Intro
A lot of posts on TRP show a clear lack of reading the sidebar, understanding those materials and/or Blue Pill thoughts masked in Red Pill language. This leads to a behaviour called Closeted Pedestalizing and poor results.

I'd like to point out a few common faults and how you correct them.

Closeted Pedestalizing defined:

Blue Pill behaviour of putting women higher on the value scale than what they naturally merit. TRP gives you plenty of reasons why you should not Overvalue (!important distinction! nobody is telling you that women should be undervalued either, but that problem is rarely seen) women and sex, so therefore you should follow the guidelines on:

  • how much attention you give her

  • how many texts she gets

  • how much care you put into getting women

  • the level of oversight you afford her. and much more

When pedestalizing is closeted, a guy will simply pretend to be Red Pill, but still internally value women and pussy higher.

The specifics of what I say to a woman matters

Wrong. Have you read this? . There are countless of incredibly gifted analytical thinkers that have come to similiar conclusions. Women do not really live in the real world, just like children. Partly because of biology, but also socially conditioned. Imagine you are an ugly women: You get treated poorly by all but the thirstiest betas, but your hamster doesn't care about them, because on Tinder you can still catch Chad for a pump & dump. Now one day, you decide to let the surgeon fix your parents inadequate genes. All of a sudden, the world is your oyster, people are holding the door for you, going well out of their way to please and assist you. Pretty soon you forget about the surgery and now this is the new normal, wonderful things just happen to you for no reason.

Now if that causal relationship between input and output is broken like this, why do you think that how a woman responds to language should have anything but the loosest of traces to do with what you said to her? Not only does she probably not give a fuck about what you said, she more than likely lacks the tools to properly understand it.

A friend of mine who is a model routinely introduces himself to women with a wrong name, because he knows that they know who he is. When given the wrong first name, it upsets them, but they can't display that publically or they will have offended Chad. It's all about SMV, he could tell them his name is Monkey King or Blendermaster2000 and it WOULD NOT FUCKING MATTER, what matters is that the hamster is immediately triggered by this loss of power to the male. Tingles.

I have to jerk off or must not jerk before meeting a woman

Again, wrong. You don't have to do shit except treat her like a woman. That means, hypergamous and solipsitic version of human that responds well to dominance. Please also consider that this entire NoFap bullshit is largely fueled by vested interests like Feminism and Leftism, that simply wan't to shut down the porn industry. Back in the old days, the Church tried to prohibit masturbation with the same kind of shaming and superstition, saying it was a sin and could make you blind. If you feel like jerking off before a date, do it. If not, then don't. The issue here is not the jerking, but why. If you do it for her, then you are just pedestalizing.

I need to dress and groom a certain way to attract women

Again, wrong. Women don't live in the real world, they are actually horribly overwhelmed with all the details in it. You think your dressing matters? There was a guy on TRP who was homeless, he slayed pussy out of his tent. Can you do that even if you had a 3000 USD Armani suit? Then the suit is probably not such big a factor. As with the masturbation, what you wear should conform to who you are as a person. If you have developed your SMV and frame, it should follow naturally that you are a cool guy with an interesting persona and life. I have never met a man who was lifting and intelligent whose attire or grooming was unacceptable. That is because as you do the things that raise your SMV and give a basis for your frame, so too will your tastes and appetites evolve and be reflected in your clothing. Even the most hardcore fashion sites online usually have a warning to newbies that you should never ever take fashion too seriously. Now then why would you take it too seriosly on account of a woman?

Conclusion

Don't base anything you do or think on the principle that it will get you a certain woman. When you do that, you are essentially mimicing the strategy of a Nice Guy, not TRP.