Before you go no contact - read this

DadOnDabs · 2017-10-21T21:00:43+00:00

This is retarded. This is scarcity mentality at its finest. There are 3 billion girls out there. If she cheats she isn't worthy of being in your presence. That is why you ghost. Not because you can get pussy. Because she s a stupid whore.

JimProphetMGTOW · 2017-10-22T03:29:48+00:00

Jesus Christ this is the worst shitpost in TRP history. OP needs to log tf off TRP and go do something constructive or continue to get cucked by his cheating GF. People like this is why TRP has gone down the gutter. OP f*ck you.

chauncy_popperstein · 2017-10-21T21:27:49+00:00

Nope.

Cut all contact and never think of her again. If she cheated it means she has lost respect for you. Allowing her to remain in your life (in any capacity) is wrong. The idea that she will come back to be a "do-girl" is wrong. She has lost respect for you. She will only try to game/play you. These women are toxic to be around. Cut them lose and forget about them. There are too many other options out there to deal with this crap.

jambajuice64 · 2017-10-21T23:20:52+00:00

Morons shouldn't be allowed to post on here.

Terrible stuff.

Nomfwic · 2017-10-22T11:57:35+00:00

A mans power in in any male/female relationship is to walk away. Resuming contact after bad behaviour just reinforces said behaviour.

And it makes you sound desperate.

Desperate=anti vigina spray.

A man with prospects and abundance mentality would never waste his time and jumping back to a disrespectful plate. Its bluepill mentality.

You really need to read the side bar bro.

0xdada · 2017-10-22T13:55:48+00:00

Been reading TRP for a couple of years now and this notion of "cheat," seems like an inconsistency.

To say a woman has "cheated," presumes there are rules, and not only is it is reasonable to expect a woman to act according to them, but she will even do so when she thinks she has a better option to choose from.

The whole notion of cheating is an artifact of an underlying false assumption about the conditions described above.

There is one rule, and that is all relationships, like all things, are temporary.

Everyone here understands hypergamy and briffaults law, but still hang on to this idea that women "cheat." That's like saying a toddler who knocks over chess pieces has cheated at chess, when from their perspective it's just some shit on a pretty board. Women are adult'ish, so it's a bit more complex than that, but only slightly.

Women don't "cheat," they just choose someone else. Some of them get off on the power of having secrets, others get off on hurting you, but mostly, they are choosing from options available to them as individuals. I cannot think of a more stark illustration of personal agency than going out and fucking someone.

The whole notion of "cheating," is an artifact of your expectations, which are shaped by residual blue pilled attachments.

In case you haven't noticed, marriage is dead. The family as a societal institution, is dead. Permanent, monogamous romantic love as we have only known it for a couple of centuries, is dead. Tribe with its cultural continuity is dead. Patriarchy, in it's natural form, is dead. The things that the "rules" were created to preserve, are dead.

Women (and men) benefited from these institutions, but modern life means most people don't need any of them anymore. They can have state provided protection and jobs, social and political status, and every material need is provided for. They don't even need to have children, or even need real men to fertilize them if they do.

Personally, I think it's all materialistic and empty, but that does not change the facts as they have occurred.

When I read someone going on about how shocked and outraged about how a woman "cheated," on them, all I see is the pain that their attachment to dead ideas is causing them, from which they do not know how to detach themselves. The beliefs are like dragging around a diseased and dying siamese twin.

I used to believe these things too, and I still have anger about being "cheated," on, but since I stopped believing in things that are no longer true, I don't get into situations where "cheating," is even possible.

How? I don't burden my relationships with expectations based on things that are no longer true. Sure some women want a guy who still believes in those things, but not to get plowed by.

Work_In_Progress92 · 2017-10-21T22:39:29+00:00

Sorry but all this does is tell her that her cheating wasn’t a big deal and she will do it again. Save yourself the trouble and go no contact and move on.

You have a scarcity mentality and clearly no respect for your own self.

Saturn1981 · 2017-10-21T23:26:30+00:00

If she cheats once the bitch will do it again. Fuck that.

GFTOW

Title	Before you go no contact - read this
Author	pyBlackHat
Upvotes	0
Comments	32
Date	October 21, 2017 8:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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