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Check Your Wingman

NFNRP
June 26, 2015
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Title Check Your Wingman
Author

NFNRP
Upvotes 19
Comments 26
Date June 26, 2015 3:26 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3b5i8j/check_your_wingman/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/check-your-wingman.34090
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[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 34 points35 points36 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I confronted N calmly, he told me this: "Basically, I told her that you're much more outgoing and flirty than a lot of other guys she knows, and to expect that. I told her because she's my friend and I just wanted to give her a heads up."

What horse shit, he threw you under the bus. "Give her a heads up" for what? Answer: That his competition would be arriving, watch out for the 'asshole'.

[–]SeekingTheWay 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I must agree with this gentleman. He was definitely disqualifying his competition.

[–]avocadosandham 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Surely after being jealous that the girl he wanted was giving OP signals.

[–]LongElm 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He tried hooking his buddy up with a girl that ended up grinding and making out with him. Was that the right call for him to go with it and make out with her? I'm not sure what protocol would be there.

[–]KungPaoEllenTheFist 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy isn't a best friend. Best friends don't sabotage each other. Next this prick.

[–]abdada 27 points28 points29 points 11 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Note that you lost frame to her statement when you should have agreed and amplified and maintained frame and a confident demeanor.

She threw you off your game.

If anything, what he said intrigued both of them but you didn't back it up.

[–]Suravira 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

This, I would have asked in a charming way what kind of a man I am. 1 isn't true, because you still had a chance, you just messed up, when betas try to AMOG someone they usually just end up doing the opposite.

Also you're a fool for thinking that you should trust this guy N, he literally badmouths you behind your back to women in an attempt to get them to like you less and like him more, because he's threatened by you, he doesn't trust you as a friend to not take his 'women'(lol), so he has to warn the ones he likes (the one he thinks he has a chance with). The fact you told him to stop telling women will likely in his mind reinforce this behaviour positively, because he'll take it as you, the big bad alpha, getting threatened over him, fucking blue pills, he's a leach OP burn him off, and every time he sees a girl he likes he'll do this. Next him and get higher quality friends.

EDIT: Also I would take what K said to be an IOI.

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[–]NewlyFoundAgain 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

telling the girls that OP was a player would reduce your value and make them more loyal to him.

Spot on. This is BP hamstering to me. I've seen it many times. Group of girls, obvious BP guy(s), and a few alpha dudes. The blue pillers will let them know to "watch out for" that type of dude.

These types honestly think being a little bitch and "warning" girls will get their vag tingling for them.

[–]Epicureanist 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't use letters. Breaks the flow of your writing and is hard to follow. If you don't want to be identified, worst thing you could do is use the first letter of their names.

Just make up names.

[–]herewehoagain 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Killed me knowing he was using N and M. Sure enough, I forgot which was his friend and which was the girl.

[–]drallcom36 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

It would be a lot easier to easy if you used fake names instead of abbreviations.

[–]trphardmode 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I felt like I was reading a bad algebra word problem

[–]RPmatrix 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

at least he didn't use A,B and C!

great advice in this thread OP

[–]throw_em_all 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Backstabbing son of a bitch, you tried to help his ass and he ends up fucking yours instead? fuck that.

[–]Mister_Shitlord_2U3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

We go back inside, grab the girls, and go to the dance floor. We're all dancing together, when out of nowhere K rushes into the middle of the floor in a drunken blitz. Before I could move, N chases after her! The fuck? Now it's just M and I, and she takes this opportunity to start dancing on me. Oh well, can't say I warned my friend. We dance for a few songs, she's so hot, we're looking into each others' eyes, and I move in to kiss her, but she stops me. Whatever, we keep dancing and she's grinding her ass on my dick like no tomorrow. She gets all close once more, and again, I make a move. She stops me again, and says, "I know what kind of man you are, I'm not into that".

This sounds so staged and pre-planned. I bet they were all playing a huge joke on you. You already know that they were talking about you behind your back before that night started.

we keep dancing and she's grinding her ass on my dick like no tomorrow

She was cock teasing you knowing that she wasn't going to give you any. I bet they all had a great laugh about it after.

Recently, I talked with K at a party. "You probably hate me, don't you? You probably think I'm a massive bitch

She is expecting you to be mad. You just didn't realise why you should be. Never use him as a wingman again.

[–]herewehoagain 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Never go out with him for puss ever again. Ever. He does not understand the game and will undercut everyone, every time. Friends, sure. Wingman, never again. Watch him get chumped by his gf in the future.

[–]KungPaoEllenTheFist 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wouldn't even keep him as a friend. If he will stab him in the back once, he will always do it again.

[–]herewehoagain 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I could agree with that. As men it's not hard to have a social circle of dudes, but yea, no more one on one.

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[–]RPmatrix 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

because he's very charming, funny, intelligent and people love talking to him.

as he sounds open and honest and comfortable with himself

BUT he doesn't know when he's saying something that paints me in a bad light, like say asking me if I'm still sick from last week in front of them. Not sure how to explain it better, he doesn't understand.

because he's open and honest and has never had to establish any 'boundaries' with you,, as you're naturally good mates. You just need to have a bit of a talk with him sometime your alone, doing guy shit.

Just let him know what he does and arrange a 'code word' or phrase you can say to him if he starts to 'get too comfortable' with whomever, and starts to 'accidentally negs' you ,, then you make him aware he's not thinking enough before he opens his mouth by speaking to him and integrating the word or phrase into what you say, with 'the look'

He's married, he's not phased, or competing, and I think he'll catch on pretty quick once you talk to him about it. He sounds like a good bloke and if you can control what he says just a tad, he'll be perfect!

You're other mate sounds a bit clumsy/full of himself becoz of it, laying it on thick etc, thinking he's the shit etc

But hey, if he helps, he helps, so who am I to judge?

thanks for sharing that mate

[–]∞ Mod | TRP Vanguardbsutansalt 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Removed. Message me once you follow the format guidelines here, namely a summary/tl;dr at the top:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a0135/announcement_new_thread_requirements/

[–]1favours_of_the_moon 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck that. You want a bitch to know you're a player.

Soon as she pushed me away, I'd have walked. She was testing you.

[–]Red-45 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I know what kind of man you are, I'm not into that".

What would have been a good repsonse to this? Would

"Yeah and?" Disarm the comment?

And correct me if I'm wrong, but if she was grinding up on you and you tried to escalate but she refused, wouldn't the best thing to do for your figure be to walk away? Otherwise isn't she just teasing you?

[–]RPmatrix 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Yeah and?" Disarm the comment?

Or maybe even better if you've got the game, "laugh and say "yeah? and what's that exactly?" with a devious smile and genuine curiousity

she'll either choke or tingle, and it's fun to see which

[–]Evileddie13 -4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your buddy isn't at fault because you failed a standard shit test.

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