. Pick your own ratings.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 03:55 PM
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Inb4 feminists complain about the rise of "immigrants male divorce raping young innocent women" and actually fight marriage 2.0 with us haha.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:36 AM
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You're in love, not of her but of the image of her you created in your head. No you can't count on yourself for picking yourself up, you have to respect yourself, part of respecting yourself is respecting your best friend which is your future self, would you potentially cause pain to your best friend in the prospect that he could "pick himself up" in the future ? If you don't respect your future self you'll be in pain trust me.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:34 AM
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Same situation, introduced someone to TRP, he's agreeing with everything but still not fully awake, I gave him some rp advices with his new relationship which really helped him but I told him that I won't help him anymore, but when he'll be down after getting fucked over by his GF or the BP lies he can come seek my help and I'll give him every material he needs to make the transition. You have to realize that even if people understand and realize this is true, they still need to be shocked and g…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:25 AM
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People are not going to accept you because it cause a social dissonance if you showed all your life that people can walk over you and all of a sudden you act like nobody can people will naturally smell something is off. Don't show off, know your new self worth and act upon it but don't ever justify it by saying you're the king or you're special. A king is a "leader of the people", some people hate being led by others and will discard you if you actively try to lead them, like Octavian who took t…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:22 AM
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Only field where the gender pay gap is not a myth. Except males are really paid less here.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:08 AM
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Programming is really not that hard depending on what you're working on (Of course if you're building your own language or an engine then yeah it will be extremely complicated but most of the job offers are standard work) Programming is learning syntax and learning how to solve problems, the more you practice the better you become. To OP, you should go with programming if you like it, you'll be good eventually, if bashing your head against your computer for hours searching for bugs and then cros…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:04 AM
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Wasn't judging you, imo you should do whatever it takes to get out of your country if it is shitty. But after you got all the papers just run away from her you can't build a relationship if the woman is the provider, especially if she makes more money than you and she got you out of your country.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:56 AM
2

Why would you admit you had a problem and you fucked up if it doesn't benefit you in any way ?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:54 AM
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"She loves me, she's average I don't really like her but if I can make money there then maybe i'll like her someday" You sound like a female who just found her betabuxx meh.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:51 AM
3

Do what's best for you, if she doesn't agree, next.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:46 AM
6

1) Lift 2) Read all the sidebar of trp and make a summary for each post 3) Apply as much as you can 4) Get rejected
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:12 AM
2

Just have fun and go with the flow, you don't need complex psychological mind tricks. Have fun, and seek to have more fun; if she isn't making you have fun, next. Touching a lot and quickly after you met is part of having fun.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 07:14 PM
1

Thanks for that, I read every answer people gave me and you all definitely helped me.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:08 AM
1

Yeah you're totally on point, free food and spare money to buy weed and video games don't make for a good way to grow I think.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:14 PM
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I'm sure people are still going to defend her and say "Oh poor girl you know this could have happened for real ! At least it raises consciouness !"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:44 PM
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Yeah but thats the point, your legacy is immortal but you won't even be there to see it flourish or not make it decay.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:46 AM
1

Great answer thanks for that
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:45 AM
1

I have no idea at all about this. Will think about it.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:41 AM
2

Can you define specifically what type of goal you're talking about ot even give us your goal ? Like I said I have a passion for programming but I don't have one big goal tied with it.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:25 AM
1

Well I think the ones who had a goal earlier did significantly more progress earlier than others, that's why.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:23 AM
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Yeah but seeing the kind of power they have now why shouldn't they be taking seriously and fought against now ? I mean, I understand the idea, but now that they have that much power isn't it too late ? Shouldn't we do something ?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 07:43 AM
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What are you going to do when they'll throw you in jail for sexual assault ? Laugh at them ?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 10:00 PM
1

Thanks for your answer, yeah there's no support that's what I meant. Thanks for the image too.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 09:18 PM
1

Hey thanks a lot for your answer ! Actually there's benches but no rack for press, one squatting rack and one pull up bar that's all. So with what I have here I think I could do what you said, can I do dumbbel press instead of using the bar ? Using the bar without a rack doesn't look very safe. Secondly how can i know what my % body fat is ?
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:15 AM
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I don't understand why they say that when you're on tinder. I mean it became socially accepted that tinder was just for sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 08:58 AM
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He said it was so that I don't injure myself with bad form, which he could have taught me how to get good form. Starting to think he doesn't know how to do that maybe, someone else at my gym told me he was new and he didn't know shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 07:34 AM
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As Churchill said "if you're going through hell keep going", usually the benefits for pushing on are always worth the pain. Good luck with your recovery.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:32 AM
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Ironically the greatest thing that motivates me to get better are the feminists, each time I see something written by a feminist that has a place of power and influence (mind you not your typical hyperbitch complaining on reddit.) I get an urge to double down on my efforts so that one day I could maybe get to their level and contest them. I guess i'm kind of a dreamer, at least it makes me work my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 07:38 PM
1

Alright thanks a lot, won't spit on a cheat meal if it's needed for health reasons haha. Thanks for all your precious help, will definitely save me time and lots of headaches.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:30 PM
1

Thanks a lot ! What do you mean by refeed ? High calorie day ? High carb day ? How can I know about my body fat % ? I look kinda like the picture of the guy on the left maybe a bit less fat. I don't know if you can draw estimations based on that though.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:21 PM
1

Well yeah i've got no muscles at all, the machines are killing my arms and legs, will try to get into free weights as much as I can though. Thanks for your answer.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:11 PM
1

That trainer was imposed by the gym as they wanted me to "know how to use the machines" I didnt want him at all but it was free. His motive was that I would hurt myself and that i would have bad form if I attempted free weights first(Aren't the trainer here to teach me that in the first place ..?) Yeah probably very bad trainer. Thanks for your answer.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:10 PM
1

I got a trainer because they asked if it was my first time, I said yes and so they offered me (felt kinda forced) a trainer, he is a gym employee yes. Yeah now that i'm in holidays I can go as soon as it opens, but when i've got school this is impossible as it opens at 7am... So i'm forced to deal with a crowded place. I know that everything is done in the kitchen, I just lost 14kgs and went to overweight to skinny fat, what I want now is to get ripped. I was cutting 500cal everyday but I'm thin…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:06 PM
1

Yes it has dumbbells.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:52 PM
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Stay strong, honestly I don't know how you can stay mentally sane after all of this. I think I'd wish to kill that person after she stole all of this from me. Good luck and stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:18 AM
1

Do they even search a long time to find those guys ? I'm afraid they don't even need to..
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:55 AM
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If you want to be a programmer first know that languages don't matter that much, if you're a good thinker and programmer (The logical way of finding solutions) then you'll be a good coder(applying a solution in code) once you get a bit of practice. Languages are all the same despite some syntax changes that are so small that once you master a language you can change in really little time. So language choice depends on what you want to do. For video games C++ is the leading tech on the AAA market…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:25 AM
1

Yeah I didn't know about this virus, I thought this was a very big problem, glad it's not.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:11 AM
1

Oh I see, didn't know shit about that virus my bad.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:09 AM
0

So what will you do now ? tell everyone you have the virus and stop dating anybody or hide it ?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:11 AM
0

I know that but if you're alone and nobody is at your level life will be boring i think.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:01 PM
1

I am in 11th grade, but I am two years older than everybody (made some course choice mistakes that cost me two years) I started lifting, did some meditation before but stopped, should try it again. I think most of my anger comes from the fact that I am with people that are very different from me because of their age. But even the friends I have that are the same age as me are not extraordinary, the problem I think is that I have nobody close to my age to whom I can really wish to look like, ever…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:00 PM
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inb4 you get charged for "filming the rape of a poor young girl."
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:32 PM
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Won't buy your shit or take your "3 step method to get pussy" sorry.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 09:41 PM
1

Thanks for all taking your time to answer my questions, I will use everything you said.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:49 PM
3

Yeah, It's okay to cry but you have to move on.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 01:55 PM
1

About second question, the important and number one thing is that you have fun, it's really all that matters as long as you have fun nothing is really important. If someone doesn't have fun with you, that's good you know you can put them out of your future parties and events, if the opposite happens then be sure to stay in contact with them. About your party composition, bring the girls if you want as long as it will bring you fun (and obviously if you're looking to actually get something done w…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:27 AM
2

You know what Shia Laboeuf says ? "Don't let your dreams be dreams" Well just let your dream be dream for this time and move on, there's billions of women on Earth why would you go back to her ?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:17 PM
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You should be the one getting bedded like a caveman then i think.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:12 PM
1

this did a boxing class for a month (stopped because i was a bitch) I did muay thai and it will teach you things such as respect (for your master and your peers), self control, and obviously how to fight. Boxing class will also get you into shape fairly quickly (in mine we were doing at least 100push ups and 100-200 squats everyday which was a "low number" according to the master just because there was a lot of beginners) and also give you a very important skill which is knowing how to throw a p…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:28 AM
1

Bend a bit down in front of her wrap your arms around her legs behind her patellas push her towards you and stand up, that's it. If you can't do it, she's too heavy for you.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:20 AM
1

First as you said motivation (even intrinsic) is useless because even for the things you love to do / will get you to the place you want to be you'll need a lot of discipline (See why at the end.) I was in your shoes one year ago, didn't really know what was my goal in life and was just simply wandering through it. So I simply took the activity I was doing the most (videogames) and planned on either get into streaming seriously or try finding a game where i could become pro (All it takes is just…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:16 AM
1

Thanks for pointing me the way, I understand that even if i'll turn 19 soon I'm still a boy and not a man and that I need to change that first. However it really feels like there's no turning back now, I can't just go back to my old ways or else i'll be feeling guilty everyday because I know the "truth". I understood that life would indeed be suffering the moment I swallowed the pill but I'm not an angry little boy bitching about it anymore but yeah, there's really two ways to approaching this, …
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:44 AM
1

Thanks for all those links especially that last one which is exactly what i needed !
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:24 AM
4

Hey, didn't swallow the pill for long but I can try to share what I think as well. The majority of women I've encountered do nothing outside of work but go on social media to show off their ass and watch TV (Reality TV most of the time), imo most (as in 95% at least) don't have anywhere near the drive men have to get shit done and get something big done. I don't know why you would say that TRP says that men are led by their dicks all the time, part of TRP is at the opposite, acknowledging the fa…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 05:19 AM
1

Thanks for your answer, I've already started ditching many friends to focus on myself (mainly my girl friends who were doing nothing but bitch all day long and some male friends that were doing the same) What is your take on instant gratification ? Do you believe a productive male can still live with moderate touch of instant gratification (Ie some junk food, some games ect...) or should it banned altogether. About the regret part, I think not that many people actually have regrets on their deat…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 04:53 AM
3

Big step in losing weight ? What about people on keto who swear by olive oil and have a low fat % ? Better cut out on carbs imo.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:58 PM
1

Why discretely ? I mean if your boss notices you're taking work how can this impact things negatively ?
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:46 PM
4

Don't shit where you eat, it's going to give you more problems than anything.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:30 PM
1

You're trying too hard imo, if she gets it or not it's still a win. If she gets it : She will find you more confident (win) If she doesn't get it : She will ask if you're being serious / Why you said that (Win because you can end interaction on a high note with her thinking about you) Don't overthink it, have fun that's all, also never use made up sentences and pick up phrases because if you can't place them you won't be able to talk anymore, just be natural and go with the flow.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 08:49 AM
3

this learned it the hard way by arguing with a teacher in class, got flagged as a machist and yelled at by 8-10 girls in my class while feminist teacher watched me getting destroyed. Held frame and didn't say a thing but the hurt was already done, even though people seem to have forgotten it now (3 weeks ago) I'm really happy to have made that mistake though, I never understood why this law and the other about acting like everybody else was important but now I do and I won't be making those same…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:13 PM
1

I'm in the same shoes, even worse, I'm 18 I didn't even kiss a girl yet, mostly because i was fat through whole teens. Now that i've lost weight, I could've actually close one at a party but was very anxious about how should I kiss her and if I was going to suck at it or not which made me not do it. Lately I don't even care about that, I just chill and go for bold moves without thinking about consequences because it doesn't even actually matter. Most important thing I think is that if you fuck u…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:06 PM
1

You can fap once per week / every two weeks and that will be to get a relief if you don't fuck but watching porn everyday and needing to fap after a stressfull day is a bad thing. The thing is as soon as you bring in porn it will quickly escalate if you don't have a lot of willpower, then again, why make your life harder by having to resist something ? Just cut it out and stay with normal fapping, yes it sucks but if you want better you know what to do.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 12:28 PM
1

The sub said the perfectly logical and good answer from the husband POV Husband came on reddit because he had he's man side trying to awake and telling him to ditch the bitch, his brain though rationalized everything and so he initially came into reddit by wanting people to tell him "It's ok, do it" It's been over 10 yrs and we have both changed. Im better because of her. I got help because I didn't want to lose her. I'm no longer depressed, our relationship has improved dramatically. We never f…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 10:57 PM
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Same here, I'm 18, and while I'm willing and I've always been willing to discuss anything with anyone (As long as they bring proofs and facts about what they're backing up.) Sadly most "autority figures" I.e Parents and teachers won't give a fuck and just dismiss any chance at a real discussion (Even more so when you bring up facts and they don't know how to counter them.) I just think most of the people are only taking for granted what's in the media. If tomorrow all TV channels tell you that 9…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:15 PM
1

Very good post, how can you gauge when a habit became effortless though ? Any time indication ?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 10:22 AM
1

Honestly starting to think videogames are useless the more I'm growing. 18 now, 5 when I first touched a game, hooked and played everyday since I was 6-7, Half destroyed social life (been playing the "class clown" card since I was 8 basically). You don't need that outlet, trust me (and that's coming from someone who used to play games all night and day and has a 215games steam account). If something is wrong in your life or you feel stressed, just meditate while listening to alpha binaural waves…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:22 AM
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Mh thanks for the advice man, although i think i'm going to give it up, it's kinda making me upset, she's always looking at me and smiling for no fucking reason yet when I set up dates she can't show up. Unlike your wingman who shouldn't be upset if nothing happens because she gives him bitch face whole interaction (Good he got her down in the end though.). Gonna fall back a bit and do a big move then next her if nothing happens. Nothing to lose after all, have a great day.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:09 AM
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What about girls that do half or more of the above but when you come in to take her to a date she finds an excuse for saying no and doesn't propose back any date ? One did this to me, seems really into me and also very shy, I kinda next her because I don't know if it was shyness or just her not knowing what she wants, don't know if I should stay a bit more, well guess you can never go wrong with nexting someone anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 08:40 PM
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Nice list, about cold water though, I read a study that said drinking a lot of cold water increased risk of cancer, don't know if it can be trusted though.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:06 PM
1

Can relate to the screen time problem, was playing 80% of my free time video games, just buying the new game to get that novelty, i am not enjoying it anymore I just boot up a game play 10minutes then log off, yet I still do that most of the time. I ended up giving my steam account (200+games) to a friend today(asked him to change password and email address) aswell as uninstalled all other games I had. Right now this feels like the worst decision I ever did, but I know that i'll be happy to have…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:51 PM
1

So what's going to happen ? You'll dump your LTR or stay with her ?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 12:58 AM
1

All right thanks i've started a journal and it's a good idea indeed. Discipline is really all I need to build up now, I guess the more you struggle the better it is for your discipline in the end.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 12:23 AM
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Hey my number one issue is that I don't know if I should change all at once or over the course of the months. I want to fix my weight, eating habits, stop porn and fapping, and work instead of playing video games on my free time. So constant change or all at once ? Thanks for helping.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:06 PM
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Yeah that's the point I want to reach but honestly my day feels like 8 hours wasted in class as programming alone makes me happy and I feel as if I was able to do that for the whole day I'd be a lot happier and wouldn't need that much leisure time. Feels bad to know what you want to do but everybody tells you, you have to do otherwise. Anyway thanks for the help, looking forward to your next weekly post !
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 09:11 PM
1

Well I don't mind sharing context if you have time to answer. To sum-up i want to become a programmer (and actually a very good one as it's more than a means to make money but actually a passion) my goal is to become an entrepreneur and develop either apps or videogames (Not interested at all by web dev.) i'm currently in high school with this year and another one to complete before i'm "free", school doesn't interest me much (It does but programming really takes all of my interest) and so as su…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:34 PM
1

Very nice post thanks for that. One question though, you didn't talk at all about activities that don't bring any value (Internal or External) for example, watching some youtube videos or playing video games or even watching a series. All those activities don't bring any value to you while taking up time so if your time is split up between Internal and External value that means you don't ever seek out anything that doesn't brings value to you ?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:00 PM
2

You're right, I think deep down I still want someone to come and tell me "It's okay you can still keep doing these things."
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 10:05 PM
1

Yeah I understand now, going to make my plans now thanks a lot.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:07 PM
2

Thanks for your answer, yeah the more things you cut the more cravings you get at the same time. For your weed problem i have discovered this nice website to deter myself from my addictions and it's working everytime (when i do it before caving of course..) http://www.urgezapper.com/#/start Hope it'll help.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:17 AM
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Hey really nice post i totally agree with you. I'm a 18 years old virgin and quite frankly i don't give a fuck about women anymore i just want to be able to improve myself ( which in turn will bring pussy obviously) So if one wants to become a better version of himself does that mean he has to destroy EVERY source of "instant gratification" ? For example, my 3 biggest sources of instant gratification are porn, videogames and drinking diet coke. Does that mean I can't have, say one day a week whe…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:42 AM
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