I have a friend who's as close to Chad as you can get. He's a good-looking 6'4 former college athlete with a high-paying job. He lives in a major city with tons of beautiful women. And he almost never gets laid. Why?

He's socially awkward, he's not very outgoing or social, and he's VERY insecure. He believes in chivalry, and treating women special. He's a "nice guy".

He works very long hours and spends his free time when he isn't working in the gym or playing video games. He keeps to himself. Doesn't have a lot of friends.

When we go out to bars, girls DON'T approach him left and right. At most one girl will come up to him and start talking.

Yes of course one girl/night is FAR more girls then EVER approach me and 95% of guys, but it's not like 10 girls/night are throwing themselves at him. And they're not 9s or 10s approaching him, they're 6s and 7s.

Even on tinder, he doesn't do great. I see guys here bitching about how if you're good-looking on tinder it doesn't matter what you say or do, you will get matches and you will get laid all the time.

Yes, he does get a ton of matches and numbers. But girls who match him and give them their numbers don't automatically sleep with him.

They still flake. They still blow him off. They still expect to be taken out to an expensive restaurant. He might have a couple dates/months, and when one doesn't go well he gets in his own head and doesn't set up another one for a while.

My point in writing this is the belief that looks/height/money is ALL that matters and you will never get girls unless you have that is 100% wrong. I think that's an excuse a lot of guys use so they don't have to put the work in to improve themselves.

Of course looks matter. And you should 100% improve your appearance as much as possible. And make as much money as possible. But it seems as if some guys here think that if you're "Chad" all you have to do is sit at home in your underwear and women will line up at your door, dying to fuck you. And they want that life - who wouldn't?? So they get bitter and angry at this imaginary Chad they believe exists.

Yes, maybe that's how Leonardo DeCaprio or a famous athlete lives, but women aren't attracted to their looks or money alone. They're attracted to their fame. And most actors and athletes have worked hard for that fame.

As long as you act like a nervous pushover nice guy you will not succeed with women. Read the side bar and follow it's directions on how to act. It's hard to approach women. It's sucks getting rejected. It's very difficult to stand up to women and confront them when they're wrong.

If my friend applied Red Pill principles to his life he would probably sleep with hundreds of women. And he wants to! He often complains about how girls are all bitches, how unfair life is (he says this!!!), how he can never get laid etc. And then he'll criticize me for being an "asshole" to girls because I'm honest with my intentions and don't put them on a pedestal, refuse to buy them drinks, refuse to put up with their drama, refuse to play their games.

TLDR: Chad isn't Superman, and even if you had won the genetic lottery red pill principles would still apply to you. Read the sidebar and do the work.